4 minutes ago, novacova said:

Yeah right, so she says…

 

No she didn't, I'm just considering the possibility. And people don't make up things like mother has 4th stage kidney failure, that's not something people are flippant about.

26 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

No she didn't, I'm just considering the possibility. And people don't make up things like mother has 4th stage kidney failure, that's not something people are flippant about.

60 year old lady near us has dialysis 4x a week, no charge apart from transport to/from the local hospital.

8 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

First of all, Phuket girl herself is gagging to come to CM. She's so keen that I have to push her back, as is evident from the attached Insta screenshot. She keeps sending me suggestions, ie Youtube videos of CM, things like tea plantations, suggesting I take her there. Asks questions constantly about CM. Clearly she's loving the idea to going to CM. So in Phuket Girl's case, this is completely untrue.

 

You seem to be projecting your own personal opinion of CM onto the girls, and I can tell you I have empirical evidence that completely contradicts this notion. Most of the girls are very excited to come to CM, I've only had it once that a girl on Insta was not a fan of CM, many others loved the idea of coming here.

 

Apart from the fact that your personal opinon of CM does not correspond with reality, after all CM is the second city in Thailand and attracts masses of young tourists from China, Korea, Japan, Thailand and pretty much all countries in the world, . It's not just retirees.  CM has some of the best bars in Thailand, better than some in Bangkok (I mean quality bars not lady bars), roof top bars and 5 star restaurants, the flower sea at Mon Jam etc. In fact just on the road to Mon Jam you'll have more things to do than in most places in Thailand, a Japanese Onsen, ATV tours, gun shooting, Elephant camps, cafes etc. The cafe culture in Chiang Mai is legendary and cut above any place in Thailand, including Bangkok. There's Go kart places, Zoo, some of the best markets in Thailand, Jing Jai, Coconut market., Walking street, Sunday market etc etc.

 

Most of the girls I targted are from the provinces, to them CM is kind of like a Nirvana, Phuket Girl is from Si Saket for instance. And they love the idea of going on a holiday in the north, the mountains, elephants etc. So no, I have strong empirical evidence that flatly contradicts your personal opinion.

 

It's also false that all the girls on Insta or dating apps are "sluts". Three of the girls I met were bona fide virgins, most had body counts well below the western average, some very low. You can meet quality people on the internet and in bars, I met my wife in a bar. These rules you speak of are false as well.

 

Now, if I were in Phuket or Ko Samui, would it make things easier, yes, because most of these young girls do love beach and party, so it would increase the total package attractiveness, sure. But I'd rather not get girls who just come to me because they like beach and party. If they come to CM, it's partly the holiday, but it's partly me after all, so it's not a pure holiday choice.

 

Is this the CM girl or Phuket girl?

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

60 year old lady near us has dialysis 4x a week, no charge apart from transport to/from the local hospital.

 

Thanks, do you know how long she spends in hospital?

Just now, emptypockets said:

Is this the CM girl or Phuket girl?

 

That's Phuket girl. If CM girl wrote to me she wanted to meet me, I would not be on here for a long time.

From this stage 4 kidney disease is on the door to kidney replacement.

 

https://th.mykidneyjourney.com/en-TH/chronic-kidney-disease/ckd-stage-4

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

Thanks, do you know how long she spends in hospital?

About 4hrs, wife drives her, drops her off, then collects her later that day.

I don't know if this is true for all on dialysis, but she's very frail, and can't really leave her home on her own.

On 10/27/2025 at 3:32 PM, SAFETY FIRST said:

Why would a beautiful woman want to be with a smelly guy without remuneration 

 

A beautiful woman needs to be spoilt to death. 

I do it all the time, my girlfriend's are gorgeous.

You give them what they want, they remain loyal, try it, it's rewarding. 

 

Life and relationships are similar to running a business, it's all about the bottom LINE 

 

sorry but that’s just dumb 

 

 

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

About 4hrs, wife drives her, drops her off, then collects her later that day.

I don't know if this is true for all on dialysis, but she's very frail, and can't really leave her home on her own.

 

Yes, the question is if it's just dialysis. CM girl said the mother has been staying with the two sisters for a week now, to be nursed. So maybe she has other underlying issues. Particularly as she's going into hospital tomorrow.

 

Clearly, the trip was to their mother, to get the mother to CM to care for her.

8 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

One of the photos of our dinner made it into her highlight reels on Insta, yet I still got ghosted.

 

It was a bit odd she never friended me on Insta, that was very unusual. Almost all the girls that agree to date and are interested always follow me back on Insta. But CM girl never did. Never asked questions about my age, where I'm from. Just wanted to meet. That was somewhat unusual. Also unusual she has 1400 farang guys in her Insta as followers, almost all of whom are extremely old and unattractive.

 

It almost felt as if she was dating to practice her skils. Looking back the only signs of her really being invested in the process was when she put her hand in mine to say it was cold, look, and when I got home from date 2 and she asked if I got home safe. Yes she was warm, interested and engaged in the conversation, laughing and clowning around, but real investment was thin.

 

I know for a fact, looking at her Insta highlight reels, her trips to HK, KL, Singapore, Beijing, Osaka, Kyoto, Ko Samui, etc, that she has been taken on extremely high luxury trips repeatedly.  I'm not easily impressed, as I do 5 star vacations as a rule myself, but these photos were indicative of someone very rich taking her. She stayed at the Conrad Hotel. That's top of the tree.

 

So yah, maybe it is about material things with her, it can't be discounted. Even then, I took her to the best CM had to offer, but maybe she expected a trip somehwere like Bali. She actually asked me where I'd like to to go on a trip. When I said Phu Quoc in Vietnam, she said "Aaah, Vietnmam" disappointment in her voice. She said she preferred Bali.

 

I avoid those women, they’re damaged goods. 
 

Really pointless to try to impress them.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, the question is if it's just dialysis. CM girl said the mother has been staying with the two sisters for a week now, to be nursed. So maybe she has other underlying issues. Particularly as she's going into hospital tomorrow.

 

Clearly, the trip was to their mother, to get the mother to CM to care for her.

So it's CM girls mum who has the kidney problems?

5 minutes ago, Everyman said:

 

sorry but that’s just dumb 

 

 

No need to be sorry, it's OK for you to have a different opinion to me. 

 

BTW, it's not dumb 

 

18 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

No need to be sorry, it's OK for you to have a different opinion to me. 

 

BTW, it's not dumb 

 

 

shoveling money at bar girls is dumb 

 

no amount is ever enough 

29 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

So it's CM girls mum who has the kidney problems?

Yes 

9 minutes ago, Everyman said:

 

shoveling money at bar girls is dumb 

 

no amount is ever enough 

OK, I understand that you are in a different situation to that of me, you have a very different way of thinking 

 

I'm dripping with money, I give them a little bit of money, I have plenty.

 

I've worked hard over the years, I've invested wisely, I'm enjoying life now. The girls I'm with are STUNNERS, the most beautiful, young women. 

 

It's not dumb to me. 

 

 

I just kissed CM girl.

 

Outside her house.

 

She sent me a text, if I would mind buying a case for her Iphone 17 Pro Max? I said no, I wouldn't, lets buy you a nice case.

 

However, given the time, it would not have worked to pick her up and drive to Central. So I said, I would go to Central and buy it and bring it to her house.

 

So I drove to Central. In the car she texted me "But I have no make up on my face, not beautiful like when I'm with make up". I replied "You are always beautiful". She "Sure or not?" Me "Sure. So sure. I've never been more sure".. She "You're so sweet though". Me "I'm sweet on you".

 

She came out, a smile on her face. I kissed her right away, on the temple, almost on the ear, and half hugged her. She said jokingly "I hope mother didn't see that".  I handed her the case.

 

I asked how long she will stay in her mother's home town. She said she doesn't know yet, she will find out from the doctors tomorrow.  I wished her a good trip and left, more floating than walking.

 

Then mostly singing in the car.

 

You can call me a Supersimp, if you like, I don't even care. That 700 baht investment in the phone case is the best investment of my life.

 

Date 4 is nigh on guaranteed. On the day she posts "I will be single until a man proves he's serious", I steppped up. I showed her I am serious, and she can count on me.

 

If she hadn't wanted to have anything to do with me, she would not have asked me to get this case. This was a good sign. That I could deliver before she left on her long trip, was the best.

 

I'm in like Flynn!

 

 

 

 

 

55 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

If she hadn't wanted to have anything to do with me, she would not have asked me to get this case. This was a good sign. That I could deliver before she left on her long trip, was the best.

 

So who got her a 40,000 baht phone when she can't get her own 700 baht case ?

20 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

So who got her a 40,000 baht phone when she can't get her own 700 baht case ?

 

Her Taiwanese Ex. He flew her to Osaka, Kyoto, Singapore, Hong Kong, Beijing, I saw the  pictures of her in the Conrad Hotel. That guy was seriously wealthy.

 

Or maybe she got it on a pay plan with a telcom provider, the way people in the UK get these phones, paying monthly. Could be either I guess.

 

But my theory that she comes from a wealthy family is obviously wrong. The mother is being admitted in a government hospital in a small town 2 hours away from CM. The fact she asks for a 700 Baht phone case, unless it was just a ploy to see what I would do, also seems to indicate that these are not the Thai Rockefellers.

 

Alright then… everyone better start putting a little something aside, because when the Cameroni wedding celebration finally happens, it’s going to be huge—and you know we’re all going to need deep pockets and strong livers.🤣☺️

 

Who's your best man?

 

 

3 minutes ago, Bacon1 said:

Who's your best man?

Malcolm 

7 hours ago, Cameroni said:

I just kissed CM girl.

 

Wow, There's some serious love hearts getting throw about, how sweet. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

To quote  Bruce:

 

Faith will not be thwarted 

 

Dreams will be rewarded

47 minutes ago, Bacon1 said:

 

Alright then… everyone better start putting a little something aside, because when the Cameroni wedding celebration finally happens, it’s going to be huge—and you know we’re all going to need deep pockets and strong livers.🤣☺️

 

Who's your best man?

 

 

 

I knew from the second date I will marry this girl if I get a chance. I will propose as soon as  propriety allows, given that her mother is dying, and she has to nurse her. Perhaps the mother can have a kindey transplant and there will be a happy ending, I don't know anything anymore. I thought CM girl went on a trip with another guy, and it turned she went to get her mother to nurse her at her house in CM. She didn't want to say, to keep her difficult times to herself. A more dignified woman I could not hope to find, bitter and shameless complaining is not her style. Whatever hardship she is going through, she kept it to herself.

 

When I saw her outside her house yesterday, yes, she was not the well turned out supermodel that I saw on our dates. She showed up without make up, and clearly she had gone through a lot, but her beauitful  smile, this golden aura she has, it was still there. She is the most beautiful woman i have ever seen, with or without make-up. All the women I've ever been with before, it feels they were not real, mere practice, and only this girl is real.

 

What will happen now is that we will deepen communication over text, as she takes care of her mother. I will give her the space she needs, as she will be focused on her mother, but I will write and so will she. We will bond over these hard times. I will show her that she can count on me for anything.

 

So yes, this marriage will happen, as for the best man, I think there should be a photo contest and I will choose whoever looks the part, as I can't have a decrepit Farang scare little Thai children at the wedding, so it has to be someone who looks attractive. Obviously not as attractive as me, that would be impossible, and in any event not desirable for obvious reaosns, but those wedding photos will have to pop. So feel free to do a thread to audition on the basis of looks.

 

I will send details of the account where wedding donations can be sent in due course.

 

 

 

 

44 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Malcolm 

 

I will be delighted if Malcolm would be at the party, though I'm concerned about his looks because of the wedding photos. No doubt the audition will sort the wheat from the chaff.

 

 

And.... bridesmaids....?

 

Who might you suggest?

44 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Wow, There's some serious love hearts getting throw about, how sweet. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

 

This will only get worse in the next few days, I want to prepare people, this thread will be dripping with sentimentality  and romance, so you have been warned. Just to show what I mean, and fair warning, this could be sickening emotionality for some people:

 

 

 

 

1 minute ago, Bacon1 said:

And.... bridesmaids....?

 

Who might you suggest?

 

Well, the dream would be Sheryl,  but as a doctor she may be busy saving lives. Like I hope the doctors in Chiang Dao will be doing with the life of CM girl's mother.

3 minutes ago, Bacon1 said:

And.... bridesmaids....?

 

Who might you suggest?

Georgie Boy 

39 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

To quote  Bruce:

 

Faith will not be thwarted 

 

Dreams will be rewarded

 

The Boss was right. I believed there was a chance, and all my dreaming will be rewarded.

 

When I divorced in 2023, I had faith that something better can be. I never doubted for a moment that she would come along. One day.

 

And she did. A dream made human. Like an Arab thoroughbred her beauty takes your breath away, her goodness makes you want to become a religious man.

 

Meet me in the land of hopes and dreams.

 

21 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

This will only get worse in the next few days, I want to prepare people, this thread will be dripping with sentimentality  and romance, so you have been warned. Just to show what I mean, and fair warning, this could be sickening emotionality for some people:

 

 

 

 

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