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Rape in Thailand makes no sense!

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On 2/22/2024 at 12:30 PM, worgeordie said:

Not just Thailand ,it makes no sense anywhere in the World, and they say

Rape is not about sex so much, but about power over a woman , 

 

regards worgeordie

I used to say that most rapists are wee unattractive, overweight facial haired guys but facial hair is fashionable now. I would think that rape is very much about sex, rapists are mostly just how I described them, but I also have to say skint.

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21 hours ago, ezzra said:

Now days 500 baht will be enough to masterbate, on the other hand it shows that you don't patron those

girls if you quote such amounts...

I don't think anyone seriously quotes 500Bt for full sex.

3 minutes ago, NoshowJones said:

I don't think anyone seriously quotes 500Bt for full sex.

Listen, when you down on your luck and need money LIKE NOW for food or drugs, people are known to

be accept even less...

3 minutes ago, ezzra said:

Listen, when you down on your luck and need money LIKE NOW for food or drugs, people are known to

be accept even less...

Did I not say something like that?

4 hours ago, Parker2100 said:

 

The common answer is that Rape is not about sex.  It is about violence & domination.

 

Rape has been committed by young, handsome, men also.

 

 

I doubt that, unless the girl was leading him on and then refused him. All my life I have seen photo's of men convicted of the rape or murder of young girls in the press and there have certainly been no Elvis or Ricky Nelson lookalikes.

Well, since 1 January, the minimum wage in Bangkok is 360 baht A DAY. You used to could find older women for ฿100 on Phahurat Road. I don't live in Bangkok now and don't have any idea what current prices are, but girls from the Thermae used to ask for ฿1,000 for a short time. If you're making 400-500 baht a day that's going to look like $100 does to me. Besides, I've met too many guys (in Thailand) who claim, "I've never paid for it."

 

I understand most rapists are exerting their power over the women. For them it's not about sex. They don't even think about paying for it.

Real forcible rape (resisted by the woman to the best of her ability) is rare. Rape nowadays is mostly about extorting men.

On 2/22/2024 at 5:20 AM, VinnieK said:

Prostitution is not as widespread as many ppl think

Its actually more widespread than most people think.  It is estimated that only 10% of 'the business' in all its forms, is aimed at foreigners.

I've been raped a couple of times in Bangkok ...

 

one bar I went into for the first time charged me 120 baht for a small bottle .....     sure I was angry ... never go back again

 

 

36 minutes ago, MangoKorat said:

Its actually more widespread than most people think.  It is estimated that only 10% of 'the business' in all its forms, is aimed at foreigners.

Would you care to share a few tips then. I'm sure even if it's not aimed at me they will welcome my custom.

 

Because much to my dismay I find Thailand to be a particularly "clean" country. Outside BKK, Pattaya, Phuket and the odd bordertown, nothing!

No tips but a few facts:

 

There is a Thai Gogo area in Bangkok (been once with a friend who knew it - never found it since).

 

Ever heard of a Thai Cafe? Real beauties in there but you wouldn't believe the prices.  Some girls get 'set up' in flats for a while until their 'customer' tires of them and moves on. Some are bought new cars!

 

There are literally scores of entire hotels or floors of in various areas of Bangkok - notably Ratchada, where  girls rent a room for the purpose of 'work'.

 

There are hundreds of 'massages', cafe's and gentlemen's clubs in areas where foreigners never go.

 

Many 'discos' and 'bars' in Thai areas are largely dedicated to 'freelance' girls.  At first glance you'd think they are just disco's but look a little closer and you'll notice a high proportion of middle aged Thai guys with much younger Thai girls.  Its also quite normal for 'normal' bars and discos to be frequented by girls who 'will' for a price, you just have to know who to ask - we are unlikely to.

 

Example: I frequent a popular bar in my 'home' city quite often, I have a few friends (Thai) that go there whom I play pool with. The place has a bar, restaurant and a disco and has hostesses that 'mostly' don't 'go out'.  As per most Thai style clubs - the locals have no problem mixing with the hostesses.

 

A few months ago, between pool games I'd been watching a hostess try to get a few more drinks out of a Thai guy. The guy was known to my friends and apparently was a local businessman. He'd been sat with this girl for a couple of hours but the night was coming to a close and he clearly thought he'd bought enough 'lady drinks' for the hostess and was looking around to see what was available for a takeaway.  The disco side was almost ready to close and youngsters were starting to exit through the bar area. Two very nice young Thai girls (I'd say 20-23) came out of the disco and walked past this guy's table on their way out but no words were exchanged.

 

The Thai guy immediately called the manager over and had a 'quiet word', pointing to the two girls that just left.  The manager set off after them and returned with them after a minute or so - clearly introducing them to the Thai guy.  A few words were spoken back and forth, some shaking of heads followed by nodding and then one of the girls wrote something on a paper (clearly a phone number) and handed it to the guy.  More words and the girl then pointed to her friend, the guy nodded and the friend also gave him her number. I wonder what was happening there????

 

Korat probably has more 'massage' parlours per square km than any other city in Thailand - mostly frequented by Thai's. Some won't even let foreigners in - well not white ones anyway.

 

Ever been driving late at night in the countryside and wondered what those twinkling fairly lights were on that solitary building?  According to an ex: Fairy lights and light inside = restaurant/fairly lights and dark inside = knocking shop.

 

Then there's the girls that 'work' on various Thai language only social media sites.

 

I'm listing but a few of the various 'attractions' available in Thailand but the list is not exhaustive.

 

Its everywhere, we just don't see it.

 

One thing though, in almost all cases the places aimed at Thai guys are much more expensive than those serving foreigners. The 500 baht mentioned in the OP wouldn't even buy you a 'handshake'.

 

If its the bargain basement you're looking for - that used to be the street walkers down the side of Lumpini Park. Don't know if they're still there or not.

 

Disclaimer:  All the above information has been provided by a friend, I of course have no direct knowledge of any of it.

On 2/22/2024 at 6:06 PM, CanadaSam said:

With girls standing around, apparently for as little as 500 baht for sex, WHY would anybody resort to rape?

 

Especially if they are driving around, on motorcycles (reported recently), obviously they can afford the 500 baht?

 

I don't think there is anywhere in the world where sex is available so easily, for so little, so WHY risk your life in jail, instead of spending so little to satisfy yourself?

 

Makes no sense to me!

I said to a bar owner in Jomtiem, lots of girls but no customers, every bar same, what do the girls do after the bar closes. 

She said they go to the beach and stand there and locals

pick them up for 200, so no need for rape at all. 

On 2/23/2024 at 7:16 AM, geisha said:

Good lord, if you don’t know the difference between normal sex and rape there must be something wrong with you ! 

Have you tried both then?

On 2/23/2024 at 1:12 PM, NoshowJones said:

I doubt that, unless the girl was leading him on and then refused him. All my life I have seen photo's of men convicted of the rape or murder of young girls in the press and there have certainly been no Elvis or Ricky Nelson lookalikes.

 

Just off the top of my head:  Ted Bundy

 

 

2 minutes ago, Parker2100 said:

 

Just off the top of my head:  Ted Bundy

 

 

Who??

Answer is simpler than you can think: ssx is a thing, rape is literally another thing.

 

 

Anyway, I would be very happy if you could share with us the 500 baht lady's number.

On 2/22/2024 at 6:06 PM, CanadaSam said:

With girls standing around, apparently for as little as 500 baht for sex, WHY would anybody resort to rape?

 

Especially if they are driving around, on motorcycles (reported recently), obviously they can afford the 500 baht?

 

I don't think there is anywhere in the world where sex is available so easily, for so little, so WHY risk your life in jail, instead of spending so little to satisfy yourself?

 

Makes no sense to me!

Rape is not usually about sex. Try doing some research on the subject.

Detaching this from "Farang Financials". For a lot of Thai Males, 500 BHT equals a days wages. Therefore, there are more "Thai Rapists" than "Farang Rapists" in Thailand.

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