I just saw the girl I’m dating working on pattaya beach road.... But I was getting it for free.
There are more holes in that story than in Swiss cheese

12 minutes ago, wombat said:

I just saw the girl I’m dating working on pattaya beach road.... But I was getting it for free.
There are more holes in that story than in Swiss cheese

Is this Shrek? 🤣🤣

On 3/9/2026 at 4:38 AM, american_boy said:

I’ve been living in pattaya for a few months now. I met this girl on Thai friendly a few weeks ago and we have been dating since then. She told me that she has a regular job and I believed her. A few days ago she said that she needs to go visit her family. Today I was walking on beach road and I saw her wearing a short skirt and high heals. So I went to talk to her and she admitted that she is a freelancer. While we were talking, one of her old customers showed up and started to talk to her. She gave him an offer for short time right in front of me and she left with him. I was standing there like an idiot. It really made me feel like crap. After about one hour later she showed up at my condo like nothing happened. I kicked her out and blocked her. Did anybody here have a similar experience? Are most girls in pattaya freelancers?

I was dating her too. Did I get the dose from her or you?

Duplicate post.

On 3/9/2026 at 7:38 AM, american_boy said:

I’ve been living in pattaya for a few months now. I met this girl on Thai friendly a few weeks ago and we have been dating since then. She told me that she has a regular job and I believed her. A few days ago she said that she needs to go visit her family. Today I was walking on beach road and I saw her wearing a short skirt and high heals. So I went to talk to her and she admitted that she is a freelancer. While we were talking, one of her old customers showed up and started to talk to her. She gave him an offer for short time right in front of me and she left with him. I was standing there like an idiot. It really made me feel like crap. After about one hour later she showed up at my condo like nothing happened. I kicked her out and blocked her. Did anybody here have a similar experience? Are most girls in pattaya freelancers?

On 3/9/2026 at 7:38 AM, american_boy said:

I’ve been living in pattaya for a few months now. I met this girl on Thai friendly a few weeks ago and we have been dating since then. She told me that she has a regular job and I believed her. A few days ago she said that she needs to go visit her family. Today I was walking on beach road and I saw her wearing a short skirt and high heals. So I went to talk to her and she admitted that she is a freelancer. While we were talking, one of her old customers showed up and started to talk to her. She gave him an offer for short time right in front of me and she left with him. I was standing there like an idiot. It really made me feel like crap. After about one hour later she showed up at my condo like nothing happened. I kicked her out and blocked her. Did anybody here have a similar experience? Are most girls in pattaya freelancers?

On 3/9/2026 at 7:38 AM, american_boy said:

I’ve been living in pattaya for a few months now. I met this girl on Thai friendly a few weeks ago and we have been dating since then. She told me that she has a regular job and I believed her. A few days ago she said that she needs to go visit her family. Today I was walking on beach road and I saw her wearing a short skirt and high heals. So I went to talk to her and she admitted that she is a freelancer. While we were talking, one of her old customers showed up and started to talk to her. She gave him an offer for short time right in front of me and she left with him. I was standing there like an idiot. It really made me feel like crap. After about one hour later she showed up at my condo like nothing happened. I kicked her out and blocked her. Did anybody here have a similar experience? Are most girls in pattaya freelancers?

Mate you don't get it .It was your turn you knocked her back .Now you've gotta back on the end of the line you numbccull !!

On 3/9/2026 at 6:14 AM, JoseThailand said:

Yes they are. Even 7-11 girls do freelance occasionally

Which Sevens?

What about in Chiang Mai?

Is this also true of stores in Chiang Mai, or only Pattaya?

Please reply soon.

If yer looking for Love & Commitment what makes you think you'll find it in Pattaya?

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This must a joke right?

It is Pattaya, why is this author surprised his "Babe" is "working"?????

On 3/9/2026 at 8:30 AM, spidermike007 said:

Mistake number one was getting involved too quickly. Have some fun but really, really take your time. Many Thai women are very clever at making it appear that they really care for "their guy". And on many occasions, that is true, especially in long term relationships. But, for short time gals, it is just a game, and they play it well. Many Western men who come here are emotionally vulnerable, or an emotional wreck, having endured years of near torture by uber-feminists. 

My advice would be to take your time. Don't move fast, don't move in with her, don't live with her, date her for 6 months to a year and see how you like her. Time is required to really get to know somebody and once you face some adversity together, once you see her many times under many different occasions, you really start to get a sense of who she is and whether or not she is somebody who has the kind of emotional development that would make her worthy of investing your own time into her. She will likely push back as a lot of Thai women like to step up the timetable, you are then required to push back and set the ground rules. If she's not okay with that, you just let her walk. And always remember every woman has a story, some of them are real most of them are not, and a lot of these women are coached by women who are very skillful in telling a man what he wants to hear.

If you're dealing with a middle class woman from a stable family or from a woman from a wealthy family, it's a very different story. But most of the women we are exposed to come from families that are not well established, and families that are not financially secure, and this is a survival game for them.

Be kind to yourself and take your time.

On 3/9/2026 at 8:30 AM, spidermike007 said:

Mistake number one was getting involved too quickly. Have some fun but really, really take your time. Many Thai women are very clever at making it appear that they really care for "their guy". And on many occasions, that is true, especially in long term relationships. But, for short time gals, it is just a game, and they play it well. Many Western men who come here are emotionally vulnerable, or an emotional wreck, having endured years of near torture by uber-feminists. 

My advice would be to take your time. Don't move fast, don't move in with her, don't live with her, date her for 6 months to a year and see how you like her. Time is required to really get to know somebody and once you face some adversity together, once you see her many times under many different occasions, you really start to get a sense of who she is and whether or not she is somebody who has the kind of emotional development that would make her worthy of investing your own time into her. She will likely push back as a lot of Thai women like to step up the timetable, you are then required to push back and set the ground rules. If she's not okay with that, you just let her walk. And always remember every woman has a story, some of them are real most of them are not, and a lot of these women are coached by women who are very skillful in telling a man what he wants to hear.

If you're dealing with a middle class woman from a stable family or from a woman from a wealthy family, it's a very different story. But most of the women we are exposed to come from families that are not well established, and families that are not financially secure, and this is a survival game for them.

Be kind to yourself and take your time.

On 3/9/2026 at 8:30 AM, spidermike007 said:

Mistake number one was getting involved too quickly. Have some fun but really, really take your time. Many Thai women are very clever at making it appear that they really care for "their guy". And on many occasions, that is true, especially in long term relationships. But, for short time gals, it is just a game, and they play it well. Many Western men who come here are emotionally vulnerable, or an emotional wreck, having endured years of near torture by uber-feminists. 

My advice would be to take your time. Don't move fast, don't move in with her, don't live with her, date her for 6 months to a year and see how you like her. Time is required to really get to know somebody and once you face some adversity together, once you see her many times under many different occasions, you really start to get a sense of who she is and whether or not she is somebody who has the kind of emotional development that would make her worthy of investing your own time into her. She will likely push back as a lot of Thai women like to step up the timetable, you are then required to push back and set the ground rules. If she's not okay with that, you just let her walk. And always remember every woman has a story, some of them are real most of them are not, and a lot of these women are coached by women who are very skillful in telling a man what he wants to hear.

If you're dealing with a middle class woman from a stable family or from a woman from a wealthy family, it's a very different story. But most of the women we are exposed to come from families that are not well established, and families that are not financially secure, and this is a survival game for them.

Be kind to yourself and take your time.

I agree they are very good at what they do, they can make a bald man feel hairy, a fat man feel thin ,an old guy feel young and every man feel like he is a stud.

“Dating”.

1 hour ago, The Old Bull said:

I agree they are very good at what they do, they can make a bald man feel hairy, a fat man feel thin ,an old guy feel young and every man feel like he is a stud.

Very cynical- and sadly very true as well. We all know the risks as we are dealing in many cases with very skilled operators who have been there and got the T shirt

On 3/9/2026 at 4:38 AM, american_boy said:

She gave him an offer for short time right in front of me and she left with him. I was standing there like an idiot.

Lesson learned. (I hope.)

On 3/8/2026 at 10:38 PM, american_boy said:

Are most girls in pattaya freelancers?

Probably...

How much does she charge, asking for a friend

On 3/8/2026 at 10:38 PM, american_boy said:

She told me that she has a regular job and I believed her.

She does. And it's a perfectly decent and above board and frequently very hard one. She provides sexual services for money. You may not like that but that's your problem. Did you even ask her what she does? If she lied about that then that is of course different.

She probably got taken out of school aged 12 to earn money, has a kid and maybe a whole family back in Brobat Thani to feed. She spends her spare time dating you. You should be happy. Enjoy her. You're getting the real deal. You should be supportive not playing the moral saint and making her life even harder by harassing her at work. She has needs like any other. Doesn't sound like you're up to providing them.

In my somewhat colorful past I have also knowingly dated two sex workers over the longer term. Lovely they were. One in Pattaya and one back home. It's just a job. Some can do it, others can't.

Oh, and by the way, you're in Pattaya. Yuh know?

1 hour ago, Caldera said:

Lesson learned. (I hope.)

It's called the survival game. She's being open and honest with you. Outside tough as nails. Inside soft as sherry trifle. Needs someone she can love and trust that she can actually rely on to stand by her in thick and thin.

Looks like she'll have to keep looking 'cos she ain't found him yet.

3 hours ago, Tailwagsdog said:

If yer looking for Love & Commitment what makes you think you'll find it in Pattaya?

i found my life's love with a rich girl in pattaya

Was she still wearing the high heals when she came home?

On 3/8/2026 at 9:38 PM, american_boy said:

I’ve been living in pattaya for a few months now. I met this girl on Thai friendly a few weeks ago and we have been dating since then. She told me that she has a regular job and I believed her. A few days ago she said that she needs to go visit her family. Today I was walking on beach road and I saw her wearing a short skirt and high heals. So I went to talk to her and she admitted that she is a freelancer. While we were talking, one of her old customers showed up and started to talk to her. She gave him an offer for short time right in front of me and she left with him. I was standing there like an idiot. It really made me feel like crap. After about one hour later she showed up at my condo like nothing happened. I kicked her out and blocked her. Did anybody here have a similar experience? Are most girls in pattaya freelancers?

Is it April 1st already?

I meet a bar manager in surin i used to have fun with. One day she asked me for 25.000 baht..i said no. Then she said if i not give her that money she would go to Bangkok and sell her body for sex so i gave her 300 baht for the busticket.

On 3/9/2026 at 11:39 PM, save the frogs said:

Yeah, don't worry about it.

Everyone's in the same boat.

Should that not be "Man in the Boat?"

My advice to anyone really Pick an Ugly One, who is aso an Orphan and with no kids!

Make her you main squeeze, she will be all over you, not only in the bedroom but in the kitchen and everwhere else in the house!

And not just for sex, most ugly ones can cook and clean and don't mind rewarding a good man with home cooked food and a clean house!!

She may even go so far (if you are lucky) as to put the toothpaste on your toothbrush in the mornings. That is not a euphamisim, it's something I experienced, but I had to stop her, because it just did not feel right!

Then (if needed) go out an find a Beauty to satisfy your ego and change your oil, for an hour or two...

You can have the best of both worlds. If you know what you re doing!

But it's also buyer beware, as even the ugly ones can snap! Good luck everybody, you will need it!

Thanks for all the responses. You guys are a bunch of creeps and weirdos 🤣🤣🤣

10 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Which Sevens?

What about in Chiang Mai?

Is this also true of stores in Chiang Mai, or only Pattaya?

Please reply soon.

I was talking about Pattaya. I will name particular stores, but there are many.

On 3/9/2026 at 9:35 AM, brewsterbudgen said:

It's her job! Many Thai girls have their (usually Thai) boyfriend but still work in bars or on the streets! Surely you realised this?

Yep, this is the crux of it. Not to denigrate chaps on here---and they do enjoy a bit of real lovin' on occasion with a proper nato sized thing---but that is the general strand of it all.

On 3/9/2026 at 4:38 AM, american_boy said:

I’ve been living in pattaya for a few months now. I met this girl on Thai friendly a few weeks ago and we have been dating since then. She told me that she has a regular job and I believed her. A few days ago she said that she needs to go visit her family. Today I was walking on beach road and I saw her wearing a short skirt and high heals. So I went to talk to her and she admitted that she is a freelancer. While we were talking, one of her old customers showed up and started to talk to her. She gave him an offer for short time right in front of me and she left with him. I was standing there like an idiot. It really made me feel like crap. After about one hour later she showed up at my condo like nothing happened. I kicked her out and blocked her. Did anybody here have a similar experience? Are most girls in pattaya freelancers?

On 3/9/2026 at 4:38 AM, american_boy said:

I’ve been living in pattaya for a few months now. I met this girl on Thai friendly a few weeks ago and we have been dating since then. She told me that she has a regular job and I believed her. A few days ago she said that she needs to go visit her family. Today I was walking on beach road and I saw her wearing a short skirt and high heals. So I went to talk to her and she admitted that she is a freelancer. While we were talking, one of her old customers showed up and started to talk to her. She gave him an offer for short time right in front of me and she left with him. I was standing there like an idiot. It really made me feel like crap. After about one hour later she showed up at my condo like nothing happened. I kicked her out and blocked her. Did anybody here have a similar experience? Are most girls in pattaya freelancers?

Dude, you are one of 1000 farangs that have gone through the same thing. Thai Friendly is not a long relationship meeting pace for "GOOD THAI GIRLS". Go north dude, ISAN girls fresh from the farm are your best long term partners and future wife. They have not been exposed to that lavish lifestyle that Pattaya has to offer. Pattaya is the Now PHUKET of 20 years ago and is BUMMING!

On 3/9/2026 at 4:38 AM, american_boy said:

I’ve been living in pattaya for a few months now. I met this girl on Thai friendly a few weeks ago and we have been dating since then. She told me that she has a regular job and I believed her. A few days ago she said that she needs to go visit her family. Today I was walking on beach road and I saw her wearing a short skirt and high heals. So I went to talk to her and she admitted that she is a freelancer. While we were talking, one of her old customers showed up and started to talk to her. She gave him an offer for short time right in front of me and she left with him. I was standing there like an idiot. It really made me feel like crap. After about one hour later she showed up at my condo like nothing happened. I kicked her out and blocked her. Did anybody here have a similar experience? Are most girls in pattaya freelancers?

On 3/10/2026 at 6:38 AM, Effective altruism said:

Your girlfriend comes home every night, and you think, "Damn it. Leftovers again."

One thing for sure, most girls in pattaya beach road or the bars are, sloppy seconds! would you eat a nice steak tht someone else has already started to eat???? Lets get real guy, GO NORTH TO ISAN!

3 hours ago, Snowbird 7 said:

One thing for sure, most girls in pattaya beach road or the bars are, sloppy seconds! would you eat a nice steak tht someone else has already started to eat???? Let’s get real guy, GO NORTH TO ISAN!

I will visit Isan and chiang Mai for sure!

26 minutes ago, american_boy said:

I will visit Isan and chiang Mai for sure!

Ok knock yourself out. - All they do up there is eat and sleep.

On 3/11/2026 at 3:03 PM, mordothailand said:

i found my life's love with a rich girl in pattaya

Forgive be if too personal, but I just curious: Enriched by 1000s of others before you or by you after bumping into her?