Dont know what to do, start over or fix it ?

[bignok]

On 8/25/2023 at 5:51 PM, Jelli said:

My wife has been tested a few times and not by my choice. Thus far she (we) soldier on together. Happily. Simple, comfortable urban life for now and we explore the future.

 

My wife is absolutely unique even for the best nature of lovely Thai women.

 

In fifteen years she is always genuinely happy and living in the moment, impossible to anger, full of love and kindness and endlessly forgiving of my many faults. An absolute gem of a human being. She was pretty cute when I met her as well and not unattractive at 48. Only gained about 3kg in that time as well.

 

I'd absolutely sworn off marriage. Met her at 49 and never dated another woman. We were inseparable.

49 is 10 years past her prime.

[Hummin]

6 minutes ago, bignok said:

49 is 10 years past her prime.

how many years past your prime are you? 

 

Mens prime time is 30-40 for stability and being a good productive partner, even some of us still like to think we are gods gifts to woman! (I am of course, )

[retarius]

Thank you for sharing your story, heartbreaking. I think you should look for someone else, then leave her if you can afford it. Even paying for a bit of affection is better than not having any at all.

[NextG]

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Me neither, but never seen one display honour, duty, loyalty, honesty ..... or gratitude for that matter. Which are attributes I look for in friends.

They exist ????

[Jelli]

13 minutes ago, bignok said:

49 is 10 years past her prime.

Actually, 29 years past her prime. What is your insipid point? You're lost Peter Pan.

[bignok]

4 minutes ago, Jelli said:

Actually, 29 years past her prime. What is your insipid point? You're lost Peter Pan.

Women prime is 30s. 

[bignok]

13 minutes ago, Hummin said:

how many years past your prime are you? 

 

Mens prime time is 30-40 for stability and being a good productive partner, even some of us still like to think we are gods gifts to woman! (I am of course, )

Fitter now than 10 years ago.

[Hummin]

2 minutes ago, bignok said:

Fitter now than 10 years ago.

That doesnt prove anything, if you never reached your real potential when you had the chance! 

[Hummin]

Just now, Hummin said:

That doesnt prove anything, if you never reached your real potential when you had the chance! 

not to forget closer to serious health problems and final end station. 

[bignok]

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

That doesnt prove anything, if you never reached your real potential when you had the chance! 

Which olympic medals did you win?

[Hummin]

2 minutes ago, bignok said:

Which olympic medals did you win?

hehe, travelled the world, and my best 8. in world championship. Enough to feel satisfied, and I did my best!

[bignok]

Former tennis player

[bignok]

Life = today.

 

Only way to live. 

[Hummin]

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

hehe, travelled the world, and my best 8. in world championship. Enough to feel satisfied, and I did my best!

I also placed 6. in another WC, but do not reckon that one because of to small and little known dicipline. Anyway, I worked hard all my life to achieve my goals, and Im satisfied, and still fit enough compared to any age. But, Im also getting older, and I reckonize that, and do not chase young women because I can, Im happy with my wife and the relationship we have and built for soon 8 years. 

[bignok]

Just now, Hummin said:

I also placed 6. in another WC, but do not reckon that one because of to small and little known dicipline. Anyway, I worked hard all my life to achieve my goals, and Im satisfied, and still fit enough compared to any age. But, Im also getting older, and I reckonize that, and do not chase young women because I can, Im happy with my wife and the relationship we have and built for soon 8 years. 

So how many golf and tennis majors did you win?

[Hummin]

2 minutes ago, bignok said:

Life = today.

 

Only way to live. 

That I can agree on, but I also prepare for tomorow as well enjoy the day today, and not forget what you learned in past time. if you manage a healthy balance with those three, it can be better than ever. 

[Hummin]

2 minutes ago, bignok said:

So how many golf and tennis majors did you win?

you are are funny member of AN, one of the most funny actually. 

[bignok]

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

you are are funny member of AN, one of the most funny actually. 

My gf and I are both a bit weird.

[NextG]

23 minutes ago, bignok said:

So how many golf and tennis majors did you win?

Why so childish? It’s clear that you haven’t achieved much in your life. Is that why you try to bring others down to your level? Set yourself higher standards. 

[bignok]

4 minutes ago, NextG said:

Why so childish? It’s clear that you haven’t achieved much in your life. Is that why you try to bring others down to your level? Set yourself higher standards. 

It's clear you have zero sense of humour and a bore. 

[bignok]

27 minutes ago, Hummin said:

you are are funny member of AN, one of the most funny actually. 

You are top 5 worth reading. Most on here are bitter and miserable. 

[BritManToo]

8 minutes ago, NextG said:

Why so childish? It’s clear that you haven’t achieved much in your life. Is that why you try to bring others down to your level? Set yourself higher standards. 

Almost nobody achieves anything in their life.

I was born with nothing, and I still have most of it left!

[Hummin]

12 minutes ago, bignok said:

You are top 5 worth reading. Most on here are bitter and miserable. 

Thank you, I will take to my hearth. 

 

Luv you to

[bignok]

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Almost nobody achieves anything in their life.

I was born with nothing, and I still have most of it left!

Born naked, currently naked.

[NextG]

4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Almost nobody achieves anything in their life.

I was born with nothing, and I still have most of it left!

Be that as it may, there was no need for him to try to mock someone who made the effort to do his best. 
Too many silly Trolls around here. 

[bignok]

2 minutes ago, NextG said:

Be that as it may, there was no need for him to try to mock someone who made the effort to do his best. 
Too many silly Trolls around here. 

You have anger issues. It's a forum. People joke on a forum.

[Hummin]

1 hour ago, bignok said:

My wife and I are both a bit weird.

Me and my wife are not A4 either, so it helps to be a bit wierd in this life! 

Edited August 27, 2023 by Hummin

[bignok]

https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/pere.12095

 

Key ingredient

[NextG]

2 hours ago, NextG said:

Be that as it may, there was no need for him to try to mock someone who made the effort to do his best. 
Too many silly Trolls around here. 

He’s on ignore anyway for one reason or another… I only catch his posts when I’m not signed in or someone quotes him. Too many idiotic posts disguised as ‘humour’. 

[Fat is a type of crazy]

6 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Sorry, women aren't 'friend material' IMHO.

I expect friends to believe in duty, honesty, honour, loyalty ...... which aren't female attributes.

Get a dog. Then you can be in charge and demand all of the above.