Catch me up here. 

 

Has anyone determined for sure that he was kissing actual female bargirls...  No Adams apple?

 

 

On 8/31/2023 at 3:37 PM, FruitPudding said:

100 baht for what??

 

A 'friend' told me that is the bar fine for using the sofa in the back room. 

On 8/31/2023 at 12:34 PM, Goat said:

A business associate called me last week. Said he had a mate coming to Thailand for the first time and asked me to take him out and show him around.

So i met the bloke and quickly realised that he didnt have the looks or game/personality/hygiene/style to pick up real girls.

So i thought we may as well head straight for the gogos.

 

After a couple of gogos he told me they were too noisy for him and he would prefer to just go to the beer bars he saw, which bore me, but I thought up to him.

So I know if you buy these girls drinks they will usually give you a bit of a squirrel grip and allow you to fondle and grope them.

Problem with this bloke is he started trying, and sometimes successfully, to start kissing them toungue down the throat style, much to the amusement and disgust of everyone else in the bars, mongers and hookers included.

It wasnt just for a few seconds, he would go on and on for as long as he could like a teenager. I think a few of the girls who didnt reject him thought it would lead to a bar fine, but it never did.

 

I mentioned a few things to try and put him off, like she had just done a blow bang with a van full of Indians etc, but there was no stopping this bloke.

He was a bit tight with buying drinks and tipping which made it worse. 

 

I know these girls do a lot worse, but that is in the rooms.

Is it just me, or is this a bit off?

I told his mate about him, who thought it was very funny.

It depends what go-go bars you go to.. 

Some girls enjoy passionate kissing.. Some not like.. 

18 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Dunno about that, the CM girls used to put my hand on their leg, then put a cushion on top.

Then in Vietnam, bars in the afternoon (only customer) I'd sit outside, then they'd take me inside and shut the door.

Then in Cambodia, even in full bars, they'd often put my hand inside their tops, or just take their tops off.

 

NOTE: I didn't ever touch them, they moved my hands on them.

I don't have much experience of Gogo's, went a couple of times but it didn't do anything for me.

Never went to Vietnam or Cambodia so can't speak from experience.

In my experience, a guy that went too far with a dancer in a Nana Gogo had about 10 Thai guys beating the <deleted> out of him and every other customer was cheering THEM on.

 

Of course, the girls want to get a bar fine, so do some moves to encourage the customer to take them out of the bar, but it's not full on public sex or anything like that.

13 hours ago, murraynz said:

It depends what go-go bars you go to.. 

Some girls enjoy passionate kissing.. Some not like.. 

I don't think some drunk guy manhandling them qualifies as "passionate". Some are desperate enough to put up with bad behaviour, some are not.

On 8/31/2023 at 7:52 PM, JensenZ said:

Obviously each situation is different. In some jurisdictions prostitutes don't give blow jobs without condoms, so that's one less consideration LOL.

 

In places like New Zealand it is a taxable occupation and quite professional. I don't think a girl would be tongue kissing her clients, but I'm not sure. It probably depends on how well she knows the customer and if she likes them or not.

In NZ I doubt any "professional" does anything without a condom.

 

Normally a "professional" won't kiss a client, but as you say if she knows them as a regular they may do so. Depends on her though, and IMO any customer trying without their permission would be ejected pretty quickly.

Reminds me of the Eagles, Doolin' Dalton.

"4 men ride out and only 3 ride back".

Creative.????????

DITY was common here in the 90's, in some bars.

So lame action these days.

Cue: curtain bars and gentlemens club.

16 hours ago, murraynz said:

It depends what go-go bars you go to.. 

Some girls enjoy passionate kissing.. Some not like.. 

Pay/tip them well and most will be up for it, even if they don't enjoy it much!  All in a night's work.

18 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

Pay/tip them well and most will be up for it, even if they don't enjoy it much!  All in a night's work.

You reckon it would be worth the money? IMO it would be like kissing a dead fish for all the passion in it.

If one wants a kisser get a permanent GF.

On 8/31/2023 at 2:24 PM, Neeranam said:

Oh, so it was a personal attack. Fair enough. 

 

As you know, I've lived here a long time(most of my life) and listen to Thai people. You are not going to hear the truth from bar girls. I watch Thai movies, follow Facebook and other social media etc. 

 

Farang have a reputation for not showering regularly and to be honest, it is true in my case. Just once a day, although I have a swim maybe 4 times a day. 

 

 

I hope that swim in in the sea, because you are supposed to take a shower before getting into the pool, ya filthy foreigner ???? 

17 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

You reckon it would be worth the money? IMO it would be like kissing a dead fish for all the passion in it.

If one wants a kisser get a permanent GF.

How would you know? Was that your experience?

On 8/31/2023 at 1:40 PM, Neeranam said:

I saw a Western man holding hands with a bar girl in Market Village Hua Hin yesterday.

How could you know that she is a bar girl?   They have bar girls working in Market Village?

On 8/31/2023 at 1:44 PM, thaibeachlovers said:

If referring to outside bars that's BS IMO. The girls sit on the inside of the bar and the customers on the outside.

There are plenty of bars where the girls mingle with the customers, they do not all remain behind the bar!

6 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said:

There are plenty of bars where the girls mingle with the customers, they do not all remain behind the bar!

In MY experience they do not. Their job is to attract customers, sell them drinks and play games or chat with them. It's not to "mingle" with them. If they want to "mingle" they will get bar fined.

I am referring to normal Thai outside bar beers of course, not some lounge bar like I used to visit in Cyprus where there is no comparison to what goes on in LOS.

Even after they are bar fined they don't like to sit at their bar and one has to take them elsewhere.

1 minute ago, thaibeachlovers said:

In MY experience they do not. Their job is to attract customers, sell them drinks and play games or chat with them. It's not to "mingle" with them. If they want to "mingle" they will get bar fined.

I am referring to normal Thai outside bar beers of course, not some lounge bar like I used to visit in Cyprus where there is no comparison to what goes on in LOS.

Even after they are bar fined they don't like to sit at their bar and one has to take them elsewhere.

Maybe it's you, then!

3 hours ago, Shop mak said:

DITY was common here in the 90's, in some bars.

So lame action these days.

Cue: curtain bars and gentlemens club.

Google tells me that DITY is someone that has a brain but does not use it.

As that does not seem to be relevant to your post, perhaps you can explain what DITY means.

2 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

14 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said:

There are plenty of bars where the girls mingle with the customers, they do not all remain behind the bar!

In MY experience they do not.

There are plenty of bars where the girls mingle with the customers, they do not all remain behind the bar!

Just now, thaibeachlovers said:

Google tells me that DITY is someone that has a brain but does not use it.

As that does not seem to be relevant to your post, perhaps you can explain what DITY means.

Obviously, it was a typoed DATY.  Eating "count", if you like, without the "o".

1 minute ago, Liverpool Lou said:

Maybe it's you, then!

Observation over hundreds of hours people watching in Thai outside bars. Perhaps you can support your theory of BGs "mingling" with the customers instead of doing their jobs then.

Bar girls are there to earn a profit for the bar owner, not to have a social life without a bar fine.

2 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said:

Obviously, it was a typoed DATY.  Eating "count", if you like, without the "o".

Thank you for that. There was supposedly one such upstairs bar on Patpong, but not my scene so I never visited it. Apparently it was quite dark and the girls did it right there in the big room where everyone could see.

45 minutes ago, NextG said:

I hope that swim in in the sea, because you are supposed to take a shower before getting into the pool, ya filthy foreigner ???? 

No, I have a personal pool. Well my wife uses it usually in the hot season.

3 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Observation over hundreds of hours people watching in Thai outside bars. Perhaps you can support your theory of BGs "mingling" with the customers instead of doing their jobs then.

Bar girls are there to earn a profit for the bar owner, not to have a social life without a bar fine.

Take a trip down Nana, Soi4 or Soi 22!   Their jobs are to interact with the 'kin customers by getting drinks!

1 minute ago, Neeranam said:

No, I have a personal pool. Well my wife uses it usually in the hot season.

Take that shower!

1 minute ago, NextG said:

Take that shower!

Why?

On 8/31/2023 at 2:32 PM, Neeranam said:

I've never used a prostitute outside Thailand. Are you allowed to kiss them there, or would you want to? 

I would imagine you could do all sorts if you pay/ask.....????

3 minutes ago, sungod said:

I would imagine you could do all sorts if you pay/ask.....????

I meant, is it normal?

Just now, Neeranam said:

I meant, is it normal?

Define 'normal'

8 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said:

Take a trip down Nana, Soi4 or Soi 22!   Their jobs are to interact with the 'kin customers by getting drinks!

What sort of outside bar are you talking about? I never saw a bar beer on Soi 4. What sort of bars are on Soi 22?

Do I need to repeat that I'm talking about bar beers?

Nana?

On 8/31/2023 at 12:34 PM, Goat said:

A business associate called me last week. Said he had a mate coming to Thailand for the first time and asked me to take him out and show him around.

So i met the bloke and quickly realised that he didnt have the looks or game/personality/hygiene/style to pick up real girls.

So i thought we may as well head straight for the gogos.

 

After a couple of gogos he told me they were too noisy for him and he would prefer to just go to the beer bars he saw, which bore me, but I thought up to him.

So I know if you buy these girls drinks they will usually give you a bit of a squirrel grip and allow you to fondle and grope them.

Problem with this bloke is he started trying, and sometimes successfully, to start kissing them toungue down the throat style, much to the amusement and disgust of everyone else in the bars, mongers and hookers included.

It wasnt just for a few seconds, he would go on and on for as long as he could like a teenager. I think a few of the girls who didnt reject him thought it would lead to a bar fine, but it never did.

 

I mentioned a few things to try and put him off, like she had just done a blow bang with a van full of Indians etc, but there was no stopping this bloke.

He was a bit tight with buying drinks and tipping which made it worse. 

 

I know these girls do a lot worse, but that is in the rooms.

Is it just me, or is this a bit off?

I told his mate about him, who thought it was very funny.

Some of the girls take it from behind to mouth. Met a guy in a bar long time ago, and his game was to find girls who did that. Some sick bastards out there, F sake disgusting