21 minutes ago, lovethai123 said:

he had the balls to pull out of WHO. no one else had..

which is controlled by china or more serious illuminati 

25 minutes ago, holy cow cm said:

which is controlled by china or more serious illuminati 

yeah but seriously there is something off with WHO

On 11/5/2020 at 6:36 PM, RichardColeman said:

You want to reconsidered that line of drivel when the absent fathers on here tell you their experiences of some wicked, selfish women that have deliberately forced them away from their families and wrecked their sanities 

Blimey, there is a whole world of difference between someone caught up in an emotional

access situation, and some fella (possibly troll)  thinking about impregnating a bar girl and

popping round to play dad a few days a month.

 

Both situations are messed up, but the one you describe is sadly occasionally unavoidable, the 

one the OP describes is one entered into deliberately and for purely selfish reasons.

20 hours ago, lovethai123 said:

well its nt abt ugly or handsome, 30 is the barrier here. the good ones are all married now.. the ones who are unmarried are the ones no one likes, so why shud i marry them 

 

You have a really weird sense of values, dear boy. Just because "the ones who are unmarried are the ones no one likes" doesn't mean that there isn't one who's perfect for you. You seem to have a problem whereby unless something is generally approved by the crowd then it's not right for you.

 

"so why shud i marry them" suggests that you're somehow doing them a favour IF you do marry them, instead of just finding a girl who you fall in love with over a period of time, and want to spend every waking hour with. You've got this world a bit upside down.

 

As for being a knight in shining armour and looking after this detestable bar girl who you couldn't possibly marry or live with, throughout the Covid crisis, if you dig into the weeds you'll probably find that you're one of a number of guys sending her money every month, and when you come to Thailand to visit she'll quickly put your pictures up in her room to replace the guy who was there last week. You've likely been "had".  

 

Your life will much happier if you just forget Thailand, children, being fat, being "old" at 30 (you're barely out of diapers in the real world) and whatever else you're hung up on, and learn to enjoy your own country and culture and get on with life.

On 11/5/2020 at 8:57 PM, lovethai123 said:

The girl in question has already passed all those tests. That is why I want to spend the rest of my life with her.

I can't live permanently in thailand. I can only visit regularly to meet the child

Only an unconscious father can make these arguments, I assume you know you were raised without a father so you have no experience of what it means to have a father who takes care of his son every day or you are just here to waste everyone's TV time

 

32 minutes ago, Dexxter said:

One thing you don't seem to be considering is to marry your Thai GF, take her back to your home country

 

OK. I just read the part about you being from India and people not liking Asians, or talking behind your back. When I bring my Thai wife back to Australia I am sure people talk behind our backs because I am much, much older than her. BUt we don't give a damn what people say or think because it is OUR life not theirs. As long as the government does not discriminate against you what do other people's opinions matter? Having an absentee child is much worse than worrying what other people think about you.

11 minutes ago, ICELANDMAN said:

 you are just here to waste everyone's TV time

 

i think i had mentioned the matter is closed somewhere on page 3 or 4 . but since people kept answering i kept playing too. 

i was looking for  opinions and almost everyone said it's bad. I can't be discussing this with people i know in real  life. I can't even tell them I am seeing some girl from thailand. That's bad the reputation is of that country over here. leave apart marrying her and bringing her over here.

 

I did not come invite anyone personally to reply. this is a community and people are volunteering. What else? If their time is so precious they won't be here. May be they had free time and they chose to spend on TV . Some are trying to insult others just like you are doing over here. Go get a life. if ur time is so valuable u wont be here. 

 

But you must understand I am way above all that. I don't care about trolls like you. 

10 minutes ago, Dexxter said:

 

OK. I just read the part about you being from India and people not liking Asians, or talking behind your back. When I bring my Thai wife back to Australia I am sure people talk behind our backs because I am much, much older than her. BUt we don't give a damn what people say or think because it is OUR life not theirs. As long as the government does not discriminate against you what do other people's opinions matter? Having an absentee child is much worse than worrying what other people think about you.

valid point. Thanks for bringing it up 

The best things in life are not planned.

Go with yer instincts, and enjoy the consequences.

Good luck to you mate.

You have plenty of time to have a baby. Wait until you are retired and in your 70s and have one with a twenty something young girl. Your only as old as the woman you feel. 

15 hours ago, lovethai123 said:

i am not racist. i have a few friends whose skin is darker than mine and i once slept with a kenyan girl in bangkok. i did tested myself for hiv thrice after that though...

how can i be racist when my people suffer from racism sometimes. i believe all men are born equal . 

 

i support trump though it doesnt matter as i am not an american.  that means i have a pair of large balls.

 

its nt easy to take any woman who looks chinese back in india. she will never be respected. if they know thailand nationality ,everyone wud talk behind my back that she was a hooker before.

Sadly enough they did the same about my current lady in Europe. They don't like Thai women there, probably because they're afraid they take away Farang womens' men and money. 

15 hours ago, lovethai123 said:

i think i had mentioned the matter is closed somewhere on page 3 or 4 . but since people kept answering i kept playing too. 

i was looking for  opinions and almost everyone said it's bad. I can't be discussing this with people i know in real  life. I can't even tell them I am seeing some girl from thailand. That's bad the reputation is of that country over here. leave apart marrying her and bringing her over here.

 

I did not come invite anyone personally to reply. this is a community and people are volunteering. What else? If their time is so precious they won't be here. May be they had free time and they chose to spend on TV . Some are trying to insult others just like you are doing over here. Go get a life. if ur time is so valuable u wont be here. 

 

But you must understand I am way above all that. I don't care about trolls like you. 

 

I am not surprised that you are an Indian who does not have the <deleted> to take responsibility as a father, because your family does not decide who you have to marry as is your custom, or I forgot here you think you are someone respected on TV to tell your stupid things.

 

 

29 minutes ago, ICELANDMAN said:

I forgot here you think you are someone respected on TV to tell your stupid things.

I respect anyone that can cook a decent curry.

10 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I respect anyone that can cook a decent curry.

Thought they just added the pre-made paste (red or green) to coconut milk ? ????

13 minutes ago, CharlieH said:

Thought they just added the pre-made paste (red or green) to coconut milk ? ????

I missed out the word "Indian".

8 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I missed out the word "Indian".

Aahhhh ! NOW you're talking ! I agree with that one.

On 11/5/2020 at 8:41 PM, Lacessit said:

Your child will be "luk krueng" ( half Thai ) and hence looked down on by all Thais. Unless you are going to bring the child up outside Thailand, forget it.

sorry mate but from my own experience of having a child with my thai wife   my son is thought no less of than any of the other kids here in fact a lot are envious of the little farang noi    or is it just us  

10 minutes ago, Harveyboy said:

sorry mate but from my own experience of having a child with my thai wife   my son is thought no less of than any of the other kids here in fact a lot are envious of the little farang noi    or is it just us  

Maybe it's just you, I tend not to rely on statistical populations of one to make inferences.

As long as he is happy, that's all that matters.

Having a child should be the last thing on your hit list until you have been together continuously in Thailand for, perhaps, 5 years. By then, anyway, it will be out of your system.

I like the OP.  He is expressing his feelings  all!  I guess o now understand India better.  I have read about the caste system.  

As to the luk Krueng the thai women i know want a baby with a western man. 

I also know dark skin is so looked down upon by thai people.   Thus the billion baht skin  whitening  product industry.   

I can understand the Asian fever thing.  

And  bringing home a foriegn woman is even frowned upon in my own family.   But I say <deleted> and plan to do just that.  I dont see myself living in Thailand.   Its to hot, polluted,  and I'm anal about DIRTFT (doing it right the first time). 

If your  30, wealthy with no need to work. Surely you can workout for your self esteem and longevity.    If you are in love with this woman who has a child amd your sure she loves you for more than  the support.  Only you can know this.   I have had TV tools post on my threads that my fiance probably has brothers or is stepping out or has multiple sponsors.  It hurts but since we talk every morning and her night  I know this isn't  true.   I have  the advice I have read and never sent her a regular salary.  I'm lucky as she has a respectable job and  can stand on her own 2 feet.  Also she is childless.   Im not sure I could handle another man's young child  in my life or disrespectful teens.     You don't say her her baby's dad is 100% gone or not?  You do say you can't even tell a friend about dating  a thai woman.   Where do all your friends and family think you have been traveling to?

If you have enough money why can't you just move to some neutral country? Or try to bring about  change  in yiur country?  I don't think you said you don't like thai English.   I think you said  you don't  like pinya as they speak better english than you.   You sound like a seasoned  punter of many Asian countries,  so how is this better than being an  ex Bargirl?

as POTTINGER i agree 100%  

On 11/7/2020 at 5:54 PM, lovethai123 said:

i am not racist. i have a few friends whose skin is darker than mine and i once slept with a kenyan girl in bangkok. i did tested myself for hiv thrice after that though...

how can i be racist when my people suffer from racism sometimes. i believe all men are born equal . 

 

i support trump though it doesnt matter as i am not an american.  that means i have a pair of large balls.

 

its nt easy to take any woman who looks chinese back in india. she will never be respected. if they know thailand nationality ,everyone wud talk behind my back that she was a hooker before.

According to your posts I would say: maybe your dick is not racist but you for sure are..... 

On 11/7/2020 at 5:55 PM, lovethai123 said:

if thats the only case how are there mixed race babies.. stupid woman come in all races and colors.. 

So do men... by the way, what you were citing about Ph is not correct. Pinoi is the male for Pinai...... 

On 11/7/2020 at 6:00 PM, holy cow cm said:

Maybe better you get married then. Nothing to lose. 

Please NO.....

On 11/7/2020 at 6:30 PM, rumak said:

this novel is engrossing ............ i can hardly put it down

 

sex, lies, videocalls,  curry !    business deals,  women's squeels,  training wheels,  curry !

 

Starts to look a bit like " Dinasty" the serie ..... Next episode : I saw something falling out of the sky . 5555555

On 11/7/2020 at 6:31 PM, Mavideol said:

since you haven't seen her for quite some time, are you sure she still has Only 1 child ?  usually they have an uncle or a cousin, as well an ex that may visit them as they wish and/or need.... nearby /close by relationships are hard, imagine the far away ones

Mother,fathers ( most of the time several ), aunts, sisters and brothers, buffaloes, etc...... 55555555

On 11/7/2020 at 6:39 PM, lovethai123 said:

her ex is doing some menial job in korea. she doesnt know which one but i suppose its south... 

 

she hates all her relatives as no one helped her when she was on the roads..

The road to hell ???? 555555

On 11/7/2020 at 6:34 PM, lovethai123 said:

why r  u jealous if someone has enough money without working.. i worked intelligently and built a business when boys of my age were chasing girls and spending money on them to be able to touch the titties.  smart work pays. but now i feel bored at home..

 

i am still legally employed but dont work there. i get kind of a payment every month which is enough. 

Isn't that the description of a pimp?????

On 11/7/2020 at 6:47 PM, teacherclaire said:

Who knows what this dude is flashing when he sees Monika? 3 baht of gold is impressing. 

 

I have 4  baht around my ring finger! 

Fat finger???? 555555  Just kidding... trying to spice up a bit this boring subject. lol

On 11/7/2020 at 6:48 PM, lovethai123 said:

a farang bar owner suggested so.. but there is a bit of issue.. when i return home the customs officials wud inspect the chain and ask questions like when i purchased it etc..there is a heavy customs duty on gold. 

 

and i wasnt questioned by IO. it was VOA desk officer... She was jst not happy why i come thailand so much...

 

but after seeing papers she let me go but instructed me to come with SETV next time. which i did.. but a nice jomtien IO officer said dont worry. she do her job.

VOA officer????? In case you didn't know they are IO's..... SETV ???? Sexual Education Training Vacation????? 5555555