My husband of 48 years keeps disappearing to Thailand and sending hundreds of pounds there every month - but when I question him he says it's 'none of my business'

[Cricky]

4 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I find it always amazing how many guys in this forum analyze such articles and explain to us what is going on.

It's called the AN investigator syndrome.

 

I reckon it's contagious, there's a lot going around on these AN forums.

 

[soalbundy]

Just now, OneMoreFarang said:

I find it always amazing how many guys in this forum analyze such articles and explain to us what is going on.

And then they have advice for everybody involved how they should change their lives.

Amazing!

 

This site only has the option of giving an opinion or advice, whether one could follow ones own advice if in a similar situation is uncertain.

[Mac Mickmanus]

25 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I thought about blocking your posts. But from time to time, they are so funny. Thanks! 

Can you talk seriously or do you just do jokey posts or post semi naked photos of females  ?

   Who do you think is at fault in this story .

Can you seriously reply or is it just bargirl talk you can do ?

[Hummin]

19 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I find it always amazing how many guys in this forum analyze such articles and explain to us what is going on.

And then they have advice for everybody involved how they should change their lives.

Amazing!

 

Im more amazed by those who complain about bad women, and thinks she deserves it. I would thought, those who where deleted over by a woman would have some  sympathy with a woman who obvious is deleted over by her husband. Of course there is many possible scenarios that lead up to he being a jerk, but still he should have some balls and divorce her before putting his balls on fire in Thailand. 

 

Most likely lost his head over a 45 kg little innocent brown girl with long black hair, and a great smile, smooth talking him to sin! 

 

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Edited February 23, 2023 by Hummin

[jesimps]

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[TKDfella]

I got it ...I got it...the husband is a spy...I mean, where does he get all these 'hundreds of pounds' from? He uses Thailand as a base to spy on other nations. He just couldn't be involved with a Thai women/family...I mean that would just be downright unfaithful and nasty wouldn't It?????

[Neeranam]

The husband has no integrity, honesty, or love, better off without him.

[BritManToo]

3 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

The husband has no integrity, honesty, or love, better off without him.

Never met a woman with any of those attributes.

Obviously your wife and mother are different, but neither of my wives or mother was.

Edited February 23, 2023 by BritManToo

[FritsSikkink]

4 hours ago, 2baht said:

He's got a Thai girlfriend, Julie, why don't you just go and get one yourself!

Prostitute more likely.

[paddypower]

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Edited February 23, 2023 by paddypower

[paddypower]

7 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Given the number of men that have had their lives destroyed by wives, are we supposed to sympathise with her?

sounds like you've got a BIG chip on your shoulder. You and all the other ''thumbs up'' to your post. try to come out of the bar and into the sunlight and enjoy your life, without pre-judging others..  

[d4dang]

She could contact the Thai guy recommending sex dolls and get one for her husband. 

[crazykopite]

I have to conclude that he is very wealthy when you consider just the cost of the air-fare let alone the 100s of ££££s he sends each month maybe he has a secret family in the Kingdom 

[NanLaew]

6 hours ago, ukrules said:

Maybe he's got another family going in Thailand, you don't need to be married to have another family.

 

It doesn't matter if his wife in the UK is Thai, nobody cares.

 

If they split it will almost certainly be a 50/50 split, he will move to Thailand and her, well she will be left with half the price of whatever house they live in once it's sold.

 

And after he moves to Thailand full-time, his Thai wife will withdraw her services while her brother drives around in the Fortuner.

 

Winning.

[OneMoreFarang]

31 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

Can you talk seriously or do you just do jokey posts or post semi naked photos of females  ?

   Who do you think is at fault in this story .

Can you seriously reply or is it just bargirl talk you can do ?

Why would I talk to an old woman or a confused AN member if I can spend that time with a cute Thai girl?

Priorities!

 

 

[BritManToo]

40 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

Can you talk seriously or do you just do jokey posts or post semi naked photos of females  ?

   Who do you think is at fault in this story .

Can you seriously reply or is it just bargirl talk you can do ?

I think it's the woman at fault, and the British marriage vows.

In England women generally stop having sex with their husbands at age 40.

But all my male English pals still wanted sex until at least age 60.

 

Why is it men are required to obey all their marriage vows, but women get a free pass?

 

 

Edited February 23, 2023 by BritManToo

[Thingamabob]

6 hours ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

I did mean that She isn't a Thai Wife like Thai wife's in Thailand , like being reliant on the man to provide .

   Husbands in the UK cannot just walk out without facing a hefty divorce , like they can in Thailand  and you are assuming that they own their own house and there might not be a house to sell 

Many Thai wives bring in income while their husbands pee it down the drain.

[Mac Mickmanus]

Just now, OneMoreFarang said:

Why would I talk to an old woman or a confused AN member if I can spend that time with a cute Thai girl?

Priorities!

 

 

But you ARE talking to me and you aren't with her 

So , ask yourself why you are doing that , I cannot answer that question 

[OneMoreFarang]

34 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Most likely lost his head over a 45 kg little innocent brown girl with long black hair, and a great smile, smooth talking him to sin! 

I am sure that is a lot more fun than spending time with an old woman in the UK.

[d4dang]

Maybe he likes ladyboys?

[Hummin]

11 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I am sure that is a lot more fun than spending time with an old woman in the UK.

Life is not always just to have fun on behalf of your self ????

[Mac Mickmanus]

15 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I am sure that is a lot more fun than spending time with an old woman in the UK.

If they were that fun to he hanging around with , you would be with her, rather than here with us 

[Tug]

Aww the old duffer just wanted something new and fresh after tagging the old lady for 48 years,he should have just kept it as a business arrangement pay as you go so to speak 

[shackleton]

Was just thinking  about the headline Husband's secret trips to Thailand 

When the wife knew he  was travelling there plus sending ???? 

Anyway it's not a secret anymore the media made sure of that ????

[OneMoreFarang]

18 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Life is not always just to have fun on behalf of your self ????

Yes, I agree.

But sometimes it seems to me that some people think they have to do this and have to do that.

And then maybe they die unhappy and with lots of money in the bank. 

 

I like it when I see an old guy realizing that he can have fun and spend his money and not leave it to the demanding and annoying kids who can't wait that he dies.

Carpe diem - as long as you can. 

[NanLaew]

33 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I think it's the woman at fault, and the British marriage vows.

In England women generally stop having sex with their husbands at age 40.

But all my male English pals still wanted sex until at least age 60.

 

Why is it men are required to obey all their marriage vows, but women get a free pass?

 

 

For decades, most old mongers quietly accepted their own lack of firmness and underperforming. Then along came ED drugs and testosterone shots, the bane of every young bar girl who now have to put up with old and wrinkly "rejuvenated" blokes who still think they're God's gift while all red-faced and sweaty with a boner like a tire iron.

 

That's probably what the bloke in the OP is going through. Sad.

[Hummin]

1 minute ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Yes, I agree.

But sometimes it seems to me that some people think they have to do this and have to do that.

And then maybe they die unhappy and with lots of money in the bank. 

 

I like it when I see an old guy realizing that he can have fun and spend his money and not leave it to the demanding and annoying kids who can't wait that he dies.

Carpe diem - as long as you can. 

I had fun as a kid and younger, and now I do not see the same fun in the same things anymore.  Im happy to be with my wife and have time to relax, exercise, ride my motorbikes, travel, see new restaurants, explore new wines, and all the small simple good things in life, but fun? Nope, it is good, and it feels good, and happy to be on next level.

[NORDO]

Western Woman vs Asian Woman...

 

They both are playing games....just depends on whose rules you want to compete with.

Given I married one of each, I like the Asian rules better.  One hoses you to get your Euro, the other hoses you for your Euro.

 

But...the best and most dependable were the Addis Abba girls.  However, end of equation was still Euro.

[Cricky]

8 hours ago, webfact said:

70-year-old woman has revealed that her husband of 48 years 'keeps disappearing' to Thailand and sending 'hundreds of pounds' there monthly

OMG, this stupid article has gone viral. 

 

A 70yo having a bit of fun in his senior years. 

 

I reckon lots of jealous women making cruel comments. 

 

Edited February 23, 2023 by Cricky

[Mac Mickmanus]

2 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Yes, I agree.

But sometimes it seems to me that some people think they have to do this and have to do that.

And then maybe they die unhappy and with lots of money in the bank. 

 

I like it when I see an old guy realizing that he can have fun and spend his money and not leave it to the demanding and annoying kids who can't wait that he dies.

Carpe diem - as long as you can. 

Or Selfish people would prefer to pay people to have sex with them (Not you of course, as you have never done that in your life, ever) , some other people just want to spend all their money on themselves and not leave anything to their children 

   The worse ones are the people who received an inheritance from their parents and want to spend all that money on themselves having sex and not pass it on , selfish people