The "beautiful Thai girl" myth?

[ravip]

5 hours ago, Brickbat said:

Lots of generalisations here and chest beating stemming from insecurity. My observation. Low end poor caucasians arrive here and are seen are easy pickings as more gullible than say an Asian dude , and falsely seen as rich , from Asian misconceptions that white guys are all rich, asian advertising all favours white skin and ,it’s basically the low end of the Asian women really, who are available. So guys, pull your horns in. 

Again, generalising. Have a bloody nice day....Ohmmmmmm

Low end poor caucasians arrive here and are seen are easy pickings as more gullible than say an Asian dude

>>> 100% correct.

 

...and falsely seen as rich , from Asian misconceptions that white guys are all rich, 

>>> This mind set was a couple of decades back. Today, very few Asians consider all Caucasians are rich. This is not surprising the way some tourists behave! Some get down to such low levels that an average local (Asian) would not even dream of getting into.

 

it’s basically the low end of the Asian women really, who are available.

>>>Again 100% correct. It's not ONLY women, even the men for the homosexuals. 

 

The Caucasian tourists that think all Asian women are waiting for a Caucasian to get married to have associated and seen the lowest depths of an Asian country. All Asians (at least the majority), don't have 'sick buffaloes' and huge families starving and waiting for a rich foreigner or a mobile ATM to come by! They may not be Trillionairs, but normal family life exists in Asia.

 

In ANY Nation, the average citizen cares too hoots for a foreigner, whatever the hue is! it's the beach bums and the dredges in the society who are salivating to scrounge on stupid foreigners!

[uhuh]

1 hour ago, Shiver said:

They're born with natural beauty, then they start modifying things, often permanently.  I

That's exactly what I mean. 

It is amazing how beautiful they can be before puberty (but that's much too young to interest me).

Then come the whitening creams, powders and perfumes "2cc 2B" with the resulting pimples and scarred faces (western girls don't have scared faces like Thais), Botox and fillers at age 20, 2 or 3 daily showers with scented soaps and corresponding allergies (ever tried to find non-perfumed soap in BigC?), Wutisak and Nittipon, steroid and antibiotic injections, chloramphenicol cream (sic!), Gluta from 7 (at least this one is harmless)...

And then the surgery. Nose (most girls in Isan, often operated more than once), lips, eyes, cheek bones, breast...

[Brickbat]

26 minutes ago, ravip said:

Low end poor caucasians arrive here and are seen are easy pickings as more gullible than say an Asian dude

>>> 100% correct.

 

...and falsely seen as rich , from Asian misconceptions that white guys are all rich, 

>>> This mind set was a couple of decades back. Today, very few Asians consider all Caucasians are rich. This is not surprising the way some tourists behave! Some get down to such low levels that an average local (Asian) would not even dream of getting into.

 

it’s basically the low end of the Asian women really, who are available.

>>>Again 100% correct. It's not ONLY women, even the men for the homosexuals. 

 

The Caucasian tourists that think all Asian women are waiting for a Caucasian to get married to have associated and seen the lowest depths of an Asian country. All Asians (at least the majority), don't have 'sick buffaloes' and huge families starving and waiting for a rich foreigner or a mobile ATM to come by! They may not be Trillionairs, but normal family life exists in Asia.

 

In ANY Nation, the average citizen cares too hoots for a foreigner, whatever the hue is! it's the beach bums and the dredges in the society who are salivating to scrounge on stupid foreigners!

Farangs don’t give two hoots what Thais think. But Thais live their lives on what others think......esp what farangs think of them.....generally.

[ravip]

9 minutes ago, Brickbat said:

Farangs don’t give two hoots what Thais think. But Thais live their lives on what others think......esp what farangs think of them.....generally.

You really think so?

I guess it's the Thais you associate with - you may be right there.

But definitely NOT generally - I mean the 100% of the Thais!!! 555 555 555

 

Edit

Comparatively, how many 1000's of old Thais come to Farangland in search of a wife? The   'don’t give two hoots' could be measured by this!

Edited January 10, 2019 by ravip

[ravip]

 "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

 

OP. Nothing to confess about. Just enjoy the wares of both worlds!

[Berkshire]

26 minutes ago, Brickbat said:

But Thais live their lives on what others think......esp what farangs think of them.....generally.

Patently untrue.  I don't know where you get this, but most Thais couldn't give a hoot what farangs think.  I'll give you an example.  It's well known in the Thai community that most farang men prefer darker skinned Thai women.  Yet, no Thai woman is out there trying to get darker to attract farangs.  In fact it's the opposite, most Thai women want lighter skin.  How would you explain that?   

[Fex Bluse]

1 hour ago, ravip said:

In ANY Nation, the average citizen cares too hoots for a foreigner, whatever the hue is! it's the beach bums and the dredges in the society who are salivating to scrounge on stupid foreigners!

I agree in part with other portions of your post. However, the reasons that people generally are not interested in foreigners has more to do with lack of shared common language, culture, worldviews, ect. 

 

I try my very best to respect people. Some make it very difficult. However, I do wish for the Thais that they become prosperous. If that ever happens, there will be almost no market for Thais marrying Westerners. It will vanish. So, I agree in part with you. 

 

Thankfully, the Thai-Chinese master class is too selfish to work on ensuring that the country as a whole can become wealthy as they are only concerned with their own wealth. 

 

So, there will be plenty of women for sale for decades to come. ????

[Brickbat]

2 hours ago, Berkshire said:

Patently untrue.  I don't know where you get this, but most Thais couldn't give a hoot what farangs think.  I'll give you an example.  It's well known in the Thai community that most farang men prefer darker skinned Thai women.  Yet, no Thai woman is out there trying to get darker to attract farangs.  In fact it's the opposite, most Thai women want lighter skin.  How would you explain that?   

Power of Advertising , mate. Monkey see, monkey do. Thai “ Superstars” are more powerful monkeys. They all want to be superstars. Bugger the Farang in this respect. And it’s in every medium of media. White! You are upper class . Dark skin and you are a poor farmer.

Very much like the derivation of rednecks. 

 

And they are also devoid of critical thinking. They blame the sun for their shitty skin. ( Been brainwashed again. ) When they hide from it and can’t reason out why most farangs , who are sun soaked and poor Burmese who work all day long in the sun, have nice skin. 

[Ks45672]

On 7/14/2018 at 5:05 PM, 473geo said:

Well seems you feel the need to try and pull the guy down for having sex at 70

If he and the wife are cool, and enjoy, where is the harm? He's just telling it how it is ?

Telling it like he thinks he it is would be closer to the truth... ???? 

 

Does anyone really believe 70 is the new  20? 

 

[BritManToo]

5 hours ago, Berkshire said:

It's well known in the Thai community that most farang men prefer darker skinned Thai women. 

Most of us take what we can get, they're all the same colour with the light off.

My personal preference is for slim women in their 20s.

Edited January 10, 2019 by BritManToo

[BritManToo]

6 hours ago, ravip said:

They may not be Trillionairs, but normal family life exists in Asia.

I've noticed plenty going over the side in my middle class neighbourhood (men and women).

And street fights between men and women, I've seen several of my married neighbours punching each other.

I never saw much of that in the UK, but I suppose that might be normal family life where you come from.

Edited January 10, 2019 by BritManToo

[ravip]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

I've noticed plenty going over the side in my middle class neighbourhood (men and women).

And street fights between men and women, I've seen several of my married neighbours punching each other.

I never saw much of that in the UK, but I suppose that might be normal family life where you come from.

Well. .. why you left the UK to live in such an environment negates your sincerity according to where I come from.  Yes,  I don't envy you living your life in such a place. .. don't you really have no other option but to live in a dump such as that? Many a time pride makes a human blind to reality,  I have  noticed. 

[BritManToo]

4 minutes ago, ravip said:

why you left the UK to live in such an environment negates your sincerity according to where I come from.

I don't really care what happens around me, let's face it most of us are with the Thai ladies the Thai men didn't want.

(Whatever posters claim)

[473geo]

8 hours ago, Ks45672 said:

Telling it like he thinks he it is would be closer to the truth... ???? 

 

Does anyone really believe 70 is the new  20? 

 

You think good sex stops at 20? oh boy poor you....

[neeray]

1 minute ago, 473geo said:

You think good sex stops at 20? oh boy poor you....

It gets better with age. Experience is priceless.

 

20 ! Young and dumb. Inexperienced.

[Ks45672]

2 minutes ago, 473geo said:

You think good sex stops at 20? oh boy poor you....

Are you  gullible enough to think a woman would rather sex with someone the age of her grandpa  if money was irrelevant? 

 

Go on, tell us... ???? 

[Ks45672]

3 minutes ago, neeray said:

It gets better with age. Experience is priceless.

 

20 ! Young and dumb. Inexperienced.

You're right to a point but at 70+ i think it's a case of diminishing returns  lol

[473geo]

4 minutes ago, Ks45672 said:

Are you  gullible enough to think a woman would rather sex with someone the age of her grandpa  if money was irrelevant? 

 

Go on, tell us... ???? 

You are right of course If she's pushed for time better the young guy, then they can get back to their beers

Before they get warm

Edited January 10, 2019 by 473geo

[neeray]

3 minutes ago, Ks45672 said:

You're right to a point but at 70+ i think it's a case of diminishing returns  lol

I'm 70 now (gf is mid forties). Nothing has diminished yet and gf is sure not complaining.

[Ks45672]

1 minute ago, neeray said:

I'm 70 now (gf is mid forties). Nothing has diminished yet and gf is sure not complaining.

Can we say the same for 80 and 90? 

I hope so but i doubt it lol

 

Most of this forum are male and retired so it may skew the stats a bit ????

 

[neeray]

5 minutes ago, Ks45672 said:

Can we say the same for 80 and 90? 

I hope so but i doubt it lol

 

Most of this forum are male and retired so it may skew the stats a bit ????

 

Let’s just take one year at a time. 

[GinBoy2]

On a demographic point, he's my anecdotal observation.

 

Those who stay in Thailand, tend to be with Thai women, many decades their younger.

 

Those who end up going back home, wherever that may be, tend to be closer in age, since being in 'farangland' with a woman substantially younger is always going to instigate either ridicule or disgust! 

 

 

[catman20]

On 7/1/2018 at 9:50 AM, Kadilo said:

I come from the U.K. Thai women are stunning. 

i also come from the UK its not that the thai women are stunning as they are NOT.

Its more like the women in the UK are fat, ugly damaged goods with bad attitudes and with the help of the government ruin many mens lives. the few that are stunning are out of our reach as we are too old for them, their also properly drama queens. 

Edited January 10, 2019 by catman20

[catman20]

2 hours ago, neeray said:

I'm 70 now (gf is mid forties). Nothing has diminished yet and gf is sure not complaining.

take Viagra out of the equation then you would know and see how thing have diminished. the g/f WOULD be complaining then.

 

i have hit that age now and have some understanding of this now as most of the people i have met are older than me have been lieing to me for years puffing their chests out telling me they dont need it, which i now know is a lie   

[neeray]

9 minutes ago, catman20 said:

take Viagra out of the equation then you would know and see how thing have diminished. the g/f WOULD be complaining then.

 

i have hit that age now and have some understanding of this now as most of the people i have met are older than me have been lieing to me for years puffing their chests out telling me they dont need it, which i now know is a lie   

And just how do you know that they are lying to you? How can you be so cock sure of that. We all age differently. It sounds to me like you may have a problem whereas others including myself do not. My sympathies for your performance, or lack thereof.

Pointless to mention it because you'll just call me a liar but I have never popped a Viagra pill. But if the need ever arises, I will.

[bkk6060]

10 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I don't really care what happens around me, let's face it most of us are with the Thai ladies the Thai men didn't want.

(Whatever posters claim)

HAHA.

Actually the guys I know including me are with attractive Thai girls that Thai men cannot afford.

????

[bkk6060]

1 hour ago, catman20 said:

i also come from the UK its not that the thai women are stunning as they are NOT.

Its more like the women in the UK are fat, ugly damaged goods with bad attitudes and with the help of the government ruin many mens lives. the few that are stunning are out of our reach as we are too old for them, their also properly drama queens. 

I don´t know about stunning, but generally the women here are much more attractive then the UK.

Sorry, I like visiting the country but the UK has some of the ugliest, homeliest women in the world which is why I understand so many UK men want to be here.

 

[GinBoy2]

I'm not going to get into the 'who needs viagra crap' that's just juvenile guys.

 

But the dirty rotten truth remains, that a lot of old western guys come to Thailand and I use the word loosely, to prey on young, generally uneducated poor women, who in any first world country would be nauseated at the prospect of sex with someone old enough to be their Father, if not Grandfather.

 

I'm trying not to be too judgemental here, but walking through any given mall in Thailand, it can turn my stomach 

[bkk6060]

37 minutes ago, GinBoy2 said:

I'm not going to get into the 'who needs viagra crap' that's just juvenile guys.

 

But the dirty rotten truth remains, that a lot of old western guys come to Thailand and I use the word loosely, to prey on young, generally uneducated poor women, who in any first world country would be nauseated at the prospect of sex with someone old enough to be their Father, if not Grandfather.

 

I'm trying not to be too judgemental here, but walking through any given mall in Thailand, it can turn my stomach 

Well, you certainly are being judgmental as your judgement causes a physical and emotional response that "can turn your stomach".

Last I checked there is not a law or rule that an older man cannot have a much younger lady.  When I see it, I am happy for them.

With this I can think of 2 reasons why someone here may have a personal problem with it.

1. They are way out of shape and not attractive and have no money.

2. They are an older western female who is jealous because no younger man would ever look at them.

 

Being with much younger women is why I am here and I most certainly enjoy myself.

Edited January 11, 2019 by bkk6060

[BritManToo]

51 minutes ago, bkk6060 said:

HAHA.

Actually the guys I know including me are with attractive Thai girls that Thai men cannot afford.

????

So she was a virgin when you met her?

I suspect a few Thai men managed to pay the price before you turned up.