BangkokReady Posted January 7, 2022 Share Posted January 7, 2022 40 minutes ago, JensenZ said: When I came to SE Asia I was a healthy looking 39 year old. Just out of pure curiosity, would you have considered having a romantic relationship with someone 20 years younger than yourself at this point? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Adumbration Posted January 7, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 7, 2022 On 1/6/2022 at 5:24 AM, CG1 Blue said: But I like the fact Thai men tend not to like the dark ones. It's like sharing a box of chocolates with someone who prefers the ones with orange or marzipan fillings. This is a bar stool myth. Thai men will f*** anything including the blackest of isaan girls. They will just not boast about it or buy her a house. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Adumbration Posted January 7, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 7, 2022 On 1/6/2022 at 10:16 AM, MarcelV said: I have been living in the Muslim deep south for years and can safely say it has some of the most beautiful girls in Thailand. That Malay look is often stunning. How would you know when she is wearing a burka? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BangkokReady Posted January 7, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 7, 2022 22 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: Would the wife be somehow better if the Ferrari guys did it? There's honestly so much snobbery and judgement in this thread. "Dirty old man" - quite an interesting phrase, especially used in a Thailand themed forum, where it seems that 20-40 year age-gaps are the norm. It seems to really stem from a kind of disgust reaction to an elderly gentleman being attracted to a young woman. I wonder what it is that makes people react in this way. I'm not saying I necessarily agree that a 60 something man should be pursuing a 20 year old woman, but it's quite interesting that "dirty" comes into it. Anyone below say 50 might be ok to lust after a 20 year old? But after that they become dirty? Another time we use "dirty" is to describe a promiscuous women. Someone might call her a "dirty sl*t". I think the sort of disgust response there comes from the fact that a promiscuous woman is generally bad for society, or at least a social group, for various reasons. I wonder if there is some reason that a man who is too old trying to pick up a much younger women gets the same response? Perhaps we have some sort of group-think subconscious judgment where we look at a couple and judge their compatibility. We see the physical appearance of the old man and we subconsciously think that he is not going to be able to provide for her and he is not young, healthy and virile, so we object to the pairing. Another interesting thing, is that one commenter mentioned "base desires" or something. I wonder if they are aware that the reason they think and old man is "dirty" for wanting to be with a much younger woman might itself be a "base" reaction? We could suggest that they should engage their brain and overcome this base reaction and logic it out as to whether there is anything actually technically "wrong" with a 60 year old man having a relationship with a 20 year old woman. A 20 year old woman might have a relationship with a 20 something man, it might last six months to a year and it might end badly or amicably. A 20 year old woman might also have a relationship with a 60 year old man that could last six months to a year which might end badly or amicably (you could argue the age of the man might increase the chance of an amicable end). So where is the actual harm in the 60 year old and 20 year old fling? Apart from this basic kind of repulsion or disgust at the idea of a 20 year old having sex with a 60 year old? I can't help feeling all answers would be rationalisations based on "it feels wrong" or "it's just gross". (It's important to note here that when we talk about desire, we are talking about subconscious judgements, so these are things that we are not consciously aware of. Think basic survival cave man type living.) 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Walker88 Posted January 7, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 7, 2022 1 hour ago, JensenZ said: In most of these cases, you're not spreading your genes at all. You're borrowing the young girl for sexual services, afterwhich she cannot wait to get back to her young Thai boyfriend, or perhaps her female partner. She might put up a good show, but don't kid yourself. Boom-boom with a guy as old as her grandfather is not pleasureable, and she's cringing inside. I'm cringing even thinking about it. You need to stop pretending it's ok and trying to justify it. First, the drive to dally with a female is 100% about gene propagation, even if we don't think of that. We think someone is sexy or desirable BECAUSE that will motivate us to spread our genes. The purpose of life is more life. Nothing more. We dress it up and pretend there's a lot more to it, but that is just filler. Second, there are women here who actually like the man they are with. Some of the men are young, some old. Granted a man in good shape is a lot more appealing, but while the primary draw for men is physical attraction, the primary drive for women is security. I might not understand when I see a young Thai woman with a fat old foreigner, but it is entirely possible she really is smitten with him. Not up to me to say one way or the other. I do think---personal opinion here---that if an older gent is intent on dallying with young women, he should take some pride of ownership in his body, hit the gym, lose the belly, dress nicely, and be properly groomed. That might increase his chance of being with a woman who really is attracted to him. Third, for women who dally without being attracted to the partner, that is up to her. She engages in a personal calculus where she weighs the gain (money, perhaps friendship) against the cost (if she is not attracted to him). The fact she does it gives the answer to her personal calculus. The man benefits because he exercises the biological imperative, and the woman benefits because she gets something she needs. So long as they are consenting adults, no harm done. What makes or doesn't make a "man" is not up to you or me to decide. We merely have opinions. Why is someone less of a man because he still has desires and exercises those desires? There is no rule book, and when we're dead, not a damn thing matters. Ashes to ashes, dust to dust and all that. If some guy wants to dally with beautiful young women half his age, none of my business. I make decisions for me, not anyone else. 11 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted January 7, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 7, 2022 2 hours ago, JensenZ said: It's not a matter of your desire, but a matter of nature. Perhaps you desire to have sexual relations with women in their 20's when you're 60s, 70s or older, but do you think she desires you? Is that not a consideration? Do you only think of it from your own point of view? I find younger females beautiful and desireable, but that doesn't mean I need to defile them. I am a man, that's why in my 60's I do not wish to have sexual relations with females 40 years younger. Being a man is restraining yourself from unnatural acts. You would expect that a man of 60's or older has finally managed to control themselves. If you don't, that is a fairly good definition of a "dirty old man". I don't enjoy having sexual relations which are obviously one sided. A lot of these men use sexual aids too. When I ask myself, is this female sexually attracted to me and the answer is no, I won't go there. All you need is a mirror. Now, if you're paying for sexual services, that's another matter where mutual attraction is not a consideration. Let's start with the fact that I am not yet 60, so I guess in the moment you let me get away with desiring girls who are 20. I think a lot in this world happens because of conditioning. Many people do what they do because that is the way to do things. Old man with young girl: Oh no! Really? Why? I know in some countries, probably many countries, old guy and young girl relations don't happen very often. But it seems when the guy is rich and famous, and maybe a rock star, then he might get away with this. Luckily in Thailand the situation is different. Here are a lot more not so young guys with young girls. And lots of people accept this. Sometimes I try to understand but in general I don't know what's going on in the head of young (let's say 20 to make sure there is no misunderstanding) girls. First of all they don't all think the same. If i.e. 90% of those girls don't like old guys that doesn't mean 10% like some old guys. And there are many young girls. So if i.e. 1 out of 100 thinks she wants to spend time with me then that is fine with me. Apart from hourly sessions in the nightlife I never paid for a girl - at least not directly. But often it's not so easy to judge how much money is involved. In general it probably does not hurt if a guy has a nice apartment, maybe a nice car, when he visits fancy restaurants, etc. Now is a young girl together with such a guy because of his money? Or does she do it because she is comfortable with an experienced sophisticated successful guy? I don't try to guess which one it is and I am pretty sure often the girls don't really know. So maybe we can agree that I won't ask your daughter for a date. But if her friend likes to see me then that should be up to that girl. And it's up to her if she likes my look or my bike or my favorite coffee shop or whatever. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JackGats Posted January 7, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 7, 2022 I have a problem with women In Thailand though, whenever I spot a woman with a wow figure in Thailand, on closer inspection she turns out to be a man. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarcelV Posted January 7, 2022 Share Posted January 7, 2022 1 hour ago, Adumbration said: How would you know when she is wearing a burka? Mashallah 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post habuspasha Posted January 7, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 7, 2022 4 hours ago, BangkokReady said: Anyone below say 50 might be ok to lust after a 20 year old? But after that they become dirty? I was 73. She was 32. She was gorgeous. I looked average. She said I seemed to have a good heart. Today I’m 81. She just turned 40. I’ve lost 40 pounds. She’s lost 15. We’re still together, planning on buying a home. No one has called me a dirty old man. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harsh Jones Posted January 7, 2022 Share Posted January 7, 2022 On 1/5/2022 at 4:19 AM, BritManToo said: Not the most beautiful ......... But certainly the most available and reasonably priced. Joking aside, they have the most beautiful ladyboys. I dont think thats a controversial statement 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Albert Zweistein Posted January 7, 2022 Share Posted January 7, 2022 And without make up ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post hotandsticky Posted January 7, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 7, 2022 (edited) 8 hours ago, JensenZ said: So you say, but how old are you now? 22 years ago maybe you were still young and attractive. We don't all age at the same rate. When I came to SE Asia I was a healthy looking 39 year old. Things change when you're 60 and beyond. My age or appearance matter not. I remain as handsum a man in Thailand as I did all those years ago. It matters not to those providing me with sexual services. I am buying and they are selling. The terms of engagement are clear - and not once has a service provider evidenced any "cringing inside". Edited January 7, 2022 by hotandsticky 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanaSomchai Posted January 7, 2022 Share Posted January 7, 2022 Best Thai women are from Nakhon Phanom and the northernest regions within close borders to Laos. Best looks and best attitude. Other than that, Chiang Rai works well if you fancy a trek all the way up north. After that the best girls can be found in Hanoi, Vietnam. They're even prettier than your average Thai issan female but the real pretty ones are "reserved" for the Chinese overlords. There you have it. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted January 7, 2022 Share Posted January 7, 2022 11 hours ago, Walker88 said: I see 60+ guys walking with young Thai women, and the men don't seem to be self-conscious at all. Outsiders might look askance at it, but the men simply do not care. That "problem" happens much earlier. When I arrived in Thailand I was in my 30th and I had a gf in her late teens. No tattoos, no silicone, just a pretty young girl. And lots of people were looking when we walked along the street. It didn't take long before I ignored all those people. And sometimes I gave them what they wanted. When I walked past them with my gf and they were staring at us I waited a few seconds after they passed us and when I was sure they were looking at us from behind then I gave my pretty young gf a pat on her beautiful mini skirt covered backside. It must have been the horror for all those good people. 555 That was a long time ago and since then I couldn't care less about whatever some people think. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted January 8, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 8, 2022 10 hours ago, JensenZ said: It's not a matter of your desire, but a matter of nature. Perhaps you desire to have sexual relations with women in their 20's when you're 60s, 70s or older, but do you think she desires you? Is that not a consideration? Do you only think of it from your own point of view? I find younger females beautiful and desireable, but that doesn't mean I need to defile them. No women ever desired me, so no, it's not a consideration. As for 'defile', women were designed to give birth, it's their function in life. Can you defile a car by driving it? 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted January 8, 2022 Share Posted January 8, 2022 10 hours ago, JensenZ said: In most of these cases, you're not spreading your genes at all. You're borrowing the young girl for sexual services, afterwhich she cannot wait to get back to her young Thai boyfriend, or perhaps her female partner. She might put up a good show, but don't kid yourself. Boom-boom with a guy as old as her grandfather is not pleasureable, and she's cringing inside. I'm cringing even thinking about it. You need to stop pretending it's ok and trying to justify it. I never use a condom. And can assure you I'm doing my best to spread my genes. As for her pleasure, she can get that later when she's spending the money. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted January 8, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 8, 2022 8 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: Old man with young girl: Oh no! Really? Why? I know in some countries, probably many countries, old guy and young girl relations don't happen very often. But it seems when the guy is rich and famous, and maybe a rock star, then he might get away with this. Luckily in Thailand the situation is different. Here are a lot more not so young guys with young girls. And lots of people accept this. Mary age 14 + Joseph age 70 = Jesus. If it was good enough for God, then it should be good enough for us. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianthainess Posted January 8, 2022 Share Posted January 8, 2022 On 1/5/2022 at 6:59 PM, Lacessit said: beauty and attitude of Thai women. Slim, petite. That was before Doughnuts, junk food and fizzy pop really kicked in. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted January 8, 2022 Share Posted January 8, 2022 3 hours ago, Albert Zweistein said: And without make up ? Especially without make up.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post spidermike007 Posted January 8, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 8, 2022 (edited) I agree. Tell me another country that has a higher percentage of beauty. Some countries have a few that are outstanding. But, I can stand on a street corner in Bangkok and every 25 seconds one walks by that is stunning. No other city in the world offers that. NYC and many others included. Also, the fact that many Thai women are so comfortable with their own femininity makes them infinitely more appealing. I see gorgeous women in the West, but they handle themselves like men and are scared to death of their femininity. That downgrades their beauty to a significant degree. When I ask where they are from, many say Udon Thani, Chiang Mai, Chaiyaphum, Buriram. Occasionally Sisiket or Surin. Something in the water? Edited January 8, 2022 by spidermike007 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarcelV Posted January 8, 2022 Share Posted January 8, 2022 26 minutes ago, spidermike007 said: I agree. Tell me another country that has a higher percentage of beauty. Some countries have a few that are outstanding. But, I can stand on a street corner in Bangkok and every 25 seconds one walks by that is stunning. No other city in the world offers that. NYC and many others included. Also, the fact that many Thai women are so comfortable with their own femininity makes them infinitely more appealing. I see gorgeous women in the West, but they handle themselves like men and are scared to death of their femininity. That downgrades their beauty to a significant degree. When I ask where they are from, many say Udon Thani, Chiang Mai, Chaiyaphum, Buriram. Occasionally Sisiket or Surin. Something in the water? How many countries have you been to? Every country has huge numbers of beauties. And when it comes to Thai girls, most Thai men would say the most beautiful ones come from the north or Bangkok, not Isaan, though I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NanaSomchai Posted January 8, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 8, 2022 1 hour ago, brianthainess said: That was before Doughnuts, junk food and fizzy pop really kicked in. Don't under-estimate their love for KFC either. Buy one of those large KFC chicken wings buckets, bring it to your local beer bar pod, watch it dry up under 5 minutes, tops. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 8, 2022 Share Posted January 8, 2022 1 hour ago, MarcelV said: How many countries have you been to? Every country has huge numbers of beauties. And when it comes to Thai girls, most Thai men would say the most beautiful ones come from the north or Bangkok, not Isaan, though I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauties all over the world and most beautiful is Mongolian, Persian, Romania, Hawaiian (georgious), Nordic girls, Brazilian, Costa Rica, Phillippines, and yes, every country have theirs beauties. I have thai lady because I live here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArcticFox Posted January 8, 2022 Share Posted January 8, 2022 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Sure, Thai girls are cute, but Czech girls are voluptuous. But Czech gals are in short supply in Thailand, so Thai girls will do (IBTC). 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArcticFox Posted January 8, 2022 Share Posted January 8, 2022 19 minutes ago, Hummin said: Beauties all over the world and most beautiful is Mongolian, Persian, Romania, Hawaiian (georgious), Nordic girls, Brazilian, Costa Rica, Phillippines, and yes, every country have theirs beauties. I have thai lady because I live here. In all honesty, womanly beauty transcends ethnicity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Swiss1960 Posted January 8, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 8, 2022 On 1/6/2022 at 2:36 AM, Kinnock said: For me ..... in no particular order ... Taiwan (the beautiful gene pool fled there leaving all the industrial strength genes back in the mainland). Vietnam (have it all, legs, boobs, face) Thailand (Thai eyes are the best) Bollywood actresses also look amazing, but you don't see women like that in the malls of Mumbai. I was lucky to find a wonderful Thai girl who combined the best of Asian features - in Samut Prakarn, so convenient too. My wife is from Isaan, NOT a "beauty", not 20 anymore (and neither 30 or 40), but she is a wonderful, caring, loving wife and mother with a beautiful character... in my eyes, that is the only relevant beauty for being together. But for looks only, I would vote South Korean... big stunning European looking eyes in perfect slim Asian bodies... 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted January 8, 2022 Share Posted January 8, 2022 39 minutes ago, Swiss1960 said: But for looks only, I would vote South Korean... big stunning European looking eyes in perfect slim Asian bodies... Are all of them looking like that over there? Or only very few? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted January 8, 2022 Share Posted January 8, 2022 On 1/5/2022 at 7:21 PM, Pravda said: On 1/5/2022 at 7:17 PM, OneMoreFarang said: Come on guys, we need pictures in this thread! Expand I bet you she ain't from Issan I bet you @OneMoreFarang doesn't care. I don't. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted January 8, 2022 Share Posted January 8, 2022 On 1/6/2022 at 6:32 AM, Lacessit said: According to what I have heard, Mick Jagger is hung like a horse and also knows how to use it. Add that to his fame as a singer, I can understand he has no problem. Some of the guys I was referring to would need a mirror, tweezers and pepper to find theirs. I have the mirror and tweezers already. Can you help me with how to do the pepper bit? Feeling the need to spice things up a bit. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post spidermike007 Posted January 8, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 8, 2022 4 hours ago, MarcelV said: How many countries have you been to? Every country has huge numbers of beauties. And when it comes to Thai girls, most Thai men would say the most beautiful ones come from the north or Bangkok, not Isaan, though I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder. 40-50. And NONE of them had the concentration (as a percent of the population) of beauties Thailand does. None came even close. If you can, name just one. Of course I like dark skinned women, and consider very white to be highly over rated. That helps. But even many of the light skinned women here are stunning. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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