Full blown argument now. Screaming. Cursing.

 

 

24 minutes ago, Bacon1 said:

Spoilt & potentially very unmanageable.

 

Indeed - it does seem quite spoilt to force someone to do something they don't want to do - such as go for an early morning walk in the Sun.

 

Cameroni might like a walk - but why should he 'force' someone to go with him if they don't want to ?

 

 

 

 

 

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Full blown argument now. Screaming. Cursing.

 

Here we go.....  

 

 

14 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

I found myself logging on and checking out this thread this morning to see if the train had yet wrecked !!!... 

2 hours ago, josephbloggs said:

Sorry to say you are a very very gullible man. Either that or a troll.

The clown is absolutely full of crapola. Tells more lies then the cheif grifter himself. No one  and i mean no one on the planet could be as nieve as the OP.  And he reckons he  was a lawyer  ,hahahaha 

27 minutes ago, CallumWK said:

 

Why would anyone suddenly need a companion for his morning walks, when he has done them alone since ever?

 

Seems the thread was about to die, so give it a new twist?

Yes,sounds like people starting to realise it was all a dream in the op's head and he just woke up.

40 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

This I didn't like. 

 

I didn't ask for much. Just that she come on a walk in the sun with me for 45 minutes.

 

But "No, no, I am lazeee...go tomorrow"...took about 30 minutes to make clear that I'm not faffing around and she has to get ready and go on a walk with me. When she did she was sullen, not talkative and unhappy.

 

To be fair, she made it all the way to the end, and didn't pull diva stunts like BKK girl, who also didn't like to go on a walk. But even now, after coming home she's sullen and long faced. All because I asked her to go for a walk!.

 

When I asked what noodles she wants for breakfast "But I don't want to go ouuuuut".

 

Jesus Christ.

 

Before she came here she said "Just tell me what I need to do when I'm there". When I do, let's go for a walk, It's like a relative died.

You seem not to be aware that asking someone to walk for 45 minutes with someone who does it routinely is not easy. Why are you thinking she should be the same as you? Dont act like you are the boss or be dominant. After only three days, there is no way either of you can know some very basic habits or preferences of each other. Nose jobs and walking already signs of conflict. You are already sowing the seeds of relationship failure after making the very bold claim of "she is perfect". Quick to judge, quick to change your mind. I wanted this to work for you but alas... 

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

I am enjoying my time with her very much, it's an out and out lovefest, but I have to get her HIV tested still. I'm still concerned about the "infection" thing.

8 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Full blown argument now. Screaming. Cursing.

 

Love it - in the space of 3 hours its gone from an 'out and out lovefest' to 'DEFCON 1'

 

And... all for this girl who..

... has a Sister who works in a bar, but claims she never has and is not a freelancer

... has sex within hours of first meeting

... has had just 3 sexual partners in the past (yet seems very experienced)

... Refuses to give her real age

... Ops thinks  he need her HIV tested

 

 

The only surprise - no monetary demand has been made yet...  if thats not forthcoming within the next few days - she's back on the plane to Phuket to pick-up more work... never in bar of course !!! 

23 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Full blown argument now. Screaming. Cursing.

 

 

Eject! Eject! Eject!

8 minutes ago, Lightyear said:

Eject! Eject! Eject!

I fear we are not going to reach 100 Pages, 

So we agreed I cook for her today. Of course in her Tampo she was like "I just order you cook for you". So I lost it. "You said I cook for you today, so this is what we will <deleted> do."

 

I asked her if she wants to come to the market as I was going to buy the ingredients for shopping. She said no. Then changed her mind as she saw how angry I was. Then mid way to the market she says" maybe we eat first and cook for lunch? ". I agree. So I take her to a superb Japanese place. She gets upset we go here not market. Then she gets upset I don't bt order. Today is my Omad day. She ordered thee dishes. The problem was she was hungry. As she eats her old self returns. What a drama for nothing. 

54 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

Indeed - it does seem quite spoilt to force someone to do something they don't want to do - such as go for an early morning walk in the Sun.

 

Cameroni might like a walk - but why should he 'force' someone to go with him if they don't want to ?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Firstly because it's good for her. Fresh air, sunshine and exercise is what she needs. She's weak. 

 

Secondly, I ask for very little. I can't ask her to come on a 45 minute walk? Come on. 

Screaming temper tantrums this early on (or at any time, come to that) should be added to your red flags list. If she were in love, things whould still be peachy, and she'd be unable to find fault with her new hero.

 

Either she isn't as into you as she's making out, or she's a basket case.

 

Get out now, while you can.

52 minutes ago, ChrisKC said:

You seem not to be aware that asking someone to walk for 45 minutes with someone who does it routinely is not easy. Why are you thinking she should be the same as you? Dont act like you are the boss or be dominant. After only three days, there is no way either of you can know some very basic habits or preferences of each other. Nose jobs and walking already signs of conflict. You are already sowing the seeds of relationship failure after making the very bold claim of "she is perfect". Quick to judge, quick to change your mind. I wanted this to work for you but alas... 

 

I am not impressed she can't do this little thing for me, go for a walk, with a smile and good humour. 

 

Fair enough tomorrow I won't ask her.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

So we agreed I cook for her today. Of course in her Tampo she was like "I just order you cook for you". So I lost it. "You said I cook for you today, so this is what we will <deleted> do."

 

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took about 30 minutes to make clear that I'm not faffing around and she has to get ready and go on a walk with me.

I've got it worked out. From Cameroni's posting history it is clear he has a hatred of women and sees them as beneath him. It comes through loud and clear in his posts (always referring to them as "sluts" etc) and he has said as much many times. Where does it come from?

He is (apparently) a mid 50's guy who somehow believes girls in their early 20s find him attractive when of course they don't and neither do they have anything in common with him. And they are bar girls or freelancers but he convinces himself they are not because he is different, he is hansum.

 

They have no job but can afford surgery (yeah, sister or nephew or someone gave her the money). They have to disappear for stretches (to help mum, of course, not to spend time with another mark)   And guess what, young girls in their 20's don't want to go for old man walks, it is not what they do.

Eventually they do what freelancers or bar girls do to old men when they have them hooked, ask for money. Then he feels spurned and it adds to his life bitterness and fuels his misogyny even more. And he acts surprised when he treats them like branded cattle and they don't like it. Even bargirls have some dignity.

It's pretty sad really, but some people are just naive, too full of self-opinion, and very very easily played.

3 minutes ago, Lightyear said:

Screaming temper tantrums this early on (or at any time, come to that) should be added to your red flags list. If she were in love, things whould still be peachy, and she'd be unable to find fault with her new hero.

 

Either she isn't as into you as she's making out, or she's a basket case.

 

Get out now, while you can.

That was the whole point of asking her for a walk. To see if she would do it for me. 

 

Clearly she failed this test. 

5 minutes ago, josephbloggs said:

 

I've got it worked out. From Cameroni's posting history it is clear he has a hatred of women and sees them as beneath him. It comes through loud and clear in his posts (always referring to them as "sluts" etc) and he has said as much many times. Where does it come from?

He is (apparently) a mid 50's guy who somehow believes girls in their early 20s find him attractive when of course they don't and neither do they have anything in common with him. And they are bar girls or freelancers but he convinces himself they are not because he is different, he is hansum.

 

They have no job but can afford surgery (yeah, sister or nephew or someone gave her the money). They have to disappear for stretches (to help mum, of course, not to spend time with another mark)   And guess what, young girls in their 20's don't want to go for old man walks, it is not what they do.

Eventually they do what freelancers or bar girls do to old men when they have them hooked, ask for money. Then he feels spurned and it adds to his life bitterness and fuels his misogyny even more. And he acts surprised when he treats them like branded cattle and they don't like it. Even bargirls have some dignity.

It's pretty sad really, but some people are just naive, too full of self-opinion, and very very easily played.

I love women. Always have and always will. 

 

Your post is nonsense from start to finish. 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

Full blown argument now. Screaming. Cursing.

 

 

 

19 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Firstly because it's good for her. Fresh air, sunshine and exercise is what she needs. She's weak. 

 

I thought she was strong enough to go 12 rounds in aphortides bed-sheets...   now she's weak?...

 

She's a middle aged adult - you are treating her like a child - are you going to tell her what she can and can't eat next, what she can watch on TV ??? - your attitude is 'controlling' - hardly builds mutual respect.

 

19 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Secondly, I ask for very little. I can't ask her to come on a 45 minute walk? Come on. 

 

Of course you can 'ask' her - but forcing her is a d!,k move...   Invite, her, then its her call - accept and respect her decision - its not hard.

 

18 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I love women. Always have and always will. 

 

Your post is nonsense from start to finish. 

 

Apart from the 'hating women' part - its a fairly accurate summary... 

15 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I am not impressed she can't do this little thing for me, go for a walk, with a smile and good humour. 

 

Fair enough tomorrow I won't ask her.

You have simply ignored what I said. Don't bother about replying if you continue to be so dismissive. Not surprising your "perfect" girl is resisting. We don't know much about the girl but we have certainly learned a lot about you and most us are not impressed. Quite a lot of attitude adjustment is recommended. 

 

25 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I am not impressed she can't do this little thing for me, go for a walk, with a smile and good humour. 

 

Fair enough tomorrow I won't ask her.

 

Now you know...   though the wheels have started falling off a way earlier than anticipated... 

 

On 11/29/2025 at 7:44 AM, richard_smith237 said:

You'll notice - when she starts getting apathetic and grumpy - you'll know the 'honeymoon' interval is over...  

 

The 'silent treatment' phase is going to be interesting - you've got about a week I reckon.

 

Next will be financial demands and a series of 'hot and cold' behavior... 

 

26 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

That was the whole point of asking her for a walk. To see if she would do it for me. 

 

Clearly she failed this test. 

 

YOU are the one being tested.... 

She's intelligent, despite the language barrier communication is easy. (?????)

 

It's very convincing and she's excellent at it. Clearly some reward will be forthcoming. This is outstanding.

 

I sometimes wonder what the universe intended in sending me towards CM girl. Why tease me with this ostensibly perfect girl, ....The universe wanted me to appreciate real quality. Genuine quality.

We talk about a lot of things.. (???????)............The happiness you see in her, multiply it by 10 for me.

 So when she came and sat on my couch she was open to try, she liked me for me, there was no game either. I mean dressed well, I smelled good, I had a nice car, I  was polite and upbeat, sure, but that was not the key. The key was that Puhket girl was receptive and I could give her what she wanted. All she saw was Sisaket and Phuket, a condo, she never had these aspirations and demands like CM girl. 

 

She has been very honest with me so far, but yes, time will as always judge this issue.

No tatoos at all. Terrible English.  (!!!!)

She is doing dishes now. She is the sweetest most loving girl I have met. And she is a real beauty in every way. But her character, her loving and affectionate nature is her real beauty.

 

( editor) Day 3 ????  (sorry if i left some highlights out .   trying to keep from clicking on "clear editor"  was quite a challenge ! ) .   All done while eating a sandwich ......... 

    

            stay tuned for more fun and games ........ 

 

 

I didn't ask for much. Just that she come on a walk in the sun with me for 45 minutes.

 

But "No, no, I am lazeee...go tomorrow"...took about 30 minutes to make clear that I'm not faffing around and she has to get ready and go on a walk with me. When she did she was sullen, not talkative and unhappy.  

 

editor's note:   So much for being "unlike anyone any of us has ever known "  🙄🙄

     

OMG........... the blowup started already ???

 

and the mods cheering on has turned about as suddenly as ...... a thai girl's mood when told to get up for a walk  5555

 

now it's  "get her out, quick "   lol

 

 

 

 

 

 

26 minutes ago, rumak said:

and the mods cheering on has turned about as suddenly as ...... a thai girl's mood when told to get up for a walk  5555

*mod hat on* There are no intriguing conspiracies here I'm afraid. AN mods are volunteers, with no axe to grind or financial interest whatsoever. AN provides a service to the expatriate community, and we're happy to be a part of it, joining in discussions from time to time. 

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

I thought she was strong enough to go 12 rounds in aphortides bed-sheets...   now she's weak?...

 

Well in the absence of sexual energy I mean, her body is not muscular and lithe. She needs exercise.

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

Next will be financial demands and a series of 'hot and cold' behavior... 

 

I already got the hot and cold! She's back to joking and hugging now though.

 

I bought some flowers which seems to have got it all on track. I also think she needed to eat.

 

 

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

your attitude is 'controlling' - hardly builds mutual respect

 

It's "controlling" if I ask her to go out in the sunshine for a walk in the fresh air? What planet are you on?

 

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

Invite, her, then its her call - accept and respect her decision - its not hard.

 

I was acting in her best interest. She now got fresh air, Vitamin D from sunshine and exercise. If not she'd have laid in bed all day watching TikTok.

 

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

Apart from the 'hating women' part - its a fairly accurate summary... 

 

It was total nonsense. Phuket girl was never a bar girl nor a freelancer. Not in the true sense. She took money from boyfriends, sure, but she was never a sex worker in the real sense.

 

And I already explained her Thai boyfriend of 5 years paid the 40000 for her plastic surgery. His insinuations are just factually wrong from start to finish.

 

 

 

 

2 hours ago, ChrisKC said:

Nose jobs and walking already signs of conflict.

 

There will always be conflicts, it would be silly to pretend there will never be any.

 

We've resolved both issues now.

48 minutes ago, rumak said:

OMG........... the blowup started already ???

 

It's been resolved, stop making a molehill out of ant poop.

 

Two people will disagree on things sometimes.

 

She's back on track, now she's eaten.

Just now, Cameroni said:

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

your attitude is 'controlling' - hardly builds mutual respect

 

It's "controlling" if I ask her to go out in the sunshine for a walk in the fresh air? What planet are you on?

 

Its not controlling if you ask / invite her and accept whatever answer she gives.

 

It is controlling if you have an emotional melt down and 'force' her to go with you.

 

Thus - What planet are you on Cameroni ???  because you appear oblivious to the narcissistic and controlling behavior you displayed.

 

 

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

Invite, her, then its her call - accept and respect her decision - its not hard.

 

I was acting in her best interest. She now got fresh air, Vitamin D from sunshine and exercise. If not she'd have laid in bed all day watching TikTok.

 

This perfect girl - is now a lazy girl who'd lay in bed all day and watch TikTok - make your mind up.

 

Again - you  appear oblivious to your narcissistic and controlling behavior.

 

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

Apart from the 'hating women' part - its a fairly accurate summary... 

 

It was total nonsense. Phuket girl was never a bar girl nor a freelancer. Not in the true sense. She took money from boyfriends, sure, but she was never a sex worker in the real sense.

 

Oh.. how blinded you are...     she has 'never worked in a bar'... 

 

She won't even tell you her age - how can you believe anything she says ?

 

BTW: she's obviously Mid to late 30's - so if she tells you she's 25, she's lying.

 

She took money from boyfriends - she has slept with you within hours of meeting you for the first time, after you have 'paid' for her travel to see you...  and she's not a freelancer ???..  hmmm

 

When she asks you for money - what will she be then ? - Not a freelancer but a paid for girlfriend, right ?

 

Just now, Cameroni said:

And I already explained her Thai boyfriend of 5 years paid the 40000 for her plastic surgery. His insinuations are just factually wrong from start to finish.

 

 

6 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

because you appear oblivious to the narcissistic and controlling behavior you displayed.

 

Fine, I can't ask my girlfriend to go on a walk outside with me. Okay.

 

6 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

who'd lay in bed all day and watch TikTok - make your mind up.

 

She was literally on the couch just now watching Tiktok on her Ipad. If I hadn't set up a profile on one my four laptops for her and introduced her to microsoft, she'd still be watching TikTok. At least now she's learning something useful.

 

If controlling is for the better, is it really bad?

3 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

She won't even tell you her age - how can you believe anything she says ?

 

Don't be ridiculous. She even showed me her Thai ID card. She changed track on that one very quickly.

 

4 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

BTW: she's obviously Mid to late 30's - so if she tells you she's 25, she's lying.

 

Lol, all the armchair experts, I've seen her Thai ID card. Born in 2001.

 

5 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

She took money from boyfriends

 

Perfectly normal, every girl does that.

 

5 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

she has slept with you within hours of meeting you for the first time

 

Not just that, but her gusto and pleasure in doing it I have to say were unusual.

 

6 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

When she asks you for money - what will she be then ? - Not a freelancer but a paid for girlfriend, right ?

 

Girlfriends need help with their finances, and ask for money, it's normal, she'll still be a girlfriend.