7 hours ago, Yellowtail said:

He just makes it up as he goes along...

I'd say very plausible 

Bargirls rarely take their boyfriends on holiday, even if they have the money to do so.  The exceptions are the bargirls who travel with Tomboys, for some reason, that is more common.

 

Travel to Koh Larn with the boyfriend is about the most a bargirl will do. Or Bang Saen.

On 10/7/2023 at 10:16 PM, Danderman123 said:

oops. A sponsor of a bargirl I know complained on Facebook yesterday to her: "I know you don't love me, you only want my money". The guy is in his 70's, she in her 40's, but in good shape.

 

Anyway, she got enough money from him to go home for 6 months, but now she is back in Pattaya, and asking when she can see me. I guess she got over him fairly quickly.

You must pay well then.

On 10/26/2023 at 6:08 PM, Danderman123 said:

I don't know a successful bargirl who isn't maintaining a young Thai man. Expensive.

 

Unless they have a lady friend. More expensive.

and you know how many to know if it's a trend or just the two or three that you know?

 

I was monging for decades, but I'd never claim to "know" anything about B Gs as a demographic. I guess some are just psychic.

On 1/2/2024 at 7:19 AM, it is what it is said:

 

would you generalise about all women in your home country based on the behavior of prostitutes there?

 

nothing more boring or ill informed than foreigners who come here, sit in bars, hang out with prostitutes and try to tell others about 'thailand'. these guys have no idea.

Yes I would,

Women behave the same the world over, their genetic programming rules. Thai hookers just don't hide their normal behaviour like western women do.

 

Kipling summed it up rather well.

"Now I aren't no 'and with the ladies, For, takin' 'em all along, You never can say till you've tried 'em, An' then you are like to be wrong. There's times when you'll think that you mightn't, There's times when you'll know that you might; But the things you will learn from the Yellow an' Brown, They'll 'elp you a lot with the White!"

8 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

You must pay well then.

Not really. She sees many customers.

8 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

and you know how many to know if it's a trend or just the two or three that you know?

 

I was monging for decades, but I'd never claim to "know" anything about B Gs as a demographic. I guess some are just psychic.

What part of "I don't know any bargirls who aren't maintaining a Thai man (or Tomboy)" that's controversial?

8 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

What part of "I don't know any bargirls who aren't maintaining a Thai man (or Tomboy)" that's controversial?

Are you still banging on about bar girls having 'secret' Thai boyfriends? 

Sorry to break this to you, but I'd say 90% of blokes who mix with bar girls either know this already, and / or don't give a monkey's. 

Don't tink too mut about it, just enjoy yourself. 

3 minutes ago, CG1 Blue said:

Are you still banging on about bar girls having 'secret' Thai boyfriends? 

Sorry to break this to you, but I'd say 90% of blokes who mix with bar girls either know this already, and / or don't give a monkey's. 

Don't tink too mut about it, just enjoy yourself. 

If you think that 90% of customers know their bargirl has a Thai man, you are mistaken.

 

If so, why do so many lonely guys send money or buy gold for "their" bargirl?

4 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

If you think that 90% of customers know their bargirl has a Thai man, you are mistaken.

 

If so, why do so many lonely guys send money or buy gold for "their" bargirl?

I think there is a big difference between a long term expat's knowledge of bargirls and new visitors!

Yes newbies will fall for the "sick Buffalo" etc but only a very stupid long term expat would/could!

3 minutes ago, scottiejohn said:

I think there is a big difference between a long term expat's knowledge of bargirls and new visitors!

Yes newbies will fall for the "sick Buffalo" etc but only a very stupid long term expat would/could!

I know a bargirl who has an ex-Pat "boyfriend" who gives her 30,000 baht a month. She has a live in Thai boyfriend.

 

She wants to go to the Maldives with me in May. For a month.

3 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

I know a bargirl who has an ex-Pat "boyfriend" who gives her 30,000 baht a month. She has a live in Thai boyfriend.

 

She wants to go to the Maldives with me in May. For a month.

The major falang mug mistake is to send them monthly money and they aren't even in the country so easy to have a thai boyfriend and continue to do sex work

22 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

If you think that 90% of customers know their bargirl has a Thai man, you are mistaken.

 

If so, why do so many lonely guys send money or buy gold for "their" bargirl?

Maybe "their" girl is different! 🙄

this one isn't about bargirls, but their husbands and boyfriends:

 

why are so many Thai men incompetent at social media snd smartphones? Every bargirl I know tells me she had to set up her boyfriend's Facebook account.

On 1/18/2024 at 5:58 PM, Danderman123 said:

I know a bargirl who has an ex-Pat "boyfriend" who gives her 30,000 baht a month. She has a live in Thai boyfriend.

 

She wants to go to the Maldives with me in May. For a month.

I also want to go to the Maldives with you for a month, you're paying right?

44 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I also want to go to the Maldives with you for a month, you're paying right?

nah, I'm not going to the Maldives.

 

No alcohol.

If a bargirl posts a photo of a glass of wine on a restaurant table on Facebook, it means she has a Farang customer. Most bargirls would dread drinking wine in Real Life. So, she will pretend to drink wine to look good on Facebook.

7 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

If a bargirl posts a photo of a glass of wine on a restaurant table on Facebook, it means she has a Farang customer. Most bargirls would dread drinking wine in Real Life. So, she will pretend to drink wine to look good on Facebook.

obviously with a farang, look at the condiments 

22 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

If a bargirl posts a photo of a glass of wine on a restaurant table on Facebook, it means she has a Farang customer. Most bargirls would dread drinking wine in Real Life. So, she will pretend to drink wine to look good on Facebook.

Had a TGF once who DID like red wine - far too much!

One "morning after the night before" I got up leaving her snoring.

 

When she finally surfaced, I put on the playlist I'd made for her:

 

• Lil' ol' wine drinker me
• Red Red Wine
• Drinking Wine, spo-de-oh-de
• Lilac wine
• Back sliders wine
• Two more bottles of wine

I wasn't popular.....

There is a bargirl staying with me temporarily. She is in a relationship with a Thai man, but he's married, so there's a lot of drama. She lives or dies if he calls her or not - no call and she is depressed all day.

 

But, she has a second Thai guy on the hook, so if he calls, she's okay for a while.

 

 

Sometimes I get stuck listening to bargirls talking on the phone with their Thai boyfriends. Which makes me think that hooking up with one of those ladies would be a death worse than fate.

 

First come the questions: where are you going, what are you doing? Basically anything to stop the boyfriend from going to see other

ladies.

 

The whole situation seems unpleasant.

 

As a customer, a bargirl would never yak-yak me, the worst they get is sullen.

 

1 hour ago, Danderman123 said:

Sometimes I get stuck listening to bargirls talking on the phone with their Thai boyfriends.

 

 

   In what way would you be stuck ?

Why couldn't you move somewhere else ?

1 hour ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   In what way would you be stuck ?

Why couldn't you move somewhere else ?

Today I am in a cabin with a Thai lady on a cruise ship off the coast of Brazil.

 

But sometimes they are in my condo, and make calls to their tilac to check on them.

 

Not pleasant.

20 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

Today I am in a cabin with a Thai lady on a cruise ship off the coast of Brazil.

 

But sometimes they are in my condo, and make calls to their tilac to check on them.

 

Not pleasant.

 

  So you bring prostitutes back to your room for paid for sex and you don't like it when they speak to their boyfriend on the phone ?

   I expect that the boyfriend doesn't like the situation either and probably neither does she .

You could rectify the situation by not bringing prostitutes back to your room for paid for sex?

2 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

  So you bring prostitutes back to your room for paid for sex and you don't like it when they speak to their boyfriend on the phone ?

   I expect that the boyfriend doesn't like the situation either and probably neither does she .

You could rectify the situation by not bringing prostitutes back to your room for paid for sex?

I don't mind if a bargirl talks to her family or boyfriend, my comment is how lucky I am that they don't talk to me the way they talk to their boyfriends.

A bargirls I know likes to travel. Since I am the only customer who will travel with her, we have made a few short International trips.

 

But she has a Thai husband *and* a well paying Farangs sponsor, and they wouldn't be thrilled about her travels with me. So, for her first trips, I brought along another bargirl. No worries, they are very comfortable with each other. And they show each other on Facebook.

 

And that's now the problem, the Thai husband suspects them of being romantically involved (which in Thailand is a no-no for ladies).

 

So we may need another strategy.

On 5/7/2023 at 12:40 PM, BarraMarra said:

Fat falangs, old falangs with limbs missing, is ok as long as they have baht.

.... and toilet paper

9 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

A bargirls I know likes to travel. Since I am the only customer who will travel with her, we have made a few short International trips.

 

But she has a Thai husband *and* a well paying Farangs sponsor, and they wouldn't be thrilled about her travels with me. So, for her first trips, I brought along another bargirl. No worries, they are very comfortable with each other. And they show each other on Facebook.

 

And that's now the problem, the Thai husband suspects them of being romantically involved (which in Thailand is a no-no for ladies).

 

So we may need another strategy.

You're writing this as if you believe you're not the third 'Sponsor'.  So wonderfully naive to not realise you are her spare sponsor.

9 hours ago, Kinnock said:

You're writing this as if you believe you're not the third 'Sponsor'.  So wonderfully naive to not realise you are her spare sponsor.

I define a sponsor as someone who sends money for nothing to bargirls. 

 

By your definition, every customer is a "sponsor".

11 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

And that's now the problem, the Thai husband suspects them of being romantically involved (which in Thailand is a no-no for ladies).

why's that a no no? often see ladies with tom boys, or you mean the man can have side girlfriends but the ladies can't have a side anything?