Do I need to stop my relationship with my Thai girl?

[thesetat2013]

13 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

You are not happy with her anymore - for whatever reason.

And what do people who are not happy together anymore? They separate!

What would be the point of staying with a person who doesn't make you happy?

 

Apart from that I suggest have a close look what problems you have to make sure you don't repeat the same problems in the next relationship. Money might be one issue but often there are a lot more issues and just pretending all would be happy if she would only receive enough money is often unrealistic. 

Currently have a gf who always complains I don't give her enough money. Wanting more. Doesn't matter if I spend 15000 or 20000 on her monthly. Buying her foods and giving her my obey to use while at work. She seems to think she will find Mr. Rich man foreigner who will do all I do and still throw her cash more because she is such a good woman. Doesn't clean after herself or help clean the apartment we lived in together. Even she got that free 4000 baht good money the government gave out. She prefers to lose what she didn't spend rather than buy me a cheap thai meal sometimes. 

So I'm dumping her. 

Sure she is pretty and so good in sex. But there is more to having a gf or woman you love than just sex. So I think your posting this is accurate. Surely there is more he isn't saying that makes him uncertain to end the relationship. Beauty is only skin deep anyway. But if the woman is already complaining the money you spend or give her. Then it will only get worse. 

My guess is she is already searching for Mr. Rich man who will give her more online. Hence the change in attitude about your relationship being a financial venture she is not happy with. Most men online will insult your efforts and promise more just to get that pretty girl once. But it makes the girl think she is worth more money to her bf and gives confidence to complain he doesn't give her enough. 

[Ddbanksy]

Love & lust,two different things mate.

Look at yourself first,then get rid

[CharlieH]

Women you dont pay for usually cost more !

Like most things here, cheaper to rent and change whenever you like, there are sooooo many to choose from.

[mrfill]

46 minutes ago, nobodysfriend said:

 

Men are not monogamous by nature .

Only society teaches us that .

 

 

 

Mum! Its those Mormons at the door again......

[KarenBravo]

Whenever I see a drop-dead gorgeous woman anywhere in the world, I always think "pity the poor bar-steward that has to eat her excrement every day".

Edited April 16, 2021 by KarenBravo

[Snackbar]

12 Rules of Poon

[Straight8]

Grow a spine and locate your nuts. You'll be glad you did.

 

I'm still getting my head around farangs having to pay to have a GF/wife. You said your not old,ugly or balding, yet you place yourself in this position.

[hotchilli]

15 hours ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

I'm on the ropes, gentlemen, and I think it's time we stopped.

If she's looking over your shoulder when you embrace, let go and walk away.

[tonray]

1 hour ago, nobodysfriend said:

 

Men are not monogamous by nature .

Only society teaches us that .

 

And only society keeps us from raping and pillaging too. Not all bad

[jvs]

 

[Travel Dude]

1 hour ago, crazykopite said:

It’s whats under the skin not what’s on top of the skin  if I meet a girl I invite them to come and stay with me for a week or two that gives us both an idea if we can live in Harmony as of today I’m still looking for the right one although the last girl to stay still keeps in touch and never asked for anything but she spent 24/7 on her bloody phone and I mean 24/7 .

I will add that in my next requirement list:

1) no telephone addict. I do not appreciate at all those who are mobile focussed all the time. You can't have any decent life with them.

2) And I need a woman who has a decent job and a proper own income.

3) She needs to be charming and cute, not per definition pretty.

4) Well educated too. Can't stand those girls anymore that do not understand what I am saying. 

5) And if I feel she is in to get money out of me, bye bye... I do not mind to take care of the person I love, but dont love my money more than you love me.... 

6) You may be a bitch on the bed, but not a lazy couch bitch. 

And also:

7) As long as I  not an old grumpy ass, don't try to change me. I am too old for that.

And

???? keep your Thai soap series drama screams for yourself, I am having none of it. 

Possible to find? 

Edited April 16, 2021 by Travel Dude
Perfect the requirement list

[Travel Dude]

I will add that in my next requirement list:

1) no telephone addict. I do not appreciate at all those who are mobile focussed all the time. You can't have any decent life with them.

2) And I need a woman who has a decent job and a proper own income.

3) She needs to be charming and cute, not per definition pretty.

4) Well educated too. Can't stand those girls anymore that do not understand what I am saying. 

5) And if I feel she is in to get money out of me, bye bye... I do not mind to take care of the person I love, but dont love my money more than you love me.... 

6) You may be a bitch on the bed, but not a lazy couch bitch. 

And also:

7) As long as I  not an old grumpy ass, don't try to change me. I am too old for that.

And

???? keep your Thai soap series drama screams for yourself, I am having none of it. 

Possible to find? ❤️

[nickmondo]

get rid of her

then get yourself a decent hooker every night and save yourself a lot of grief and money!

Your Welcome........Enjoy

[LukKrueng]

16 hours ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

I think it's time we stopped.

No, I think you should marry her

[brianthainess]

16 hours ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

but I think she thinks the perfect farrang male model will come give her familya fortune in baht every month.

Who would have thought that ????

[Aomelia]

10 hours ago, sipi said:

I married the village "ugly duckling" who had been shelved, best thing I ever did.

She's the perfect wife, and frankly beautiful in my eyes.

Mind you, I'm no oil painting.

I see these Ducklings all over Korat , why would you come all the way over here to get an Ugly Pumpui Duck 

[Tagged]

2 minutes ago, Aomelia said:

I see these Ducklings all over Korat , why would you come all the way over here to get an Ugly Pumpui Duck 

If you are a decent human being, polite, respectful, not to stupid, not to easy, and you click with someone who appreciate you for who you are, and you both walk that extra mile to make both of you happy and secured. Then you maybe would have understood it. 

 

So many girls become good partners, if you just treath them with respect, give them love (not only money) a bit of your time, let them be themselves as them let you have your things. But finding such a woman who is willing to walk the extra mile,  is not easy. Most when they find them, they think they are to boring, not good looking enough, to many younger, slimmer smiling girls around,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, end of story

 

it is all up to you, so stop complaining when you still in your end of your days, still searching and running around looking 

[Bradmeister]

Op,

 

You need counseling from a professional psychologist. 

 

Not solicited opinions from forum members.

 

Good luck.

 

P.S. if you stop looking at people as Thais and non thais.   . You're quality of life will increase exponentially. 

[Sihuhata]

Yeah, dude just drop her and send me her Line ID.

[Skallywag]

16 hours ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

High maintenance and gorgeous who doesn't appreciate all the sacrifices I make for her. I'm on the ropes, gentlemen, and I think it's time we stopped.

Your love has died?  Or you realize you have been paying for that love all along?

Can be tough if you live in a condo.  My friends Thai girlfriend was like this and turned into "satan" when he broke it off.  He had to change door locks and tell security not to let her in, but she got in several times anyway. 

She finally moved to Bangkok or back home or something, but could be back when the entertainment venues open.  

 

[jvs]

33 minutes ago, Bradmeister said:

You need counseling from a professional psychologist. 

No he just needs to grow up.

[AgMech Cowboy]

You came here for advise? I'm with the majority. Move on, you and she will be happier.

[Speedhump]

16 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Those would be guys pretending to be women.

Doesn't it go: "try everything once, twice if you like it"? 

[Pilotman]

Grow a pair and ditch her.  Plenty more where she came from. I just cannot fathom how men stay in dead relationships, leave, now. 

[Tagged]

41 minutes ago, jvs said:

No he just needs to grow up.

I do not want to grow up, but I guess the clue is to learn while you walking. We have done that since we learned to walk, and suddenly we grow up and forget to learn as you walk. Thats a bummer

[Pilotman]

1 hour ago, Sihuhata said:

Yeah, dude just drop her and send me her Line ID.

why would you want to follow the OP, she sounds a dead one to me.  Plenty more out there. 

[Pilotman]

3 hours ago, thesetat2013 said:

Currently have a gf who always complains I don't give her enough money. Wanting more. Doesn't matter if I spend 15000 or 20000 on her monthly. Buying her foods and giving her my obey to use while at work. She seems to think she will find Mr. Rich man foreigner who will do all I do and still throw her cash more because she is such a good woman. Doesn't clean after herself or help clean the apartment we lived in together. Even she got that free 4000 baht good money the government gave out. She prefers to lose what she didn't spend rather than buy me a cheap thai meal sometimes. 

So I'm dumping her. 

Sure she is pretty and so good in sex. But there is more to having a gf or woman you love than just sex. So I think your posting this is accurate. Surely there is more he isn't saying that makes him uncertain to end the relationship. Beauty is only skin deep anyway. But if the woman is already complaining the money you spend or give her. Then it will only get worse. 

My guess is she is already searching for Mr. Rich man who will give her more online. Hence the change in attitude about your relationship being a financial venture she is not happy with. Most men online will insult your efforts and promise more just to get that pretty girl once. But it makes the girl think she is worth more money to her bf and gives confidence to complain he doesn't give her enough. 

you and the OP need to get together, maybe between you, you will make one adult man. ????

Edited April 16, 2021 by Pilotman

[Hugh Cow]

11 hours ago, sipi said:

I married the village "ugly duckling" who had been shelved, best thing I ever did.

She's the perfect wife, and frankly beautiful in my eyes.

Mind you, I'm no oil painting.

Unfortunately many of us are to busy looking at the beauty of the packaging rather than the beauty that lies within.

[SheungWan]

If she is stunning and still bangs your brains out in a special way then hang on in there. One usually finds that the guys telling you that there are plenty of fish in the sea, easy to find etc. have the most appalling taste in women. On the other hand there is the headache to consider....

[Tagged]

8 minutes ago, Hugh Lao said:

Unfortunately many of us are to busy looking at the beauty of the packaging rather than the beauty that lies within.

Yes, and when you marry one everyone else wants, and who is a 8- 10, compare to the most men who come here to look for a woman, who at best is a 5, you know,  she know, she can do better as well. A bad circle. 

 

Most women know their price, 

Edited April 16, 2021 by Tagged