Dan discusses his Pattaya Bargirl relationship and advises others to not do the same.

[Goat]

22 hours ago, noobexpat said:

 

Have you ever walked through gods waiting room? AKA big c extra foodcourt.

 

He's young, relative to most expats here.

 

Botox addict.

[Goat]

5 hours ago, zhounan said:

I am 33 years old and moved here 5 years ago. I've never been in a bar, I vaguely know what a bargirl is.

Why waste time, youth and freshness behind a bargirl when there are tens of thousands of friendly single women and thousands of desperate MILFs?

I really don't understand how young farang can fall in the trap.

It is absurd. 

As you say, tens of thousands of friendly single women. Why waste time and money on hookers? Not to mention the hygeine issues.

[Goat]

On 1/30/2024 at 1:22 PM, Goat said:

I see him as the typical Pattaya Brit.

20 years in Pattaya, cant speak a single word of Thai, even the word Pattaya. 

 

22 hours ago, BritManToo said:

 

Why the need to speak Thai?

 

22 hours ago, brewsterbudgen said:

22 hours ago, BritManToo said:

 

One of the great things about living here is that there is no need to learn the language

 

23 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

The thing is in Pattaya you just don't need Thai, I don't know why people bother trying to learn,

 

Yep, like I said, typical Pattaya Brit who has lived here for decades and still can not string a Thai sentence together.

 

Similar to being a illiterate deaf mute. But as long as you are happy, ignorance is bliss.

Just get your rented girl to translate for you, they usually know a bit of English. 

[beautifulthailand99]

On 10/25/2023 at 10:40 AM, Goat said:

No, but i have met him. 

In Pattaya darkside bars years ago when he was working for Niels Colov.

It seems he has tried to emulate Niels but really hasnt been able to pull it off. Niels was 10 times smarter, and made the right connections because he could actually talk to Thai people in Thai and socialise with them.

 

Dan seems stuck mainly socialising with Brit Pattaya "Bar Owners' who some descibe as pimps and mongers. You can only go so far with that.

Drew Noyes also tried to copy Niels and failed spectaculary and ended up arrested and sentenced to prison.

 

Clever bloke that Niels.

I've read Andrew Drummond's take on him. Interesting indeed.

[Goat]

22 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

Its ok... we get it...    You're an antisocial being who has no desire to interact with any locals

And they typically get frustrated when the Thais can not understand the farang's Tinglish and sign language.

 

Then convince themselves that the Thais are dumb. Oh the irony.

[Goat]

3 minutes ago, beautifulthailand99 said:

I've read Andrew Drummond's take on him. Interesting indeed.

Like BP, we are not allowed to talk about him here. Did a stitch up job on.....

[noobexpat]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

Botox addict.

 

Full facelift for you though. Droopy jowls not a great look.

[scubascuba3]

1 hour ago, Goat said:

 

 

 

 

Yep, like I said, typical Pattaya Brit who has lived here for decades and still can not string a Thai sentence together.

 

Similar to being a illiterate deaf mute. But as long as you are happy, ignorance is bliss.

Just get your rented girl to translate for you, they usually know a bit of English. 

Just no need for it, maybe it makes you feel better. Plus you are very obnoxious so you need everything you can get

Edited January 31 by scubascuba3

[Goat]

32 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Just no need for it, maybe it makes you feel better. Plus you are very obnoxious so you need everything you can get

i understand that you dont get it.

It would drive me mad not being able to read Thai. 

 

 95% of Thais dont speak English, I like being able to socialise with them. They are a lot more fun. And more high quality women, not the Pattaya types who have been soiled by farangs.

 

And as far as obnoxious, it means rude. I can politely ask for things, you just grunt and point.

Edited January 31 by Goat

[Goat]

48 minutes ago, noobexpat said:

 

Full facelift for you though. Droopy jowls not a great look.

I reckon my nutsack is falling further down also.

[tgw]

On 10/23/2023 at 10:18 AM, Goat said:

Interesting insight from famous Thai blogger Dan.

 

https://fb.watch/nRDrGQXsjL/?mibextid=2Rb1fB

 

a relationship with a hooker can only work if she continues to work.

[Goat]

2 minutes ago, tgw said:

 

a relationship with a hooker can only work if she continues to work.

 

Thanks for the heads up TG.

 

Dan didnt reveal if his one continued to work or if he rescued her.

[1FinickyOne]

On 10/23/2023 at 12:38 PM, Fat is a type of crazy said:

It's almost like you don't like this Dan guy

That is so fat

[save the frogs]

11 hours ago, zhounan said:

I am 33 years old and moved here 5 years ago. I've never been in a bar, I vaguely know what a bargirl is.

Why waste time, youth and freshness behind a bargirl when there are tens of thousands of friendly single women and thousands of desperate MILFs?

I really don't understand how young farang can fall in the trap.

 

Because being a playboy (arguably) has much less integrity than sleeping with sex workers.

Why, you ask?

Because when you sleep with a non sex worker, 9 times out 10 she's looking for something long-term. 

So you're basically setting up false expectations for the woman and then dumping her, which causes emotional distress. 

At least with sex workers, that expectation is not there. 

Doesn't matter how young you are and how many girls you can get. That's not the only issue. 

You basically need to be a sleazebag to get away with that kind of lifestyle.

Jordan Peterson thinks one night stand folks are sociopaths. 

Maybe guys who frequent sex workers are also sleazebags? The jury is still out. 

 

I tell you from the start.

He's gonna break your heart.

He's gonna tell you lies

But you won't realize

 

 

Edited January 31 by save the frogs

[1FinickyOne]

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

still can not string a Thai sentence together

 

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

ust no need for it,

yo! Meathead - is that true? Just one word a day and you would be speaking ok... no respect for the locals? 

 

and you call me diabetes legs... kah bpa wan

 

you could be insulting overweight people in their own language... or maybe if you were just a little bit brighter, you wouldn't feel a need to compensate...

 

not that there's anything wrong with it... 

[richard_smith237]

12 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Everyone's perfect wife/ GF is only that till they ain't, and if they ain't, you ain't been with them long enough to know. Even my wife was perfect for a year, and then she wasn't, though it took another 4 years for the true woman to emerge. It happened on the day I said "we have to economise".

 

What is it with some guys who've had failed marriages....     do you truly believe your sweeping generalisations and projections are true of everyone else's relationships ??? 

 

 

 

[scubascuba3]

27 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

 

yo! Meathead - is that true? Just one word a day and you would be speaking ok... no respect for the locals? 

 

and you call me diabetes legs... kah bpa wan

 

you could be insulting overweight people in their own language... or maybe if you were just a little bit brighter, you wouldn't feel a need to compensate...

 

not that there's anything wrong with it... 

Why don't you bozo's understand, there's no need for it.

 

If you were smart you wouldn't be so fat

[proton]

6 hours ago, Goat said:

Like BP, we are not allowed to talk about him here. Did a stitch up job on.....

 

On just about everyone, while being obsessed with 3 low life Pattaya dwellers for years. One of his most disgusting 'expose's' was of a high ranking official at the USA embassy whose crime was going round the bars on a weekend, which he was also known to do. Did damage the guys career who could have been an Ambassador - but for this gutter press 'journalist'.

[1FinickyOne]

11 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Why don't you bozo's understand, there's no need for it.

 

If you were smart you wouldn't be so fat

I bet you are the kind of guy who drags on immigrants in your home country who can't speak English... 

 

Learning/speaking Thai is the #1 thing I would recommend for farang living here... but if you don't have the capacity, ok... not even recognizing the need,

well, that is who you are... better to concentrate on your BMI... 

 

Funny, my being a little overweight is so important to you - - we surely don't belong in the same club.. not that there's anything wrong with it... 

[scubascuba3]

6 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Learning/speaking Thai is the #1 thing I would recommend for farang living here...

No 1 thing i recommend is don't let yourself become a bloater and alcoholic

[noobexpat]

1 hour ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Learning/speaking Thai is the #1 thing I would recommend for farang living here...

 

More like a nice-to-have number 10.

Health is 1, money is 2.

[Goat]

14 hours ago, save the frogs said:

Because being a playboy (arguably) has much less integrity than sleeping with sex workers.

Why, you ask?

Because when you sleep with a non sex worker, 9 times out 10 she's looking for something long-term. 

So you're basically setting up false expectations for the woman and then dumping her, which causes emotional distress. 

Rubbish.

You might be surprised by this revelation but women actually enjoy sex. 

If they wanted marriage they would make you wait for you to commit. But they dont.

 

However in Dans case she was a sex worker and was looking for a commitment. Whether it was for genuine feelings for Dan or the fact that she hated having to service hundreds of elderly foreign sex tourists and thought Dan was the lesser of two evils we will never know.

[Goat]

2 hours ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Learning/speaking Thai is the #1 thing I would recommend for farang living here... but if you don't have the capacity, ok... not even recognizing the need,

You know, and I know what they are missing out on. Which is about 95%

 

Dan is the same, which is why I find his videos so cringeworthy. He is acting like an expert and giving advice but really doesnt have a clue what is going on all around him.

[Goat]

14 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

What is it with some guys who've had failed marriages....     do you truly believe your sweeping generalisations and projections are true of everyone else's relationships ??? 

 

 

 

He never got over it.

I think he said she was from the "entertainment" industry.

[Goat]

14 hours ago, proton said:

 

On just about everyone, while being obsessed with 3 low life Pattaya dwellers for years. One of his most disgusting 'expose's' was of a high ranking official at the USA embassy whose crime was going round the bars on a weekend, which he was also known to do. Did damage the guys career who could have been an Ambassador - but for this gutter press 'journalist'.

He was a Brit wasnt he?

Ended up having to quickly leave Thailand for some reason. I think he got arrested?

[roo860]

3 minutes ago, Goat said:

He never got over it.

I think he said she was from the "entertainment" industry.

When did he say he never got over it?

Edited February 1 by roo860

[Goat]

15 hours ago, save the frogs said:

Jordan Peterson thinks one night stand folks are sociopaths. 

Oh dear. Jordan thinks a lot of rubbish.

 

Sociopaths lack empathy. Making love to a willing woman who is enjoying it verses taking advantage of a down and out desperate hooker with a gambling or drug addiction who is hating ever second of having to service thousands of elderly sex tourist weird fetishes.

 

Think about it.

[Goat]

3 minutes ago, roo860 said:

When did he say he never got over it?

Read his posts.

He is always going on about it. 

 

[Goat]

3 hours ago, 1FinickyOne said:

I bet you are the kind of guy who drags on immigrants in your home country who can't speak English... 

 

I think you would be correct.

I have seen many Englishmen over the years in Thailand complain that the Thais cant speak English. 

Taxi drivers, waitresses, shop assistants, maids etc. 

 

I have tried explaining to them that if a Thai had gone to the trouble of learning a foreign language they probably will be more ambitious than to take a low income job like a maid etc.

I dont know if maids, taxi drivers etc in England are expected to study foreign language?

[proton]

59 minutes ago, Goat said:

He was a Brit wasnt he?

Ended up having to quickly leave Thailand for some reason. I think he got arrested?

Scottish, only ever picked on easy targets, never Thais. Picked on boiler room operations here then got threatened, pooped his pants and did a runner leaving the mrs behind. Had a go at this forum as well, amazed nobody ever took him to court for defamation.