It was written in the stars
What was written in the stars shall be
It was written in the skies
That the heart and not the eyes shall see

And so whether it bring joy
Whether it bring woe
It shall be done

Now suddenly I know
You are the one

 

Here as in a daydream
By my side, you stand
Here with my tomorrows
In your hand

 

It was written high above
That I have to have your love
Or I'll never be free
And cloudy though the day be
Crazy though I may be
What the stars foretold shall be.

How old am I?

 

You kiss me and I'm young

If I make you happy today, I'm the perfect age

As for tomorrow

 

Turn the page

 

 

 

 

You are posting videos. For what purpose? Has Gamma got into you?

I'm setting the mood. I have date 3 to organize for Saturday. 

 

I've set the bar very high yesterday. So to top it I have to go beyond fine dining and bar music. It has to be something special. To elicit an emotional response she can't deny.

 

To get there I have to enter this mindspace myself. What can be better than yesterday? It can't be a pedestrian. Again it has to be very special.

This is the worst Walter Mitty diatribe for years.

She's not there yet. She's intrigued. She'll play ball. She's receptive. But she's not fully in love obviously, nor even emotionally attrracted.

 

It has to be something that's not just "nice" but something that makes her say "I really want to be with this guy". 

1 minute ago, hotandsticky said:

This is the worst Walter Mitty diatribe for years.

 

Awww, you can't understand when love blosoms. That's so sad. How I wish you could feel what I feel. I'm sorry man. I feel for you.

A few day's ago I'd said "Let's see, I want to tak you out Saturday". She said "15th?",  I just said "yes.". I didn't realise it was 2 weeks down the fricking line.. So this morning I texted her "I don't want to wait til the 15th. I want to take you out this Saturday, 8th." No reply all morning. She finally texted just now "Yes, I'm free". So obviously I'm flying now.

 

But it's not all good news, in Central I did a cold approach on this Thai girl. Tall, mid length bob, stylish Japanese jeans outfit. Unfortunately she did not speak English and it was just as she entered that market row, so not only was it futile, but it was embarassing as hell for both. Still, lesson learned. Time to perfect Thai.

The Filipina virgin lost her phone and wanted me to send 3600 baht for a new phone. I did not.

 

She then said she has to control herself not to flirt with the customers in the bar she now works in. The virgin now works as a waitress in Angeles City. You can't make it up.

 

And chomping at the bit to service the clients in more than drinks.

 

I ended it since clearly I have found someone decent, and Filipinas have proven anything but decent. Terrible experience. Far from loyal, very dishonest and mentally unstable.

33 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

The Filipina virgin lost her phone and wanted me to send 3600 baht for a new phone. I did not.

 

She then said she has to control herself not to flirt with the customers in the bar she now works in. The virgin now works as a waitress in Angeles City. You can't make it up.

 

And chomping at the bit to service the clients in more than drinks.

 

I ended it since clearly I have found someone decent, and Filipinas have proven anything but decent. Terrible experience. Far from loyal, very dishonest and mentally unstable.

You can't make it up.

 

Clearly you can!

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

You can't make it up.

 

Clearly you can!

 

100% truh only. I never lie.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

100% truh only. I never lie.

You start to talk like a Thai Girl....

On 10/27/2025 at 3:28 PM, SAFETY FIRST said:

On 10/27/2025 at 3:02 PM, Cameroni said:

Thai girl, 25 years old, extremely attractive

Maybe I know her

Unbelievable, this thread is still growing. 

 

Around 1 week and 35 pages. 

 

Well done to the OP 👍

 

I love the lounge, it's where all the intellectuals hang out 

 

3 minutes ago, CHdiver said:

You start to talk like a Thai Girl....

 

I wish. If I could speak Thai I would really be killing it. I lost a cold approach today only because of lack of Thai.

3 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Unbelievable, this thread is still growing. 

 

Around 1 week and 35 pages. 

 

Well done to the OP 👍

 

 

And I'm not even Trump!

On 11/3/2025 at 1:53 AM, Cameroni said:

 

I am. But you can't tell that to a 25 year old girl.

 

To them I'm 43.

 

And you are confident that's not going to backfire at some point? 

 

Strange thread. Let us know how it progresses. 

 

21 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

And you are confident that's not going to backfire at some point? 

 

Strange thread. Let us know how it progresses. 

 

 

That's a fair question. What I've learnt ist to NEVER, NEVER, EVAAAAAH, tell a 25 year old you married, had children and are over 50. I've lost plenty of hot prospects, because they had the fantasy of a guy without kids, never married and not over 45.

 

I have also learnt, that once a woman is hooked on you, has given up all her options for you, and really wants to be part of your life, she will overlook a ton of negative things. Even, if you're married. I had one Filipina who was with me for 6 years even though I was married.

 

So, the trick is not to say anything, and then AFTER she is hooked in and wants to have a rel with  you, that's when you reveal it. If you reveal it too early, you kill your chances. Of course it's a cold shower and she'll be disappointed, but she may continue the rel, as she's invested too much. If you tell her at the start when she invested nothing, you have no chance.

 

Macchiavellian? Yes, but when you go in the Octagon, you need to use all weapons. They don't fight fair, ever, anyway.

6 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Unbelievable, this thread is still growing. 

 

Around 1 week and 35 pages. 

 

Well done to the OP 👍

 

I love the lounge, it's where all the intellectuals hang out 

 

Absolutely!

Long story short,  the shameless character is not the young Thai girl,  it's the salivating old geezer!

43 minutes ago, ravip said:

Absolutely!

Long story short,  the shameless character is not the young Thai girl,  it's the salivating old geezer!

 

She is totally shameless. She just wrote me "You still want me to come? You know I'm a slut".

 

Could she be any more shameless?

Anyway, she's just an also ran now. I found the most attractive girl for me and she's in Chiang Mai. What are the odds?

 

Now I have to plan date 3, and it will be the mother of all dates.

 

I already have several venues that are candidates,  money no object. This has to be the clincher, date 3 is key.

I wonder why it is that I have chemistry with this girl. But not another one. It seems such a mystery. You do nothing, and you have it with someone. But not even immediately, it takes time to develop. But with others you never have it. I wonder what causes that.

 

Archetypes? Intelligence? Past experience? And you can't force it either. Either it's there. Or it's not. It takes two.

It's a bit like with attraction. You see a girl. There's nothing obviously wrong with her, she's not ugly. And yet you know "Ah, that's not my style". 

 

And then you see another one and instantly, within a nano-second, you know "Yup, she'll do". 

 

It's the same with Chemistry. It must have to do with preferences as well.

I would be spending my peso to ride the carousal ....not betting on one of the riders.

Just want your money, she doesn’t want to be your gf

On 10/27/2025 at 3:33 PM, Cameroni said:

 

I don't even know this girl, I've never met her. I just know from her Instagram photos and what she sent me, and a few video calls, that she's incredibly hot and attractive. So I was willing to pay the 10000 to 15000 to fly down to Phuket and then bring her to CM for two weeks to "sound her out", to see what character she had.

 

But this seems redundant now, because she's told me to my face that her sole intention is to go on a carousel of penises, and there is zero chance she will be tied down, as she wants her freedom to do what she wants, ie have sex with as many guys as possible.

 

Whilst I commend her honesty, and clearly her honesty level is very high, the substance of what she wants to do, and her shameless in announcing this openly, surely disqualify her as any kind of long term prospect?

 

I certainly don't intend to pay 140000 baht to bring her to CM, then another 10000 to have "fun" and then have her turn around and jump on some other guy's Johnson.

 

I mean that would literally be insane.

More men have done incredibly stupid things with their cash. Just a paid internship matey.