thaibeachlovers Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 On 1/19/2022 at 6:07 PM, Adumbration said: Not many expats around where I live. There are two other Australians. Both of their GFs are absolute horrors. I have been here a good while and speak reasonable Thai. I was riding in a car with one of these guys a while back his GF and mine where also in the car. The other expat speaks no Thai. His GF was raving on to mine about how she detested her guy and was only with him for the money, would leave him in a heartbeat if the payments stopped, and that she had a long term partner waiting for her (in the house back in Nakon Nowhere) taking care of her kid with the money she sends back home. Dreadful situation, and one I have been in many many times here. Early on I used to tell the guy what his girl had said. That was always a lose lose situation for me. So now I just keep my mouth shut. Not having any language skills is a deal breaker for decent Thai girls. Then the expat is just fishing in the bar girl/ex bar girl pond with the ones who speak Thinglish. Only a problem if the farang is naive enough to believe a girl 20 or 30 years younger from a completely different culture actually loves him. Be in it for sex or whatever one wants, but don't think she will be faithful or even grateful, and IMO all will be well. IMO one can't go wrong if one remembers we rent them, whether married or not. It's about the money, the money, the money. Of course, some will take offense at that, and they may do so, but it's my opinion and based on decades of experience in LOS. However, all things being equal, some will be lucky and find true love- I just don't think they are in the majority, or even a large minority. I recommend "Private Dancer" as a textbook for those looking for lurve in a hot climate. While fiction, based on reality, IMO. BTW I can't believe that anyone would not realise that a woman had had a kid. Certain physical changes occur during pregnancy that can't be disguised after. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 On 1/20/2022 at 12:09 AM, richard_smith237 said: I know plenty of westerners with some extremely attractive wives and girl friends. Soooooo, you know a lot of westerners with high maintenance wives that could afford the million or so sin sod and have enough readies to keep them satisfied. Good for them- must be living the dream. Personally, if I had that sort of money I'd find an attractive woman from my own culture to live with, even if in LOS. Marriage is a hard row to hoe, even for similar status, same culture couples, and adding an alien culture into the mix and it becomes even harder. BTW, how many of those hi so women will still be married to the farang if he loses his money for any of a thousand reasons, and how many will still be with him when he is in his dotage? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted January 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 21, 2022 (edited) 55 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: Only a problem if the farang is naive enough to believe a girl 20 or 30 years younger from a completely different culture actually loves him. Be in it for sex or whatever one wants, but don't think she will be faithful or even grateful, and IMO all will be well. IMO one can't go wrong if one remembers we rent them, whether married or not. It's about the money, the money, the money. Of course, some will take offense at that, and they may do so, but it's my opinion and based on decades of experience in LOS. However, all things being equal, some will be lucky and find true love- I just don't think they are in the majority, or even a large minority. I recommend "Private Dancer" as a textbook for those looking for lurve in a hot climate. While fiction, based on reality, IMO. BTW I can't believe that anyone would not realise that a woman had had a kid. Certain physical changes occur during pregnancy that can't be disguised after. I can assure you there is a lot of grateful girls around the world, who love their husbands, because he gave them a chance. A better future than she could have hoped for. Remember Isan culture come from a time, where trading the girls for becoming a house wife to men they never knew, and had to serve his family. If you know the history you also know the reason so many Isan girls search for a future husband and happiness in tourist places. Many of them have nothing, and can nothing, do not believe in them selves after years of official bullying (tv shows, their dark skin, etc) as well they are quite harsh with themselves with Nick names. Many have grown up with alcholich father, uncle's and useless mother's who gamble and lie. Lies is a culture in Thailand that is hard to understand. Fom top to bottom of society. Anyway, still there is good girls who know where they come from, and are grateful for what they have and got! But it takes two to tango? Someone who frequently visit bars to find young girls, maybe not a good person either? Edited January 21, 2022 by Hummin 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
papa al Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 On 1/5/2022 at 7:01 PM, OneMoreFarang said: When I find a girl attractive and ask her where she comes from the answer is almost always: Buriram. Small and brown and cute. ???? Luckily they have a lot of those girls for all of us. & charming AF and tops at extracting funds from farangie. & yes LBFMs. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
papa al Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 22 minutes ago, Hummin said: But it takes two to tango? Someone who frequently visit bars to find young girls, maybe not a good person either? Relax. Everybody is good. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post gejohesch Posted January 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 21, 2022 2 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said: IMO one can't go wrong if one remembers we rent them, whether married or not. It's about the money, the money, the money. Of course, some will take offense at that, and they may do so, but it's my opinion and based on decades of experience in LOS. However, all things being equal, some will be lucky and find true love- I just don't think they are in the majority, or even a large minority. Lots to say here.... Fundamentally, you are right. Don't they say "GF for rent?", be it for 1 hour or for days, months, years and why not for life? Thai culture is so incredibly different the western culture. I remember a Swede I knew in Bangkok, had lived a long time in LOS, who told me sthg along the lines of "the more you understand them, the less you do; and vice versa". He also said "after a while, you move on from loving Thailand to disliking it, and after hating it a lot, you start loving it even more". I cannot remember exactly how he phrased it, but it sounded so true. There is also a big question of how one defines love. I think that if the material side is assured (yes, money, money, money), and unless the farang is a complete axxhxle, bad manners, very bad looking etc, a Thai woman will start developing affection, love, loyalty, even devotion - regardless of the age difference. It's rather difficult for foreigners (at least non-Asians) to understand. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFETY FIRST Posted January 21, 2022 Author Share Posted January 21, 2022 (edited) On 1/19/2022 at 8:02 AM, SAFETY FIRST said: On 1/19/2022 at 7:10 AM, Isaanlife said: has little education but has common sense and a high IQ. Did you test her IQ? How do you know how high it is? I am glad she is a stunner in your mind, since you won't let anyone see her model good looks. You keep saying Thailand has the most beautiful in the world but you never back up anything so how can we trust you? Most people that end up in Thailand were never with Barbie Doll types or anything close in their own country. If you were, you would have had no reason to come to Thailand for the uneducated, poor and desperate. If you are going to tell stories, at least have some facts or some photos. I can understand not posting an ugly girl, but if she is a model, you should be proud to show her off. As I said earlier, I personally have never seen 1 foreigner married with a Thai girl that has model good looks. Not even 1. Why are you so hostile, chill dude. You should wake up, vibrant and refreshed not angry and abusive. Who are you sleeping with, maybe this is why your in an angry mood, day in and day out There are many poor people in Thailand who can't afford a proper education, we are very lucky in Australia with the education system. In Thailand you'll find many people with high IQs that never had the opportunity to a quality education. On 1/19/2022 at 7:10 AM, Isaanlife said: can understand not posting an ugly girl, but if she is a model, you should be proud to show her off. We are all incognito on AN. If we post photos / pictures we will be identified. If I post a photo of my gf, those who know her now know who I am. I'm scared of predators, stalking my beautiful gf. Dude, talk to me later when you cool down, have a cup of coffee, go for a walk, relax. Hey Isaanlife, you feeling better today? I just wanted to reply to a couple of issues you made comment, another point to note. My employer sent me to Thailand for work. I worked Songkla (so lucky, great experience), offshore for a few years. I met a lot of Thai's, very smart people (high IQ) but sadly, most of the guys I Supervised had very little education, because of poverty, coming from a poor family's. I was working on the rig as their Supervisor and our company had put in place incentives for the intelligent, hard working employees, my company employed mostly western foreigners to work as supervision/management duties and were always looking for locals to employ as it's so much more cost effective. Over the years I recommended 8 of my juniors for internal traineeships, this created opportunity for the locals to go up the ladder. It's a win, win for everyone, great in the day when oil was over $100 a barrel but when things got quiet the locals were given jobs over foreigners due to the reduced wages paid. Over the many years I've worked in mostly Asia and Africa, I found lots of the local guys working offshore were hard working and very clever without very little education. It's quite common in poorer countries people having a high IQ with little or no education. BTW, I've worked, holidayed and traveled to more than 40 countries and Thai girls are the most beautiful. ???????????????????? Edited January 21, 2022 by SAFETY FIRST 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 1 hour ago, Hummin said: But it takes two to tango? Someone who frequently visit bars to find young girls, maybe not a good person either? Why that? Why play with an old bar-girl if her little sister or (legal age) daughter is available? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 7 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: Why that? Why play with an old bar-girl if her little sister or (legal age) daughter is available? Each and one for its self ???? Shine on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted January 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 21, 2022 40 minutes ago, gejohesch said: and unless the farang is a complete axxhxle, bad manners, very bad looking etc, a Thai woman will start developing affection, love, loyalty, even devotion - regardless of the age difference. It seems too many people here think love can only happen between similar people. Like i.e. a 20 year old pretty girl and a handsome young guy. Or maybe between an old ugly guy and an old ugly woman. Really? If that would be true then i.e. disabled people would never be able to find a loving (not disabled) partner. And how about couples who met when they were 20 and they stay together until they are old. Do they find each other still attractive even if they are old and maybe overweight, etc.? I think love is not only similar people finding each other. There can be many reasons. Maybe good look, maybe intellect, maybe strength, maybe money, the list is endless. And if one person thinks she can never fall in love with an old guy that doesn't mean this is also true for other people. I think we should stop pretending that we understand all human interactions. We clearly understand only a part of it. And if we don't understand it that doesn't mean it does not exist or is not possible. 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 (edited) 2 hours ago, Hummin said: But it takes two to tango? Someone who frequently visit bars to find young girls, maybe not a good person either? Is anyone a 'good person'? And how do you define 'good person'? To a Christian, nobody who doesn't believe is a good person. To a Muslim, nobody who doesn't believe is a good person. I revel in being a 'bad person'. I break laws, pay for sex, lie to my government, don't believe in any god, and drink excessively. Edited January 21, 2022 by BritManToo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fat is a type of crazy Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 25 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: It seems too many people here think love can only happen between similar people. Like i.e. a 20 year old pretty girl and a handsome young guy. Or maybe between an old ugly guy and an old ugly woman. Really? If that would be true then i.e. disabled people would never be able to find a loving (not disabled) partner. And how about couples who met when they were 20 and they stay together until they are old. Do they find each other still attractive even if they are old and maybe overweight, etc.? I think love is not only similar people finding each other. There can be many reasons. Maybe good look, maybe intellect, maybe strength, maybe money, the list is endless. And if one person thinks she can never fall in love with an old guy that doesn't mean this is also true for other people. I think we should stop pretending that we understand all human interactions. We clearly understand only a part of it. And if we don't understand it that doesn't mean it does not exist or is not possible. I agree. The contrarian in me just wants to point that sometimes it can seem a bit sad where the older guy just seems to be after the young girl as a status symbol or just to have someone to <deleted>. Not to share a life where she can be happy and free and where you can both live out your dreams. Still nothing wrong with that necessarily .. but it can just make you gag a bit to see. That's not to say that sometimes what can look ugly is actually a beautiful love story. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 (edited) 13 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said: I agree. The contrarian in me just wants to point that sometimes it can seem a bit sad where the older guy just seems to be after the young girl as a status symbol or just to have someone to <deleted>. Not to share a life where she can be happy and free and where you can both live out your dreams. Still nothing wrong with that necessarily .. but it can just make you gag a bit to see. That's not to say that sometimes what can look ugly is actually a beautiful love story. Most men's dreams involve more than one woman. And I doubt any women featuring in those dreams are over 40 years old. This policewoman my feature in my dreams ............... Edited January 21, 2022 by BritManToo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mac Mickmanus Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 25 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Is anyone a 'good person'? And how do you define 'good person'? To a Christian, nobody who doesn't believe is a good person. To a Muslim, nobody who doesn't believe is a good person. I revel in being a 'bad person'. I break laws, pay for sex, lie to my government, don't believe in any god, and drink excessively. Don't stop there . Why don't you give a full confession ? View this forum as a confession box and tell everything Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 22 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Most men's dreams involve more than one woman. And I doubt any women featuring in those dreams are over 40 years old. It seems in my dreams I concentrate on certain parts. No idea how the face looks like... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rimmae2 Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 5 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said: Soooooo, you know a lot of westerners with high maintenance wives that could afford the million or so sin sod and have enough readies to keep them satisfied. Good for them- must be living the dream. Personally, if I had that sort of money I'd find an attractive woman from my own culture to live with, even if in LOS. Marriage is a hard row to hoe, even for similar status, same culture couples, and adding an alien culture into the mix and it becomes even harder. BTW, how many of those hi so women will still be married to the farang if he loses his money for any of a thousand reasons, and how many will still be with him when he is in his dotage? You jump to the conclusion that what the OP is talking about is wives who rely financially on their partner. There are many successful and attractive women/women with good careers in Thailand, who are married to Thais and non-Thais or are single. Cabin crew, working for a donor such as JICA or GIZ, working for Ernst and Young or similar, entrepreneurs. The first three I refer to as examples I know of, some married and some not. Your view is blinkered. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 6 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said: Soooooo, you know a lot of westerners with high maintenance wives that could afford the million or so sin sod and have enough readies to keep them satisfied. Good for them- must be living the dream. Personally, if I had that sort of money I'd find an attractive woman from my own culture to live with, even if in LOS. Marriage is a hard row to hoe, even for similar status, same culture couples, and adding an alien culture into the mix and it becomes even harder. BTW, how many of those hi so women will still be married to the farang if he loses his money for any of a thousand reasons, and how many will still be with him when he is in his dotage? Short answer, have seen girls who help their bf to pay sin sod (Thai Thai) Also seen Thai lady take care of falang husband who drink up his retirement and are utterly useless as husband and contributor, but still, wife care for them. It is not black and white 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LA8RAT Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 On 1/5/2022 at 7:03 PM, thaibeachlovers said: Just curious, but what country has the most beautiful then, in your opinion? Can't be Britain- I've lived there to know. Japanese women can be more beautiful than Thai women IMO, but I doubt as available, or as reasonably priced. Think it was one of the South American countries that lead the ranks of more miss worlds than any other country. But that was a few years ago. Someone with more energy than me might care to look for current stats But certainly for me that Latino look rocks my world Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 2 hours ago, Hummin said: Also seen Thai lady take care of falang husband who drink up his retirement and are utterly useless as husband and contributor, but still, wife care for them. Here's one that is good with children ............. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 Just now, BritManToo said: Here's one that is good with children ............. My god so skinny ???? Anything between my post and the skinny ones you guys have posted is okay. When it comes to beautiful, I found only. Couple so far. Will see if I find one of them. But funny pic. I know how big a clock is in my hand, and when see her, she must be 150cm, maybe 152cm, and my two hands will reach around her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 On 1/18/2022 at 2:05 PM, Tippaporn said: The perfect shade of beautiful brown. This one is the most beautiful face in this tread 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 14 minutes ago, Hummin said: This one is the most beautiful face in this tread How about this one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 23 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: How about this one? Not for my taste Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amexpat Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 31 minutes ago, Hummin said: Not for my taste Chubby chaser. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LA8RAT Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 1 hour ago, Hummin said: This one is the most beautiful face in this tread Looks moody and hard work to me. Give me the 45 year old massage lady with the tight body from working and staying active. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFETY FIRST Posted January 21, 2022 Author Share Posted January 21, 2022 (edited) Here's a few of my favorites Thai Beauties Sadly, some with bigger breasts than that of my gf, no worries, she makes up for that in other ways Oops, I had to remove one of the beauties, she had a message for me only Edited January 21, 2022 by SAFETY FIRST 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gejohesch Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 (edited) 6 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: I think we should stop pretending that we understand all human interactions. We clearly understand only a part of it. And if we don't understand it that doesn't mean it does not exist or is not possible. 100% right! Especially when dealing with different cultures. Edited January 21, 2022 by gejohesch 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gejohesch Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 6 hours ago, BritManToo said: Most men's dreams involve more than one woman. And I doubt any women featuring in those dreams are over 40 years old. This policewoman my feature in my dreams ............... She is stunning Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 21, 2022 Share Posted January 21, 2022 58 minutes ago, amexpat said: Chubby chaser. Curves yes, not necessary chubby, but most with curves get shubby or thin! And some get fat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Adumbration Posted January 21, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 21, 2022 12 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said: It's about the money, the money, the money. I have been with my Thai GF for 7 years. Never given her a single baht. She was a hard 10 when we first met. She is a bit more squidgy around the edges now....about an 8.5. Last week she help me hand mix 2 cubic meters of concrete. This afternoon she has been helping dig a 8 ring septic drainage tank. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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