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Has the sexpat scene totally destroyed the dating scene for 20s-30s farang? (Younger guys not getting any love in Thailand due to negative association)


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There have been many challenges to Falang-Thai relationships. Some of them include:

- Xenophobia of average Thais

- Socio-economic levels of average Farang 

- Advanced ages of average Farang 

- High availability of inexpensive transactional sex with Thai women 

- Chinese cultural traits that dominate much of the common Thai cultural landscape 

- Disinterest of average Farang to integrate into Thai culture 

 

These relationships were never meant to be and we'll see far fewer of them going forward.

 

The Chinese have arrived to displace all Farang. ???????? 

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8 hours ago, Genmai said:

 

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I ask because as a caucasian dude in early 30s who's been here for several years I've been finding it impossible to get any sort of positive attention from Thai girls around my age. I check all the basics (dress clean, tall, cut hair and shave, good body and oral hygiene, not particularly weird or fat or anything) and the puzzling thing is that I still do better with women back in Europe and the West. 

 

Post a pic of yourself here then we all can give our thoughts on any physical things that might be turning these women off. As a youngish dude I never had any problems in the past.

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20 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

One big advantage here is to have a Male Thai friends, this then shows you are here long term, you may be introduced to people etc or simply conversation naturally opens up with people / girls nearby (when you are in a bar or restaurant etc).

 

Some Thai girls don't want any foreigner living her long term. They say he has many choices here. They prefer tourists who come here for a few weeks every year and go back to live in their home country for a relationship with. Sounds absolutely stupid, I know!!

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6 hours ago, ezzra said:

Methink the allure of dating a foreigner has waned quite a lot over the years, as Thai men had a bad names as womanizers and drunks, so the local ladies tended to look elsewhere, now with the new thai metrosexual types with money and a bit more respect, maybe the local gals are back to their folds, who really knows?...

honestly now, how could you even begin to pretend you are in a position to know this.

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8 hours ago, Genmai said:

I can assure you I'm only a raging sh!tlord on the internet ????

My real-life discussions are strictly vanilla and certainly don't involve toxic opinionated analyses of a cultural nature.

I'm also no more or less serious with Japanese/Korean/Taiwanese women and they certainly don't seem to mind. Are you suggesting I should dumb it down a bit when talking with Thai girls? What topics are good/bad? I usually talk about food, where I've been that day and what she's up to, etc, pretty standard blah blah stuff.

You need a hobby...

 

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