When I was living in a larger condo unit, my property manager arranged for domestic servants. I believe the  daily charge was 100 baht for 30 minutes daily visit 5 days a week, with 1/2 day used for laundry & ironing and more extensive cleaning. No cooking involved.

7 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

It depends on the guy. 

 

Old, smelly, Fat, bald, short guys should pay more. 

 

Chicks wants to be with a good looking, middle aged guys.

I should get a discount. 

 

Praying for this posting to stay active 🙏

 

You should also wear a fedora to look cool, have a neck beard, and say M'lady when talking to them to show respect.  Women love that.

 

I prefer to pay less and not to have her stop working 🤣...it avoids having to have to pay to maintain the usual jobless lazy brother hidden somewhere and to pay the medical for the in laws or the sick buffalo in the village. 

12 hours ago, persimmon said:

For a serious relationship , they`re going to want a house and a car plus living expenses . Could work out expensive if the relationship only lasts a couple of years . For the average Patts lady , maybe working in a massage place , maybe 20 K Bt / month would suffice ....but there are always " other costs " that need to be accounted for ⚠️

and what type of relationship do you really think this man will have? The OP is talking. about paying a woman to stop collecting money for sex from various men and stop drinking every night and stop seeing her bar girl friends just to be with him? Fat chance this will last more than a month. Plus, she will still want to go to the bar to drink and see friends with you tagging along to buy them all drinks and make her happy. It would not surprise me if she would do it all for less than 50,000 a month plus expensive expenses. Then you will have to find another woman. To. imagine you are actually considering this is beyond my thinking. You can take the girl out of the bar but you can not take the bar out of the girl. She will be wanting her lifestyle eventually and no money will match that. She must be a really good f--k to even be thinking it. 

Here is your solution if you really want this woman for a long time. Make her pregnant. Although you will never be sure the baby is yours she will use you to be with as father to raise the child and support the family. 

11 hours ago, thesetat said:

You can take the girl out of the bar but you can not take the bar out of the girl.

 

But it's probably not only girls in bars that would prefer to stop working and be taken care of.

Keep in mind women not working was common not too long ago. 

And lots of women have low paying jobs in Thailand. 

 

 

Pay her nothing, when she's left the bar she can go get a  decent job, then you will know if she really wants to be  with you

14 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

then she will need to continue working

She will "keep working" anyway.  You can't trust a hooker.  Wake up.

Derogatory troll post removed

Another fine topic for the man who can't sleep, what's next? ah, I know: from where the sun going to rise tomorrow?

east, west, or elsewhere?

4 hours ago, thesetat said:

and what type of relationship do you really think this man will have? The OP is talking. about paying a woman to stop collecting money for sex from various men and stop drinking every night and stop seeing her bar girl friends just to be with him? Fat chance this will last more than a month. Plus, she will still want to go to the bar to drink and see friends with you tagging along to buy them all drinks and make her happy. It would not surprise me if she would do it all for less than 50,000 a month plus expensive expenses. Then you will have to find another woman. To. imagine you are actually considering this is beyond my thinking. You can take the girl out of the bar but you can not take the bar out of the girl. She will be wanting her lifestyle eventually and no money will match that. She must be a really good f--k to even be thinking it. 

Here is your solution if you really want this woman for a long time. Make her pregnant. Although you will never be sure the baby is yours she will use you to be with as father to raise the child and support the family. 

I think you are wrong.

Many people take them out of the bar and they last longer than a month.

And a simple DNA test can prove a baby is yours or not.

You sound a bit naive.

5 minutes ago, ezzra said:

Another fine topic

Thankyou

2 hours ago, Felton Jarvis said:

She will "keep working" anyway.  You can't trust a hooker.  Wake up.

Can you really trust any woman?

4 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Thankyou

you're most welcome, keep 'em coming..

4 hours ago, thesetat said:

To. imagine you are actually considering this is beyond my thinking. You can take the girl out of the bar but you can not take the bar out of the girl.

Might be beyond your thing but the poll is indicating about 40% of us believe between 15-20,000 is pretty much the figure.

Dont spoil them but don’t make it hard for them either.

19 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Maybe you want to spend more time with her or maybe you are not comfortable with the job she is in.

How much is fair for both sides?

In other words....

You want to buy her?

And don't know how much she's worth? 😳

You can ask her, can't you?

3 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

In other words....

You want to buy her?

And don't know how much she's worth? 😳

You can ask her, can't you?

 

Don't bid too high... Very hard to re-sell so are effectively disposable.

Just now, Ralf001 said:

 

Don't bid too high... Very hard to re-sell so are effectively disposable.

Right. Resale would be third or more hand then.

Though skills would have been improved.

11 hours ago, newbee2022 said:

You can ask her, can't you?

 

Yes, although it sounds crass because in the West everyone is conditioned to think it's all about "love".

 

But like I said, a girl hit me up for 40K. That's what she wants and what she thinks she's worth. 

 

I appreciate her being up front about it because if it's not agreed upon at the beginning it may lead to problems later in the relationship. 

 

In some ways, the Thai system is better than in the West. How many divorces in the West are caused by disagreements about money? I like that they hit you up with a number from the get-go. Makes sense to me. 

 

 

5 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

In other words....

You want to buy her?

And don't know how much she's worth? 😳

You can ask her, can't you?

Well I could, but in Thailand it helps to know the market value which other members have said in the poll is 15-20,000 per month.

 

And not really “buying” her like a slave. I can not then “sell” her like a property. obviously to see how you view women. They are humans not objects.

 

i believe it is known locally as “taking care”.

19 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

How much is fair for both sides?

A couple of millions sounds good to me. 

3 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

Right. Resale would be third or more hand then.

Though skills would have been improved.

Pretty disgusting the way you talk about women.

You should be ashamed of yourself.

3 minutes ago, newbee2022 said:

Right. Resale would be third or more hand then.

Though skills would have been improved.

pretty much ruined after I have had possesion.

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

Pretty disgusting the way you talk about women.

You should be ashamed of yourself.

Pretty disgusting these threads you constantly start.

 

Just now, MalcolmB said:

Well I could, but in Thailand it helps to know the market value which other members have said in the poll is 15-20,000 per month.

 

And not really “buying” her like a slave. I can not then “sell” her like a property. obviously to see how you view women. They are humans not objects.

 

i believe it is known locally as “taking care”.

If you value them it's not a big difference to a cow, isn't it? Or a second hand car?

If you would see her the same as yourself you wouldn't talk about "value".

What is your "value" by the way??

 

1 minute ago, Ralf001 said:

Pretty disgusting these threads you constantly start.

 

I suggest the snowflakes move on a read other threads. 
 

1 minute ago, newbee2022 said:

If you value them it's not a big difference to a cow, isn't it? Or a second hand car?

If you would see her the same as yourself you wouldn't talk about "value".

What is your "value" by the way??

 

A employee has a value. Not like a cow or car which can be re-sold.

 

I am a high net worth individual if you really want to know.

What are you worth?

8000.

 

Absolute tops.

 

Even if she does modelling competitions.

Just now, Cameroni said:

8000.

 

Absolute tops.

 

Even if she does modelling competitions.

per week/month/year ?

3 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

per week/month/year ?

 

Month of course.

 

Though to be paid weekly, so she doesn't squander it all at once on her mother or sister.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

Month of course.

Bit exxy.. but if shes <25yrs <35kg <5ft..... maybe maybe.