16 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

Not saying walk for every little thing, it always deserves some work.

 

My first failure was simply I was traveling so much, my wife was essentially a single Mom and we both found other relationships, and we simply drifted apart

 

I'm Hispanic my first wife white, second wife Thai the whole ethnicity thing never really came in to anything, although I'll not deny a little 'asian persuasion' thing

 

Today we are a melting pot family, I get on great with my ex, we speak every week, my daughters and half brother are great friends, my son actually worked for my eldest daughter and lived with her in Denver until he got married

 

As bizarre as it might sound we even all go on vacation together, wife, ex wife, her bf, the kids with husbands wives and grandkids

 

Things can be messy but they don't have to be toxic

To add a little footnote

 

If you do end up in a situation like mine, be aware, the greatest fun wives and ex-wives have together is bitching about you and all your faults

 

Can't count the times I've caught them cackling with laughter in a corner comparing 'notes'

On 3/27/2025 at 12:48 PM, BritManToo said:

Why would I care?

Some of us actually care about our partners satisfaction too. I know that is a hard concept to understand for some men.

28 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Some of us actually care about our partners satisfaction too. I know that is a hard concept to understand for some men.

But you don't have a partner.

How can you care about something you don't have?

 

I've always found the more you care about a woman, the less she cares about you.

Sideline gals for me a whole lot cheaper and fresher than bgs with their tatts

On 3/24/2025 at 2:04 PM, thaibeachlovers said:

Steaming Fleshpots

 

Oh my goodness, I must have missed out on a lot then. I had many a young maiden for the night or longer, but steaming, I am sad to say never.

 

Can someone please enlighten me as to what comprises "steaming"? I'm gagging to know.

Come over during hot season.

19 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I've always found the more you care about a woman, the less she cares about you.

They pat you on the back with one hand and pick your pocket with the other.

23 hours ago, BritManToo said:

But you don't have a partner.

How can you care about something you don't have?

 

I've always found the more you care about a woman, the less she cares about you.

Not currently, but I certainly used to. Your point is pointless.

 

PS I agree with last sentence. IMO they see doing nice things for them as a sign of weakness.

On 3/24/2025 at 2:07 PM, thaibeachlovers said:

especially the one that applies to those who actually found a woman that claims to have never worked in a bar or as a prostitute. 

 

Fixed it for you.

 

   If you only ever go to prostitute bars and only ever have sex with prostitutes then you are bound to think that all Thai women are prostitutes .

   Its like only going to McDonalds everyday to eat  and then saying that Thailand only has hamburgers to eat 

1 minute ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   If you only ever go to prostitute bars and only ever have sex with prostitutes then you are bound to think that all Thai women are prostitutes .

   Its like only going to McDonalds everyday to eat  and then saying that Thailand only has hamburgers to eat 

 

 

Rubbish.

 

 

I know the difference between sex with my missus and sex with any other third party........................as I understand the difference between McD's and cafe des Amis.

On 3/24/2025 at 2:56 PM, thaibeachlovers said:

No, it's not, and a guy can't fake it.

Did you never watch "When harry met Sally"?

There's a little difference between a woman sitting across from you making noises, and one you're inside that shudders at the same time you have yours.

35 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Not currently, but I certainly used to. Your point is pointless.

 

PS I agree with last sentence. IMO they see doing nice things for them as a sign of weakness.

The only kind of woman that thinks that way is one who's had too many men and only looks at them as a means to an end. Normal women accept good treatment, and even those who have depression know the difference between good and bad treatment, even though it may be foreign to them.

23 hours ago, BritManToo said:

But you don't have a partner.

How can you care about something you don't have?

 

I've always found the more you care about a woman, the less she cares about you.

That happens with the wrong women.

20 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

Rubbish.

 

 

I know the difference between sex with my missus and sex with any other third party........................as I understand the difference between McD's and cafe des Amis.

 

   You seem to have misunderstood . 

I did mean that if you spend all you time in bars full of prostitutes , then you would think that ALL Women are prostitutes .

   Those who have come to the conclusion that most Thai woman are prostitute spent all their time in Pattaya bars 

3 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   You seem to have misunderstood . 

I did mean that if you spend all you time in bars full of prostitutes , then you would think that ALL Women are prostitutes .

   Those who have come to the conclusion that most Thai woman are prostitute spent all their time in Pattaya bars 

What if you spend all your time in a house with an entitled feminist white whale?

I do not and  I am not alone in that regard.

 

 

20 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

What if you spend all your time in a house with an entitled feminist white whale?

 

   Your ex wife is rather off topic 

On 3/27/2025 at 6:31 AM, thaibeachlovers said:

Good friend of mine met his wife in Singapore ( not a bargirl ). Absolutely stunningly beautiful and quite a nice person. More or less the same age. Last time I saw him was about 10 years after he married her, and they had a child. He absolutely loathed her. For the kid's sake I hope they got divorced.

 

everyone changes (or maybe its just that the real person eventually eases its way out. or sometimes justs bursts out  haha ) 

 

then the man has to decide ....... is it worth it ?    Older men have a pretty hard time deciding to make a break , for a few obvious reasons .   Financial losses and knowledge that the next one  is gonna be even harder to find .

 

Ideally my choice would be to be rich enough to have a good stable relationship ... but also "travel for business"  when needed .   If you know what i mean  

 

 

32 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

What if you spend all your time in a house with an entitled feminist white whale?

 

i think that's great .    takes two people off the street that i don't want in my life

2 minutes ago, rumak said:

 

Ideally my choice would be to be rich enough to have a good stable relationship ... but also "travel for business"  when needed .   If you know what i mean  

 

 

    Have a regular woman for a relationship and the occasional prostitute on the side ?

3 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

    Have a regular woman for a relationship and the occasional prostitute on the side ?

 

there are no prizes for correct guesses ..... 

 

6 minutes ago, rumak said:

 

there are no prizes for correct guesses ..... 

 

 

   This is an anonymous forum, you don't have to speak in code .

 

On 3/15/2025 at 3:57 PM, Yagoda said:

I thought there would be more honesty. Shows how many folks in this Forum dont live in ASEAN

you dont live in Thailand do you? I thought you lived in scambodia???

On 3/15/2025 at 3:57 PM, Yagoda said:

I thought there would be more honesty. Shows how many folks in this Forum dont live in ASEAN

Nah, we all live in that well known family resort, Pattaya.

None of us smoke or drink or enter bars, and we never pay for sex.

21 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   This is an anonymous forum, you don't have to speak in code .

 

 

there are many former Navy seals, M16,  and CIA operatives that are engaged here. (the word starting with P and ending with E  is a well-known trigger used by them )

I thought you knew that , since you post continuosly

Not for 23 years, it's a mugs games at todays prices and service, from what I hear. Would rather have a good dump any day than pay some tart to pretend she was enjoying it.

6 minutes ago, rumak said:

 

there are many former Navy seals, M16,  and CIA operatives that are engaged here. (the word starting with P and ending with E  is a well-known trigger used by them )

I thought you knew that , since you post continuosly

 

  You can say the word, if they start  any problems, then let me deal with them 

On 3/15/2025 at 3:38 PM, SiSePuede419 said:

You should ask ChatGPT directly for names, if you need more info. 😄

 

Historically and in modern times, people from all walks of life have engaged with sex workers, including politicians, businesspeople, travelers, military personnel, and even individuals seeking companionship rather than just physical encounters.

 

 

Even more than than you listed.

 

At a  recent conversation at my house (99% male foreigners  and a couple of young Thai buddies of my son my Thai son  (all about 30 - 35 years old) contributed that many uni buddies go to a small 'venue' to buy young girls and to get a 'group price'. 

 

Apparently 'group price' is say 4 to 10 boys?  (some as young as 13 years old) getting a group price of 40 to 100Baht, each boy gets 10 minutes with the selected girl. 

1 hour ago, rumak said:

man has to decide ....... is it worth it ?    Older men have a pretty hard time deciding to make a break , for a few obvious reasons .   Financial losses and knowledge that the next one  is gonna be even harder to find .

In SEA it's more of a problem deciding on your next one, so much choice, so little time!

On 3/9/2025 at 10:41 PM, Yagoda said:

I was recently called out for the fact that I indulge in the steaming fleshpots of Bangkok in amounts of course commensurate with my age and abilities. I was labeled a:

 

DEVIANT!

 

Who uses......PROSTITUTES.

 

Am I alone?

 

I made the Poll anonymous. Can we have some honesty?

 

Who told you that? A white western woman in Pattaya? A white male born again Christian in Pattaya?

 

Deviant .... deviates from the norm. Yes, it deviates from the norm. 

But normal people refuse to admit how flawed normalcy is, with the divorce rates so high and everyone dangling children from previous marriages. A lot of what passes off as "normal" seems screwed up to me.

 

Which is why I have no major issues with this scene, unless the woman is "coerced" into it beyond her choice.

 

Here's a pun for you. Most normal jobs SUCK. So what if prostitution sucks? 

 

1 hour ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

  You can say the word, if they start  any problems, then let me deal with them 

 

Pizza ...no,no, no .     ok, this could get me into big trouble .   the word is....... Promise !

 

( that word always leads to a Big  M......E  ! )