Avoid trap of losing money to women

[Sticky Rice Balls]

21 hours ago, LaosLover said:

I knew a guy who used to paint his finger nails so he could look down and pretend it was a woman doing it.

I work in food service---found a dude in the walk in with a chix breast one day

[Sparktrader]

2 minutes ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

The last 2 were to quick to take off their clothes so i declined..Im not a man whore--I have self control--esp during covid

Whats a good timeframe?

[Sparktrader]

2 minutes ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

I work in food service---found a dude in the walk in with a chix breast one day

Was it cooked?

[Sticky Rice Balls]

2 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

Whats a good timeframe?

they wanted sex within 12 hrs....not my type---aka loose women that have no issue taking off clothes is a flag------is like throwing a hot dog down a hall.....ill send her to your room

 

yep  i have standards about whom i engage with---others may not---aka up to you

[Sticky Rice Balls]

raw....aka raw dogging it........i would suggest getting a burger

 

i would assume a cooked chix brst kinda ruins the exp....

[Sparktrader]

1 minute ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

they wanted sex within 12 hrs....not my type---aka loose women that have no issue taking off clothes is a flag------is like throwing a hot dog down a hall.....ill send her to your room

 

yep  i have standards about whom i engage with---others may not---aka up to you

Hot dogs should be in a roll with sauce. 1 hr Im good to go.

[Sticky Rice Balls]

4 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

Hot dogs should be in a roll with sauce. 1 hr Im good to go.

hard to get buns here--i used bread with mustard

 

be aware of thai penal codes when doing so

[Sparktrader]

8 minutes ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

hard to get buns here--i used bread with mustard

 

be aware of thai penal codes when doing so

Lost me

[BangkokReady]

On 4/15/2022 at 4:43 PM, Bruno123 said:

She did all of the chasing. Teddy bears, gifts...even though I told her I had a girlfriend.

And this persisted after she had you safely locked down in a committed relationship?

[BritManToo]

14 hours ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

yep  i have standards about whom i engage with---others may not---aka up to you

My standards are, under 35 years old, weighing less than 50Kg, and being a woman from birth.

[Sparktrader]

26 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

My standards are, under 35 years old, weighing less than 50Kg, and being a woman from birth.

So a hot 51kg woman is no good?

[Lacessit]

On 4/15/2022 at 2:02 PM, BritManToo said:

That's great, I'm 66 can you find me a 20 year old (or even 30 year old) that will pay for me and buy me things?

IMO you would need to be able to give her multiple orgasms every time. Quid pro quo.

[BritManToo]

9 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

IMO you would need to be able to give her multiple orgasms every time. Quid pro quo.

30 quid per pro

Is about my limit.

[Lacessit]

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

30 quid per pro

Is about my limit.

That's 1300 baht, are you getting more generous in your old age?

[Bruno123]

1 hour ago, BangkokReady said:

And this persisted after she had you safely locked down in a committed relationship?

I don't know about the committed relationship part; but I did not give her any money, other than once; 2000 baht. She knew better than to ask me. So when she did, I knew it was a last resort.

No different than if any friend was in need. I don't give women money to be with me. Friends have each other's backs.

[TheScience]

On 4/13/2022 at 6:37 PM, Sparktrader said:

Whats the best way to avoid this?

Rent by the hour obviously.

 

Baring that...

 

Never legally marry. Good luck her sticking around when you're 79.

 

Buy condo if that's your thing before you marry.

 

Develop a deep relationship over a minimum of two years before you do marry.

 

Live together minimum of 18 months. Does she ask for or steal money? Little dramas and games?

 

Woman no more than 15 years your junior. When the gap is generational there's no anchor to the relationship.

 

She has interests: travel, history, etc 

 

You both share interests that anchor the relationship.

 

She enjoys something sporty.

 

She graduated high school, few years of university.

 

Her parents are married and are a unit.

 

She might help her family but they all work and have ambitions.

 

She doesn't have dreams or designs built on your money.

 

She has a salaried job.

 

You met via an aqaintence or in person not online and not in a bar.

 

In general, she has a sunny disposition.

 

You do not find her scheming or calculating.

 

She's clean, organized and can get up early as needs arise.

 

She has a bank account.

 

Bar girl patter, vocabulary, slang totally devoid from her speech.

 

Devoid of large tattoos. Maybe a religious tattoo or two

 

Her English is not great. In fact, kinda shi++y.

 

She might love issarn food but can compromise with you mist of the time on regular Thai food.

 

Has never had a western boyfriend or especially husband.

 

Doesn't wear clonky, issarn wood high heels.

 

Doesn't wear sexy, revealing clothes, heavy make-up.

 

Gives a bad massage.

 

Doesn't F on the first date

 

Cheap wedding, fake sin sot ok.

 

She has Thai SSO insurance or b30 card.

 

You are happy together.

 

You don't feel like an ATM and she doesn't ask for money.

 

You can spend days and weeks in each other's company and not climbing the walls.

 

You are each other's best friend.

Edited April 17, 2022 by TheScience

[chalawaan]

Jump the fence, and head to boys town.

At least there the boys look like boys, so you won't even lose money to someone who looks like a woman.

[TheScience]

1 hour ago, Sparktrader said:

So a hot 51kg woman is no good?

Hot. Maybe.

 

51 kg. Not so much. 555 but really, depends on height obviously.

 

My wife is 42kg. GGained only 2 kg in 12 years.

Edited April 17, 2022 by TheScience

[chalawaan]

16 hours ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

I work in food service---found a dude in the walk in with a chix breast one day

I hope he at least warmed it up. And added a little cooking oil...

Look, it was hard being a Legionnaire.

Edited April 17, 2022 by chalawaan

[Sparktrader]

31 minutes ago, TheScience said:

Rent by the hour obviously.

 

Baring that...

 

Never legally marry. Good luck her sticking around when you're 79.

 

Buy condo if that's your thing before you marry.

 

Develop a deep relationship over a minimum of two years before you do marry.

 

Live together minimum of 18 months. Does she ask for or steal money? Little dramas and games?

 

Woman no more than 15 years your junior. When the gap is generational there's no anchor to the relationship.

 

She has interests: travel, history, etc 

 

You both share interests that anchor the relationship.

 

She enjoys something sporty.

 

She graduated high school, few years of university.

 

Her parents are married and are a unit.

 

She might help her family but they all work and have ambitions.

 

She doesn't have dreams or designs built on your money.

 

She has a salaried job.

 

You met via an aqaintence or in person not online and not in a bar.

 

In general, she has a sunny disposition.

 

You do not find her scheming or calculating.

 

She's clean, organized and can get up early as needs arise.

 

She has a bank account.

 

Bar girl patter, vocabulary, slang totally devoid from her speech.

 

Devoid of large tattoos. Maybe a religious tattoo or two

 

Her English is not great. In fact, kinda shi++y.

 

She might love issarn food but can compromise with you mist of the time on regular Thai food.

 

Has never had a western boyfriend or especially husband.

 

Doesn't wear clonky, issarn wood high heels.

 

Doesn't wear sexy, revealing clothes, heavy make-up.

 

Gives a bad massage.

 

Doesn't F on the first date

 

Cheap wedding, fake sin sot ok.

 

She has Thai SSO insurance or b30 card.

 

You are happy together.

 

You don't feel like an ATM and she doesn't ask for money.

 

You can spend days and weeks in each other's company and not climbing the walls.

 

You are each other's best friend.

Too many things to remember need to a secretary to keep track

[Sparktrader]

27 minutes ago, TheScience said:

Hot. Maybe.

 

51 kg. Not so much. 555 but really, depends on height obviously.

 

My wife is 42kg. GGained only 2 kg in 12 years.

4 foot high women look odd up against a 6 foot guy

 

 

[BritManToo]

2 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

Too many things to remember need to a secretary to keep track

Sometimes I read these lists and think, that's the exact opposite of what I want in a woman.

[Sparktrader]

36 minutes ago, TheScience said:

Gives a bad massage.

Then Im not keen. No point having a gf who cant massage. Might as well buy a dog.

[Sparktrader]

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Sometimes I read these lists and think, that's the exact opposite of what I want in a woman.

Sex

Food

Massage

No drama

 

4 things

[BangkokReady]

1 hour ago, Bruno123 said:

I don't know about the committed relationship part; but I did not give her any money, other than once; 2000 baht. She knew better than to ask me. So when she did, I knew it was a last resort.

No different than if any friend was in need. I don't give women money to be with me. Friends have each other's backs.

Ok, but you made it sound like she pursued you to the point of a relationship and then supported you financially.

[TheScience]

49 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

Then Im not keen. No point having a gf who cant massage. Might as well buy a dog.

That's absurd. If you need a massage go pay 400b for a proper one. But I think you've missed the point. If the woman is good at massage she's probably had practice.

 

a) Low pay, difficult, dirty job for uneducated people.

b) She's no doubt *massaged* a lot of weiners

 

My wife often gives me a few minutes head massage after a hard day's work.

 

Maybe you ought to just stick with prostitutes. Comparing a productive person and good companion to a dog...best you get a dog humans will disappoint.

 

Kinda no wonder the question was asked in the first place with such a response.

[Sparktrader]

2 minutes ago, TheScience said:

That's absurd. If you need a massage go pay 400b for a proper one. But I think you've missed the point. If the woman is good at massage she's probably had practice.

 

a) Low pay, difficult, dirty job for uneducated people.

b) She's no doubt *massaged* a lot of weiners

 

My wife often gives me a few minutes head massage after a hard day's work.

 

Maybe you ought to just stick with prostitutes. Comparing a productive person and good companion to a dog...best you get a dog humans will disappoint.

 

Kinda no wonder the question was asked in the first place with such a response.

Wrong info. Not all massages are sexual. Ive been to many shops where nothing is offered. 

[TheScience]

1 hour ago, Sparktrader said:

Sex

Food

Massage

No drama

 

4 things

Easy. Your prostitute is waiting for you.

 

You want a relationship with a decent human being? That's work, effort, money.

 

You sound sound like a real charmer.

 

Free massages, sex, dinner on the table. Work 50 hours and never ask for money...yeah, you're a real catch.

[Sparktrader]

2 minutes ago, TheScience said:

Easy. Your prostitute is waiting for you.

 

You want a relationship with a decent human being? That's work, effort, money.

 

You sound sound like a real charmer.

 

Free massages, sex, dinner on the table. Work 50 hours and never ask for money...yeah, you're a real catch.

Work effort money? That sounds like hard work for nothing.

 

 

[TheScience]

Just now, Sparktrader said:

Work effort money? That sounds like hard work for nothing.

 

 

Do yourself and especially every female you encounter a huge favor. Do not enter into any sort of relationship with them. You'll save every one a world of hurt.