Not a problem @nauseus It's just that @fredwiggy needs me more at this present time. He has problems accepting what is presented clearly and concisely.

He fits the profile of someone with NPD, but hopes he can fool everyone by telling us how great he is....the irony.

Anyway, no problems. The OP got to read different perspectives and can decide for himself what to do next.

 

I think it is just hard somethimes to accept that other people's perceptions can be equally valid and that it's not just a personal attack. We live and learn. That's the point. Though there are some who just won't learn.

With whom am I disagreeing @fredwiggy? Who are the quite a few? I have no problem with @nauseus They do not even register on my radar. Perhaps they have a bee in their bonnet about something, but it doesn't concern me in the slightest. 

So who are these "quite a few"? It's only the misfits, @fredwiggy No one normal/balanced.

Most here agree with me. They are just irked by my dialogue with you.

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

Agreed...

 

The OP often complains about driving standards, and this isn’t the first video he has shared.

 

 

His own driving – especially the way he approached the Mazda – came across as unnecessarily assertive. Sounding the horn at that moment felt more like making a point than genuine road safety.

 

In reality, the situation was created. A calmer approach, simply giving the other driver a little space, would have resulted in a complete non-event.

 

Hopefully the OP learns to accept that not everyone drives perfectly – and that’s normal. Sometimes the best response is simply to take a breath, read the road, and allow people the room to make their mistakes.

 

 

 

 

Exactly..........

2 minutes ago, JakeC said:

Not a problem @nauseus It's just that @fredwiggy needs me more at this present time. He has problems accepting what is presented clearly and concisely.

He fits the profile of someone with NPD, but hopes he can fool everyone by telling us how great he is....the irony.

Anyway, no problems. The OP got to read different perspectives and can decide for himself what to do next.

 

I think it is just hard somethimes to accept that other people's perceptions can be equally valid and that it's not just a personal attack. We live and learn. That's the point. Though there are some who just won't learn.

I need you like I need dual ass*oles. You aren't going to convince anyone here that's not another unstable individual that I'm what I'm not. I don't need to try and fool anyone, because anyone who hasn't their head stuck in the sand knows what I am by my words. Again you're trying to convince another of your innocence here, this after either calling them an idiot, like you did the OP, or trying to get them on your side after insulting them another way, thinking they might have forgotten what you said earlier. You really have a very disturbed way of thinking, and the problem of that is, there isn't any help you can receive, as this is a learned behavior from your childhood. 

6 minutes ago, JakeC said:

With whom am I disagreeing @fredwiggy? Who are the quite a few? I have no problem with @nauseus They do not even register on my radar. Perhaps they have a bee in their bonnet about something, but it doesn't concern me in the slightest. 

So who are these "quite a few"? It's only the misfits, @fredwiggy No one normal/balanced.

Most here agree with me. They are just irked by my dialogue with you.

Okay, so only the unbalanced disagree with you? LOL You really do have a screw loose. You have a short memory, and with that, you think others have also. I don't see anyone ever agreeing with you. You keep changing usernames, but some of us can keep up with your banter, no matter which handle you use. They don't even register on your radar? Feeling superior perhaps? Don't worry, you're not superior to anyone. Guess you missed his sarcasm too.

No @fredwiggy You want people to judge you by your words and I do. They prove that you have NPD. The constant praise of yourself and your sensitivity to criticism amongst other things. 

You have all kinds of unpleasant thoughts swirling around in your head.

You miss the point,,,I choose to not see unpleasant sarcasm. That can stay with the person who is giving it out. I keep a cleaner mind. That's why you don't see me propagating the kind of nasty abuse that emanates from you. That's your thing. I simply tell the truth as I see it. I see you as a person with NPD and your claim to be an empath a total sham.

Anyway, let's move on from this @fredwiggy. We have discussed it. You are too old and it too ingrained in your character for you to ever change. It is what it is. Up to you.

10 minutes ago, JakeC said:

No @fredwiggy You want people to judge you by your words and I do. The prove that you have NPD. The constant praise of yourself and your sensitivity to criticism amongst other things. 

You have all kinds of unpleasant thoughts swirling around in your head.

You miss the point,,,I choose to not see unpleasant sarcasm. That can stay with the person who is giving it out. I keep a cleaner mind. That's why you don't see me propagating the kind of nasty abuse that emanates from you. That's your thing. I simply tell the truth as I see it. I see you as a person with NPD and your claim to be an empath a total sham.

I don't need anyone to judge me at all. People see me for what I am by my words here. Some twist what I say, along with others, around to suit their narrative. You have no idea what a narcissist is, as you keep referring to me as one, when it's you that's exhibited traits that are spot on. You're not educated enough on the subject to point fingers, so you use this lack of knowledge against someone who's called you out before on your lies and inexperience.

 

Thinking you know what I'm thinking, what's in my head, shows how little thought you put into your answers. I'm telling things as they are.

 

This isn't abuse but pointing out what's obvious to most anyone here. You are so out of my league it's hilarious. actually thinking you can play words with me and think you're convincing anyone else here with your drivel. What you see in your twisted mind isn't what anyone else here sees, and it's sad you don't realize this, that you're making yourself look the fool with every reply., but keep it up, as I like to see people who deserve it bury themselves.

@fredwiggy I posted a summary typical of someone who suffers from NPD. You seem to tick many of the boxes. if you choose to not see that...

I have proved my point and don't feel the need to carry on doing so. Take care of yourself.

11 minutes ago, JakeC said:

No @fredwiggy You want people to judge you by your words and I do. They prove that you have NPD. The constant praise of yourself and your sensitivity to criticism amongst other things. 

You have all kinds of unpleasant thoughts swirling around in your head.

You miss the point,,,I choose to not see unpleasant sarcasm. That can stay with the person who is giving it out. I keep a cleaner mind. That's why you don't see me propagating the kind of nasty abuse that emanates from you. That's your thing. I simply tell the truth as I see it. I see you as a person with NPD and your claim to be an empath a total sham.

So it's nasty abuse when I call you out on your lies and ignorance but when you say things against people you're simply telling the truth? You've talked down to at least five people here, all of whom have called you out on your behavior. Of course you dismiss this, as you can't handle the truth. 

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

No we don't. We strongly disagree with you. We also strongly disagree with Richard. 

 

 

He did not indicate. End of story. He was the one to blame. In Thailand too you have to indicate when you change lane. He did not.

 

It's clear who is to blame. You're completely wrong.

It is you who can't grasp simple facts. Mr Smith has explained the situation quite well. But you guys carry on.

It's nasty abuse when you use rude words and expletives. I have simply kept to medical descriptions and provided proof and evidence.

Who are the five people who have called me out on my behaviour @fredwiggy? People may have been complaining as my dialogue with you is off-topic. Rightly so.

So I suggest we stop. You aren't going to learn, so it's just a waste of time. Take care of yourself.

Just now, EVENKEEL said:

It is you who can't grasp simple facts. Mr Smith has explained the situation quite well. But you guys carry on.

 

Lol, this car changed lanes without indicating. He's the one who created the whole problem.

 

Richard doesn't know the basic rules of traffic and clearly neither do you.

1 minute ago, JakeC said:

@fredwiggy I posted a summary typical of someone who suffers from NPD. You seem to tick many of the boxes. if you choose to not see that...

I have proved my point and don't feel the need to carry on doing so. Take care of yourself.

I tick none of the boxes. Everyone has a little narcissism in them which is normal human behavior. You're suffering from the disorder, in denial and trying to convince people here that are way above your level of thinking and by deflection that it isn't you that's guilty. It's never a good idea to argue with people that are miles above your level on a subject, but please go on, as again, you aren't fooling anyone. 

21 minutes ago, JakeC said:

Who are the five people who have called me out on my behaviour @fredwiggy? People may have been complaining as my dialogue with you is off-topic. Rightly so.

So I suggest we stop. You aren't going to learn, so it's just a waste of time. Take care of yourself.

Why do you keep thinking that it's I that needs to learn when you're the one with the problem? Cameroni, Lordgrinz, Nauseus, Novacova and Josephbloggs, all you argued with as they called you out. Now, say we're all wrong so we can laugh. They're all not on your "radar". It isn't about our off topic arguing but your way of speaking to people here.

You tick most of the boxes @fredwiggy It is plainly obvious that you refuse to acknowledge it, even though you know it to be true.

 

Simple question. Do you praise yourself a lot on this board or not?

Are you sensitive to criticism or not?

 

The evidence shows that you do praise yourself a LOT and that you are VERY sensitive to criticism. Hence your 'reactions'.

 

These are just simple facts that you refuse to accept. So how can your appraisal of yourself hold any water? It's just nonsense. A fantasy. Reality is a ***** for some.

 

I have nothing against you at all. i am just pointing out my observations. The truth is better than lies.

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

This is exactly the point where I’d be holding back (photo below). It’s obvious the Mazda is either preparing to change into the right lane or is going to swing out a little wide on the turn. There’s no reason to close up on it – and certainly no reason to try to pass or pull level at this stage.

 

Right or wrong, there’s simply no need to risk a minor accident. Even a small bump can leave you without a car for a week, which is a huge inconvenience – and for what? It won’t change the fact that plenty of drivers out there will still drive poorly, skip their indicators, make wide turns, or pull out when they shouldn’t. That’s just the reality of the roads here.

 

We can’t use our horns to “educate” every bad driver. In this case, there was ample time and space to just slow down, give way, and be courteous....

That's perfect right there. 100% agree that holding back just a bit till mazda did his thing. Lordy created the situation. It's obvious the mazda intended to continue to right lane.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

Well, at least we learnt Jake and Richard are terrible drivers.

 

 

And we now know who the dicks are.

Just now, JakeC said:

You ick most of the boxes @fredwiggy It obvious that you refuse to acknowledge it, even though you know it to be true.

 

Simple question. Do you praise yourself a lot on this board or not?

Are you sensitive to criticism or not?

 

The evidence shows that you do praise yourself a LOT and that you are very sensitive to criticism. Hence your 'reactions'.

 

These are just simple facts that you refuse to accept. So how can your appraisal of yourself hold any water. It's just nonsense. A fantasy. Reality is a ***** for some.

Everyone is sensitive to criticism. I tell things as they are, which isn't self praise.I, like many others, have accomplished things in life and use those things to help others.

 

Some are gifted with strength, knowledge of nutrition, psychology, mechanics, politics, medicines, music, movies, history, science, kinesiology, history, mathematics, and many other things, so they use that knowledge to help others, just like I and others here do.

 

That you, an uneducated person on the subject, refers to an empathic person as a narcissist only shows one of two things. You either know so very little on the subject and have to google it to try and label someone as such, or you're a full fledged narc that hides behind lies and deflection, thinking they'll convince others of this. I know the answer, as your constant deflection is a sure sign. You are so ignorant on this subject and actually think you're fooling anyone, especially me, that it's like I'm arguing with a teenager.

3 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

That's perfect right there. 100% agree that holding back just a bit till mazda did his thing. Lordy created the situation. It's obvious the mazda intended to continue to right lane.

Except his own picture shows the Mazda in the left lane inside of the center line of the road, with it wheels turned to the left. Amazing how pictures and video don't lie, but sure, see whatever you like that helps fulfill your narrative. The video also shows my speed as 10 kph, how much slower would be ideal to the AN crowd? Talk about ridiculous! 

12 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Lol, this car changed lanes without indicating. He's the one who created the whole problem.

 

Richard doesn't know the basic rules of traffic and clearly neither do you.

And you have not the slightest shred of common sense. 

@nauseus and @novacova  what have they stated? Sometime people just want to have a go, but really they have nothing of substance, so are rightly ignored.

😊 No one takes @Cameroni seriously. No one. @lordgrinz was obviously upset that I agreed with @mancub, but since then, at least ten others have been shown to hold a similar point of view.

Lordbloggs?? Who? Are you making things up?

 

I don't concern myself with what some unpleasant people on the Internet might think. I just tell the truth as I see it and allow others to be themselves.

That's how I can see that you are a narcissist. I just leave you to be yourself and then point out the traits. You cannot apply any of the traits to me. But many fit with your behaviour. That is undeniable.

 

Are you ready to stop yet?

 

2 minutes ago, lordgrinz said:

Except his own picture shows the Mazda in the left lane inside of the center line of the road, with it wheels turned to the left. Amazing how pictures and video don't lie, but sure, see whatever you like that helps fulfill your narrative. The video also shows my speed as 10 kph, how much slower would be ideal to the AN crowd? Talk about ridiculous! 

If you hadn't have crowded him, there wouldn't have been a situation. 

1 minute ago, EVENKEEL said:

If you hadn't have crowded him, there wouldn't have been a situation. 

He's crowding me, not the other way around.

3 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

And you have not the slightest shred of common sense. 

 

Listen, mate, this is a matter of traffic rules. If this video ever came before a traffic judge, what do you think he'd say? "So gentleman, let's clear this up according to common sense" or "According to the laws of traffic a car changing lane has to indicate, this car did not, he's at fault. NEXT"

 

So take your "common sense" and smoke up your pipe, we don't need it. We have clear traffic rules. A car changing lanes has to inidcate. He didn't. He's at fault.

 

And nothing you, some bloke called JakeC or RichardSmith claim on the internet makes the slightest bit of difference to these very clear facts.

No @lordgrinz You bore down upon him. You didn't give him space to maneuver.

Op and the other driver are idiots on the roads here.

There was no need for any of that to happen.

Stupid is as stupid does.

 

3 minutes ago, JakeC said:

@nauseus and @novacova  what have they stated? Sometime people just want to have a go, but really they have nothing of substance, so are rightly ignored.

😊 No one takes @Cameroni seriously. No one. @lordgrinz was obviously upset that I agreed with @mancub, but since then, at least ten others have been shown to hold a similar point of view.

Lordbloggs?? Who? Are you making things up?

 

I don't concern myself with what some unpleasant people on the Internet might think. I just tell the truth as I see it and allow others to be themselves.

That's how I can see that you are a narcissist. I just leave you to be yourself and then point out the traits. You cannot apply any of the traits to me. But many fit with your behaviour. That is undeniable.

 

Are you ready to stop yet?

 

Deflecting again. I don't see 10 others that put Lordgrinz as an idiot like you referred to him as. I see people with differing opinions, with none having been there, and most have a good point to make. That we see things differently is because some have more experience in this matter than others, and some might not like some here, like you, and take it personally.

 

Most of us have agreed that the OP could have let the other driver go, but some don't see that the other driver was much more at fault, and that the OP had the right of way. Again, different opinions, but you thinking they're "off your radar" is an insult no one missed.

 

You THINK you tell the truth yet you've been lying all along about me. No one who knows my history is that stupid to call me a narcissist. No one of course besides an actual person with NPD, who's every reply is a deflection. You are definitely a very unstable character, one that refuses to be in anything but denial. Again, stop commenting and realize you haven't a clue about me, that you're comments mean nothing as no one believes you, and if anyone did, i would feel sorry for them as what they, and you have, isn't curable. NO ONE takes you seriously, a fact you've missed.

You are weird @fredwiggy

It's true that I may have referred to the OP as an idiot. For a few reasons. One is posting a video and expecting everyone to have the same perspective as he did. Two for putting me on 'ígnore' because I chose to agree with another poster who was also critical of his description of events. There may have been other reasons, but I have long moved on from that.

 

Do you see the difference? No bad reactions from me. No name calling. No suggestion that I am more experienced and brilliant than you. Just a simple admission and acknowledgement of my behaviour.

That is not something you can do without veiled insults and praising yourself to high heaven. Take a look through your posts to see if you can recognise that behaviour in yourself. That is NPD. You cannot help it. It  has become your norm. That is my observation.

14 minutes ago, JakeC said:

You are weird @fredwiggy

It's true that I may have referred to the OP as an idiot. For a few reasons. One is posting a video and expecting everyone to have the same perspective as he did. Two for putting me on 'ígnore' because I chose to agree with another poster who was also critical of his description of events. There may have been other reasons, but I have long moved on from that.

 

Do you see the difference? No bad reactions from me. No name calling. No suggestion that I am more experienced and brilliant than you. Just a simple admission and acknowledgement of my behaviour.

That is not something you can do without veiled insults and praising yourself to high heaven. Take a look through your posts to see if you can recognise that behaviour in yourself. That is NPD. You cannot help it. It  has become your norm. That is my observation.

I'm only weird to weirdos. In fact, the only people in all my life I haven't gotten along with have either been diagnosed with a personality disorder, or had depression and couldn't relate to anyone. You dismiss the lies and BS you write, and dismiss others that call you out for your behavior. Your observation , again, means nothing. You aren't very bright and only go by googling to try and prove your point, which is false. .......................

Grandiose, thick-skinned NPD patients show a sense of uniqueness or superiority, attitudes of entitlement, a belief that others envy their abilities or status, low empathy, social dominance, superficial charm, disdainfulness or snobbery, and an exploitative interpersonal style characterised by manipulation and selfishness.

Vulnerable, thin-skinned individuals with NPD also show entitlement, selfishness and low empathy, but uniquely demonstrate feelings of shame and inferiority, are envious of others' abilities or status, tend to be shy, paranoid, vindictive, and emotionally dependent on admiration, and show extreme rage and hostility in response to rejection and criticism.................I don't think I'm superior to anyone, as everyone is equal. Some just act better towards others..........I don't think I'm entitled, as I think you work for what you want, and no one owes you anything besides respect.............I have empathy to others, and raising 6 children and treating all my women well shows that.................I have accomplishments, as does most everyone, but I don't need envy for them, as i don't care what others think as I know myself..............I'm the opposite of a snob, and welcome anyone who wants to talk or get to know me, as equals..........I don't use women nor anyone else, so I'm not exploitive or dominating.............I'm not near selfish, and share what I know and have with others................I'm not shy or paranoid, I get along and can talk to anyone and don't think anyone's out to get me...............I believe you pay back people that hurt you, so if that's vindictive, I joined the rest of humans that think that way................I don't show hostility with criticism. If I'm wrong I'll admit it, but if I'm right I'll defend myself to the death......................Guess you really aren't up to speed on what makes a person with NPD, although the shoe might surely fit you. Here, so you can educate yourself, or just admit you're in denial of what you are..........https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder#Signs_and_symptoms.