3 hours ago, gargamon said:

So she took out the p-trap? Hope you don't get too much sewage smell...

The sinks have traps, directly under the sink.  Sinks don't go the the toilet septic tanks.  Just asked wife before typing.  She did change that after the house was done.

38 minutes ago, rattlesnake said:

Presumably, un any case, the document has no legal standing if not done in the appropriate notarial conditions.

 

If this story is true, it sounds more like the wife having a go because she is p*ssed off about something.

 

the land is a pre-marital asset I think so it belongs to her. In a marriage though your money is entangled. If she gets 10MB then the man can give her less of his own money as she doesn't need it now. Of course this will cause problems and could be marriage ending but it's a game two can play.

4 hours ago, save the frogs said:

It's not that easy to detect.

That's why some people post their IQs on AN to prove their intelligence. 

 

 

I think mines 151 , but I can't remember for sure.  Maybe i have it backwards .

2 minutes ago, rattlesnake said:

 

I'll gladly contribute my 47, if we all chip in we can produce collective genius.

 

No need. I'm legit genius. I was tested.

51 minutes ago, rattlesnake said:

 

Exactly, so he's not entitled to anything either way.

 

If not in a touristic area, it's highly unlikely the land is worth 10 million, unless she has a lot of rai. The document writing/signing thing could be a Thai way of expressing frustration (which can sometimes come across as a little immature)… or BMT has made the whole thing up (he doesn't speak Thai so she obviously speaks basic English, she can see what he allegedly wrote on that paper).

 

With this thread, he's just created an opportunity to tell us he thinks his wife is stupid, for whatever reason.

 

Of course he's entitled. He gave her more than 5 million of his money over 20 years. He is entitled to half of the 10 million. And then some. She just doesn't want him to have it. 

 

But I do agree that she can't read what's written in English is hard to believe. 

31 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Of course he's entitled. He gave her more than 5 million of his money over 20 years. He is entitled to half of the 10 million. And then some. She just doesn't want him to have it. 

 

But I do agree that she can't read what's written in English is hard to believe. 

 

I doubt he gave her millions over 20 years. Have you seen his 1 million baht house?

 

And if he did, he goes against his own advice. 5 mil invested in someone who will get old and fat instead buying so many short terms

 

What i think happened here he's not getting any sex with her either because he finds her unattractive or she lost interest long time ago....hence the tension with money and so called notepad documents 

13 hours ago, rattlesnake said:

BMT is a very cynical guy and he's probably cracking up reading the comments to this thread which I now think is 75% sure to be a wind up.

Yeah, he's probably trolling.

But my comment still stands. BritMan doesn't have any MOJO, so he has to pay for women.

And his relationships are 100% transactional, 0% love. 

 

14 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Yeah, he's probably trolling.

But my comment still stands. BritMan doesn't have any MOJO, so he has to pay for women.

And his relationships are 100% transactional, 0% love. 

 

 

He spent the first 50+ years of his life in the UK and he was not happy, he stated before that he wished he had discovered Thailand when he was younger. Now he's just making the best of it in his old years and doesn't care about anyone or anything else. There's a psychological element to his mindset and posts.

2 hours ago, rattlesnake said:

 

If she didn't want him to have it, she would have said nothing and tried to ensure he never heard about it, which given his nonexistent command of Thai would be easy enough to achieve.

 

BMT is a very cynical guy and he's probably cracking up reading the comments to this thread which I now think is 75% sure to be a wind up.

 

I've noticed that a few members seem to have joined Team Wind Up !    Guess those cooking threads and IT threads are not arousing much interest .   

I can't reveal too much because the Team captains hate me for calling things out.

Maybe I got some brownie points today for participating in an ego slugfest on this thread with a serial narcissist .  I gotta admit.... it was pretty exhilarating ! 

 

Can't wait till tomorrow !   hahahaaha   ( due to mental restraints, i must now put a warning on my posts that there may be sarcasm inside )  

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

No need. I'm legit genius. I was tested.

 

wasn't that the gonorrhea  test ?    and you shouldn't take things so literally :  the doctor was not asking for applause when he said "Clap "

4 minutes ago, rumak said:

Maybe I got some brownie points today for participating in an ego slugfest on this thread with a serial narcissist .  I gotta admit.... it was pretty exhilarating !

We've all been there, I've indulged in it myself once in a while 

 

8 minutes ago, rumak said:

I can't reveal too much because the Team captains hate me for calling things out.

A few of us know some things about the main protagonist which would be problematic if posted here. Let's just say we're not dealing with your average "family guy"…

11 minutes ago, rattlesnake said:

We've all been there, I've indulged in it myself once in a while 

 

LOL.    once in a while its good to go back to 7th grade for a visit 

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Of course he's entitled. He gave her more than 5 million of his money over 20 years. He is entitled to half of the 10 million. And then some. She just doesn't want him to have it. 

 

 

   He didn't give her nothing .

It was a payment for her services 

15 minutes ago, rattlesnake said:

We've all been there, I've indulged in it myself once in a while 

 

A few of us know some things about the main protagonist which would be problematic if posted here. Let's just say we're not dealing with your average "family guy"…

 

  Was there something else other than a 13 year old pregnant step daughter ? 

18 hours ago, BritManToo said:

You can't fix stupid!

All she had to do was take a pic and point google translate it lol. 

I have a question. Is BM2's wife the biological mother of his son? If she is then he should be happy there's money for their future. 

 

I get a feeling most of the neg responses here comes from guys with no young biological children born in Thailand. 

 

After reading all the naysayers posts here I know why I tend to keep to myself. BM2 would be fun to have a drink with, but the rest of you are so full of yourselves.

7 hours ago, rattlesnake said:

 

Exactly, so he's not entitled to anything either way.

 

If not in a touristic area, it's highly unlikely the land is worth 10 million, unless she has a lot of rai. The document writing/signing thing could be a Thai way of expressing frustration (which can sometimes come across as a little immature)… or BMT has made the whole thing up (he doesn't speak Thai so she obviously speaks basic English, she can see what he allegedly wrote on that paper).

 

With this thread, he's just created an opportunity to tell us he thinks his wife is stupid, for whatever reason.

There is areas that is higher value because of demand. Because of scenery for one. We looked at land in Petchabun up in the mountains and one rai Por bor tor 5 land, was selling for millions.

 

 

High-priced land in the mountainous region of Phetchabun, particularly in areas like Khao Kho, can range from 2 million to 5 million baht per rai (1600 square meters). Some plots in prime locations or with specific features, like a beautiful mountain view or proximity to amenities, can fetch higher prices, potentially reaching 8 million baht per rai. 

15 hours ago, rattlesnake said:

 

BritMan regularly says his wife has no say regarding money. And he actually calls her stupid in the OP, even if the tone is somewhat humourous, it is telling.

 

It seems quite a few farangs behave this way with their Thai spouses, treating them as inferiors, giving them pocket money and scolding them like children if they aren't happy with what they do with it. So it's no surprise said spouses should retaliate when they feel they are in a position to.

It is stupid to think someone would sign something like that during marriage, prenup yes that's not stupid

14 hours ago, JakeC said:

This is why I cannot understand these guys who pay to have a pretty girl on their arm, instead of cultivating sustainable relationships.

Young pretty women generally don't want to be with a elderly farang but money changes their mind

1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

Young pretty women generally don't want to be with a elderly farang but money changes their mind

Which is why the better choice is a not so young woman that is more independent and not looking for your money first. 

8 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Which is why the better choice is a not so young woman that is more independent and not looking for your money first. 

Of course, has a job, is financially independent, but generally that's not how it works here

6 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Of course, has a job, is financially independent, but generally that's not how it works here

Which is why many come here to have a relationship with a much younger woman who is only looking for gold , and doesn't care what she sleeps with as long as she can show of that gold to her "friends". Still better to get a working (legit) woman who has at least some self esteem about herself and doesn't need to rely on a man's money and is actually looking for that sustainable relationship where both do their share. 

20 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Still better to get a working (legit) woman who has at least some self esteem about herself and doesn't need to rely on a man's money and is actually looking for that sustainable relationship where both do their share. 

How did that work out for you?

Currently on no4 at 70 years old I understand.

9 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

How did that work out for you?

Currently on no4 at 70 years old I understand.

Currently with a girlfriend here for 4 1/2 years at 68. Three wives, not 4.  Had children with bad choices but the children are here so it was worthwhile. My girlfriend now isn't a greedy Thai woman but I do help her, and she helps me, and she works for the government and is in her mid 40's. So, besides the fact that I'm living, at least for a little while longer, in a country that I can't enjoy my hobbies in, I do have a daughter here that will be living in the US for a better future, so it, in the long run, will work out fine. I never paid for any woman besides a couple in my teen years. 

22 hours ago, Quentin Zen said:

Thai wife saw my leg getting stomped by a herd of elephants and then I was poised by a snake and attacked by some soi dogs.

 

What all on the same day------------------

29 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

. Still better to get a working (legit) woman who has at least some self esteem about herself and doesn't need to rely on a man's money and is actually looking for that sustainable relationship where both do their share. 

As an semi retired who travels frequently, there is no way I was interested in a working woman with limited time off from work. Especially considering working hours and short holiday's in Thailand. 

 

People are different and have different needs. If a retired do not need a working wife, why? 

 

 

23 hours ago, BritManToo said:

So my wife thinks she's coming into a few million Baht (almost no chance).

And wanted me to sign a document stating any money she gets is hers, and I have no claim on it.

I say, "sure, no problem", and she brings over a notepad for me to write out the agreement.

I write "any money you get and half belongs to me" she tells me to sign and date it to make it official.

She asks me to read out what I wrote, and I read out "any money you get belongs entirely to you"

She walks off happily clutching the document to keep somewhere safe .........

 

You can't fix stupid!

 

Has she got a (younger and hotter) sister?

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

As an semi retired who travels frequently, there is no way I was interested in a working woman with limited time off from work. Especially considering working hours and short holiday's in Thailand. 

 

People are different and have different needs. If a retired do not need a working wife, why? 

 

 

Nothing wrong with a woman that stays home and takes care of a man and the kids, as many westerners do. There's a difference between hiring a woman as a sex object that stays home and cooks dinner and one that does her share and is with you as a partner. Greed is easy to spot, and those that are aren't willing to help with the money and only look at others as a financial gain.

12 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Which is why the better choice is a not so young woman that is more independent and not looking for your money first. 

 

10 year age difference is ok. maybe 15 max.

After that it becomes a sugar daddy arrangement, which may work for some people. 

Or which may also end badly. 

 

5 hours ago, save the frogs said:

But my comment still stands. BritMan doesn't have any MOJO, so he has to pay for women.

And his relationships are 100% transactional, 0% love. 

 

 

Everybody has to pay for his woman. "Mojo" only gets you in the door. To stay, you have to pay.

 

All relationships are transactional. Every single one.

 

Any guy who tells you he doesn't pay for his girl is lying to your face.