18 minutes ago, bignok said:

Most faranga date ugly from what ive seen

I reckon you are mostly right. 

 

When I met the mother of my children she was 17yo. 

Sorta pretty but perfect body, nice little body with a peachy bottom. Over the 20 odd years she is still small (not fat) but fell short of my expectations, lost interest in her. 

 

My new gf, 26yo, it's nice to have a young chick again, why not, it's all about taking care of the family, I do that well. I have to keep telling her that I take care of her and her family but she must take care of me in a special way (she forgets at times).

God love their little brains, always forgetting 😮

 

3 hours ago, NONG CHOK said:

Actually I lost my virginity in the back of my first car. It was ok but I've since found out that it would've been much better if I had company and I was not alone.

I had a,<deleted> in the ocean. Fun.

I was in Singapore several years ago and I happened to be staying in the red light district unintentionally, just happened to find a halfway decent hotel at a price that wasn't an arm and a leg. One day my woman was busy with one of her girlfriends and I just started wandering around. I ended up at a food court and it turned out that a lot of the working ladies from the area were eating there. I was sitting down having something to eat and I noticed this man who must have been in his 80's, who was just surrounded by a bevy of gorgeous women. They just kept on walking up to him and hugging him and kissing him and sitting down with him and being very affectionate with him, and it was just such an incredible scene to see that I just assumed the guy must have been a centi -millionaire.

After a while most of the women cleared out and I was finished with my meal and I wandered over to him and I said hey can I ask you something. He spoke perfect English I asked what is your deal? I mean you've got all these gorgeous women surrounding you, lavishing you with attention. What's your deal man? He started laughing he said you know something, my wife died about five years ago and she was the love of my life. I was really bereft for a couple of years, I didn't know what to do with myself and I wandered down here one day for lunch and I bought one of these girls a bowl of soup. The next day she came back with a couple of her girlfriends and I bought the girlfriends fruit shakes, so the next day they came back with five of their friends and it's been like that for three years now. He said I come here seven days a week and I spend a few hours here, it cost me maybe $200 a month, but I get so much kindness and so much affection and so much attention from these beautiful young girls.

He said it's the highlight of my life and the only reason why I want to continue living at this point is to be around these lovely, charming, delightful angels. He said I adore these women and they adore me I never get with them, I don't have any interest in that, I just love the affection, love the attention and he said this is my paradise on earth.

Great encounter. I will never forget that man, and his approach to life. Talk about an 86 year old stud!

 

I contrast that to an experience I had in a strip bar in Los Angeles many years ago. I was chatting with a nice gal from New York about NYC and we just started talking about some of the customers that were hanging out. There was one guy who was probably 70, and he had two girls on his arms, he was chatting them up and hung out with him for about an hour. I asked her what's the deal with this guy and she said oh that's Eddie, yeah he's comes here about twice a month, I assume that's after he gets some kind of pension check and he just hangs out with the girls, he never gets with them, never does any lap dances, nothing. He just hangs out with the girls and seems to enjoy the affection they show him. I said do you mind if I asked about what he spends each time and she said yeah he averages $800 for 60 or 90 minutes, each time he comes.

 

What can one even say to that?

34 minutes ago, bignok said:

Most faranga date ugly from what ive seen

Are you talking about yourself?

1 hour ago, biggles45 said:

78 with a very attractive partner (45) of 13 years. Once, maybe twice a week for us, tho I am fortunate that she has always been easy to cum, DATY is a favorite. V is a good friend

I started mongering in Thailand at 53, pay for play, and over indulged all the time. By my mid 60's I was looking for something more involved, have no regrets. 

Is there an English language translation please as your post makes no sense.

WTF does this phrase mean; "cum, DATY is a favorite. V is a good friend"?

9 minutes ago, scottiejohn said:

Are you talking about yourself?

Talking about guys like YOU

14 hours ago, swissie said:

To the point: How is your sex-life as a senior male? In Thailand or elsewhere?

I have four partners that I sleep with regularly in our birthday suits. I like the silky, smooth feeling of women's skin in their birthday suits. I get four in Thailand for the price of one in the USA. 

13 minutes ago, scottiejohn said:

Is there an English language translation please as your post makes no sense.

WTF does this phrase mean; "cum, DATY is a favorite. V is a good friend"?

Surely there can’t be a man here in LoS who doesn’t know what Dining At The Y is?

8 hours ago, Yeah rightio said:

I agree with most of what you have on your list, though I think it may have been premature of you to have added; not wearing a nappy.

I think they're referred to as "incontinence pads"

11 minutes ago, ArnieP said:

Surely there can’t be a man here in LoS who doesn’t know what Dining At The Y is?

Never heard of it.

15 hours ago, swissie said:

Most seniors do care about this. Sooner or later.

Just ask Bob, he's full of stories although most are questionable and not informative for your request.

7 hours ago, JensenZ said:

It's either low testosterone coupled with high estrogen levels or just stress. Stress is one of the biggest libido killers. If you're using Finasteride to keep your hair - then that is likely your problem. 

 

Another aspect of my lack of sexual desire may be that I'm not really attracted to asian women, both their physical attributes and also the maturity level. I find them mostly skinny and immature.

 

My type mostly probably brazilian, mexican or black in terms of just lust.

 

Ask me why I'm in asia would be a good question. I probably couldn't make a great case for it other then cost.

I'm 65, wife 52. About 3 times a week. I would do more if the wife let me. But she says I can only have sex with her. 

4 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

Another aspect of my lack of sexual desire may be that I'm not really attracted to asian women, both their physical attributes and also the maturity level. I find them mostly skinny and immature.

 

My type mostly probably brazilian, mexican or black in terms of just lust.

 

Ask me why I'm in asia would be a good question. I probably couldn't make a great case for it other then cost.

Find a fat Thai

1 hour ago, bignok said:

I had a,<deleted> in the ocean. Fun.

Hopefully with this beaut.

6 minutes ago, bignok said:

Find a fat Thai

Oddly enough, that does not work. I think it's Thai's in general I don't prefer🤷🏻‍♂️. I do prefer Cambodians over Thai's, but not sure why. I think it's a vibe or attitude thing that turns me of in addition to the physical aspects.

 

I prefer very subservient women and don't get that vibe from asian women much, even though that's a common stereotype.

1 minute ago, JimTripper said:

Oddly enough, that does not work. I think it's Thai's in general I don't prefer 🤷🏻‍♂️.  I do prefer Cambodians over Thai's, but not sure why. I think it's a vibe or attitude thing that turns me of in addition to the physical aspects.

Try Surin, they look Kymer

15 hours ago, swissie said:

Most seniors do care about this. Sooner or later.

Most seniors do care about their own sex lives... not so much about someone else's... So to repeat Bignok's question... why do you care?

bloke down our way just hit 90 - does 2 Braas's a day (gets his liquid vee-agra delivered my milk tanker though...)

11 hours ago, Ben Zioner said:

Ok, I'll be specific.

 

I am 71. my wife  is  42. 

I have P4P encounters about 10 times a year.

I rarely have sex on consecutive days.

Repeat shots are now few, mostly with P2P partners.

I am on daily 5mg Cialis, sometimes I use an additional 50mg Viagra.

The Wife looks happy, so am I.

The downward trend in frequency started in my fifties. 

 

 

Ok, I am ignorant! What is the difference between P4P and P2P, and wny do I need 2 know? Does it mean more 4-play?

2 hours ago, bignok said:

Most faranga date ugly from what ive seen

You should spend some time in Bangkok.

 

I see guys who are clearly in their 70s walking around hand-in-hand with some real stunners.

 

Yes, some old guys meet a mother-of-5-with-5-baby daddies, but some guys hit the jackpot. The older guys who do well tend to be more fit and dress as if they have money, but nobody with a Y-chromosome could find fault with their tilac.

14 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

You should spend some time in Bangkok.

 

I see guys who are clearly in their 70s walking around hand-in-hand with some real stunners.

 

Yes, some old guys meet a mother-of-5-with-5-baby daddies, but some guys hit the jackpot. The older guys who do well tend to be more fit and dress as if they have money, but nobody with a Y-chromosome could find fault with their tilac.

What's really weird are those older guys with what looks like their daughter. You can't tell if it's really their GF if they are not touching or interacting. I saw a couple like this at Bkk airport, I just kept staring but could not figure it out.

16 hours ago, JimTripper said:

Started losing interest right after Covid hit. Downhill ever since. I blame it on age since I don't have another reason really (54 now). Nothing physical wrong, maybe it's depression?

 

It's so bad for me now an attractive woman could offer and I would just shrug it off. 🤷🏻‍♂️ I hope things improve. I still remember having a great time sexually before Covid hit.

 

I'm still attracted to exceptional women, but they don't pass my way very often.

Maybe Testosterone would help 

23 minutes ago, Irish star said:

Maybe Testosterone would help 

Someone said above that once you start testosterone you can't really get off it. The body stops producing naturally or you need to take estrogen later on, etc. Not worth it.

 

Seems kind of weird stuff all around, especially in a clinic in thailand where the clinic staff may not be all that knowledgable. Many times they just treat you here on an up to you basis and don't really take your balls by the hand in terms of guidance. Or, they rush you into treatments you don't understand or need.

 

If I was with a top hospital and doctor in the Usa I might consider it.

3 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

Someone said above that once you start testosterone you can't really get off it. The body stops producing naturally or you need to take estrogen later on, etc. Not worth it.

I was able too , then couple years started again 

 I am not going to go into details, just to say in my late 70s, my get up and go, got up and went. It's hard to feel desirable at this age even if in good shape. And if you're not

A couple of good quotes.

" I like having pretty girls around. I just can't remember why."

" The sounds I used to make having sex are the same that I have now just getting out of bed"

20 hours ago, swissie said:

Many views as to why we were born into this world. General consensus is: To reproduce! This is not possible without "having sex". In my younger years I followed this rigorous "call of nature" unconditionally and with much "gusto".

Today (as an old geezer) I look at it in a different way. Today, having sex means to insert a part of my lower body (resembling a cucumber) into the lower part of a female (resembling a mysterious pink body opening).

 

The act usually includes the utterance of animalistic noises, ranging from howling wolves to the guttural noises of a hippo. The "climax" of all this activity is short for women and even shorter for men. Whereas the longer term results of this animalistic encounter may be longer lasting.

Finally, women past menopause have mostly lost interest in "reproduction" as opposed to old men still looking with interest at younger women, not really knowing why.

Clearly, God (the Gods) are feminists. Making the aging process for women much easier than for men.

To the point: How is your sex-life as a senior male? In Thailand or elsewhere?

 

What's that? It's not compulsory is it? Old age is such a blessing.

Considering that I am 77, I don't begrudge donating 2500 baht to a pretty young 'charity'.

 

(And I certainly don't have a conscience about it. My health is paramount!)

On 11/30/2023 at 6:21 AM, Ben Zioner said:

am on daily 5mg Cialis,

Where do you buy your 5mg Cialis from, are you in Thailand?