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Love or Lust? What Are Foreigners Looking for in Thailand’s Nightlife?
I remember when I first set foot in Thailand, I wasn’t entirely sure what I was looking for myself—maybe a bit of fun, maybe something more meaningful. I was fresh off a plane in Bangkok, wide-eyed and excited about the nightlife scene everyone raves about. The first few weeks, I felt like I was in a neon playground, hopping between rooftop bars and late-night clubs, meeting loads of new people—expats, locals, travelers from all over. It was easy to slip into a casual mindset and just enjoy the moment without thinking too far ahead. But then I realized it’s not that straightforward. I met someone during a random night out with friends, and we ended up really clicking beyond the initial party vibe. We started hanging out outside the club scene—like grabbing street food, exploring temples, or catching a movie. That’s when I saw a different side of Thailand. It wasn’t all about the bright lights and loud music; it was about making genuine connections, too. I’ve also seen the flip side, of course. Some folks come here purely to let loose, maybe not even wanting to think about long-term relationships. The nightlife can be tempting that way—there’s always another club to visit, another interesting person to meet. And yeah, you can get swept up in the “lust” part of it all if you’re not careful. But in my experience, once you take a breather from the constant party rush, you realize there are plenty of people—both Thais and foreigners—who are open to building something real. So for me, it started out as a bit of both. I showed up curious and maybe a little reckless, but I ended up finding someone who made me see Thailand in a more grounded, meaningful way. I guess that’s what it comes down to: if you’re just chasing a fleeting thrill, it’s easy to find. But love is out there, too, if you’re open to it and willing to look beyond the nightlife glitter. -
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GrapheneOS install on new mobile phone: anywhere in CM?
CANCEL this request / this topic. I found instructions to remove most of Google from my new Android phone without changing operating system. So no need to search for a technician in Chiang Mai. -
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Getting Old: Stoic About It or Endless Whinger?
I used to think I’d handle getting older with a carefree shrug, like, “No big deal, time marches on.” But as the years pass, I’m noticing that my perspective keeps shifting. At first, I was all about downplaying every stiff joint or random ache, forcing myself to see it as just part of normal wear and tear. Then I realized, “Hey, sometimes it’s perfectly fine to be a little grumpy about it.” Nobody walks around with a grin plastered on their face when they’re limping to the bathroom first thing in the morning. What I’ve found helpful is striking a balance between acknowledging the frustrating parts of aging and appreciating what I still can do. I might complain about my knees hurting after a long walk, but I also recognize that I’m still able to go on that walk in the first place. It’s a bit like focusing on the silver lining without pretending the clouds aren’t there. Some days, I can be super stoic—like, “I’ve got this, no matter what!”—and other days, I’ll let myself whinge a bit because it can be a relief to share how tough it can feel sometimes. One thing that’s helped me is being honest with myself about the changes. There’s this tendency to pretend nothing is different because we don’t want to face the fact that our bodies might not cooperate the way they once did. But sweeping it all under the rug just makes it more jarring when you realize you can’t pop back from a late night like you used to, or that your knees are going to complain if you sit cross-legged on the floor for too long. Acknowledging it and maybe even poking fun at it with friends takes the sting out of it. At the same time, I try not to get stuck in a loop of complaints. It’s easy to let a single creaky morning turn into a full-day moan-fest about how “everything hurts and nothing works like it should.” I see people around me who do that and it’s almost like they’ve accepted a negative narrative about themselves. I’d rather catch myself before it spirals, do some stretches, maybe slap on a heating pad, and get on with my day. If I’m too stoic and never admit anything hurts, I might push it too far and actually make things worse. If I whinge nonstop, I’m just adding stress to the problem. So finding that middle ground helps me cope without feeling like I’m giving in or shutting down. Another realization is that aging isn’t just about how the body feels, but how I think about things. Maybe I don’t have the same energy I once did, but in exchange, I’ve got a better sense of perspective. I’m less worried about whether I’m keeping up with everyone else’s pace, and more focused on enjoying what I’m doing right now. If that means I take an afternoon nap or skip a social event, well, so be it. I’m not missing out if I’m doing something that feels right for me—like resting, recharging, or simply being at peace with my own personal schedule. There’s no single right approach to getting older. Some folks lean more toward keeping their chin up and soldiering on no matter what; others feel better venting every now and then. Personally, I think a little complaining is healthy, as long as it’s balanced with gratitude for the good stuff. And there is a lot of good stuff if I take a moment to notice—like meaningful connections with friends and family, deeper conversations that come with life experience, and even just the comfort of knowing my own routines and preferences. All in all, I’d say I haven’t fully cracked the code on whether it’s better to be stoic or to whinge. Some days it’s one, some days the other, and most days a mix. But instead of fighting it, I try to embrace the changes as part of the journey. After all, getting older might mean complaining about a few more aches, but it also means caring a lot less about stuff that once made me anxious. And if that’s not a fair trade, I don’t know what is. -
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Drunken Foreign Couple Causes Chaos at Pattaya Hotel, Woman Detained After Fleeing
STOP the nationalistic jibes, please! -
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Britain’s Sharia Courts and the Challenge of Religious Freedom
You do indeed fail and your posts prove my points -
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Keir Starmer: Friends Say He Desperately Needs a Break
Maybe they could hire Elon Musk.
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