Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted October 29, 2021 Author Popular Post Share Posted October 29, 2021 3 hours ago, Nemises said: Mate, we are living in [deleted] paradise. As such, how can there possibly ever be a “this is the one” when at a smorgasbord?! You obviously didn't meet the one until now. It happens! 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyril sneer Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 don't think they exist in this day and age 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Stevemercer Posted October 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 29, 2021 I must have been with hundreds of Thai ladies before I met the one I married. I can't explain why she is the one for me and why all the rest left no lasting impression (before or since). When I (or they) moved on I didn't think about them. Except for this one lady who became my wife. She went off for a month and I realised I really missed her and loved her. I still do. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaicookingchef Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 More after than before ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaicookingchef Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, Stevemercer said: I must have been with hundreds of Thai ladies before I met the one I married. I can't explain why she is the one for me and why all the rest left no lasting impression (before or since). When I (or they) moved on I didn't think about them. Except for this one lady who became my wife. She went off for a month and I realised I really missed her and loved her. I still do. This is what is ridiculous with men ! they think that one is the one when actually it's just the right time, and not the one. Anyone can be the one, but only when it's time for you to retire... I never care any woman as a woman, I care only how active they are in bed and how they can cook, anything else is clearly better with men... Edited October 29, 2021 by onthedarkside derogatory comment removed 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post grubman Posted October 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 29, 2021 15 hours ago, Sticky Rice Balls said: My inflatable gal is still holding up--thanks to a few patches.... But every time you give her a love bit she goes down on you................. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Expat68 Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 Getting married in Thailand is like taking coal to Newcastle ???? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clivebaxter Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 About 60 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rampant Rabbit Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 youd have to define "date" I MET 4 ,porked two just to be sure , married one in the space of 3 weeks, 16 years ago. I made the right choice despite the bucked teeth claw foot and awkward gait, that and the endless flatulence 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rampant Rabbit Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 8 minutes ago, thaicookingchef said: Clealy ! men look for the same problems here as they were looking back home ! some even have kids here ! hahahaha, I can't stop laughing !!! i wasnt married back home 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khabib Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 How about this 555 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vandeventer Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said: Now the question is obviously if all Thais are worse than an inflatable or only the two Thais you chose. There is that 1 in a million chance but the inflatable will never nag you to death, or ask for money, cheat on you, or say it has a headache. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LukKrueng Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 17 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: So how about you: How many Thai women did you "date" before you decided "this is the one"? And when you met your current (long term) gf/wife did you know that she is the one and only? She was my first and only, but since then I date many others just to ascertain she's the 1... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onthedarkside Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 A flame post and ensuing exchange of related replies have been removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Khabib Posted October 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 29, 2021 For reality purposes sake, I met my wife within 24hrs of landing at Bangkok. Remain very happy to this day, 19 years ago. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post decca60 Posted October 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 29, 2021 (edited) My story will maybe change the way things work here. I am french and back 2003 was looking for a woman on internet. I met a french one and when I asked her if we could meet for a coffee, she told me it would be difficult because she was living in Thailand.... After a while I came here on holiday visiting Thailand for the first time. I quickly realize she was my better half. She left Thailand to live with me in France, then in Argentina and we decided to retire. Guess where : in Thailand where we are for now 7 years. So in summary, I never ever date any Thai woman and looking at my friends who are with thai wives, I am more than happy with my froggy Thai. So you never know what life can bring to you and where !!!! Edited October 29, 2021 by decca60 6 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khabib Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 14 minutes ago, decca60 said: My story will maybe change the way things work here. I am french and back 2003 was looking for a woman on internet. I met a french one and when I asked her if we could meet for a coffee, she told me it would be difficult because she was living in Thailand.... After a while I came here on holiday visiting Thailand for the first time. I quickly realize she was my better half. She left Thailand to live with me in France, then in Argentina and we decided to retire. Guess where : in Thailand where we are for now 7 years. So in summary, I never ever date any Thai woman and looking at my friends who are with thai wives, I am more than happy with my froggy Thai. So you never know what life can bring to you and where !!!! In the words of the hitchhikers guide to the galaxy, thanks for all the fish 55 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ExpatOilWorker Posted October 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 29, 2021 A classic little classroom math challenge is to calculate the probability of 2 or more people share the same birthday. The math is a bit convoluted, but in a group of 30 the probability is 71%. Now, what is the probability that 2 members have dated one or more of the same girl? We are probably fast approaching 100% here. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 2 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: Now the question is obviously if all Thais are worse than an inflatable or only the two Thais you chose. Apparently a lot of us posters ended up with a lemon. Given the "satisfied with the Thai wife" guys don't generally come on to tell us how perfect their lives are, It seems the chance of finding the right one in LOS is about the same as finding a good un back home- 50% at most. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 1 hour ago, Rampant Rabbit said: I made the right choice despite the bucked teeth claw foot and awkward gait, that and the endless flatulence and what problems does she have? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Danderman123 Posted October 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 29, 2021 “Dating” implies no payment to the lady. Sorry, but I can’t afford free sex. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Golden Triangle Posted October 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 29, 2021 I take that "date" is a euphemism for pay 4 play, if that's the case I have no idea, I first came here about 2004 / 2005, 2 months a year, either just before or just after Songkran, then again October or November, too many girls, about 15 a month, but back then bar fines & the girls were a lot cheaper, and very sexy & good looking, me and my mate thought nothing of bar fining a hottie out of Angelwitch, or similar for the night. Met my current mrs over 10 years ago at a friends party, never looked back, 10 years on and she still gives me a huge hug, and smothers me with kisses, she did this afternoon, I'm a very lucky chap, she drives I drink, she's a wonderful cook and a witty partner, we have a great life together. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khabib Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 32 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: Apparently a lot of us posters ended up with a lemon. Given the "satisfied with the Thai wife" guys don't generally come on to tell us how perfect their lives are, It seems the chance of finding the right one in LOS is about the same as finding a good un back home- 50% at most. It's all about being able to weigh up the person we are with. Judgement, no more, no less. Language difficulties, at least initially, make things more tricky here. Body language tells a lot 55. With the feminazi in the western world, the chances of success are considerably higher here, with good judgment imo. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khabib Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 25 minutes ago, Golden Triangle said: I take that "date" is a euphemism for pay 4 play, if that's the case I have no idea, I first came here about 2004 / 2005, 2 months a year, either just before or just after Songkran, then again October or November, too many girls, about 15 a month, but back then bar fines & the girls were a lot cheaper, and very sexy & good looking, me and my mate thought nothing of bar fining a hottie out of Angelwitch, or similar for the night. Met my current mrs over 10 years ago at a friends party, never looked back, 10 years on and she still gives me a huge hug, and smothers me with kisses, she did this afternoon, I'm a very lucky chap, she drives I drink, she's a wonderful cook and a witty partner, we have a great life together. Excellent, you obviously worked it out, and just maybe, you're a real handsome man too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khabib Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 The best bit is, with the depreciated baht, we all become more handsome and desired in any case 55 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khabib Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 If I had to do it all over again, which I don't, now is a great time to do it, if one can put up with the BS entry rules. We've become big fish, in a small pond at the moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khabib Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 And stay optimistic guys, cause when a packet of cigarettes has just gone up 88 pence since yesterday in the UK, if we're smokers, think of the savings that allow our generous and handsome spirit to live on 55 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Tug Posted October 29, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 29, 2021 After sampling the (wares) in los I was introduced to my wife by a working girl I was hanging out with in 84 dated her for a year spent time with her family up country for 2 months got married in 86 still together she’s a hard worker an artist of a cook and when it hits the fan she’s got my back ,still cuter than a bugs ear ,raised a family here in the states and built a life it’s been and still is a great run definitely a keeper guess we both got lucky 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KhaoYai Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 (edited) Dated quite a lot, married more than I should have. Got stung once but lost very little, felt I should have known better but in fairness, how can you 6000 miles away? Finally gave up on the idea, resigned myself to having 'fun' on Tinder - that was until I met my now wife. I never saw it coming and wasn't looking for it but when you know someone is genuine, you know. Its also at that point when you finally admit to yourself that the others weren't for real and you were kidding yourself - you knew it all along, you just didn't want to admit it. ???? I think the best piece of advice I was ever given regarding being in relationships with Thai girls is also the one I ignored at my peril. A female friend of many years told me "you have to be here, until then, just have fun when you are" - boy was she right. Edited October 29, 2021 by KhaoYai 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freedomnow Posted October 29, 2021 Share Posted October 29, 2021 ..still undecided, more in-depth "all-round" testing necessary... Where the rubber meets the road - Thailand. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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