Do you ever go to the Sichuan restaurant at the Shangri-La?

1 minute ago, Prubangboy said:

Do you ever go to the Sichuan restaurant at the Shangri-La?

 

I've been there once, but I like the Shangrila more for brunch. I'm not crazy about the atmossphere in the Chinese. For Chinese I prefer Tolou.

 

But if you like Sichuan there's another one in Nimman that's highly rated, thought not a 5 star place.

I come from Nimman , the Nimmana condo, everybody’s first stop in Thailand.

 

Sushi Umai was my twice a week, if you don’t know it. And Ging Grai pad Thai is a dish I’ve had at least a dozen times.
 

Also,Why Not? Italian. I’ll be eating there on Christmas with my ex-wife, as always.

6 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I come from Nimman , the Nimmana condo, everybody’s first stop in Thailand.

 

Sushi Umai was my twice a week, if you don’t know it. And Ging Grai pad Thai is a dish I’ve had at least a dozen times.
 

Also,Why Not? Italian. I’ll be eating there on Christmas with my ex-wife, as always.

 

Oh thanks for the Why Not tip, I was looking for an Italian. She'd already been to Italics, which is now Lumi, and so I didn't want to go there. And she loves Pizza.

 

You guys are so useful. I will check out Why not!

One thing sticks in my head, something BKK girl told me at the beginning. She had this Ukrainian guy before, whom she was crazy in love with. Good looking tall, fit, strawberry blonde guy, love of her life. I asked her if she loved him. She said "I gave him so much love, maybe too much love". Well, he was a prostitute boy, and was not suitable for long term. She left him.

 

I just hope I don't give CM girl too much love, when it's not warranted yet. I will aim to be stoic, despite how I feel inside, not show how much :I really like her. If you show too much love, it's never good, but especially at the beginning it can be fatal.

Holding back is also a sign of respect. It shows restraint which breeds trust.
 

My ex-wife: former homecoming queen, fifth generation on the same land, successful in a creative business. An 8.5, or a nine if you like them Irish looking. 

 

So I have a lot of empathy for a hotel maid, but I really need to go in a very different direction. I need ardor, not comfort.
 

And then there is the paying them thing. I see their side of things, but it’s just not for me.

We are in the same boat, as my friend said about dating in Brazil. “ what I want, I can’t get. What I can get, I don’t want.”

 

The more I think about traveling for a couple of months after Christmas, and putting it all straight out of my mind, the more I get into the idea.
 

It’s fearless to do it, and it’s also fearless to get off the merry-go-round and not do it.

 

 

19 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Holding back is also a sign of respect. It shows restraint which breeds trust.
 

My ex-wife: former homecoming queen, fifth generation on the same land, successful in a creative business. An 8.5, or a nine if you like them Irish looking. 

 

So I have a lot of empathy for a hotel maid, but I really need to go in a very different direction. I need ardor, not comfort.
 

And then there is the paying them thing. I see their side of things, but it’s just not for me.

We are in the same boat, as my friend said about dating in Brazil. “ what I want, I can’t get. What I can get, I don’t want.”

 

The more I think about traveling for a couple of months after Christmas, and putting it all straight out of my mind, the more I get into the idea.
 

It’s fearless to do it, and it’s also fearless to get off the merry-go-round and not do it.

 

 

 

I do like Irish a lot. Lucky you.

 

Yes, I think holding back is, sadly, essential. Because women, as you know, just don't develop feels as quickly as we do. As they don't have the testosterone. They're just much slower, more deliberate, they fall in love much slower. Which is better actually. I had one of these Filipina virgins crazy in love with me, and I do mean full on, perfume gifts, many other things, and constant calls. But that kind of love, like the Spanish song says, "Amor que es fuerte pronto acabara", strong fires burn out quickly.

 

If you come on too strong declaring your love, you will just irritate them, because they will think that's not normal, not what I would do, it's too early. It sucks in a way, :I would love to show how I really feel about CM girl, but I really can't. Not yet. I would also prefer ardor, I need it too, but it will come later hopefully.

 

Paying, like KhunPer, said, I think it's just sensible, if it's a reasonable allowance. You have to give out provider vibes, money will always win and trump over looks long term, but you don't want to let money be the be all and end all, because it can't be that. It is for buying fun experiences above all, keeping it interesting and convincing her that you make her life better. Just as she has to convince us, that she makes our life better.

 

But with this CM girl, I have no doubt she would make my life better, she is so considerate, so articulate, fun, intelligent and just you know, on my frequency.

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It's really true, when you find it, you know it. There is no doubt at all. It's her.

 

I know you want to get off the carousel altogether. We all think of that now and then. But it's not natural. Man was made, and it was not good, he needed woman. We need them.

I live on a very nice Soi and I dress well. And I’m always in a good mood. That’s all it takes here.

 

I am off to a group dinner of eight people in a Tonglor Greek restaurant. Half of the group is women. Why not?

2 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I live on a very nice Soi and I dress well. And I’m always in a good mood. That’s all it takes here.

 

I am off to a group dinner of eight people in a Tonglor Greek restaurant. Half of the group is women. Why not?

 

This is the way to do it!

 

Go for it ma boy!!!

So Phuket girl has a visitors for 3 days. Her gf and her thai boyfriend. They want to go to Bangla road. But she doesn't have money.

 

Asked me if I can send her. I wondered how much she wanted. She says 5000.

 

I said you want me to pay 5000 baht for you to sit with other Farang drinking?

 

No, I send you picture.

 

These girls, really.

I can feel all the good energy of the universe converge in my chest. It was no accident that this girl appears in my life now, when I'm ready.

 

Today will be the greatest date the world has ever seen. Planned meticously and executed flawlessly. 

 

No more room for errors.

 

It's Go time.

16 hours ago, Cameroni said:

So Phuket girl has a visitors for 3 days. Her gf and her thai boyfriend. They want to go to Bangla road. But she doesn't have money.

 

Asked me if I can send her. I wondered how much she wanted. She says 5000.

 

I said you want me to pay 5000 baht for you to sit with other Farang drinking?

 

No, I send you picture.

 

These girls, really.

Yes, amazing what you easily can get of pictures when using AI...
PS: My lovely Thai girlfriend told me that a Thai-girl don't need money to go for "a night in the town"🤔 – she will come home with money...😀

Just now, khunPer said:

Yes, amazing what you easily can get of pictures when using AI...
PS: My lovely Thai girlfriend told me that a Thai-girl don't need money to go for "a night in the town"🤔 – she will come home with money...😀

 

I of course refused and sent nothing. Even though this girl is beautiful and interesting, her character is in the toilet.

 

After I refused to send the 5000 she texted me she had to tell me something. She can't come to see me, she has a boyfriend. Sorry. I said "Okay, cool. Take care". And she kept texting me but he doesnt care about me at all.

 

I said, didn't you say you had sex with your Austrian Ex and a Belgian. She said yes. So I said, you had 9 guys then. She "Is that a lot?"... Well, it's not little.

 

Anyway, imagine the luck of her "boyfriend", she cheated on him with an Austrian and Belgian, and was lining up a guy in CM. 

 

And the kicker, she said she didn't want to come beccause she didn't want to be "low value"....I almost said "I think that ship sailed a long time ago..." but I held my tongue.

 

What a ho.

22 hours ago, Cameroni said:

One thing sticks in my head, something BKK girl told me at the beginning. She had this Ukrainian guy before, whom she was crazy in love with. Good looking tall, fit, strawberry blonde guy, love of her life. I asked her if she loved him. She said "I gave him so much love, maybe too much love". Well, he was a prostitute boy, and was not suitable for long term. She left him.

 

I just hope I don't give CM girl too much love, when it's not warranted yet. I will aim to be stoic, despite how I feel inside, not show how much :I really like her. If you show too much love, it's never good, but especially at the beginning it can be fatal.

Bearing in mind that we are all different – what one experience, might not work the same way for others.

 

However, I learned – of course the hard way – that it hurts too much to fall in love where the other part might have a different culture and view on relationship. We Westerners have grown up with that much equality that we expect love to be mutual. But in some cultures a good provider means love. A clever young lady might think ahead and being very modest in the beginning – not even mentioning money – but "a good provider" might well be the long term plan. A good mother would teach her daughter that "a good provider" is essential for family – and that can just be the daughter's own little family, not necessary an extended Thai-family – and future; just like it was in old time in our Western home countries. If the man is a good provider love will follow. It might hurt a lot, if you as man fall in love and cannot provice the expectations; i.e. heartbroken when the relationship comes to an end because of lack of funds, not lack of love.

 

Another aspect is that if you show too much love, you might even be considered as an easy target. One of my Thai friends – a beautiful young lady – told me about her boyfriend, whom she shortly after married: "I don't love him, but I can live with him". They are still married now 15 years later, and he is still so much in love with; have paid for a house for her and takes care of education of her son from a previous Thai-marriage, adopted him and agreed on no more children in the family. I know she was actually in love with someone else – one of my friends, who did not have a loaded treasure chest by that time – but she was clever enough to decide for the safe way of future life. Luckily she seems happy; and so seems he.

 

Another young Thai girl I met was so sad, because she had fell in love with a young Norwegian guy. But he was a music student – studying to be classical music conductor – and had no money. It wouldn't work.

 

Which brings me to, what a rich fellow countryman, who had numerous young ladies around him, said: "You cannot buy love for money, but you can buy something that looks like love exactly."

 

Life might be easier and more pleasant, if a relationship is considered like what "we can give to each other making us happy" – and I know it sounds businesslike, but that might work better that way – not being too much in love. Then you "easily" can finish the relationship, if it's not working well enough for you, and just move on. Girls are like tramcars, when you are waiting at the stop another will always arrive shortly after, it might even have lots of free (heart) space.

 

I was not deeply in love with my now Thai girlfriend, but she seemed to be the right one, cared enough for me, had time for me and not asking for money. She seemed like an excellent choice. It has worked well despite both age and culture difference. Many years later she said that in the beginning she considered our relationship as 20% love and 80% money – even she didn't ask for much – now it's has changed to 80% love and 20% money.

 

Just some experiences mentioned, remember that we are all different.

 

It's a question of keeping both feet solid planted on the ground and personal balance – I wish all the best good luck for you.

57 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I of course refused and sent nothing. Even though this girl is beautiful and interesting, her character is in the toilet.

 

After I refused to send the 5000 she texted me she had to tell me something. She can't come to see me, she has a boyfriend. Sorry. I said "Okay, cool. Take care". And she kept texting me but he doesnt care about me at all.

 

I said, didn't you say you had sex with your Austrian Ex and a Belgian. She said yes. So I said, you had 9 guys then. She "Is that a lot?"... Well, it's not little.

 

Anyway, imagine the luck of her "boyfriend", she cheated on him with an Austrian and Belgian, and was lining up a guy in CM. 

 

And the kicker, she said she didn't want to come beccause she didn't want to be "low value"....I almost said "I think that ship sailed a long time ago..." but I held my tongue.

 

What a ho.

I like your comments.

 

Everything is relative; "9 guys" might not be a lot at all – just like 9 girls might not be much for 1960s-1970s rock musician...👍😎

 

By the way, when I finished with my first attempt to have a Thai girlfriend – a little young beautiful gold digger😍 – I said that we could continue to be friends. Her answer: "If you don't give me money, why should we be friends!"

12 minutes ago, khunPer said:

Bearing in mind that we are all different – what one experience, might not work the same way for others.

 

However, I learned – of course the hard way – that it hurts too much to fall in love where the other part might have a different culture and view on relationship. We Westerners have grown up with that much equality that we expect love to be mutual. But in some cultures a good provider means love. A clever young lady might think ahead and being very modest in the beginning – not even mentioning money – but "a good provider" might well be the long term plan. A good mother would teach her daughter that "a good provider" is essential for family – and that can just be the daughter's own little family, not necessary an extended Thai-family – and future; just like it was in old time in our Western home countries. If the man is a good provider love will follow. It might hurt a lot, if you as man fall in love and cannot provice the expectations; i.e. heartbroken when the relationship comes to an end because of lack of funds, not lack of love.

 

Another aspect is that if you show too much love, you might even be considered as an easy target. One of my Thai friends – a beautiful young lady – told me about her boyfriend, whom she shortly after married: "I don't love him, but I can live with him". They are still married now 15 years later, and he is still so much in love with; have paid for a house for her and takes care of education of her son from a previous Thai-marriage, adopted him and agreed on no more children in the family. I know she was actually in love with someone else – one of my friends, who did not have a loaded treasure chest by that time – but she was clever enough to decide for the safe way of future life. Luckily she seems happy; and so seems he.

 

Another young Thai girl I met was so sad, because she had fell in love with a young Norwegian guy. But he was a music student – studying to be classical music conductor – and had no money. It wouldn't work.

 

Which brings me to, what a rich fellow countryman, who had numerous young ladies around him, said: "You cannot buy love for money, but you can buy something that looks like love exactly."

 

Life might be easier and more pleasant, if a relationship is considered like what "we can give to each other making us happy" – and I know it sounds businesslike, but that might work better that way – not being too much in love. Then you "easily" can finish the relationship, if it's not working well enough for you, and just move on. Girls are like tramcars, when you are waiting at the stop another will always arrive shortly after, it might even have lots of free (heart) space.

 

I was not deeply in love with my now Thai girlfriend, but she seemed to be the right one, cared enough for me, had time for me and not asking for money. She seemed like an excellent choice. It has worked well despite both age and culture difference. Many years later she said that in the beginning she considered our relationship as 20% love and 80% money – even she didn't ask for much – now it's has changed to 80% love and 20% money.

 

Just some experiences mentioned, remember that we are all different.

 

It's a question of keeping both feet solid planted on the ground and personal balance – I wish all the best good luck for you.

 

Thanks for sharing. So many excellent points, where to begin.

 

I have a dinstinct impression that this CM girl is from a family without financial issues. She graduated from university with a good degree and is now preparing to get a job by doing an English test. She seems upper middle class. Her English is excellent because she studied it at University, not because she had a farang boyfriend.

 

When I'm with her, we seem to have a lot in common, from our outlook on life to allergies to how we view love and important aspects of it. I can really converse with her. I feel like she is on my frequency and I think she must feel it too, or she would not have agreed to a third date.

 

But of course she is still not "all in" and waiting what will happen. I also know she goes out to nightclubs quite a bit, and has been to Osaka, Shanghai, Singapore, KL, and many other places, always staying in the best hotels like the Conrad, courtesy of  her then Taiwanese boyfriend. So whilst I take her to the best CM can offfer, she's already had that, and more than that. She clearly likes a night out as well, so I'm concerned our dinner and bar format maybe somewhat staid for her.

 

Clearly, I will work on physical contact and improving chemistry still further. But I will also take her to very expensive places to show that I can provide and I am a man of world, have a university degree and you know  satisfy all those boxes Thai girls have now, if they are from the upper middle class.

 

You're right of course, love can develop later too. But we have such good chemistry I am really hoping something organic will get going in the next few weeks. But it's hard to know, if you know, I'm the only guy she goes out with or what is  what. And she must have the same view.

 

I'll show my interest, but I will try not to be girlie-in-love but masculine. I really don't want this to go wrong as I really, really like this CM girl.

2 minutes ago, khunPer said:

I like your comments.

 

Everything is relative; "9 guys" might not be a lot at all – just like 9 girls might not be much for 1960s-1970s rock musician...👍😎

 

By the way, when I finished with my first attempt to have a Thai girlfriend – a little young beautiful gold digger😍 – I said that we could continue to be friends. Her answer: "If you don't give me money, why should we be friends!"

There is vids online with her and 5 guys.

13 minutes ago, khunPer said:

I like your comments.

 

Everything is relative; "9 guys" might not be a lot at all – just like 9 girls might not be much for 1960s-1970s rock musician...👍😎

 

By the way, when I finished with my first attempt to have a Thai girlfriend – a little young beautiful gold digger😍 – I said that we could continue to be friends. Her answer: "If you don't give me money, why should we be friends!"

 

Thats' true of course, but you can tell by how she talked about sex, that this is a promiscuous woman. She said 9, but I would not be surprised it's considerably higher.

 

It's not just her rampant promiscuity, her money grabbing nature was such a turn off. If I had flown her in it would have just been for sex. There would never have been any future wit this girl. Though she was smart, her English was almost non-existent. I'm kinda relieved I can file this one under "lucky escape" and focus on this quality girl in CM.

 

When they are so focused on money, I really don't like it.

It already started bad.I got a strange text from CM girl, she was throwing me a curve ball. "Did you put down a deposit, because if not I just feel like eating Shabu?" I was not sure if she was testing me or just felt like Shabu badly. Or maybe was uncomfortable with the bar outings. Either way, I didn't like it, I told her I'd booked a place I wanted her to see and also a place nearby, so let's just go there. She accepted it.

 

Then on the way driving there it started coming down, the rain.   She looked amazing when she came,  She has this elegant style. Not ostentatious Thai elegant, but understated elegance. I can hardly overstate the beauty of this woman. The banter was again very lively and pleasant, I made sure to joke a bit more.
 

I took her to one of the most expensive hotels in CM and service was good. The meal began very well, the ambience and food quality, as well as service were superb. I then made a slight mistake. Our tables were opposite each other. The waitress then brought a third chair, ostensibly for my carry-all, but I asked if i could sit there. I thought it would be more pleasant to sit adjacent to her, I could get more tactile. However, it felt wrong. Like I was pursuing her and was overeager. But too late.

 

In any event she was as ever the gracious charming companion, serving my food for me with care, putting on sauce, just serving me up constantly. I looked at her and then over the scene below us, the  courtyard of this magnificent hotel. It was a lovely scene.

 

I then had to rush to the this bar, as they'd said that they'd give away the table if I was more than 10 minutes late. So we were a bit behind, and just about made it to get our table at this bar. 

 

However, this bar is not good for a date. It had a long serving table, so you sit there like in some school art project, the light is fair bright. There is not soft music, but a DJ. To cap it all she ordered the two worst cocktails, I tried them, they were really bad. Bitter. She didn't want to finish them.

 

I tried to lighten the mood with a Chinese drinking game. However, she kept winning so I was the one drinking instead of her. Finally, I just said, let's get out of here, and she readily agreed. She had previously said she loved KFC  and we could go after dinner. But then she had to go to the toilet badly. I offered tea at my place, but she said she had to go to church the next morning. She's Christian. And then the worst news of  all.

 

As she tried to get her umbrella, some sob had stolen her umbrella. Obviously she was not happy. The bar offered her to just take one of the other customers. So she did, but that one was half broken. I offered to buy her a new one. Perhaps that will lead to a daytime date tomorrow or Tuesday.

 

Either way, the date ended badly. I drove her home. She did not pause to kiss as she had to go to the bathroom. I couldn't go out do my photo number and bearhug either, as she had to rush to the bathroom.

 

The end was not good. I will try to make up ground with a dayt time date tomorrow or Tuesday, if possible.

 

But it is so clear to me now, that this is the woman of my dreams. I cannot believe my luck I met her. 

 

8 hours ago, Cameroni said:

It already started bad.I got a strange text from CM girl, she was throwing me a curve ball. "Did you put down a deposit, because if not I just feel like eating Shabu?" I was not sure if she was testing me or just felt like Shabu badly. Or maybe was uncomfortable with the bar outings. Either way, I didn't like it, I told her I'd booked a place I wanted her to see and also a place nearby, so let's just go there. She accepted it.

 

Then on the way driving there it started coming down, the rain.   She looked amazing when she came,  She has this elegant style. Not ostentatious Thai elegant, but understated elegance. I can hardly overstate the beauty of this woman. The banter was again very lively and pleasant, I made sure to joke a bit more.
 

I took her to one of the most expensive hotels in CM and service was good. The meal began very well, the ambience and food quality, as well as service were superb. I then made a slight mistake. Our tables were opposite each other. The waitress then brought a third chair, ostensibly for my carry-all, but I asked if i could sit there. I thought it would be more pleasant to sit adjacent to her, I could get more tactile. However, it felt wrong. Like I was pursuing her and was overeager. But too late.

 

In any event she was as ever the gracious charming companion, serving my food for me with care, putting on sauce, just serving me up constantly. I looked at her and then over the scene below us, the  courtyard of this magnificent hotel. It was a lovely scene.

 

I then had to rush to the this bar, as they'd said that they'd give away the table if I was more than 10 minutes late. So we were a bit behind, and just about made it to get our table at this bar. 

 

However, this bar is not good for a date. It had a long serving table, so you sit there like in some school art project, the light is fair bright. There is not soft music, but a DJ. To cap it all she ordered the two worst cocktails, I tried them, they were really bad. Bitter. She didn't want to finish them.

 

I tried to lighten the mood with a Chinese drinking game. However, she kept winning so I was the one drinking instead of her. Finally, I just said, let's get out of here, and she readily agreed. She had previously said she loved KFC  and we could go after dinner. But then she had to go to the toilet badly. I offered tea at my place, but she said she had to go to church the next morning. She's Christian. And then the worst news of  all.

 

As she tried to get her umbrella, some sob had stolen her umbrella. Obviously she was not happy. The bar offered her to just take one of the other customers. So she did, but that one was half broken. I offered to buy her a new one. Perhaps that will lead to a daytime date tomorrow or Tuesday.

 

Either way, the date ended badly. I drove her home. She did not pause to kiss as she had to go to the bathroom. I couldn't go out do my photo number and bearhug either, as she had to rush to the bathroom.

 

The end was not good. I will try to make up ground with a dayt time date tomorrow or Tuesday, if possible.

 

But it is so clear to me now, that this is the woman of my dreams. I cannot believe my luck I met her. 

 

This is how it's done. 

 

Take her to the pub for a chicken schnitzel and buy yourself a cheap ring from Mike's shopping mall. 

 

Just don't get too drunk, you may put the ring on the wrong finger 

 

18 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Take her to the pub for a chicken schnitzel and buy yourself a cheap ring from Mike's shopping mall. 

 

I definitely have to vary the expensive hotel restaurant and bar format, it's getting old. If she says let's go to Shabu, she's perhaps telling me, I'd rather go somehwere more informal. She's 25 after all.

 

What a terrible ending yesterday. I hope it can be recovered from.  I'll try to set up a daytime date today or more likely for Tuesday.

Phuket girl was writing all night yesterday. She changed her mind and will break things off with her other guy. Wants to go to CM but I still have to go to Phuket first. I told her no way am I going. I'm not even that keen on her coming here, as I want to focus on this amazing CM girl.

 

I'm really down now. That date yesterday did not go well at the end. I think I can recover it though.

12 hours ago, Cameroni said:

What a terrible ending yesterday. I hope it can be recovered from.  I'll try to set up a daytime date today or more likely for Tuesday.

 

This is turning into a soap opera.

Relationships can last weeks, months, years.

Does anyone have the time to follow the trials and tribulations of every single date you go on?

 

If it works out and stands the test of time, maybe summarize it in a neat little paragraph what your secret to success was.

 

If it ends badly, maybe do the same and give us a summary so we learn from your mistakes. 

 

All the best. 

 

6 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

If it ends badly, maybe do the same and give us a summary so we learn from your mistakes. 

 

Well, I think I made a number of mistakes yesterday.

 

1)  I wanted to make more jokes and make the date more fun. But that backfired. When I just switched seats to sit adjacent to her, I think it came off as overeager, like pursuing her. Never do that.

 

2) I made jokes about serious subjects, like quipping we should get married. It was meant as a joke, but I don't think that was a good move. Jokes should be appropriate.

 

3) I took her to an inappropriate second venue, a brightly lit bar with terrible cocktails.and an atmossphere not conducive to intimacy.

 

That they stole her umbrella was not my fault, but these things happen.

 

I really hope it can be recovered from, I offered to buy her a new one. But what a poor ending to a date. Such bad luck.

I have changed sides again
 

At first, I was a strong proponent of you going to Phuket. As you recall, I even offered to go for you.

 

But now it’s like the government shut down, you can’t give in. 
 

But why not throw her a curveball and offer to meet her in Penang?

Sitting next to her without some kind of body language invite was definitely over eager. 
 

But she’s already decided whether she’s gonna take her dress off or not. What’s your best guess?

5 hours ago, save the frogs said:

 

This is turning into a soap opera.

Relationships can last weeks, months, years.

Does anyone have the time to follow the trials and tribulations of every single date you go on?

 

If it works out and stands the test of time, maybe summarize it in a neat little paragraph what your secret to success was.

 

If it ends badly, maybe do the same and give us a summary so we learn from your mistakes. 

 

All the best. 

 

The clown is a drama queen, loving every minute of  thinking guys  believe any of his crap.

12 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I have changed sides again
 

At first, I was a strong proponent of you going to Phuket. As you recall, I even offered to go for you.

 

But now it’s like the government shut down, you can’t give in. 
 

But why not throw her a curveball and offer to meet her in Penang?

 

Well, she's driving hard at me now. Claims she broke it off with her boyfriend and insisting if I come to Phuket she will go to CM with me. I said why do you insist I go to Phuket, to which she says  she hasn't been to this and that beach yet, she likes the beach. It makes no sense to me. She's a hot good looking, intelligent and interesting girl, sure, but she's a low quality girl out for cash. She deceived already about not having a boyfriend. So if she wants to come to CM, and I'm free, maybe I'll send her a ticket. 

 

The thing is, I'm not that interested in her now. I've met my dream woman, who is this Chinese Thai national, I went on a date with yesterday that nosed dived badly. I want her. No matter what it takes. I want her. 

 

I have to make it happen, so I can get her. Go on another date. But it really didn't go well yesterday at the end.

 

In terms of money I will invest whatever it takes with this Chinese girl. But with Phuket girl, I have a limited budget, because she's a low quality girl. That's a week or two of fun, tops.

On 10/27/2025 at 8:27 PM, NorthernRyland said:

 

the fact a hot 25 year old would consider dating a 54 year old makes already extremely lucky does it not? Try doing that in America. I think your bar is too high on this one.

It’s all about the $$$$$$$

Do you think Thai Chinese is the top of the ladder?
 

The guy who stalked women in their yearbook photos very much felt this way, and apparently there are Thai Chinese names that reveal them.