18 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

I just had a 41 year old lady leave my place. After years of telling me that she had no use for Thai men, she admitted that she had had a Thai boyfriend for 2 years, who was 18 years younger.

 

good foe her.

Was that a surprise to you???? 

11 minutes ago, jomtienisgood said:

Was that a surprise to you???? 

I had already been told she had a Thai boyfriend but I was surprised it was a young Karaoke boy.

1 hour ago, stupidfarang said:

You need to look in he mirror sounds like you are doing the same thing to the girls, also you think there is no bar girls or pros on those sites? Need to wake up

If you are talking to me, I have no allusions about the young Thai ladies I know.

 

when the money is gone, the lady is gone.

 

 

3 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

I had already been told she had a Thai boyfriend but I was surprised it was a young Karaoke boy.

When I was living in Bkk I used to go these places with some female friends, not GF, amazing... I know some of them , females, working in the escort business ( to be polite ) just to go to get one of the young GGB ( as in GOGO Boys , not the other GGB. )

6 hours ago, jomtienisgood said:

When I was living in Bkk I used to go these places with some female friends, not GF, amazing... I know some of them , females, working in the escort business ( to be polite ) just to go to get one of the young GGB ( as in GOGO Boys , not the other GGB. )

Boy karaokes are an interesting phenomenon. They rely on shills to bring in the ladies, generally the shills are the girlfriends of the boys. So what happens is the ladies who support the boys financially end up going home alone while he entertains his customers until the next morning.

On 9/2/2021 at 10:42 AM, Speedhump said:

I know Thai women that are sick to death of Thai men. Hate them (even worse if they're BIB) . Admittedly they're not the gullible 20 year old chicklets that most commenters here probably chase. ????

Let me correct you:

 

Thai women say they are sick of Thai men. I knew one lady who had a Farang sponsor, she told me repeatedly “I no like Thai man”, but lived with a Thai karaoke boy half her age, until the money ran out.

On 8/31/2021 at 4:21 PM, Tanomazu said:

one 58 year old guy lied to her about his age (she found his passport whilst he was sleeping), several guys lied about seeing other girls. What this does to the girl is tell her that men basically can not be trusted. 

Not sure a woman that searches through your stuff while you're asleep is all that trustworthy either.

On 8/28/2021 at 10:36 PM, John2021 said:

I am not talking of bar girls, i am talking of normal girls you meet anywhere who want and write they want serious relationship.

How do you know they're not sex workers?

On 8/29/2021 at 9:49 AM, Walker88 said:

There is a subset of foreigners who see every Thai woman as either 'was, is, or will be' a bargirl. Not fair, but it is what it is. They play what they think are the odds, and will 'like' any post by any woman they think might be a future assignation.

I view Thai ladies as either "will' or 'won't' have sex with me .............. never been bothered where or if they work.

On 8/30/2021 at 6:10 AM, thaibeachlovers said:

I'm glad you realise that "luck" was involved. Some of us had bad luck instead, but it's all just luck of the draw whether we end up with a keeper or not.

I just kept changing............ till i got lucky.     Took quite a few tries .   

The guys i feel sorry for are the ones who throw all their hopes and money on

one longshot .   The odds are not good

2 minutes ago, rumak said:

I just kept changing............ till i got lucky.     Took quite a few tries .   

The guys i feel sorry for are the ones who throw all their hopes and money on

one longshot .   The odds are not good

Me too ......... but even then I've never parted with much cash up front.

Buying her a new house or car outright .......... not a hope in hell!

49 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

Let me correct you:

 

Thai women say they are sick of Thai men. I knew one lady who had a Farang sponsor, she told me repeatedly “I no like Thai man”, but lived with a Thai karaoke boy half her age, until the money ran out.

No, you can't correct me, you don't know the people that I know. Silly generalisations like 'Thai women say' aren't in the least helpful. 

11 minutes ago, Speedhump said:

No, you can't correct me, you don't know the people that I know. Silly generalisations like 'Thai women say' aren't in the least helpful. 

Okay, your Thai lady friends don’t like Thai men. Got it.

 

25 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

Okay, your Thai lady friends don’t like Thai men. Got it.

 

Not all, no, and l I'm not talking about women I'm involved with sexually, who have a motive to lie to me. See, you're doing it again. ????????

On 9/1/2021 at 9:32 PM, Speedhump said:

No, but if I was a woman I might be tempted to do it the Thai way with some guy treating me like a piece of meat. ????

.....would this include the made up stereotypes, as well?

36 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

Okay, your Thai lady friends don’t like Thai men. Got it.

 

And certainly not the generalised standard. 

An overwhelming percentage of Thai girls would prefer Thai guys. 

 

I would take caution towards those who consider themselves experts of Thai female character or even Thai character, for that matter. 

36 minutes ago, zzaa09 said:

.....would this include the made up stereotypes, as well?

Oh dear. Stereotypes aren't made up! ????

1 hour ago, zzaa09 said:

And certainly not the generalised standard. 

An overwhelming percentage of Thai girls would prefer Thai guys. 

 

I would take caution towards those who consider themselves experts of Thai female character or even Thai character, for that matter. 

Yes, Danderman123 himself is the generaliser. "Thai women say they are sick of Thai men". I only spoke of people I know. 

And I'm heartily sick of the 'Thais are lazy', 'Thais will cheat you', etc. rubbish spouted so often on this forum by jaded immigrants. 

12 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Me too ......... but even then I've never parted with much cash up front.

Buying her a new house or car outright .......... not a hope in hell!

Well,  i did fall for the "sick buffalo"  line .    Gotta say, the buffalo is doing quite well now  ????

 

Live your reality, who fits in with you is where you should be, to many expect you to "change" both white and brown, i walk the talk.....being positive attracts, being true to yourself attracts, having a criteria goes a long way to being not disappointed.

On 8/29/2021 at 6:56 AM, fredscats said:

Im the other way,promise them the earth,half hour later move on

 

 

 

Also known as a liar.