mbenson Posted May 4, 2022 Share Posted May 4, 2022 Funny how kreng jai เกรงใจ doesn't seem to apply to relationships with foreigners sometimes. Quite the opposite often applies. I hate to say it, but I guess some folks don't see foreigners as deserving the same considerations as Thais. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RocketDog Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 14 hours ago, scubascuba3 said: Here's another one for you, as you know the girls can and do play the long game, a guy i know said one wife waited 15 years for the farang to die then went back with her thai husband I guess the farang got what he wanted, as did she. Without further details, no harm I can see. People often remarry after losing a spouse. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iamfalang Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 I get 300,000 a month give her 30k minus plus 6 plus 3 minus 8 times 1.2 minus 4 plus 7 times 2 divided by 0.87 it's been three years, she’s still figuring out the math. help humans. The poor, the hungry……hungry for gold! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 13 hours ago, Sparktrader said: She lied caused she didnt want to no, it was a language translation issue and I knew she did not have the time - she does not lie... but maybe in your world, all Thai lie... to you - if you can learn to speak a little Thai and get outside of the red light cities, you might find things are quite different. A whole new world of Thailand... If you live in Disneyland, then Minnie Mouse will remain in character... so to speak. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 Just now, 1FinickyOne said: no, it was a language translation issue and I knew she did not have the time - she does not lie... but maybe in your world, all Thai lie... to you - if you can learn to speak a little Thai and get outside of the red light cities, you might find things are quite different. A whole new world of Thailand... If you live in Disneyland, then Minnie Mouse will remain in character... so to speak. <deleted>, all women lie. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 14 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: <deleted>, all women lie. and men don't? what constitutes a lie is different in different cultures... I guess the bar might be whether or not it is malicious and damaging or just small talk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 3 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said: and men don't? what constitutes a lie is different in different cultures... I guess the bar might be whether or not it is malicious and damaging or just small talk You said she doesnt lie. They all lie. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThailandRyan Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 Just now, Sparktrader said: You said she doesnt lie. They all lie. Once a lie is told so many times it then starts to become a reality and the truth for some....simple minds believe what they believe. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 14 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said: and men don't? what constitutes a lie is different in different cultures... I guess the bar might be whether or not it is malicious and damaging or just small talk Why would anyone care? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 10 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: You said she doesnt lie. They all lie. except you? she does not lie of consequence - she might not want to talk about something at the time... yes, but would probably tell me later... Every culture has different things that are acceptable lies... things you might consider common courtesies... you are in a different culture here... for example, if your worker asks you to buy him a beer and you don't want to... you say "proong nee' tomorrow, which is understood as 'no' but in a polite manner of rejecting as it remains possible... But, maybe you are one of those people who are not interested in a culture beyond your own? Minnie Mouse flatters for tips and many of your compatriots believe her... don't understand her job and choose to believe her then when reality hits you are all blown up and everyone who calls you handsome man is a lying #%^&.. though you glow in the false charms at first, because you lack understanding of her job... you could say she is lying by pretending to be Minnie in the first place, forgetting that you paid the price of admission to enter the amusement park... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoshowJones Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 17 hours ago, bkk6060 said: Pratically impossible in western countries but taking care of a women lets say 30 years younger then you even if she has a kid, is no problem here if you have an acceptable income. If you can't afford them, say no. Also, these "good job" women usually have debt or other baggage. Would rather have a non worker who has some freedom to travel, etc. To add, if you are the sole provider you should have 99% control. If you don't, shame on you. There is one thing that has to be kept in mind if you want to take care of a girl who is over 30 years younger than you. There is no chance that you are going to keep up with her sexually, and also no chance that she is going to be sexually attracted to you if you are very overweight etc. I don't think it has to be spelled out what that means. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 1 minute ago, 1FinickyOne said: except you? she does not lie of consequence - she might not want to talk about something at the time... yes, but would probably tell me later... Every culture has different things that are acceptable lies... things you might consider common courtesies... you are in a different culture here... for example, if your worker asks you to buy him a beer and you don't want to... you say "proong nee' tomorrow, which is understood as 'no' but in a polite manner of rejecting as it remains possible... But, maybe you are one of those people who are not interested in a culture beyond your own? Minnie Mouse flatters for tips and many of your compatriots believe her... don't understand her job and choose to believe her then when reality hits you are all blown up and everyone who calls you handsome man is a lying #%^&.. though you glow in the false charms at first, because you lack understanding of her job... you could say she is lying by pretending to be Minnie in the first place, forgetting that you paid the price of admission to enter the amusement park... Minnie Mouse? No idea what you are talking about Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 13 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Why would anyone care? I agree... I do not feel that my wife or anyone owes me an accounting of their actions. Ask me no questions and I'll tell you no lies. I did not broach this topic - but there seem to be quite a few guys out there that think 'handsome man' is more than a 'come-on' line in the trade... they buy into the fantasy and then get disappointed that they are not the only customer in the bin... Reality can be a long way down for some... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SAFETY FIRST Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 13 hours ago, RafPinto said: she looks older then 21. That's a Dude. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerrymahoney Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 7 minutes ago, possum1931 said: I don't think it has to be spelled out what that means. Well why don't you spell it out, anyway? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 3 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said: I agree... I do not feel that my wife or anyone owes me an accounting of their actions. Ask me no questions and I'll tell you no lies. I did not broach this topic - but there seem to be quite a few guys out there that think 'handsome man' is more than a 'come-on' line in the trade... they buy into the fantasy and then get disappointed that they are not the only customer in the bin... Reality can be a long way down for some... I dont think so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 2 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said: That's a Dude. Could be alien Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 3 hours ago, mbenson said: Funny how kreng jai เกรงใจ doesn't seem to apply to relationships with foreigners sometimes. Quite the opposite often applies. I hate to say it, but I guess some folks don't see foreigners as deserving the same considerations as Thais. It is not unusual to find Thais that have been "victim" of the same activities of having a wife betray them when they are out of town working overseas... I know many such stories Thai/Thai... as well as every other nationality under the blue blue skies.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 10 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: Minnie Mouse? No idea what you are talking about Not surprising... Pattaya = disneyland Minnie Mouse = a bargirl playing a part Idiot = surrenders too much $$ to her charms believing she is really Minnie Mouse, his young dream lover, and finds out she is just a poor farm girl providing for her family... and said Idiot, gets angry and calls everyone a liar... like it is Minnie's fault, not her job as she sees it.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThailandRyan Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 5 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said: It is not unusual to find Thais that have been "victim" of the same activities of having a wife betray them when they are out of town working overseas... I know many such stories Thai/Thai... as well as every other nationality under the blue blue skies.. Ergo why jealous Thai husband's shoot, stab or kill their wives and new boyfriends or side hustles. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mokwit Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 9 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said: get disappointed that they are not the only customer in the bin In that world: If she's doing it with you she's doing it with somebody else, anything she does to some body else she can/will do to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 1 minute ago, mokwit said: In that world: If she's doing it with you she's doing it with somebody else, anything she does to some body else she can/will do to you. When you buy a coffee in Starbucks (et al), do you feel unhappy that there are other people being sold coffee? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 4 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said: Not surprising... Pattaya = disneyland Minnie Mouse = a bargirl playing a part Idiot = surrenders too much $$ to her charms believing she is really Minnie Mouse, his young dream lover, and finds out she is just a poor farm girl providing for her family... and said Idiot, gets angry and calls everyone a liar... like it is Minnie's fault, not her job as she sees it.. Ok, havent been there for 16 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 2 minutes ago, BritManToo said: When you buy a coffee in Starbucks (et al), do you feel unhappy that there are other people being sold coffee? Not unless they are drinking from the same cup Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 2 minutes ago, mokwit said: In that world: If she's doing it with you she's doing it with somebody else, anything she does to some body else she can/will do to you. probably pretty much correct... let's try and not forget that it is her job... as some here do and then get angry... and yes, there are comparisons that can be made to 'good girls' who have some financial hopes/expectations in a marriage partner... which goes on everywhere too... A wino living in the gutter does not find many suitors... a hard working wealthy doctor does... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 3 minutes ago, BritManToo said: When you buy a coffee in Starbucks (et al), do you feel unhappy that there are other people being sold coffee? only if they talk too loud. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: Not unless they are drinking from the same cup I prefer my coffee served in a ceramic cup/mug ....... as long as it's washed between customers, I'm happy with that. Edited May 5, 2022 by BritManToo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sparktrader Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 Does Pattaya have roller coasters? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 (edited) 1 minute ago, Sparktrader said: Does Pattaya have roller coasters? No roller coasters, but plenty of other great rides in Pattaya to try. Edited May 5, 2022 by BritManToo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThailandRyan Posted May 5, 2022 Share Posted May 5, 2022 5 minutes ago, Sparktrader said: Not unless they are drinking from the same cup Thais do share 1 cup between them as they take their selfies. Never seen that done with a group of foreign men taking selfies with 1 bar girl shared between themmmm.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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