3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Low esteem is living with a woman who won't bang you when you're in the mood.

Have you ever lived with a woman who wouldnt "bang" you , when you were in the mood ?

1 hour ago, brucegoniners said:

It’s simple. Low self esteem.

i did high self esteem for 57 years. low is better.

I can't remember who said it, but it's a great quote. I don't pay women for sex. I pay them to leave after sex.

Thrill a minute.  Sometimes good sometimes not but never boring.  Freedom to ask for anything you want.  The more the merrier if one likes to play Hugh Hefner. 

 

 

4 hours ago, rooster59 said:

Why would 50% of men still date a Thai bar girl?

At the time I found the girl's fun and a good guide, good company, it was me sometimes finding it not easy to say goodbye.

Still have contact with two I met many moons ago both married now. 

2 hours ago, essox essox said:

just like getting the 6 numbers on the Thai lottery then !!!???

The lottery is pure luck.  Finding a decent ex-bargirl requires lots of time, experience and one needs to be a good judge of character.  And a bit of luck!

3 hours ago, RJRS1301 said:

So the sky fairy is responsible for our differences, not genetics?? ????

 

"Thank God" is an expression.  How about "Thank goodness"?

1 minute ago, brewsterbudgen said:

The lottery is pure luck.  Finding a decent ex-bargirl requires lots of time, experience and one needs to be a good judge of character.  And a bit of luck!

Not to mention the test drives

I remember many years ago when I decided it was time to divorce my western wife of 16 years. We were about ready to get going on some afternoon delight when she asked me if I had any condoms. I said "What"!!! I never had to use a condom with you before, as you were always on the pill. And I have never bought any since I was with her. She never once told me she was going to get off it. Now I am all ready to go, and she blurts that shxt out. Killed the woody I had immediately and permanently for her. After that needless to say it was all downhill from there.

 

Next adventure has been in Asia for 10 years since now. Never looked back.

I am renting a Ladyboy and am very happy with her ????????

4 hours ago, Hayduke said:

 

Renting is better than buying.

 

 

And cheaper...

3 hours ago, Skallywag said:

In reality it costs half your net worth, and more for all the pain and suffering if she "changes" after marriage 

Only if you agree to the divorce.

3 hours ago, Thaiwrath said:

One of the all time classics...........................................My (bar) girl is different !" ???? ???? ????

Not to mention " me only work bar 1 day " .. Spoken in English good enough to suggest more like 1 year .. 

Had 20 years in a great relationship so far, could not have found a sweeter, lovable, kind, honest, generous beautiful person to enjoy my life with, & yep ex bar girl.

Lovin it!!!!!

 

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Every girl I ever had sex with I met in a bar, I have no problem telling my kids that.

The Brit virgin schoolteacher I regret, wasted nearly 30 years of my life not much sex, and cost me a house and pension.

All of the Thai/Flip/Khmer/Viet bargirls were a lot of fun, frequent sex, and good value for money.

 

You can keep your respectable independent, hard-working sex rationing women, I want one that bangs me every night.

ABSOLUTELY correct in every way!!!   Good job BritManToo.

NEVER/EVER marry again!  Made that mistake, learned, moved on.  That does NOT work for me. In the end, us guys are gonna pay, just have to decide how and what's the return on investment.

Bar girls ROCK my world 24/7/365 and I can upgrade to for free, rent, or lease short or long term...BEST value for money!  Price is what you pay, Value is what you get!

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1 hour ago, Vacuum said:

Only if you agree to the divorce.

In what universe?  I never agreed to anything and the judge said pay or go to jail. 

13 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:

In what universe?  I never agreed to anything and the judge said pay or go to jail. 

In Thailand?

 

 

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2 hours ago, Kwasaki said:

At the time I found the girl's fun and a good guide, good company, it was me sometimes finding it not easy to say goodbye.

Still have contact with two I met many moons ago both married now. 

Had one who after a few paid dates never charged me bar fine or money just bought her some jeans/t-shirts dinner. took me around Pattaya. Next trip she was not there , started dating a mid class girl. Her friends called her (she was working in Singapore) told her I was there. She flew back (saw plane tickets) walked up to me and girl (now my wife) in a restaurant and asked "can i talk to him"  Started crying saying she waiting for me. I felt bad gave her cost of plane tickets and $50 for herself. She said "I no care about the money I want be with you" Saw her around over the years I visited but she never would go out with me again even for double/triple the going rate. Wife said she was in love with you.

 

The second girl was skinny poor bar girl but I saw potential. Sent money fattened her up became beautiful, absolutely gorgeous.Didn't marry because worried what people back home would say. Got her agent/portfolio and she has done mags Playboy/Penthouse (and others) in Thailand and around the world. Now that she is older has done Vogue and other high fashion mags, tv ect. FxxK the people back home, I should have married her.

 

A coworker came to Thailand after seeing photos of my many trips. Got 5 bargirls to party with in his room. Ended up marrying one and bringing her to USA. Had a son by her and they have been together 17 years. Not all bar girls are bad , seen plenty of good Thai and farang women rip guys off.

4 hours ago, sungod said:

Who in their right mind would shack up with a minger back in the home country?

There are plenty of ugly, overweight, tattooed guys in the UK, not just in Thailand, who

have to depend on prostitutes to get their leg over.

Just now, possum1931 said:

There are plenty of ugly, overweight, tattooed guys in the UK, not just in Thailand, who

have to depend on prostitutes to get their leg over.

I've never managed to convince myself to hand over cash for sex with a white girl.

Just never appealed.

 Why would 50% of men still date a Thai bar girl?

 

 

Perhaps because many men are attracted by them and you don't need to show them how to handle a lollypop. 

 

     

LOLOL

I was like most guys first time in Pattaya.....heaven on earth and I want to open a bar and have all THIS for me.....every day....all day~!!

My buddy and I would “honeymoon” 3 times a day with a different bride each time.

For me, it only took about 3 weeks for that to get old.

I was stationed in Kuwait and had 2 weeks off every 8 weeks.

After coming to Pattaya a few times, it was recommended to go see Chiang Mai.

Not wanting the bargirl scene, went to dating site, put in Thailand-Female-age range and sent e mail to 5 or 6, a few wrote back.

Came here met her and she has been with me ever since, absolute best 11+ years of my life.

I am 66 she is 60......that’s a big key to success, get one your own age, not 1/2 or less of your age.

 

Dont expect a short time to turn into a long happy life........it has a 99% failure rate.

Probably everyone of us here knows someone who has made the mortal mistake of expecting a long happy marriage to a YOUNG bargirl, it just don’t happen. The 

6 hours ago, Hayduke said:

 

Renting is better than buying.

Seems to be the general cleaver advise for "property" in Thailand; one cal always easily move on, if one's choice isn't right, or unforeseen events should happen...????

8 minutes ago, possum1931 said:

There are plenty of ugly, overweight, tattooed guys in the UK, not just in Thailand, who

have to depend on prostitutes to get their leg over.

Like this guy.

1 hour ago, mike787 said:

ABSOLUTELY correct in every way!!!   Good job BritManToo.

NEVER/EVER marry again!  Made that mistake, learned, moved on.  That does NOT work for me. In the end, us guys are gonna pay, just have to decide how and what's the return on investment.

Bar girls ROCK my world 24/7/365 and I can upgrade to for free, rent, or lease short or long term...BEST value for money!  Price is what you pay, Value is what you get!

With you all the way there Mike - you've met some honeys there mate ????????

Mike beat me to responding to your post @BritManToo I agree with every word of your post!

 

As a good friend of mine once said whilst we were sitting in a bar surrounded by lovelies..... "I've never paid to f*** a girl in Thailand but I've paid dozens of them to f*** me!" 

When I get too old to do that and just want a companion, I shall buy a Spaniel! ????

2 hours ago, Vacuum said:

Only if you agree to the divorce.

Its cheaper to keep her.

7 hours ago, XenZen said:

never done it, but i bet the farang gets lonely and wants someone who will talk to them.  bar girls probably have better english than most.  less chance of rejection, so a friend with a cost.  plus sex is maybe without love, so less pressure and commitment for farang.  there is a problem.   when it ends, and it will end, the farang will be even more lonely and realize it wasn't special.  i worry about if she is an alcoholic, since that would add to the problems.  and aids of course.  and going to eat and guys looking at her as if they know her.  lol  

Bullshit

1 minute ago, jvs said:

Its cheaper to keep her.

That was my point.

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