More likely he's either 1. deluding himself or 2. lying to us. I've met several guys of the 'I don't pay them to be with me' guys and their wives, they all had massive fails and asset losses after a while and they were all really nice guys. The idea of a normal relationship is so alien to you that you simply can't believe they exist. On a number of occasions you've told us how badly you've been burnt in the past. So badly, in fact, that anything outside a transactional, mercenary arrangement now seems beyond your comprehension. It's a perspective that calls for a little introspection, but that would require the very self-awareness and self-reflection you seem determined to avoid. Ironically, it's probably that failure which prevents you from ever having achieved a healthy relationship in the first place. That said, if you're happy to pay someone to pretend to love you, who am I to argue? I have a wife who pretends to ignore me half the time, so we're both investing in fantasies of one sort or another.
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