How do you deal with connotations and assumptions you're a sex tourist?

[CharlieKo]

Just now, patman30 said:

another one of these vague engagement posts
 

 

It does sound like total BS to me.

[patman30]

Just now, CharlieKo said:

 

Then why are you getting disapproving looks from other westerners. Unless this is a BS posting? 

Exactly.
AN can do better than these.
these type of posts are going to become very boring very quickly.
as if there wasn't enough boring posts that just turn into bickering as it is.....

[Mekmong MICK]

Just now, Berkshire said:

Would farangs/westerners in Thailand really see a 21 yr old as a sex tourist?  How would you know that they're even thinking this?

Three recent examples;

 

1) I was having a Tiger Beer at a bar when a family of 4 walked in to use the bathroom. I was at a table with 3 beautiful Thai ladies and the mother shook her head

 

2) I was giving my waitress a tip (she was wearing no top) and the couple who walked in asking for directions immediately left saying "this is why we should have holiday'd in New Zealand "

 

3) I was walking along the road near the beach bending to get a better view of a Thai lady (may have been a ladyboy upon getting closer) when a Western kid said to his Mum "Mum, I think this man has lost something. He looks like he's trying to find something he dropped". The Mum hurried her kid away and look horrified at me

[Mekmong MICK]

4 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

I married Australian woman at 23.

I doubt it friend

[Celsius]

1 minute ago, Mekmong MICK said:

was walking along the road near the beach bending to get a better view of a Thai lady (may have been a ladyboy

 

Yep. More up ur alley as an Aussie 

[MalcolmB]

2 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

Well said friend.

 

A lot here are casting the first stone whilst they'd pass out if someone U/30 with 6.5/10 good looks sat next to them at a bar. @Celsiusin particular 

That’s right mate.

 

Make sure you get yourself a real petite one with plenty of tattoos.

That really stirs up the intimidation and jealousy.

 

when the farang women are giving the stink eye make sure you smile a lot and give little Lek plenty of little pats on the bum.
 

 

[Mekmong MICK]

1 minute ago, Celsius said:

 

Yep. More up ur alley as an Aussie 

May I suggest if you're not going to contribute you take your melting to another thread?

 

Maybe you can pick up some casual work lurking around the Finance Board to help fund your return ticket to Australia 

[Celsius]

6 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

Three recent examples;

 

1) I was having a Tiger Beer at a bar when a family of 4 walked in to use the bathroom. I was at a table with 3 beautiful Thai ladies and the mother shook her head

 

2) I was giving my waitress a tip (she was wearing no top) and the couple who walked in asking for directions immediately left saying "this is why we should have holiday'd in New Zealand "

 

3) I was walking along the road near the beach bending to get a better view of a Thai lady (may have been a ladyboy upon getting closer) when a Western kid said to his Mum "Mum, I think this man has lost something. He looks like he's trying to find something he dropped". The Mum hurried her kid away and look horrified at me

 

Claims not to be a sex tourist.

 

Does all the sex touristy things.

[Yamu]

12 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Yes. if you are a loser. I married Australian woman at 23. She looks nothing like that 

reckon we can lock in a real 3/10 (9/10 by south Australian standards)

[norfolkandchance]

Bob in disguise.

[Mekmong MICK]

Just now, Yamu said:

reckon we can lock in a real 3/10 (9/10 by south Australian standards)

@Celsius probably looks like a meth dealer from Adelaide. 

 

2 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Claims not to be a sex tourist.

 

Does all the sex touristy things.

Gee you're not very bright.

 

I'm seeking a long term committed relationship with a 18-20yo. This must rustle you up given you've likely tried and failed this

[MalcolmB]

5 minutes ago, norfolkandchance said:

Bob in disguise.

Nah, Mekong Mick and his other personality Yamu are much wittier than whining old Bob.

[Woof999]

Sex tourist or not, I really don't care but, from what you've written so far you seem to be equating owning a Raptor, a $900 suit and a $6000 bed to mean you're cultured and not a sex tourist.

 

If you're as fast to tell the Thai ladies about your valued possessions and your financial position, you've got significanty less chance of finding a long term partner and much more chance of being taken for a ride.

 

Good luck anyway.

[KhunLA]

Why would anyone care what others think, especially strangers.  Although ...

... it probably does apply to most single men (foreigner (non working) in TH.

 

Whether P4P, or like myself, when single, just a sexpat.  Locals would just be called a butterfly, or in my home country a damn 'horn toad', man whore, or simply 'happy' 

 

And nothing wrong with that, as long as you accept it.   

[Yamu]

13 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Claims not to be a sex tourist.

 

Does all the sex touristy things.

live footage of the OP

 

 

[Mekmong MICK]

1 minute ago, Woof999 said:

Sex tourist or not, I really don't care but, from what you've written so far you seem to be equating owning a Raptor, a $900 suite and a $6000 bed to mean you're cultured and not a sex tourist.

 

If you're as fast to tell the Thai ladies about your valued possessions and your financial position, you've got significanty less chance of finding a long term partner and much more chance of being taken for a ride.

 

Good luck anyway.

No, the $900 suit, Raptor and bed were in response to being successful 

 

I am cultured; back in Australia I used to watch SBS at night and wave one of those rainbow flags on willy woofta celebration days

[Mekmong MICK]

1 minute ago, Yamu said:

live footage of the OP

 

 

Nice selfie DH. Doesn't even look like Hua Hin.

 

Please DM me the girl's details if she's available 

[Neeranam]

57 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

Companionship and to bring out my youthful side.

 

I would consider myself attractive and I am successful; I own a Ford Raptor

How old are you?

I have a 21-year old daughter and if you are my age(50s) with a girl younger than that, I will give you a dirty look. 

[Celsius]

18 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

 

 

I'm seeking a long term committed relationship with a 18-20yo. This must rustle you up given you've likely tried and failed this

 

If I post a few pictures, you will start crying,

 

 

 

[Mekmong MICK]

1 minute ago, Neeranam said:

How old are you?

I have a 21-year old daughter and if you are my age(50s) with a girl younger than that, I will give you a dirty look. 

Lol, a lot younger friend

[lom]

1 hour ago, Mekmong MICK said:

Hi

 

Long tan lurker first time poster.

 

I recently sold up my dent repair business and relocated to Hua Hin. I was hoping to meet a nice Thai girl between 18 - 20 but I find it difficult with all the disapproving stares I get from farang passers-by. How do you deal with the attention from Westerners scolding at you? 

 

 

If you get disapproving stares then you are porbably not 21 years old and good looking but 62 and fat.

[Mekmong MICK]

Just now, lom said:

If you get disapproving stares then you are porbably not 21 years old and good looking but 62 and fat.

So this would make the Westerns ageist?

 

Tbh I'd probably rather be known as a sex pest than ageist

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, Mekmong MICK said:

How do you deal with the attention from Westerners scolding at you? 

When I started my relationship with my teenage girlfriend I got lots of stares from tourists.

When we passed them I was sure they will turn around to look at the beautiful mini skirt back of my girl. So I waited a second, and then I gave her a clap of her back to make everybody happy.

 

Just enjoy the situation. Farang men want a pretty young girl like you have, and old farang women don't like competition.

 

 

[Tod Daniels]

you need this t-shirt

[KhunLA]

57 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

You're part of the assumption brigade. 

 

You probably couldn't afford a flight back to Australia so pretend you're living like a king on $4 a day 

With that come back, you're obviously just trolling.  

 

You travelled to TH to meet young people to have sex with and maybe a relationship.   You ARE a sex tourist.   Sexpat if having  long term visa.

 

Didn't read all the post (after the above) ... but what is your age ?  Wanting to date minors (18 & 19 yr olds), hope you are not older than 30.   

 

FYA ... 20 yrs old is considered an adult in TH.   Let that sink in ... 

[stoner]

op you should of stuck with lurking. this thread and your replies are doo doo. seems to be a small litter of you new guys pumping out the same predictable writing style. never any real imagination into these dumb stories either. 

 

it all started one day in the pre pay food court. she was cleaning tables and looking at me in an animalistic kind of way. i knew then and there that somehow someway she would be cleaning my table at the end of the day. then i thought o snap wait....how will i deal with the connotation of me being with a rather old thai woman. 

 

hunny can you come and finish my story on thai visa some guy doesn't believe we are married. 

 

i almost laughed once uncle buck.

[Mekmong MICK]

Just now, OneMoreFarang said:

When I started my relationship with my teenage girlfriend I got lots of stares from tourists.

When we passed them I was sure they will turn around to look at the beautiful mini skirt back of my girl. So I waited a second, and then I gave her a clap of her back to make everybody happy.

 

Just enjoy the situation. Farang men want a pretty young girl like you have, and old farang women don't like competition.

 

 

Thanks friend.

 

I guess I'm just a little more self conscious and aware than some of the other creeps on here. I'll build confidence over time

[brewsterbudgen]

At 21, you're certainly a "tourist", so the chance of stying here long enough to establish a genuine relationship is virtually nil.

 

If it bothers you so much, just consider yourself as a "tourist who has sex".

[stoner]

5 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

I will give you a dirty look. 

 

ohhhh shiver me timbers........

[Neeranam]

3 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

Lol, a lot younger friend

Are you ashamed of your age?