How common is this?

[transam]

2 minutes ago, PPGuy said:

It must be Sunday.........

I was thinking the same.................????

[OneMoreFarang]

4 hours ago, sirineou said:

15,000 baht a shot? and she still was not happy. I'd say your friend wasn't doing something right.  Have you spoken with him about the birds and the bees?

That reminds me of my friend Frank, who is well known in Bangkok.

He once married a beautiful first-class stewardess - when that was still something exotic maybe 30 years ago. After they married, she told him that she doesn't like sex.

I think he calculated after the divorce that one shot was about 20k USD.

After that he decided only to rent and never buy again. 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, Sqoop said:

So many of the women here be it bar workers, freelance or normal girls try to fleece foreign men. They are clever, starting with small amounts. As soon as they try you must just dump them. 

And many guys try to impress the girls with their generosity.

I remember a girl who I fancied some time ago. She worked in a bar and built a house. I told her that if she would be my gf, I would help her to build that house, like 10k per month.

She told me lots of guys offered her already to pay everything up front to finish that house.

Lots of guys are like that.

And often the girls don't even have to promise anything. They guys just think if they paid all that money, she will love them forever. And then they find out that that assumption was wrong. 

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, Sqoop said:

So many of the women here be it bar workers, freelance or normal girls try to fleece foreign men. They are clever, starting with small amounts. As soon as they try you must just dump them. 

Why mention just here, this is a worldwide female attribute.

[sirineou]

4 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

That reminds me of my friend Frank, who is well known in Bangkok.

He once married a beautiful first-class stewardess - when that was still something exotic maybe 30 years ago. After they married, she told him that she doesn't like sex.

I think he calculated after the divorce that one shot was about 20k USD.

After that he decided only to rent and never buy again. 

There is a case to be made for renting But did your friend clarified if she did not like sex. or she did not like sex with him? I mean after having joined the first class mile high club everything else......well lets  just say , is at best business class ????

[KhunLA]

13 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Why mention just here, this is a worldwide female attribute.

yep ... worldwide indeed.

 

Reading the forum, and guessing most are here in TH, because they got screwed over in the west/homeland.  

 

That they didn't learn from those mistakes is a bit telling.  BUT ... Blame it on Thai woman.  Nothing is ever my fault either  ... that's my story, and I'm stickin' to it.

Edited August 6, 2023 by KhunLA

[Reginald Prewster]

5 hours ago, jaideedave said:

Yes , opening beauty salons is a good one followed by laundromats.Coffee kiosks are also on the list

Nail studios. You forgot the nail studios. That equipment is already 10-15 years old and get handed around as needed.

Every time when a new Farang is willing to invest in a business to get the whore out of her misery.. 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 minute ago, Reginald Prewster said:

Every time when a new Farang is willing to invest in a business to get the whore out of her misery.. 

If it makes him happy - why not?

 

It's like some people like gambling. They know it's likely they will lose money. But they still do it and enjoy it.

Everybody does it the way he like it - even if it doesn't make any sense. 

 

 

[brianthainess]

8 hours ago, bignok said:

My friend

Yeh if you say so.

[bignok]

1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said:

That reminds me of my friend Frank, who is well known in Bangkok.

He once married a beautiful first-class stewardess - when that was still something exotic maybe 30 years ago. After they married, she told him that she doesn't like sex.

I think he calculated after the divorce that one shot was about 20k USD.

After that he decided only to rent and never buy again. 

Paeng mahk mahk

[NextG]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Why mention just here, this is a worldwide female attribute.

Not at all true. You’d be surprised at the amount of women supporting men. Many women are happy enough to find someone to share the burden and in so many cases end up paying for everything. 
Most here have only experienced the other side of the coin and imagine that it’s the norm. But it’s really… their norm. Thai women who were interested in me here, were the first to buy/bring gifts. 
Whatever works. You seem to have it covered. 
Not something that I could do. 

 

Edited August 6, 2023 by NextG

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, NextG said:

Thai women who were interested in me here, were the first to buy/bring gifts. 

Was that like the Nigerian scam:

I have this gift for you, but first you have to pay the import tax.

Or did they invest a little to get a big return?

 

Or in other words: Why would a reasonable pretty, young and smart women give any guy a gift to build up a relationship? 

[NextG]

2 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Was that like the Nigerian scam:

I have this gift for you, but first you have to pay the import tax.

Or did they invest a little to get a big return?

 

Or in other words: Why would a reasonable pretty, young and smart women give any guy a gift to build up a relationship? 

Actually she spotted me on a bus and followed me home. Left a teddy bear outside my place. Security told me she waited outside for me to wake up for quite a while. 
Told me she was 25; turned out to be 17. I had a girlfriend anyway and told her so. Didn’t deter her. We actually did normal things together; eating and talking. Though from time to time I had to remind her that I had a girlfriend. She might get mad for a minute and then calm down. She bought me lots of things. You really have no idea what goes on. 

[NextG]

9 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Was that like the Nigerian scam:

I have this gift for you, but first you have to pay the import tax.

Or did they invest a little to get a big return?

 

Or in other words: Why would a reasonable pretty, young and smart women give any guy a gift to build up a relationship? 

Because they aren’t all prostitutes…

[OneMoreFarang]

16 minutes ago, NextG said:

Actually she spotted me on a bus and followed me home. Left a teddy bear outside my place. Security told me she waited outside for me to wake up for quite a while. 
Told me she was 25; turned out to be 17. I had a girlfriend anyway and told her so. Didn’t deter her. We actually did normal things together; eating and talking. Though from time to time I had to remind her that I had a girlfriend. She might get mad for a minute and then calm down. She bought me lots of things. You really have no idea what goes on. 

So you had a girlfriend and at the same time you went out with a 17 yo girl who had a crush on you. And "from time to time I had to remind her that I had a girlfriend".

And you are proud that you did that and post it here to show what an attractive guy you are.

Yeah, sure. 

[NextG]

6 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

So you had a girlfriend and at the same time you went out with a 17 yo girl who had a crush on you. And "from time to time I had to remind her that I had a girlfriend".

And you are proud that you did that and post it here to show what an attractive guy you are.

Yeah, sure. 

Nothing wrong with a friend with whom to eat and talk when I was alone on a trip. Did it all the time as a backpacker. Completely normal when alone. When it came to a certain time, I would state that I had to leave to call my girlfriend(European). All above board. Told her from the beginning. I had no idea that she was 17 at the time. She even showed me her ID card. Her German ‘boyfriend’ called me on a later trip, as he found my number in her phone under another name. I told him all was okay and that I was just a friend. He sent me a blow-up of her ID card, where she had doctored the years to make it look as if she was 25. 
As I intimated, it’s obviously another world….
 

[jaideedave]

3 hours ago, Reginald Prewster said:

Nail studios. You forgot the nail studios. That equipment is already 10-15 years old and get handed around as needed.

Every time when a new Farang is willing to invest in a business to get the whore out of her misery.. 

yes..turn key revolving door 555

[NextG]

14 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

So you had a girlfriend and at the same time you went out with a 17 yo girl who had a crush on you. And "from time to time I had to remind her that I had a girlfriend".

And you are proud that you did that and post it here to show what an attractive guy you are.

Yeah, sure. 

Sometimes during a meal, I would feel that the conversation was moving in a direction of more than friends. So I had to remind before it drifted into dangerous territory. I was only there for eight days. I’ve not seen anyone cry as much when I was about to leave. I can still see her now…
Was actually there for a business meeting from which I ran away because my potential business partner also seemed to think a relationship was on the cards. Ran away only to be followed by a Thai girl the same day ☺️ I can laugh now. 

[HandsomeTallFarang]

4 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

And many guys try to impress the girls with their generosity.

I remember a girl who I fancied some time ago. She worked in a bar and built a house. I told her that if she would be my gf, I would help her to build that house, like 10k per month.

She told me lots of guys offered her already to pay everything up front to finish that house.

Lots of guys are like that.

And often the girls don't even have to promise anything. They guys just think if they paid all that money, she will love them forever. And then they find out that that assumption was wrong. 

That's because those guys were unattractive.

So many delusional guys who think that women don't care about looks and will gladly stay with a fat old man because of his "heart" ????

 

 

[OneMoreFarang]

49 minutes ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

That's because those guys were unattractive.

So many delusional guys who think that women don't care about looks and will gladly stay with a fat old man because of his "heart" ????

Some do.

I remember the "boyfriend" of a friend of my 1st gf in Thailand. He was old and all his life he worked in a glass factory. His face looked like it had 100 big bubbles. But it seems she didn't care. 

[bignok]

13 hours ago, HandsomeTallFarang said:

That's because those guys were unattractive.

So many delusional guys who think that women don't care about looks and will gladly stay with a fat old man because of his "heart" ????

 

 

Post a photo of yourself

[bignok]

12 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Some do.

I remember the "boyfriend" of a friend of my 1st gf in Thailand. He was old and all his life he worked in a glass factory. His face looked like it had 100 big bubbles. But it seems she didn't care. 

Seen heaps of ugly western guys with ok western women. They care about money.

[flexomike]

On 8/6/2023 at 7:23 AM, bignok said:

He lived in Thailand for 10 years before.

some people just never learn

 

[bignok]

Well he gave her 10k more. Turned up with kid. No sex. Then paid 2700 to other woman.

[transam]

44 minutes ago, bignok said:

Well he gave her 10k more. Turned up with kid. No sex. Then paid 2700 to other woman.

Does your "friend" know you are taking the p_ss out of him on an Internet forum....?   ????

[bignok]

2 hours ago, transam said:

Does your "friend" know you are taking the p_ss out of him on an Internet forum....?   ????

No. No names are used. He isnt on here.

[LukKrueng]

On 8/6/2023 at 5:00 AM, bignok said:

My friend spent 120,000

 

i baht. Sent to woman in Pattaya. They had sex 8 times.

 

Told him forget it. She used her kids as emotional blackmail.

 

Now over.

 

I told him go to other cities. He doesnt listen.

That's 15k per time. Not a bad price if she was a Virgin

[digger70]

Pretty common , Not bad, cheap for 8 x in western views . Move on ,Next,

[Grusa]

On 8/6/2023 at 7:26 AM, OneMoreFarang said:

It seems many guys do that to themselves. The women just inspire them a little.

 

Like: I don't want to work in this horrible place.

Darling, no problem, I will help you. I also don't want that you work here.

But what should I do? I have no money.

No problem darling, you are smart, you can run a business.

But I have no money.

No problem darling, I pay for the business...

 

And then the guy feels like the knight in shining armor. Sex was never the most important thing he wanted.

 

Sex in that suit is impossible!

[HandsomeTallFarang]

13 hours ago, bignok said:

Post a photo of yourself

Oh so you're barking orders now? I don't have to do anything, bud.

 

Looks like I hit a nerve with the whole 'unattractive' comment, gotta be no other reason for this kind of response ????