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How loyal and trustworthy are attractive Thai girls aged 18 to 32?

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40 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

find another girl ASAP to get over this one. 

fortunately, thailand is the land of plenty. so it's not a major issue.

you just need a bit of resilience. 

 

If you mourn the loss of a fantasy, because after all you had an image of her that did not correspond to reality, it was fantasy, you are mourning over losing something you never had. It's incredible this happens at all.

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38 minutes ago, MangoKorat said:

Where did I say she's a slut?

 

I just think she's kidding herself in claiming she's different to freelancer - she sleeps with them and as far as I know, they've all given her money.

 

There's nothing at all wrong in having multiple partners - I do it.  But I don't get upset if they are also seeing someone else.  This girl was actually seething that her ex invited her to discuss getting back together and she learned that he'd been seeing someone else.  They broke up 8 months ago!! I asked her if she would have stayed faithfull to him if they had got back together - no.  That's normal in your book is it?

 

Its also not about her being horny - she told me she's only ever had one orgasm.  You didn't talk to her buddy - I did and this girl has a slate loose.

 

This girl is a liar, plan and simple. She is lying to all these guys. Very obviously she has no integrity.

 

Effectively she is useless, except for one thing.

36 minutes ago, Hummin said:

The best thing is to take a brake and reflect about what went wrong. What is the rush to do the same mistake over and over again and again? 

 

I have a few people I frequently socializing with, and they jump from whan runaway train to another and never manage to understand what they doing wrong, choosing the same type of women again and again

Yes, you are correct.

Pat yourself on the back for acquiring some wisdom.

 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

This girl is a liar, plan and simple. She is lying to all these guys. Very obviously she has no integrity.

If all she was doing was dating multiple guys, then up to her. I would be a hypocrite if I thought otherwise.

 

I've been talking to this girl for a while and there's far more to the story.  She decided not to see one guy again because he has kids and according to her, he pays more attention to his kids than to her - he'd only dated her twice!!! Apparently his phone was busy when she tried to call - he was talking to his kid. She thinks he should have ended that call and called her back immediately. Head Case!!!

 

She openly says that she has to be the most important thing in these guys lives yet she's sleeping with several men and tells them she doesn't want a relationship - makes no sense to me at all. 

 

She's not working, just finished uni and doesn't want a job.  I think that she's quite happy receiving 'taxi money' from these men but doesn't want to admit that she's a freelancer in reality.

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2 hours ago, MangoKorat said:

If all she was doing was dating multiple guys, then up to her. I would be a hypocrite if I thought otherwise.

 

I've been talking to this girl for a while and there's far more to the story.  She decided not to see one guy again because he has kids and according to her, he pays more attention to his kids than to her - he'd only dated her twice!!! Apparently his phone was busy when she tried to call - he was talking to his kid. She thinks he should have ended that call and called her back immediately. Head Case!!!

 

She openly says that she has to be the most important thing in these guys lives yet she's sleeping with several men and tells them she doesn't want a relationship - makes no sense to me at all. 

 

She's not working, just finished uni and doesn't want a job.  I think that she's quite happy receiving 'taxi money' from these men but doesn't want to admit that she's a freelancer in reality.

 

Of course she's not working, she's probably making 60K a month defrauding this carousel of men she lies to.

 

It's hard for guys with kids. If you pay private school the Thai gf will demand the same amount for her (Or you support ex wife more than me??)

 

Imagine this were your girlfriend. It would be hell.

On 10/14/2024 at 9:29 PM, save the frogs said:

If you have a decent amount of money PLUS you invest emotionally and make an effort to connect to the woman on a deeper level, then she will tend to be loyal.

No, you have to satisfy them sexually. 
All the money in the world and  emotional investment won’t do the trick.

 

Skip the foreplay, that just confuses Thai women,  just give it to them as hard as you can. They love it.

5 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

That's almost always how it goes, sometimes they surprise us and overperform, other times they fall short.

 

I think the reason why the bad boy is so attractive to women, is they think "If I'm with him nobody will mess with me".

 

That's how it should be, you should only be with a woman ticks all the boxes, the question is will she do something bad that detracts from all she brings to the table, or not.

The bad boys is better at bragging and lying, not so different from the bad girls who is good at the same luring men with good intentions to things they know they shouldn't do.

 

Well, we all going to die sooner or later, I am not thinking about everything that van happen to me, but on the other side, if bull pie hits the fan, I can pack up and leave, since I haven't invested more than I can walk away from without loosing my sleep. But I have to admit, if she turns out to not be the one I thought she bee, I might be hurt for awhile, before I pull myself together and realize it will only be a new start, a new life. 

10 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

This girl is a liar, plan and simple. She is lying to all these guys. Very obviously she has no integrity.

 

Effectively she is useless, except for one thing.

She's doing her job

On 10/14/2024 at 8:41 PM, Cameroni said:

We have all seen the survey claiming Thai women are the second least faithful women in the world. I would be interested to hear from your personal experience, if you have or had a relationship with a Thai girl aged 18 to 32 that was attractive.

 

Please do not write in to say how loyal your 52 year old ladyfriend with 2 kids is, she would be, wouldn't she? I am sure she's lovely, but this thread is for men who have dated Thai girls aged 18 to 32 long term. How loyal are they really? Shocking disappointment or surprising fidelity? What is your story?

Yet another pathetically inane excuse of a survey, produced by someone with nothing better to do than to sit in a bar, or at home, tearfully pouring out his 'sob' story because he loses out over some woman, who, in this case, happens to be Thai.

 

Not just that, he only wants to hear about his perception of 'Thai girls aged 18 to 32 that are attractive'.

How demeaning and insulting is that ?

 

Other people's relationship are none of his business. You make your own way in this world - succeed or fail is up to you.

Sheer nonsense!

 

8 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Of course she's not working, she's probably making 60K a month defrauding this carousel of men she lies to.

 

It's hard for guys with kids. If you pay private school the Thai gf will demand the same amount for her (Or you support ex wife more than me??)

 

Imagine this were your girlfriend. It would be hell.

How would your gf know, unless you're daft enough to tell her.

Keep your income, savings and what you spend to yourself, it's not her business.

How loyal and trustworthy are attractive Thai girls aged 18 to 32? women?

 

Fixed op for you. 
Answer: not very. 

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7 hours ago, Hummin said:

The bad boys is better at bragging and lying, not so different from the bad girls who is good at the same luring men with good intentions to things they know they shouldn't do.

 

Well, we all going to die sooner or later, I am not thinking about everything that van happen to me, but on the other side, if bull pie hits the fan, I can pack up and leave, since I haven't invested more than I can walk away from without loosing my sleep. But I have to admit, if she turns out to not be the one I thought she bee, I might be hurt for awhile, before I pull myself together and realize it will only be a new start, a new life. 

 

The bad boy also does not care if he comes across as dislikeable, he knows he will but he doesn't care. So he comes across as genuine. That is a major attraction if someone is genuine, because 99% of men are not, they will tell her what they think she wants to hear to sleep with her. That'll be boring and unattractive and predictable.

 

Yes, you can limit your financial investment. But you can't limit your investment of trust, if you're in a relationship you have to give your trust. If you hold that back, it won't work. So you're always "out of pocket" in the area of trust, and she can always betray your trust

 

You are right of course, the pain if you break up would be temporary, and can be used for good in  your own character development. 

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1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

How would your gf know, unless you're daft enough to tell her.

Keep your income, savings and what you spend to yourself, it's not her business.

 

Absolutely, you should keep your finances to yourself, however, if your ex wife is in the same city as you and your kids go to a private school in the city you live, you pick them up, then the Thai gf would know what school they go to and can just figure out that you pay at least half the school fees. They're not idiots.

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27 minutes ago, daveAustin said:

How loyal and trustworthy are attractive Thai girls aged 18 to 32? women?

 

Fixed op for you. 
Answer: not very. 

 

If you look up how many women and men cheat, the figures vary from 25% to 78%, there are many different figures given.

 

Because even what defines adultery is a matter of dispute. Not to mention if you ask people outright, they are likely to lie about the answer to this.

 

So, you may well be right.

Reading all this cringe inducing chatter confirms that many men who come to Thailand had very little experience with women. Some of them probably arrived virgins.

 

As with any relationship a serious research is needed before meeting someone which right there you will fail in another country. Here is you with zero friends and family and here is she with all the family, friends and navigational experience to wrap you around her little finger. 

 

The peasant will always win. This is why I don't date Thai peasants.

 

 

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5 hours ago, Celsius said:

Here is you with zero friends and family and here is she with all the family, friends and navigational experience to wrap you around her little finger. 

 

It's a puzzle with many pieces, but family and friends are not the hardest ones. The biggest problem is if she is beauty queen Hollywood MTV beautiful, and she knows it. She will always wonder "Is this guy the best I can get?" Her natural instinct will push her to keep trying to find out, humans are not monogamous like the Albatros. Humans are naturally promiscuous. So a woman has to have great integrity of character, has to be convinced that you are truly the cream of the very top, so she is convinced to stay. A man can never relax. 

 

That's the hardest puzzle piece. You.

8 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

It's a puzzle with many pieces, but family and friends are not the hardest ones. The biggest problem is if she is beauty queen Hollywood MTV beautiful, and she knows it. She will always wonder "Is this guy the best I can get?" Her natural instinct will push her to keep trying to find out, humans are not monogamous like the Albatros. Humans are naturally promiscuous. So a woman has to have great integrity of character, has to be convinced that you are truly the cream of the very top, so she is convinced to stay. A man can never relax. 

 

That's the hardest puzzle piece. You.

Mine was MTV beauty queen quality,

So I moved her to a place where there were no foreigners, and the local Thais couldn't afford her. Obviously this is harder now they are all using ThaiFriendly, but mine is too old to compete online now.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

It's a puzzle with many pieces, but family and friends are not the hardest ones. The biggest problem is if she is beauty queen Hollywood MTV beautiful, and she knows it. She will always wonder "Is this guy the best I can get?" Her natural instinct will push her to keep trying to find out, humans are not monogamous like the Albatros. Humans are naturally promiscuous. So a woman has to have great integrity of character, has to be convinced that you are truly the cream of the very top, so she is convinced to stay. A man can never relax. 

 

That's the hardest puzzle piece. You.

You thinking to much, Im sure you have heard it before, and somehow, my experience, those who think to much, manage to make all the bad choices they are afraid of making in the first place. 

 

Those who have a bit more open mind, manage to sort out the negatives and embrace the positives. Sad to see so many here with so bad experiences that it takes the rest of their life still cultivate those thoughts and feelings. I have learned something in Thailand, where yesterday was yesterday, today is today and tomorow is to tomorow. Sabai Sabai

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2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Mine was MTV beauty queen quality,

So I moved her to a place where there were no foreigners, and the local Thais couldn't afford her. Obviously this is harder now they are all using ThaiFriendly, but mine is too old to compete online now.

 

That's the word on the street.

 

A very wise  move. Like you say, now with dating apps the 24 year olds can play at will sadly.

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3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

You thinking to much, Im sure you have heard it before, and somehow, my experience, those who think to much, manage to make all the bad choices they are afraid of making in the first place. 

 

Those who have a bit more open mind, manage to sort out the negatives and embrace the positives. Sad to see so many here with so bad experiences that it takes the rest of their life still cultivate those thoughts and feelings. I have learned something in Thailand, where yesterday was yesterday, today is today and tomorow is to tomorow. Sabai Sabai

 

Not thinking enough has been a bigger problem in my life, trust me.

 

A certain laissez faire is a good thing though, I do agree with you.

9 hours ago, BritManToo said:

How would your gf know, unless you're daft enough to tell her.

Keep your income, savings and what you spend to yourself, it's not her business.

Better still, stay single and enjoy life.

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1 minute ago, MangoKorat said:

Better still, stay single and enjoy life.

Ooooooh...

 

Controversial.

On 10/18/2024 at 12:24 AM, MangoKorat said:

Where did I say she's a slut?

 

I just think she's kidding herself in claiming she's different to freelancer - she sleeps with them and as far as I know, they've all given her money.

 

There's nothing at all wrong in having multiple partners - I do it.  But I don't get upset if they are also seeing someone else.  This girl was actually seething that her ex invited her to discuss getting back together and she learned that he'd been seeing someone else.  They broke up 8 months ago!! I asked her if she would have stayed faithfull to him if they had got back together - no.  That's normal in your book is it?

 

Its also not about her being horny - she told me she's only ever had one orgasm.  You didn't talk to her buddy - I did and this girl has a slate loose.

Perhaps you didn't mention it, but people being fundamentally unfair usually call a female that has multiple partners a slut, while giving men a pass for being sluts.

 

I don't, but by that criteria I was a slut too, not that it worries me what people think. If I could I'd be the biggest slut on the planet, but that is something no longer possible for myself, thanks to prostate cancer.

 

I've had dealings with literally thousands of people due to decades as a nurse, and IMO everyone could be described as having a slate loose, even if only slightly. How else can I describe the millions that apparently believe there are more than 2 genders?

 

she told me she's only ever had one orgasm

 

If she has had one she is capable of having more. She just hasn't had the right partners.

14 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Not thinking enough has been a bigger problem in my life, trust me.

 

A certain laissez faire is a good thing though, I do agree with you.

If you think too much you'll never do anything as everything has potential problems. I've always just done it, and while sometimes it was catastrophic ( eg getting married ) mostly it worked out ok ( eg going to Antarctica based on nothing more than meeting a guy that spent a few weeks there, but turned out to be the best thing I ever did in my entire life ).

7 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

people being fundamentally unfair usually call a female that has multiple partners a slut

These guys are just frustrated, loser guys who can't get a bit, can't find a girlfriend, your typical cry baby. 

Same with the guys who call girls gold diggers, loser guys. 

 

15 hours ago, Cameroni said:

has to be convinced that you are truly the cream of the very top, so she is convinced to stay.

Even the richest man on the planet had relationship problems eg Musk and Heard. It's just a matter of blind luck IMO.

1 minute ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

These guys are just frustrated, loser guys who can't get a bit, can't find a girlfriend, your typical cry baby. 

Same with the guys who call girls gold diggers, loser guys. 

 

I never had a problem finding a potential girlfriend. Problem was I was never interested in the ones interested in me and wanted the ones already taken.

There are a limited supply of keepers out there and one has to get in early to catch one.

 

I was having too much fun traveling the world and working in exotic places to bother, and then when I was ready to settle down only the dregs were left. My dreg was the dreggiest dreg I could have found if I was looking for a dreg, but she fooled me for a while.

 

My 27 year old  drop dead gorgeous  Government working step daughter is going 

to Samui on holiday with her lady friends in search of good times and a rich handsome falang or two or three. Girls just want to have fun, they wanna.

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15 hours ago, riclag said:

My 27 year old  drop dead gorgeous  Government working step daughter is going 

to Samui on holiday with her lady friends in search of good times and a rich handsome falang or two or three. Girls just want to have fun, they wanna.

 

Never a truer word written. This is why very often girls have affairs, to get a new sexual experience, a thrill, an adventure. It is about them.

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