Would you ever marry a bar girl? If so, why?

[BritManToo]

8 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

My point is that once a bargirl has her Farang sign paper in the Amphur, she often will cease having sex, even if she knows he will go elsewhere.

It's been my experience that a lot of foreign guys (loads on this forum) in Thailand aren't looking for much sex. Seems they mainly want a replacement for their moms, bit of housework and cooking.

Edited August 5, 2023 by BritManToo

[bob smith]

4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I've encountered many fit young decent looking tourist white guys dragging pigs from their homelands around with them.

ive seen that a lot too. 

[brianthainess]

3 hours ago, bignok said:

Girl with no teeth might be fun

"Her teeth were like stars, they come out at night'' 

[OneMoreFarang]

15 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

My point is that once a bargirl has her Farang sign paper in the Amphur, she often will cease having sex, even if she knows he will go elsewhere.

 

And yes, if it becomes publicly known that the husband is getting laid elsewhere, the drama ensues. She doesn't care that he is getting laid by another lady, she cares if her friends know.

I am sure it happens with bargirl. But I am also sure the same happens with "normal" women. Bargirls are more aware of the needs of men.

 

I never married my long-time gf, who was once a bargirl. So I will never find out if she would change if we would be married. 

[bob smith]

Just now, OneMoreFarang said:

Bargirls are more aware of the needs of men.

they are also hyper aware of their current bank balance!

[steven100]

3 hours ago, bob smith said:

mrs smith has never asked me for a single penny. in fact, quite the oposite, she pays 80% of the time we go out..

 

Amazing what you can find when you open your eyes a bit, isnt it? ???? 

yeah '   i know the words ....   '' but she's different "

[brianthainess]

4 hours ago, bob smith said:

why on earth would a western bloke marry a bar girl?

I just do not get it.

Maybe that's why you don't get none.

[OneMoreFarang]

1 minute ago, bob smith said:

they are also hyper aware of their current bank balance!

You obvious know that ... 

[stoner]

2 hours ago, bob smith said:

i just dont see the appeal of marrying a girl who works in a bar.

most are uneducated parasites.

 

sorry, nothing even remotely attractive to me about that!

the feeling is probably quite mutual bobby. 

[Danderman123]

17 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

It's been my experience that a lot of foreign guys (loads on this forum) in Thailand aren't looking for much sex. Seems they mainly want a replacement for their moms, bit of housework and cooking.

and yet, they go out to the bars, even while wifey takes care of the house.

[brianthainess]

2 hours ago, BenStark said:

This must be her.

 

Very horny then 

[Danderman123]

Very important to remember: a bargirl will never look better than when you first see her in the bar. From that day on, she will look more and more like her mother. And if you have even seen a bargirl's mother, they look like a different species.

[Keep Right]

It seems that Bob Smith touched a nerve with some of the posters on this site.

[Liverpool Lou]

4 hours ago, bob smith said:

I just dont get it.

 

There are OTHER girls in Thailand that are fit for marriage that happen to not work in a bar.

How come you didn't go that route, then?

[Kwasaki]

3 hours ago, Felton Jarvis said:

I have no intention of throwing my life away by marrying a bar girl. Ladies with regular jobs are enough of a challenge. I have found them just as duplicitous as those in the bar. All of the women I dated had straight jobs. All were very dedicated to getting their hands on my money. Only one never asked me for anything. She ran off with a Thai man. My current live-in lady asks very little and is happy to have a roof over her head.

How do you know you would be throwing your life away what ignorant thing to assume.

[bob smith]

5 minutes ago, Keep Right said:

It seems that Bob Smith touched a nerve with some of the posters on this site.

dont i always? ????

[bob smith]

Just now, Liverpool Lou said:

How come you didn't go that route, then?

I did, Lou. Try and keep up la.

[Liverpool Lou]

3 hours ago, bob smith said:

mrs smith has always been around,

 

do you want to see her ID card?

Why would anyone want to see her ID card, does it state something interesting such as "Not A Bar Girl"?

[Liverpool Lou]

3 hours ago, sqwakvfr said:

It could depend on how long she has been a bar girl.

Different degrees of brass, eh?

[Liverpool Lou]

3 hours ago, bob smith said:

im mostly interested to hear from guys who married bar girls and would like to hear how it played out and why they decided to marry her out of the many girls on offer. 

Why don't you ask one of them in person next time you're in a bar?  What makes you think that there are any on this forum?

[bob smith]

1 minute ago, Liverpool Lou said:

What makes you think that there are any on this forum?

with some of the replies it would seem that many are!!

 

why you so touchy, Lou?

[Liverpool Lou]

3 hours ago, Neeranam said:

Can get Thai citizenship in 3 years if married to a Thai. 

There's more to it than that!

[Liverpool Lou]

2 hours ago, bbko said:

More mindless drivel, 

Indeed, but no need to be so hard on yourself.  

[Neeranam]

5 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said:

There's more to it than that!

3 years rather than 12 years then, if not married.

[Liverpool Lou]

2 hours ago, bignok said:

Ive got 18 on ignore.

Perhaps that says something about you!

[Kwasaki]

16 minutes ago, Liverpool Lou said:

Why would anyone want to see her ID card, does it state something interesting such as "Not A Bar Girl"?

Probably states Virginity is still intact. ????

[Kwasaki]

5 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

3 years rather than 12 years then, if not married.

The problem with that I was done with wanting to learn all over again.

 

Just keeping the money in the bank is easier. ????

[Neeranam]

1 minute ago, Kwasaki said:

The problem with that I was done with wanting to learn all over again.

 

Just keeping the money in the bank is easier. ????

Learn what? If you mean Thai, if married you don't need to speak Thai, whereas if not married, you need to pass a Thai tests.

[Felton Jarvis]

29 minutes ago, Kwasaki said:

How do you know you would be throwing your life away what ignorant thing to assume.

How is the air conditioning over there in the “Ignore Zone”?

[Liverpool Lou]

40 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

Very important to remember: a bargirl will never look better than when you first see her in the bar. From that day on, she will look more and more like her mother.

That applies to every woman, not just bar girls.