43 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

She has a propensity for that kind of work.

She is certainly more interested in the BKK escort website than is healthy. And she also repeatedly said how she'd like to try being a bar girl. She loves sex. She loves money. So she certainly is very tempted by the work.

44 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

looking for another customer

She doesn't have "customers", she's not a bargirl nor a freelancer even. She's not a sex worker of any kind. Probably.

45 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

Bangkok Girl in no hurry to hook up either.

The funny thing with BKK girl, only a few days ago she was sending me lots of voice texts, then on the very day when Phuket Girl revealed she had gone through my phone and knew I was talking to her all contact from BKK girl stopped abruptly. Since that day. I suspect Phuket girl contacted BKK girl, as she knew her TikTok.

46 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

The question now is if you are willing to accept that 'your girl' is a prostitute.

Based on what? Your delusions? I doubt it very much.

47 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

Will that dampen your ardour? It's was only your ego talking about love. She certainly did not.

It's pretty dampened now, until I find out what really happened the last few days. Btw, she talked about marrying me and moving to Europe with me, and her physical attraction and jealousy about other girls texting me speak a clear language, she loved me allright. She said it once.

49 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

You paid and then she left to take care of her kids and then off to Pattaya to try to make some real money.

The kids are not hers. If they were hers she would hardly only spend 2 days there. If she was in Sisaket at all. And she says she's in Chonburi City, not Pattaya.

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I have spent the last 40 days examining her. Talking to her for hours. I was trained by the best legal minds in the UK, in the top legal college, and in leading law firms in the City how to interrogate, how to get to the truth. I talked with her for hours with the purpose of extracting the truth from her.

Often this was at her instigation, she wanted to talk for hours. So little by little I extracted the truth. Whereas first she told me she had 3 men, then, through my questioning I found it was four, then five. Her story is this:

Her first boyfriend was Thai, she lost her virginity at 19 to him. He took care of her financially but only with money from his mother, he did not have a job or prospects and did nothing to improve his lot. She did not like that. He then once texted a girl, sexting her with pics. She went through his phone and found it. By this time she was bored of life with him anyway. Out of revenge she had sex one time with a Thai guy she found over a dating app. Her boyfriend found out and was irate. She feared for her life as he was very angry, unsurprisingly particularly as he'd just paid 40000 for her nose and lips.

She found the Austrian guy in Phuket over a dating app and moved to Phuket. The Austrian guy owned 5 condos in Phuket and he kind of used her to look after his condos, took her to the beach and treated her quite well, giving her a 10000 baht allowance, just like her Thai boyfriend, and also any shopping, creams, dress, food she wanted etc. This relationship lasted for 5 months. They fell out over an incident where one of his prospective tenants complained a condo was not cleaned. He blamed Phuket Girl, which made her irate because he hadn't told her to do anything and she claims she did not know the tenant was coming, that it was his fault. The Austrian also had an ex and apparently she suspected him of playing on the side. So she again did the same, sleeping with two other guys. Then she found me and flew to Chiang Mai.

I also observed her closely. I took her out, she never drank alcohol. Even for New Year, at most she'd take a single lady cocktail with 3% . She does not like or tolerate drink. When I made cannabis brownies she took one to try, but she said she did not like it at all and despite me offering again repeatedly (because the sex was incredible) she declined each time. So she doesn't like alcohol or weed. No tatoos at all. Her English is quite poor.

She's also a homebody, doesn't even like to go to restaurants. Doesn't like going out.

This is no bar girl. You're way off. At least, it's very unlikely. Everything is possible of course, she could be the world's best actress and liar, but frankly, it's extremely unlikely.

Money, money, money... Each time, money was her motivation and cheating by having sex with other men was her choice. Low quality. Remember, when someone shows you who they are, believe them. She's not different because of you. It's just you who concocts a story for yourself, in order to be able to perform.

I guess she is considering a position as a 'cashier' in Pattaya. They go where the money is... Phuket, Pattaya... it's not a coincidence.

Hook, line and sinker...

2 minutes ago, nick supreme said:

Why did this make me chuckle?

I wept

5 minutes ago, marin said:

That would be true, but she still has you in a tizzy, acting like a teenager checking her phone, worrying about where she is, and who she is with 24/7. For only having a high school education she has played you brilliantly. You are freaked out and she is in Pattaya without a care in the world. You better wake up to this. The whole scenario may be new to you, but it is her chosen life.

Indeed I did check her phone. In detail. I saw all her Whatsapp, Line and Messenger convos, her photos. There was nothing of concern at all. Whenever guys proposed money to her, she never carried on the conversation, these were older convos of course. So there was that as well. Her phone checked out, nothing of concern at all, TF and Tinder still deleted.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

She is certainly more interested in the BKK escort website than is healthy. And she also repeatedly said how she'd like to try being a bar girl. She loves sex. She loves money. So she certainly is very tempted by the work.

She doesn't have "customers", she's not a bargirl nor a freelancer even. She's not a sex worker of any kind. Probably.

The funny thing with BKK girl, only a few days ago she was sending me lots of voice texts, then on the very day when Phuket Girl revealed she had gone through my phone and knew I was talking to her all contact from BKK girl stopped abruptly. Since that day. I suspect Phuket girl contacted BKK girl, as she knew her TikTok.

Based on what? Your delusions? I doubt it very much.

It's pretty dampened now, until I find out what really happened the last few days. Btw, she talked about marrying me and moving to Europe with me, and her physical attraction and jealousy about other girls texting me speak a clear language, she loved me allright. She said it once.

The kids are not hers. If they were hers she would hardly only spend 2 days there. If she was in Sisaket at all. And she says she's in Chonburi City, not Pattaya.

She's in Pattaya. If she was working with Japanese, she'd be in Sri Racha. If she's not in Pattaya, it's because it's high season and short term accommodation more expensive. Chonburi City sounds better than Pattaya. Of course she could simply share her location at the touch of a button, but she does not. Why do you think that might be?

Quite likely she is with a customer.

2 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

Money, money, money... Each time, money was her motivation and cheating by having sex with other men was her choice. Low quality. Remember, when someone shows you who they are, believe them. She's not different because of you. It's just you who concocts a story for yourself, in order to be able to perform.

I guess she is considering a position as a 'cashier' in Pattaya. They go where the money is... Phuket, Pattaya... it's not a coincidence.

Hook, line and sinker...

She was too interested in money, yes. But this was most likely due to sheer necessity, because the mother and father keep pressuring her for money. And of course she was used to her Thai and Austrian boyfriends throwing money at her. She was trained that way. Doesn't mean she's a sex worker by a long shot.

Her admission that she cheated on her Thai bf and the Austrian is what it is. But those guys were obese and ugly, it's a miracle she was with them in the first place. She was just moving up the ranks in looks hypergamy. Nothing unusual.

2 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

She's in Pattaya. If she was working with Japanese, she'd be in Sri Racha

Girls in Sri Racha are 8 and 9. His was a 3

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

She is certainly more interested in the BKK escort website than is healthy. And she also repeatedly said how she'd like to try being a bar girl. She loves sex. She loves money. So she certainly is very tempted by the work.

She doesn't have "customers", she's not a bargirl nor a freelancer even. She's not a sex worker of any kind. Probably.

The funny thing with BKK girl, only a few days ago she was sending me lots of voice texts, then on the very day when Phuket Girl revealed she had gone through my phone and knew I was talking to her all contact from BKK girl stopped abruptly. Since that day. I suspect Phuket girl contacted BKK girl, as she knew her TikTok.

Based on what? Your delusions? I doubt it very much.

It's pretty dampened now, until I find out what really happened the last few days. Btw, she talked about marrying me and moving to Europe with me, and her physical attraction and jealousy about other girls texting me speak a clear language, she loved me allright. She said it once.

The kids are not hers. If they were hers she would hardly only spend 2 days there. If she was in Sisaket at all. And she says she's in Chonburi City, not Pattaya.

The kids are hers...

How old are they? I'm guessing one is around seven.

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Indeed I did check her phone. In detail. I saw all her Whatsapp, Line and Messenger convos, her photos. There was nothing of concern at all. Whenever guys proposed money to her, she never carried on the conversation, these were older convos of course. So there was that as well. Her phone checked out, nothing of concern at all, TF and Tinder still deleted.

You saw her OLD phone 😊

4 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

Of course she could simply share her location at the touch of a button, but she does not. Why do you think that might be?

Indeed, I will ask her to do that. However, I already asked her to share her address. She said she'd ask her host, but never came back on it.

Obviously this is a major concern and red flag.

2 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

You saw her OLD phone 😊

I hope I don't have to explain to you how Messenger and Insta accounts work. They're the same on any phone. And she only had one, I saw her things, her luggage, everything. She has no newer phone.

4 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

The kids are hers...

How old are they? I'm guessing one is around seven.

No, they're her sister's. No idea how old they are, both are toddlers.

5 minutes ago, Celsius said:

Girls in Sri Racha are 8 and 9. His was a 3

Don't embarass yourself, from you categorizing your fat-armed, hair thinning and round faced 45 year old as a "10", clearly you're ill-equppied to opine on such things.

Phuket Girl is a solid 8, a 9.5 if you factor in her personality.

I have been with my wife for 36 years, married for 34.5. I have never checked her phone, nor she checked mine. She is a financial counselor and has had meetings with men. I have never given that a thought. A good relationship is based on trust. Something I dont think you have ever experienced with any woman you have ever been with.

Just now, Cameroni said:

No, they're her sister's. No idea how old they are, both are toddlers.

Lawyer trained by the best minds and you don't know...

Uneducated girl from the jungle of Sisaket running rings around you.

Any man still in touch with his cojones, would have brushed away such nonsense and continued looking for something of quality. You have found pyrite. Move on. You cannot, the glister is blinding you.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Don't embarass yourself, from you categorizing your fat-armed, hair thinning and round faced 45 year old as a "10", clearly you're ill-equppied to opine on such things.

Phuket Girl is a solid 8, a 9.5 if you factor in her personality.

No, she's a 3, at best. Personally, worth a 0 to me, since she can be bought.

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I hope I don't have to explain to you how Messenger and Insta accounts work. They're the same on any phone. And she only had one, I saw her things, her luggage, everything. She has no newer phone.

She'll have a new one soon 😊 on you. 🥂

4 minutes ago, marin said:

I have been with my wife for 36 years, married for 34.5. I have never checked her phone, nor she checked mine. She is a financial counselor and has had meetings with men. I have never given that a thought. A good relationship is based on trust. Something I dont think you have ever experienced with any woman you have ever been with.

I would agree that trust is the basis of relationships. What you don't understand is that this is a different time to the one you grew up in. Now everyone in a relationshp knows the danger of the other having it very easy to talk to exes, or talk on dating sites in a clandestine way. So today, everyone is concerned about what's on the phone of the other. The orthodoxy today is to show each other the phone because of this. Indeed most good girls will have no problem to voluntarily show you their phone if they're seriously interested in you, saw it myself.

And I did experience the same kind of relationship for 23 years with a fully trustworthy woman whose phone I never checked, but I found it unsatisfactory and wanted something better.

5 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

No, she's a 3, at best. Personally, worth a 0 to me, since she can be bought.

Well, that's obviously nonsense. She's a clear 8.

Nor can she bought, she's not a sex worker.

Just now, Cameroni said:

Well, that's obviously nonsense. She's a clear 8.

Nor can she bought, she's not a sex worker.

She is...you paid her.

8 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

Lawyer trained by the best minds and you don't know...

Uneducated girl from the jungle of Sisaket running rings around you.

Any man still in touch with his cojones, would have brushed away such nonsense and continued looking for something of quality. You have found pyrite. Move on. You cannot, the glister is blinding you.

Well, we don't know what really happened the last few days. Perhaps she did go to Chonburi City to work in a frozen fruit factory with her aunt. Her lack of phone calls could be due to a broken phone, I saw it myself and how she had to angle the cable to get it to actually charge. That phone was on its last days.

There's no evidence to call what she really did the last few days.

1 minute ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

She is...you paid her.

I gave her an allowance which is not a payment for a one-off sex act, you should look up what prostitution means.

The sign of a good lawyer is not only finding the truth but convincing the jury - the readers - of what you are selling. You've failed in that regard. Surely you know this. If this is a thing and you are genuine in your affection then leave her be. It's sad and you'll have further pain and hurt.

Frankie is giving some good comments. Frankie, how did you come by this intricate knowledge of pay for play?

No judgment, I wish I could get hard for it, but I can’t

I’m going out on my fourth date in five days with my new Chinese friend.

I asked if we could take a cab instead of the BTS. She said:

You are the boss, you should always decide, and I won’t argue

Is this the Christian version of the old Thai classic, up to you?

10 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

And I did experience the same kind of relationship for 23 years with a fully trustworthy woman whose phone I never checked, but I found it unsatisfactory and wanted something better.

and look what you got!!!🤣🤣🤣

Satisfying isn't it??🤣

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Well, we don't know what really happened the last few days. Perhaps she did go to Chonburi City to work in a frozen fruit factory with her aunt. Her lack of phone calls could be due to a broken phone, I saw it myself and how she had to angle the cable to get it to actually charge. That phone was on its last days.

There's no evidence to call what she really did the last few days.

Broken phone is copium.

Can you just drop into a frozen food factory and work for a couple of days?

It may be time to refill your dating funnel.

I will be super psyched if I don’t have to.

My short-term goals are to hope that Christian obedience somehow connects to Her groin, And then it’s off to Koh Kood, Where I have never been and have been saving for a girlfriend situation.

Just now, Prubangboy said:

Can you just drop into a frozen food factory and work for a couple of days?

Yes, you can, it's very common actually. I know from BKK girl, who worked in an electronics factory for a month. It is very common for girls to go for a short while, and not to last. As the work is brutal. 10 hours standing on their feet. 4.30 am wake up.

2 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

My short-term goals are to hope that Christian obedience somehow connects to Her groin, And then it’s off to Koh Kood, Where I have never been and have been saving for a girlfriend situation.

This is the way to do it. Thai girls now expect to be taken on trips. No reason to think this Chinese lady won't appreciate it. Hope it's fun.

8 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I asked if we could take a cab instead of the BTS. She said:

You are the boss, you should always decide, and I won’t argue

Is this the Christian version of the old Thai classic, up to you?

That's lovely.

Phuket girl said the same in so many words, "You decide"....Just don't assume she'll always be this way. That can change at a drop of a hat.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I know from BKK girl, who worked in an electronics factory for a month. It is very common for girls to go for a short while, and not to last. As the work is brutal. 10 hours standing on their feet. 4.30 am wake up.

You are a very gullible man, especially for being a lawyer. You are being lied to and played left right and center. It is just so obvious, and you remain oblivious.

2 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Frankie is giving some good comments. Frankie, how did you come by this intricate knowledge of pay for play?

No judgment, I wish I could get hard for it, but I can’t

I’m going out on my fourth date in five days with my new Chinese friend.

I asked if we could take a cab instead of the BTS. She said:

You are the boss, you should always decide, and I won’t argue

Is this the Christian version of the old Thai classic, up to you?

As a teenager, I used to live with a woman who was in the business. She controlled around seventy girls, who had high paying Arab and Jewish customers. Plus, when I came across such women, I didn't treat them as sex objects, but connected with them on a deeper level.

An example...I remember walking down a street, seeing a Thai girl whom I knew. I didn't actually physically touch her, not even once. She was with her husband and child. She told me, on the spot, that she loved me. He was too drunk to notice. This is not the only time this has happened. The girls perform because it brings them stability, but often those are not the men they love and respect.

Reading the posts of some here, I can understand why.