Where to meet Hiso Thai women?

[swm59nj]

I have lived in Bangkok for three years.  I totally understand your frustration with the dating sites. If you actually met a doctor on one you are very lucky. 
Are you a person that has a lot of money? I mean mucho money?   Do you own a very expensive vehicle?  I don’t mean a Toyota Fortuna.  And do you have an extremely large income? An expensive life style .  If not.  Forget about a HiSo girl.  And for the most part they stick to big income Thai men.  Not foreigners,  especially the ones that just come and go. 
A good girl.  I’m sure there are.  In my opinion,  these are the ones that are going to judge you as a person.  Not as a bank.  They will like you for who you are, not for how much is in your pocket.  Of course they want stability and a better life.  But will not use you to get it.  But from my personal experiences,  Not easy to find on the dating sites.  I think it’s better if you knew some Thai people personally.  Then they might be able to introduce you to someone they know.  

 

 

[Mavideol]

Where to meet Hiso Thai women?

 

one would assume in Thailand.... but I could be wrong 555

[jerrymahoney]

Where to meet Hiso Thai women?

 

First class lounges domestic or international at Suvarnabhumi.

[ChaiyaTH]

Most people automatically think girls are hi-so already if they look half chinese, dress well and have a normal office job. Says nothing at all, but yeah, those girls can be good enough to help you out with going to a bank etc too.

[1FinickyOne]

1 hour ago, KhunLA said:

You probably couldn't afford the SinSot of HiSo marriage, 

A young Thai fellow that I knew, many years ago, needed to build a house for his hiso fiancé before the family would agree... the house had yo be a minimum of 15 million baht - which was about $500,000 US... 

 

Most hiso Thai ladies really look down their noses at almost everyone as not being good enough to meet approval from the family - - they consider themselves very very elite. I have known attractive ladies who stay single for that reason. 

[LaosLover]

A doctor or a spa owner would also be a person working 60 hours a week.

 

With lengthy family time-soaks when she's not. And then status-y good times with her friends that you'd be a fifth wheel at.

 

Hard pass. Why I married a white woman, even with the dress-size factor in play.

[richard_smith237]

11 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Most hiso Thai ladies really look down their noses at almost everyone as not being good enough to meet approval from the family - - they consider themselves very very elite. I have known attractive ladies who stay single for that reason. 

Valid point... Although I don’t think its the ladies themselves who look down their noses, rather it is that they worry that their parents will not accept someone they don’t approve of.... and usually the terms for approval are wealth, education, connections, the right family etc etc... 

 

But, there is also another facet, those who other Thai’s would classify has being higher up the socio-economic ladder are often more westernised than ‘middle class’ Thai’s as the parents have travelled more, been educated overseas etc.... there is ‘less fear’ of outsiders because they are able to recognise class traits across cultural boundaries.

 

 

Its a tricky thread to navigate because there are words which will naturally offend some, hi-so, class, socio-economic, rich, wealthy etc etc.... its all a bit distasteful for many of us - but thats just the way life is here.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Liverpool Lou]

1 hour ago, Freddy42OZ said:

What you are looking for is Upper Middle Class Thais who are wealthy enough to have sent their kids to school and/or University overseas.  

Hahahahaaa...!   I'm sure there is a lot more to "class" definitions than that!

  I was talking to a woman in that position the Sunday before last, her 18-year old daughter is at an international school here and will be going to university in the Netherlands when school has finished.   We were talking after an she'd finished my oily in the massage place in 33 where she works.  She is upper, middle class, then?

Edited February 7, 2023 by Liverpool Lou

[Liverpool Lou]

56 minutes ago, NanLaew said:

1 hour ago, TheFishman1 said:

Like to know your age, how old are you?

Why? Are you a connected hi-so lady?

He fancies the OP.

[connda]

First off - you need to be a HiSo Thai.

Lower your sights a little and find a gal from a good family.  You'll be happier.

[LaosLover]

20 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Thai’s would classify has being higher up the socio-economic ladder are often more westernised than ‘middle class’ Thai’s as the parents have travelled more, been educated overseas etc.... there is ‘less fear’ of outsiders because they are able to recognise class traits across cultural boundaries.

 

In Chiang Mai, the mixed race American/Thai's sort of rule here via light-skinned arpatheid. Their ease with Westerners and language skills are monetized, even at the laundry pick-up level.

 

My estate agent is a good example. Raised in Houston, now doing well and dressing well in CM for the last half a dozen years. She's engaged to a decade-older French guy who's been wooing her for a year. He's taking her to Sardinia, so he's no cheap Charlie.

 

When we went out to eat, she'd had an oyster before. I can see how someone would mistake her for the elite. Partic after she returns from Sardinia.

Edited February 7, 2023 by LaosLover

[KhunLA]

I can only be with a like minded 'retired' person, or one willing to be, as I'm way too needy ... ????

[Liverpool Lou]

"Where to meet Hiso Thai women?"

 

If you have to ask that question, you'll never meet one, don't waste your time.

[Thingamabob]

2 hours ago, Bill97 said:

Jibberish

 

 

Jibberish indeed. Doesn't make sense. This guy needs to understand that many middle and upper class Thais are very well off indeed. They certainly won't welcome foreigners into their family who are anything other than equally or, better still, more wealthy than they are.

[lamyai3]

Nana Hiso Hotel in soi 3, just hang around the lobby. They've also got one in Pattaya. 

[NorthernRyland]

Hey guys I'm a creme of the crop, top class alpha male who makes bank and demands only the best. Because I deserve it. Who can help me find a women worthy of my excellence?

[richard_smith237]

24 minutes ago, LaosLover said:

In Chiang Mai, the mixed race American/Thai's sort of rule here via light-skinned arpatheid. Their ease with Westerners and language skills are monetized, even at the laundry pick-up level.

 

My estate agent is a good example. Raised in Houston, now doing well and dressing well in CM for the last half a dozen years. She's engaged to a decade-older French guy who's been wooing her for a year. He's taking her to Sardinia, so he's no cheap Charlie.

 

When we went out to eat, she'd had an oyster before. I can see how someone would mistake her for the elite. Partic after she returns from Sardinia.

Exposed to western behaviour and culture yes... but elite is a debate term and very much depends on who is doing the description. 

 

The reality is the ’status’ is not a major issue in todays modern world - if the lady in question is financially independent, self sufficient, educated, can mix well throughout all strata of society etc... life is just going to be easier - I think a lot of that is where these questions originate. 

 

Some guys can’t get a visa for their significant other, while others are with women for whom there are no such issues....  its a spectrum and the higher we go in that ’socio-economic’ spectrum the harder it may be for a guy to pull the wool over the woman’s eyes that he is the ‘ideal partner’ and meeting such females becomes a little more challenging as it is anywhere else. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[FritsSikkink]

1 hour ago, 1FinickyOne said:

A young Thai fellow that I knew, many years ago, needed to build a house for his hiso fiancé before the family would agree... the house had yo be a minimum of 15 million baht - which was about $500,000 US... 

 

Most hiso Thai ladies really look down their noses at almost everyone as not being good enough to meet approval from the family - - they consider themselves very very elite. I have known attractive ladies who stay single for that reason. 

A 15 million thb house is like a shed for a HISO, the car will cost more.

Edited February 7, 2023 by FritsSikkink

[CM Dad]

7 minutes ago, NorthernRyland said:

Hey guys I'm a creme of the crop, top class alpha male who makes bank and demands only the best. Because I deserve it. Who can help me find a women worthy of my excellence?

Which one are you in the photo - the one wearing a cap and a face mask or the one with a small head and limp wrists?

[KhunLA]

1 minute ago, FritsSikkink said:

A 15 million thb house is like a shed for a HISO.

Can't even buy 1/2 rai of surfside land here for that.  Want 20 mill for 100tw.

[richard_smith237]

5 minutes ago, NorthernRyland said:

Hey guys I'm a creme of the crop, top class alpha male who makes bank and demands only the best. Because I deserve it. Who can help me find a women worthy of my excellence?

I’d first suggest you rid yourself of the ‘grammatical error’ if you are ever to refer to yourself as ‘cream of the crop’ again !!! 

 

Then you should also know that ‘alphas’ are already bad ass enough not to need to ask such questions !! 

 

But for sure, you deserve something.....    Give Thermae Cafe a try...  women there should definitely be worthy of your excellence !!! 

 

[ChrisKC]

The answer to this question is easy. They are all over the place in all parts of the country.

 

What do these terms, "hiso" or "good family" even mean as it relates to any particular woman? Do they state these as facts in their profile?

 

To me, status or background of an individual is not as important, or conditions of suitability, as my perception of them now!

 

'Hi so and good family' tell me nothing about personality, demeanour; if they are kind, considerate, thoughtful, unselfish, honest, loving, loyal and faithful.

 

Meeting them and understanding their general attitude towards living and loving will more likely give a better feeling of potential compatibility.

 

Then there is a small matter of her arriving at a similar conclusion about you!

 

 

 

 

Edited February 7, 2023 by ChrisKC

[KhunLA]

2 minutes ago, ChrisKC said:

Then there is a small matter of her arriving at a similar conclusion about you!

If he was worthy HiSo, he wouldn't have to ask, they'd find him ????

 

Grown men asking where to find woman ... nuff said

[wombat]

Only Fans is where you should look.

[wombat]

13 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

cream of the crop

Is that a typo that should read

cream of sum Yung guy?

[VinnieK]

3 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

That is a dangerous game.

Let's say you meet the perfect woman, rich influential, even pretty. Perfect!

And you go out with her and have a good time and you want to marry her.

And then you discover that she is also a little crazy. Maybe she likes to play the domina or something not so dramatic.

And then you think about if maybe you shouldn't marry her. But she introduced you already to her parents. And she loves you, she wants to stay with you. And if you break up with her she will be very unhappy. And her rich and powerful well-connected parents will be very upset.

Do you want a situation like that?

Think twice what you wish for. 

 

 

He can always get on the first plane out.

Non issue.

Btw..if he has 25 mil (baht I assume) he can live very comfortably for the rest of his life.

No point chasing mentally-ill ,rich hags

[khunPer]

5 hours ago, coloneloftruth said:

Anyways, kind of in need of the 'comes from a good family' part, and was hoping people here might be able to steer me in the right direction.

It's not impossible – it has happened, I know of some – but it might be difficult and take time; even long time. Ladies from good families don't easily date – at least not without a chaperone – and you need to meet them first. Same with hi-so-women. You have to "hang out" at out places where this kind of women comes and get their attention to get into a conversation; might not be easy, but indeed possible. Hi-so-women might be met in hi-end shopping malls or similar places like hi-end restaurants; the might even visit the places in the nightlife. I'm not sure where ladies from "good families" can be met, a good family might not equal a well off family...????

[HappyExpat57]

If you even have to ask then you are not traveling in the proper social circles to EVER meet a hiso.

[FritsSikkink]

9 minutes ago, VinnieK said:

He can always get on the first plane out.

Non issue.

Btw..if he has 25 mil (baht I assume) he can live very comfortably for the rest of his life.

No point chasing mentally-ill ,rich hags

25 mil thb will last a year with a HISO.

[Celsius]

30 minutes ago, wombat said:

Only Fans is where you should look.

 

Maybe he can't afford a fan