2 minutes ago, TedG said:

It’s all about the $$$$$$$

 

It is with this Phuket girl. But not with the CM girl. That girl is used to stay at the conrad, holidays in Osaka and in Shanghai. 

 

I took her out to the best, most expensive restaurants, and it means nothing to her. She'd rather eat Shabu.

 

I'm not sure what she's thinking, I can't read her. But she's not thinking of money, that's for sure.

 

What a woman she is, fun, smart, gentle, innocent. Completely different calibre to Phuket girl, or even BKK girl. CM girl is what I've been looking for.

Your list of dating problems with Chiang Mai China girl would have all gone away in a second if she were more physically into you.
 

Would you consider second tier looks wise if the person was emotionally stable and gagging to have sex with you?

1 minute ago, Prubangboy said:

Do you think Thai Chinese is the top of the ladder?
 

The guy who stalked women in their yearbook photos very much felt this way, and apparently there are Thai Chinese names that reveal them.

 

No, I don't there's one higher. Chinese Chinese. This girl is not even Thai Chinese. She just has Thai nationality because she was born here. But her mother is Chinese and father is from Tibet.

 

And she's Christian. I will never find another girl like this. Even her look, she has a totally different aesthetic, such a striking girl. I think she knows it though. She probably has plan A, B, C, D, E, F, G, like all of them.

 

But I will go down with this ship. It''s her or nobody else.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

It is with this Phuket girl. But not with the CM girl. That girl is used to stay at the conrad, holidays in Osaka and in Shanghai. 

 

I took her out to the best, most expensive restaurants, and it means nothing to her. She'd rather eat Shabu.

 

I'm not sure what she's thinking, I can't read her. But she's not thinking of money, that's for sure.

 

What a woman she is, fun, smart, gentle, innocent. Completely different calibre to Phuket girl, or even BKK girl. CM girl is what I've been looking for.

I think you have a Holly Golightly complex, where the party girl is also down to earth and has a heart of gold. That is definitely very hard to find.

1 minute ago, Prubangboy said:

Your list of dating problems with Chiang Mai China girl would have all gone away in a second if she were more physically into you.
 

Would you consider second tier looks wise if the person was emotionally stable and gagging to have sex with you?

 

I know. CM China girl is so attractive, I don't even know why she dates an older guy like me. Yes, I have a pleasant face, but given the age difference, I kinda find it hard she's attracted to me.

 

But she must be, because why would she go on 3 dates with me otherwise? Some attraction must be there.

 

2 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Would you consider second tier looks wise if the person was emotionally stable and gagging to have sex with you?

 

I had a Filipina virgin who was totally into me, willing to do anything sexually. Of course you hate to give that up. But for CM China girl, I would give that up in a heartbeat.

 

As a second option, I'm not sure. If I can't get CM girl, I may just have to think things over a bit. But it's still early days, I can still turn it around I think.

It’s funny, because I talked to a matchmaker just for laughs, and they told me it was 85% Chinese women doing it here. They were turning away women, and I was offered two free dates. Maybe when I get back from Antarctica. But probably not.
 

So they view Thailand as the expensive husband designer store, and we view Thailand as  the cheap girlfriend mini market.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I know. CM China girl is so attractive, I don't even know why she dates an older guy like me. Yes, I have a pleasant face, but given the age difference, I kinda find it hard she's attracted to me.

 

But she must be, because why would she go on 3 dates with me otherwise? Some attraction must be there.

 

 

I had a Filipina virgin who was totally into me, willing to do anything sexually. Of course you hate to give that up. But for CM China girl, I would give that up in a heartbeat.

 

As a second option, I'm not sure. If I can't get CM girl, I may just have to think things over a bit. But it's still early days, I can still turn it around I think.

Probably nor does she.........🫡...........

Is the Filipino love slave still in play?
 

Or do you just now want to somehow graft woman’s head onto that willing and much defiled body?

2 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

It’s funny, because I talked to a matchmaker just for laughs, and they told me it was 85% Chinese women doing it here. They were turning away women, and I was offered two free dates. Maybe when I get back from Antarctica. But probably not.
 

So they view Thailand as the expensive husband designer store, and we view Thailand as  the cheap girlfriend mini market.

What I find so interesting about this Chinese Thai CM girl is that she has this innocence. She doesn't know who Elvis was, who Sinatra was.  She basically sits at home watching Chinese anime and she has been brought up by hyper-conservative parents who did not allow her to have a boyfriend when she was in high school. In her words the most conervative parents in Thailand. That's probably why she likes to go out at night and digs Post Malone, the rebel wants to break the chains. Probably why I'm dating her, as I'm the exotic Farang.

 

She told me I'm handsome, but maybe the physical attraction thing is not fully there. I don't know, but it was an uphill climb yesterday. I really hope I can turn it around. Because if I meet my dream girl and can't get her, that would be tragic in the truest sense.

7 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Is the Filipino love slave still in play?
 

Or do you just now want to somehow graft woman’s head onto that willing and much defiled body?

 

No a few days ago we got into an argument. She works in a bar in Angeles now and told me she almost flirted and went with a guy there. So I told her clearly your pussy is itching for the Angeles F-boys, go for it, enjoy your bar and blocked her. She waited too long for me. We've been writing sincce 2023 and she came over to Thailand for only 2 months, when I sent her back. She just doesn't do it for me physically, though she's not ugly. She just doesn't have "it" like china CM girl and BKK girl. You know, that frequency of ours.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

What I find so interesting about this Chinese Thai CM girl is that she has this innocence. She doesn't know who Elvis was, who Sinatra was.  

 

Because if I meet my dream girl and can't get her, that would be tragic in the truest sense.

The old person stuff is a vage dryer.

 

Many attract you, few compel you.

 

As they said back in Suffolk, UK "it's uh bit offa thicket".

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

We've been writing sincce 2023 and she came over to Thailand for only 2 months, when I sent her back. 

That is some long game. 

 

I agree that you're running out your old guy clock, but the focus you bring to this means that you will probably prevail. You get better with each passing one. Even as your candle is burns at both ends.

 

A friend here is dating an escort. They have one rule: that she can't go with her old boyfriend. So how does that shake out?

15 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

The old person stuff is a vage dryer.

 

Many attract you, few compel you.

 

As they said back in Suffolk, UK "it's uh bit offa thicket".

 

I tell you, ma boy, this girl compels me like no other.Her face, her body, the way she walks. How she follows my lead, when I offer my hand to her. The way she serves me food in a restaurant so attentively with loving care.

 

The attention she takes with her style, how she dresses for our dates. Her deep intelligence, her joking and clowning around. How she carries herself so naturally with confidence.

 

How she discloses her imperfections, allergies, cold hands. 

 

I am so crazy about her, it's a real problem. I said to myself going in the third date, I will be masculine, I will not act like a schoolgirl in love. But when I saw her opposite me in the restaurant, I just wanted to sing "You are my destiny, you are, You are the one I love. You are my everything" on continous loop. 

5 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

That is some long game. 

 

I agree that you're running out your old guy clock, but the focus you bring to this means that you will probably prevail. You get better with each passing one. Even as your candle is burns at both ends.

 

A friend here is dating an escort. They have one rule: that she can't go with her old boyfriend. So how does that shake out?

 

Yes, each one makes you better. But so much can go wrong. You can slip in the rain and fall on your face. You can accidentally knock over a glass and look like an idiot.

 

You can change seats and sit closer to her, like I did, and come across as way too eager. You can take her to the wrong bar. Some nobhead can steal her umbrella.

 

She can meet some guy online. So much can go wrong.

 

Sometimes I really do think these things are written in the stars.

 

I know, in my heart, I've never known a woman is this compatible, this ideal for me. If I get another chance with her, I'd be under even more pressure to recover this poor situation now, but, I would do it all. 

 

A girl like this is impossible to find. It's a miracle she's going on a date with me.

you gotta get a grip

Just now, Prubangboy said:

you gotta get a grip

 

Very badly. I know.

 

If not, I will say the wrong thing, and be even more eager. I'm already on knife's edge after yesterday's date debacle.

I would invent a dental emergency that renders you speechless until you cool down. You sound doomed.

18 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I would invent a dental emergency that renders you speechless until you cool down. You sound doomed.

 

Yah, it's not looking good. I can't fathom how I can be so taken with this girl, after only 3 dates. 

 

I guess because she's the best I've met by far, ever really.

 

Whatever happens of course, it won't be a total loss. At least I know girls like this exist now. She could never be replicated though. Imagine, a half Chinese, half Tibetan, raised in Thailand and as a Christian. You could never hope to find someone like her.

Tibetan is an even tougher nut to crack. Good for you.

 

Christian is a giant flavor in Chiang Mai. Hit it and quit it. 

 

I know people who go; it's very hippie.

18 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Tibetan is an even tougher nut to crack. Good for you.

 

Christian is a giant flavor in Chiang Mai. Hit it and quit it. 

 

I know people who go; it's very hippie.

 

Believe me, I know how tough this battle is. I almost feel like she's playing, just sampling the terrain to show off her skills, never really intending to ever get close. 

 

She's not texting like the others. She has a full life. A family life. 

 

Goes to church. A woman of real faith. So attractive. 

 

I think she was disappointed when I said I am Buddhist as well as Protestant. 

 

But what can I do, I can just be honest, try to get to know her more. If we can get the chemistry back on our next date. Maybe this will work. 

 

I know a guy who had to date a Thai girl for 2 months before they married. 

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

No, I don't there's one higher. Chinese Chinese. This girl is not even Thai Chinese. She just has Thai nationality because she was born here. But her mother is Chinese and father is from Tibet.

 

And she's Christian. I will never find another girl like this. Even her look, she has a totally different aesthetic, such a striking girl. I think she knows it though. She probably has plan A, B, C, D, E, F, G, like all of them.

 

But I will go down with this ship. It''s her or nobody else.

She's not Thai if her mother is Chinese and her father is Tibetan. I wonder what visa the family has been using to stay in Thailand all these years.

14 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

She's not Thai if her mother is Chinese and her father is Tibetan. I wonder what visa the family has been using to stay in Thailand all these years.

 

From what I understood she was born in Thailand. She's completely fluent in Thai, like a native, so whilst she is the daughter of a Yunannese mother and Tibetan father, I understood she had a Thai nationality.

 

Maybe I'm wrong. Perhaps that's why she didn't want to share her Thai name.

She's not on Thaifriendly. There's not a single Bikini photo on her Instagram, only classy photos of her on holiday. Not a single "sexy" outfit.

 

This girl is the dream come to life.

On 11/8/2025 at 2:03 PM, Cameroni said:

After I refused to send the 5000 she texted me she had to tell me something. She can't come to see me, she has a boyfriend. Sorry. I said "Okay, cool. Take care". And she kept texting me but he doesnt care about me at all.

 

I said, didn't you say you had sex with your Austrian Ex and a Belgian. She said yes. So I said, you had 9 guys then. She "Is that a lot?"... Well, it's not little.

 

Anyway, imagine the luck of her "boyfriend", she cheated on him with an Austrian and Belgian, and was lining up a guy in CM. 

 

And the kicker, she said she didn't want to come beccause she didn't want to be "low value"....I almost said "I think that ship sailed a long time ago..." but I held my tongue.

 

What a ho.

 

😂

 

Send this story in to Thai talk with Dan. It's most amusing.

6 minutes ago, NorthernRyland said:

 

😂

 

Send this story in to Thai talk with Dan. It's most amusing.

 

I feel sorry for that girl. I am not concerned much about her now.

 

All I care about is the CM girl.  I want to see her again this coming week. 

 

She is so far above all these other girls, she's in a completely different league.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I feel sorry for that girl. I am not concerned much about her now.

 

All I care about is the CM girl.  I want to see her again this coming week. 

 

She is so far above all these other girls, she's in a completely different league.

Unfortunately for you, so are you. I think you may get your heart broken.

4 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

Unfortunately for you, so are you. I think you may get your heart broken.

 

Yes, I know. But it's a small price to pay for the possibility of being in a long term relationship with a woman of this calibre.

 

I would take any risk. Any pain. 

 

Even if that were to happen, I would not be upset. At least I tried and did my best.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, I know. But it's a small price to pay for the possibility of being in a long term relationship with a woman of this calibre.

 

I would take any risk. Any pain. 

 

Even if that were to happen, I would not be upset. At least I tried and did my best.

Great attitude.

7 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

It’s funny, because I talked to a matchmaker just for laughs, and they told me it was 85% Chinese women doing it here. They were turning away women, and I was offered two free dates. Maybe when I get back from Antarctica. But probably not.

 

Chinese are coming to Thailand (lots of Chinese appeared in Chiang Mai in the recent years) and they're looking for husbands in the expat community? That's hard to believe since it's so out there but maybe it's just that bad in China.

26 minutes ago, NorthernRyland said:

 

Chinese are coming to Thailand (lots of Chinese appeared in Chiang Mai in the recent years) and they're looking for husbands in the expat community? That's hard to believe since it's so out there but maybe it's just that bad in China.

 

I'm only going for Chinese now going forward, if it fails with CM girl. She's ruined me for Thais altogether. I couldn't go after a Thai, knowing what is out there now. 

 

Though "Chinese" is meaningless. I really mean one of the 25 Yunnan ethnicities and a Tibet admixture. Some interesting mix like that. Not just Han Chinese.