What are we not seeing.

[yeahbutif]

A friend was shopping in big C and a Thai lady half his age started talking to him . they exchanged Tel mobile numbers and she contacted him She came to his house next day and had a good time. You know what I mean.. he said can I give you some money for petrol. She said upto you..so he gave her 500 bhat.. I thought was that was a bit low she left . He rang her this time and she came again and had another good time and he said can I give you any money she said again upto you. .so he gave her another 500 bhat.. but the confusing bit is why she happy to come for 500 baht.. whats her game?I think she could be init for the long haul.. a bit of money at a time..then try to squeeze more money out latter..whats your views.

[billyo]

I think it depends on their ages and relative attractiveness. Can you let us have more information please ?

 

[Liverpool Lou]

4 minutes ago, yeahbutif said:

the confusing bit is why she happy to come for 500 baht.. 

Why?  Perhaps because she isn't a prostitute, not every woman in Thailand is.  Did she ever ask him for money?

[yeahbutif]

3 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said:

Why?  Perhaps because she isn't a prostitute, not every woman in Thailand is.  Did she ever ask him for money?

.no she just said upto you.. 

[MJCM]

1 minute ago, yeahbutif said:

.no she just said upto you.. 

don’t they all say that? 

[yeahbutif]

6 minutes ago, billyo said:

I think it depends on their ages and relative attractiveness. Can you let us have more information please ?

 

She very attractive at 40 and he 70 

[London Lowf]

There's a fine line between a prostitute and a woman looking for an older, wealthier guy to "take care".

 

Either way, as long as the guy is aware of the way these things work then there shouldn't be a problem.

Edited January 19, 2023 by London Lowf

[billyo]

12 minutes ago, yeahbutif said:

She very attractive at 40 and he 70 

Hmm not really natural so looking for papa to take care. At 40 she's pretty off the table for Thai marriage and probably suspicious of Thai men in general. If he's looking for a woman to take care and ultimately be his nurse then it may work. It will quickly get to the point of show me the commitment very quickly.

[Mac Mickmanus]

27 minutes ago, yeahbutif said:

She came to his house next day and had a good time. You know what I mean..

You are allowed to say sex , "they had sex" .

No need to be shy and coy about saying it 

[orchis]

that's called "money for taxi"
it happens.

[billyo]

Is he a very fit well groomed 70 year old by any chance ?

[Bangel72]

500 baht seems fair, not enough to imply she's doing it for the money so he gets a slight sense she wants to come over and for him its just enough to say this is some sort of exchange and does not come with any sort of relationship baggage. I really enjoyed today, here treat yourself to a nice lunch or get a taxi back I want you to stay safe rather than on that bus.

 

I thinks its a fairly common exchange when wealth levels are different, nothing to see here.

[richard_smith237]

3 minutes ago, billyo said:

Is he a very fit well groomed 70 year old by any chance ?

Looking for incentive to go to the Gym Billy ???

 

Grooming.... ideas here....  

 

[ed strong]

Shes on the game without a doubt, which ever way you dress this up, she is getting money for sex.

 

Hes happy shes happy.

 

Of course she is motivated by money and this certainly should be a concern especially if she knows where he lives etc. My advise going forward would be to be careful going forward and dont tell her more than you need to.

[tjintx]

Is his name Bob?

[richard_smith237]

1 minute ago, Bangel72 said:

500 baht seems fair, not enough to imply she's doing it for the money so he gets a slight sense she wants to come over and for him its just enough to say this is some sort of exchange and does not come with any sort of relationship baggage. I really enjoyed today, here treat yourself to a nice lunch or get a taxi back I want you to stay safe rather than on that bus.

 

I thinks its a fairly common exchange when wealth levels are different, nothing to see here.

Would you have ever offered any money for taxi, petrol or otherwise after a sexual encounter in your home country ?....     I think thats what there is to see here... 

 

Its easy to normalise this sort of behaviour in Thailand, but take Thailand out of the context and we have something less ambiguous.

[Kwasaki]

So many dumbos about, none of anyone's business what is going on.  

[swerve]

Explanation: he's a hansum man.

[yeahbutif]

27 minutes ago, billyo said:

Is he a very fit well groomed 70 year old by any chance ?

Yes he smart and polite. House not in his name though.but she maybe not know that yet.

[Walker88]

I would look to see if the 70 year old man stole that special lucky amulet from another story about the Fitness First branch, because something shined upon him and made his day.

[OneMoreFarang]

I think he should make sure that he doesn't call her for some time and if she calls also tells her he has no time. Then see what happens. Maybe all is fine and maybe they meet again in a month. But maybe her reaction will show more.

 

Remembers: There is no such thing as a free lunch. And I would add: There is also no such thing as a too cheap to be true lunch.

[London Lowf]

32 minutes ago, ed strong said:

Shes on the game without a doubt, which ever way you dress this up, she is getting money for sex.

At B500 a pop? Highly unlikely given that the OP has stated that she is very attractive.

 

[London Lowf]

Jeez - some paranoid guys on here. It's only a girl, not Putin!

 

[Mac Mickmanus]

2 minutes ago, London Lowf said:

Jeez - some paranoid guys on here. It's only a girl, not Putin!

 

But they , you know, had a good time, know what I mean, nudge nudge wink wink , they you know , errrmm , had a bit of the other , they errmm hows your father wink wink , you know 

[1FinickyOne]

Por and mer tell their little daughter - today your are 18, you must go work in the bar... that night she comes home and gives her father 4020 baht... and he looks confused.. who gave you 20 baht and she says... "everyone" 

[tjintx]

7 minutes ago, London Lowf said:

Jeez - some paranoid guys on here. It's only a girl, not Putin!

 

How much should one pay if one did Putin?

Edited January 19, 2023 by tjintx

[yeahbutif]

8 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I think he should make sure that he doesn't call her for some time and if she calls also tells her he has no time. Then see what happens. Maybe all is fine and maybe they meet again in a month. But maybe her reaction will show more.

 

Remembers: There is no such thing as a free lunch. And I would add: There is also no such thing as a too cheap to be true lunch.

Thats what I think thanks will tell him.. don't get something for nothing..

[alexlm]

Good deal.

70 years old

40 years old very attractive? So let's say 30?

 

If I was 41 years older I would keep doing it.

See how it goes.

And use my 41 additional years of knowledge about Thailand "negative tricks to avoid" to think a while (wanted to write "think for a bit", but hey, at 70yo I won't think as fast as now)... and check for the "top 100" well-known red flags...

 

Edited January 19, 2023 by alexlm

[yeahbutif]

3 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

But they , you know, had a good time, know what I mean, nudge nudge wink wink , they you know , errrmm , had a bit of the other , they errmm hows your father wink wink , you know 

I know what you trying to say .but 500 bhat and come back for more.maybe I try shopping as better deal then a bar.lol

[billyo]

The nice Thai lady becomes the red eye monster psycho though if trust is established and then betrayed and if she sees him as a safe papa take care sponsor she will soon be getting the spyware installed on the guy. 

 

I was helping a Thai estate agent friend help a client 40 years old who married a 70 year old Brit divorcee with 3 children by his first falang marriage. He lasted  5 years before sadly passing away. She hit the jackpot nice guy - a home on the Isle of Man , house in Jomtien , condo in Bangkok , bank accounts and shares. He left half to his wife and half to his children. She copped around 450k sterling in total. Better than the lottery !