Need some advice

[bignok]

I'm extremely bored with life when not travelling. I have things to do but don't enjoy it. I see people do less than me but seem happy doing next to nothing. They just watch crappy movies and the like. 

 

I can drink with a mate but he's depressing. I can drink with a female friend but she's a nut. I can hang out and talk shares with another but that bores me. Another friend lives far. Others I know are busy. Their lives look boring to me but they seem happy but you never know. A mate told me he's been depressed for 15 years and I couldnt tell.

 

So what the hell should i do? Be a full time nomad? I cant see how that works.

 

Or just watch crap movies like these other morons?

 

I don't know.

 

 

 

 

[freeworld]

Out of a million things to do in life.

 

Maybe some introspective reflection aids in personal growth.

[bignok]

1 minute ago, freeworld said:

Out of a million things to do in life.

 

Maybe some introspective reflection aids in personal growth.

So what do u do?

[bob smith]

i hear ya bignok.

 

fancy a pint sometime?

[FritsSikkink]

Do some (volunteering) work.

Learn (Thai) or something else. 

Sport / exercise.

[bignok]

Just now, bob smith said:

i hear ya bignok.

 

fancy a pint sometime?

Ok

[Lacessit]

Take up a sport. Are your strengths hand-eye co-ordination, or balance?

Buy a scooter. You won't be bored in Thai traffic.

Juggle 2 or 3 GF's, I guarantee life won't be dull.

[bignok]

This guy is good

[bignok]

2 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Take up a sport. Are your strengths hand-eye co-ordination, or balance?

Buy a scooter. You won't be bored in Thai traffic.

Juggle 2 or 3 GF's, I guarantee life won't be dull.

Im there 4 or 5 months.

 

Tennis is my best sport. Bored with it.

[RichardColeman]

26 minutes ago, bignok said:

 

I can drink with a mate but he's depressing. I can drink with a female friend but she's a nut.

Sounds like regular alcohol is breeding depression to me !

[473geo]

Start a relationship with a sexy Isaan girl 

 

You never know what will happen next challenges will just keep on coming

 

It's great fun ????

[bignok]

5 minutes ago, 473geo said:

Start a relationship with a sexy Isaan girl 

 

You never know what will happen next challenges will just keep on coming

 

It's great fun ????

Got 1

[Lucky Bones]

43 minutes ago, bignok said:

I'm extremely bored with life when not travelling. I have things to do but don't enjoy it. I see people do less than me but seem happy doing next to nothing. They just watch crappy movies and the like. 

 

I can drink with a mate but he's depressing. I can drink with a female friend but she's a nut. I can hang out and talk shares with another but that bores me. Another friend lives far. Others I know are busy. Their lives look boring to me but they seem happy but you never know. A mate told me he's been depressed for 15 years and I couldnt tell.

 

So what the hell should i do? Be a full time nomad? I cant see how that works.

 

Or just watch crap movies like these other morons?

 

I don't know.

 

 

 

 

Buy a truck load of mirrors and place strategically around your house/condo.

You will always have someone close that loves you.????????

[stoner]

45 minutes ago, bignok said:

 

So what the hell should i do?

grow up. you sound like a baby with this thread.

[bignok]

Just now, stoner said:

grow up. you sound like a baby with this thread.

Useless advice.

[stoner]

1 minute ago, bignok said:

Useless advice.

useless thread. 

 

only boring people get bored. get a new hobby or cry in private. 

 

[bignok]

Things i like

Lanna food

Lao Beer

Travel

Photography

Exploring new roads

Coffee

Walking up hills for view

My gf

 

Things i dont like

Everything else

 

 

[bignok]

2 minutes ago, stoner said:

useless thread. 

 

only boring people get bored. get a new hobby or cry in private. 

 

Like what? Smoke pot? You sound miserable.

[stoner]

1 minute ago, bignok said:

Like what? Smoke pot? You sound miserable.

am i the one on here crying how bored i am with my life ? 

 

no. you are. 

 

my life is exciting as f. 

[bignok]

Just now, stoner said:

am i the one on here crying how bored i am with my life ? 

 

no. you are. 

 

my life is exciting as f. 

Why so bitter then? Very unfriendly.

[jvs]

3 minutes ago, bignok said:

Things i like

Lanna food

Lao Beer

Travel

Photography

Exploring new roads

Coffee

Walking up hills for view

My gf

 

Things i dont like

Everything else

 

 

Soon you will have a new best friend,with a friend like Bob all of your

troubles will seem nothing.

Sounds like the two of you are made for each other!

 

[Lucky Bones]

Just now, jvs said:

Soon you will have a new best friend,with a friend like Bob all of your

troubles will seem nothing.

Sounds like the two of you are made for each other!

 

Don't forget that Mummy comes as part of the Bob package.????????????

[OneMoreFarang]

Relax

Maybe read a book.

Take a walk through a park or at the beach.

Be comfortable with yourself and your thoughts.

 

If you constantly need something to stimulate you, then you do it wrong. 

[Jacques Clouseau]

I feel you. I've been like you all my life.

I took the nomad path. I know it's a form of escapism but I don't care.

For a year now I've been traveling all over SE Asia, I went to different parts of Thailand, Malaysia and Laos - most of the time hiking in nature.

I travel on the cheap and make the money I need online.

It's not gonna lead me anywhere but that's ok.

Society bores me to death and I know I'm not alone in this.

The meaning crisis in the West has just begun imo.

Soon we'll be legions. Legions of neo dharma bums :))

Edited July 26, 2023 by Jacques Clouseau

[BenStark]

1 hour ago, bignok said:

can drink with a mate but he's depressing. I can drink with a female friend but she's a nut. I can hang out and talk shares with another but that bores me. Another friend lives far.

What happened to the imaginary girlfriend where you work every day on her fathers farm?

[phetphet]

1 hour ago, bob smith said:

i hear ya bignok.

 

fancy a pint sometime?

Why not take the postman along. Seems like a friendly chap.

[Rimmer]

Some baiting bickering posts leading to personal attacks have been removed

[Celsius]

Wrong place to ask as most people on this forum are bored and depressed.

 

You think someone with 20,000 post has a fulfilling life?

[tubby johnson]

Too many good books.

Too many interesting places to travel.

Too many funny, original and smart people to reach out too.

Too many cute ladies in Thailand and the rest of the Far East.

Use your imagination!

 

You come across as mind-numbingly boring and just baiting us with your replies to cure your boredom.

[bignok]

23 minutes ago, BenStark said:

What happened to the imaginary girlfriend where you work every day on her fathers farm?

Dont troll