How to deal with a Thai woman?

[bob smith]

Today i got into an argument at a bar with a 'mama san' or however u spell it.

 

she was adamant that women should never ever foot the bill and shouldnt even be allowed to earn more money than a man,

 

i told her thats ridiculous and she neeeds to understand that the world has evolved now.

many women these days work in high paid jobs and bring in the dough...

well she didnt like that and kicked me out of her bar.

 

i left without paying any tip and i wont be goin back!!

 

was I in the wrong?

should women always be paid for ?

are they not allowed to earn more than blokes?

 

any help appreciated.

[JayClay]

This didn't happen

[bob smith]

2 minutes ago, JayClay said:

This didn't happen

where you there???

 

what a ridiculous reply. 

Edited July 17, 2023 by bob smith

[2baht]

I think you need to work that out yourself, Bob!

 

 

Edited July 17, 2023 by 2baht

[OneMoreFarang]

11 minutes ago, bob smith said:

Today i got into an argument at a bar with a 'mama san' or however u spell it.

 

she was adamant that women should never ever foot the bill for a man and shouldnt even be allowed to earn more than a man,

 

i told her thats ridiculous and she neeeds to understand that the world has evolved now.

well she didnt like that and kicked me out of her bar.

Why would you argue about such things with a mama-san?

Tell her what kind of girl you want. That's the only thing she needs to know.

[bob smith]

Just now, OneMoreFarang said:

Why would you argue about such things with a mama-san?

Tell her what kind of girl you want. That's the only thing she needs to know.

she started it!

[Kwasaki]

16 minutes ago, bob smith said:

discuss. 

Nah. ????

[Dmaxdan]

Perhaps you should cut her some slack. In her world, men are ignorant and naive and their sole purpose is to pay for everything.

If they didn't do that she and all her little minions would be out of a job.

[bob smith]

Just now, Dmaxdan said:

Perhaps you should cut her some slack. In her world, men are ignorant and naive and their sole purpose is to pay for everything.

If they didn't do that she and all her little minions would be out of a job.

wow. amazing reply.

 

thanks mate! thats cheered me up that has! ???? 

[bignok]

23 minutes ago, bob smith said:

where you there???

 

what a ridiculous reply. 

Which of your topics are real?

[h90]

You should have said:

Hey you mama san...look what fine bar you run with good profit....you make more money than me old poor farang.

That might have got her confused.....

[bob smith]

4 minutes ago, bignok said:

Which of your topics are real?

why would you think they arent real???

[h90]

18 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Why would you argue about such things with a mama-san?

Tell her what kind of girl you want. That's the only thing she needs to know.

Maybe it is fun....and cheap.....and you don't get any STDs....

[h90]

12 minutes ago, Dmaxdan said:

Perhaps you should cut her some slack. In her world, men are ignorant and naive and their sole purpose is to pay for everything.

If they didn't do that she and all her little minions would be out of a job.

In her world that is even true....

[bignok]

2 minutes ago, bob smith said:

why would you think they arent real???

You cured depression with kfc

Cured importing large funds with camping

 

None of your topics are real.

[bob smith]

up

3 minutes ago, bignok said:

You cured depression with kfc

Cured importing large funds with camping

 

None of your topics are real.

up 2 u my fen. 

Edited July 17, 2023 by bob smith

[OneMoreFarang]

7 minutes ago, h90 said:

Maybe it is fun....and cheap.....and you don't get any STDs....

I have difficulties finding the fun part in such activity.

If I want cheap then I wouldn't go in a bar. 

[marin]

15 minutes ago, bignok said:

Which of your topics are real?

Well for sure the one where he was taking his tent and going camping in the mountains from 4 days ago was real. He has had no internet and nobody has heard a word from him...????

 

Edited July 17, 2023 by marin

[owl sees all]

I think the Mamasan has a point Bob.

 

What is all this equality about? Men go to war and ladies tend to the wounded. Ladies cook the grub; guys change the pick-up engine oil. Girls play with Barbie; boys play with trains.

 

A while back, it was the man who whacked the lady over the head, and dragged her to the cave. Let's enjoy the ladies for what they are. And if we can find a nice, honest, truthful one; then we have hit a so-called jack-pot. Well, at least 'til the dosh runs out.

[bob smith]

1 minute ago, owl sees all said:

Well, at least 'til the dosh runs out.

i like women with said dosh.

[h90]

5 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I have difficulties finding the fun part in such activity.

If I want cheap then I wouldn't go in a bar. 

True....but it seems it amused him.....Getting thrown out of a bar without being violent, poor or rude is an achievement you can brag about....

[VinnieK]

I was reading some quotes by Sopenhauer earlier..

You don't wanna go there.????

[novacova]

40 minutes ago, bob smith said:

was I in the wrong?

Good grief, of course you were in the wrong considering the type of establishment you were at, it’s expected.

 

43 minutes ago, bob smith said:

should women always be paid for ?

Of course not, not that I’m stingy or don’t have money but my wife pays for everything 90% of the time, with her own money. She has a lot of pride and image is a very important thing to her. One of the first things she said to me when we met “I’m not a beggar”

I would suggest not hanging out in such establishments ????

[Enoon]

49 minutes ago, bob smith said:

Today i got into an argument at a bar with a 'mama san' or however u spell it.

 

she was adamant that women should never ever foot the bill and shouldnt even be allowed to earn more money than a man,

 

i told her thats ridiculous and she neeeds to understand that the world has evolved now.

many women these days work in high paid jobs and bring in the dough...

well she didnt like that and kicked me out of her bar.

 

i left without paying any tip and i wont be goin back!!

 

was I in the wrong?

should women always be paid for ?

are they not allowed to earn more than blokes?

 

any help appreciated.

 

Most people will probably read the incident as insignificant and not worth thinking about.

 

That is the correct attitude to have.

 

Work on it.

 

 

[bob smith]

1 minute ago, novacova said:

Good grief, of course you were in the wrong considering the type of establishment you were at, it’s expected.

 

Of course not, not that I’m stingy or don’t have money but my wife pays for everything 90% of the time, with her own money. She has a lot of pride and image is a very important thing to her. One of the first things she said to me when we met “I’m not a beggar”

I would suggest not hanging out in such establishments ????

she was a militant mama san.

 

a real savage.

[novacova]

1 minute ago, bob smith said:

she was a militant mama san.

 

a real savage.

Certainly, of course. It’s the business model she has to maintain. Why would anyone expect anything less from that type of establishment ????

[save the frogs]

6 minutes ago, bob smith said:

she was a militant mama san.

 

a real savage.

you need to be tough to do that kind of work

 

[bob smith]

2 minutes ago, novacova said:

Certainly, of course. It’s the business model she has to maintain. Why would anyone expect anything less from that type of establishment ????

why would customers go to such a dive more than once though??

[bkk6060]

Just about every girl I know who works in a bar makes more then a British pensioner.

British pension is what around 30k baht a month?  What a sad joke. 

Edited July 17, 2023 by bkk6060

[novacova]

5 minutes ago, bob smith said:

why would customers go to such a dive more than once though??

Possibly for the same reason you went in the first place