Best Way To Maintain A Healthy Sex Life As You Age?

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6 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

You were checking me out?

 

Wow

Your wife insisted. 

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7 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

If you have somehow discovered a new orifice, please claim your Noble Prize.

 

Ear's don't count, you can barely get in.

I think when he said new places he was referring to locations. I don't even want to know though. I rather a comfortable bed than a fire stairwell, a dressing room in a clothing store, an elevator, etc. 

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7 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

I'm going to an Internations Org. meet up tonight to try my luck. I hear that where the white women over 40 in Bangkok congregate like impalas around a watering hole.

Not sure what/where that is, but good for you; going to do a little charity work by taking out some of the old horses that rarely ever get ridden.
 

I wouldn't worry about susanlea showing up. He's too thrifty to shell out any money for something like that. At the moment he's still running around and lost in Chumpon looking for some cheap farang food that is less than 40 Baht a meal. 

 

Let us know how it all goes. 

[sidjameson]

1 hour ago, 4MyEgo said:

 

Not for me, I am in my mid 60's and sex is like eating for me, wife of 2 decades still going strong, say twice a week, yes we have slowed down, kids and all, but when I need to eat something sweet, I will go and find it.

 

I don't take any kind of Kamagra, Viagra or Cialis, not good for the heart I hear and while I still rise to the occasion, no need.

 

My way in maintaining a great sex life and a good boner is to eat healthy, exercise regularly to get the blood flowing, don't smoke or drink a lot, take some supplements, like Zink etc, and don't stress or worry whether you will rise to the occasion or not.

 

It also helps to take a young filly on the side every now and again to boost your ego, funny that....LOL, but seriously, it helps to get to know the filly a little before rushing her back to your room for a potential let down, I have been known to take 2 visits before taking one back to my room.

 

When the day comes that I cannot rise to the occasion, that is going to be a real downer for me, so to speak 🙂

 

For me with a long term gf fast approaching menopause I wish that option would work but either you're using a condom and then really, what's the point? Or youre risking infecting not only you but also the wife!

[Prubangboy]

On 9/6/2024 at 6:53 AM, Prubangboy said:

 

 

I'm going to an Internations Org. meet up tonight to try my luck. I hear that where the white women over 40 in Bangkok congregate like impalas around a watering hole.

 

Am I risking physical injury by informing retard-fist fight threatening Susan as to my whereabouts? If it comes down to it, I'll just say I'm not me. 

 

And then whisper "40 baht gym" to him just as the elevator doors close.

The problem with singles events:

 

If you were desirable, you wouldn't need to be there.  

 

Everyone is looking for the bargain who shouldn't be there. Everyone thinks that they are that bargain.

 

Disappointment ensues.

 

And: total sausage fest, 8 to 1 male/female ratio.

 

Mostly old guys and women in their 40's.  Heavy on the Indian/Arab mix.

 

Nice to get out, but.....

[4MyEgo]

18 hours ago, sidjameson said:

For me with a long term gf fast approaching menopause I wish that option would work but either you're using a condom and then really, what's the point? Or youre risking infecting not only you but also the wife!

 

Sometimes you have to roll the dice, condoms are a real downer, and I only sleep with girls that I believe take care of themselves, and yes, you never know, hence the reason I only have my cake/s every now and again, meaning not that often, and sometimes it's the same non working girl.

[sidjameson]

5 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

The problem with singles events:

 

If you were desirable, you wouldn't need to be there.  

 

Everyone is looking for the bargain who shouldn't be there. Everyone thinks that they are that bargain.

 

Disappointment ensues.

 

And: total sausage fest, 8 to 1 male/female ratio.

 

Mostly old guys and women in their 40's.  Heavy on the Indian/Arab mix.

 

Nice to get out, but.....

Fantastically well put. 

Known many men who are a 5 thinking they're an 7, looking for what they believe to be an 8 when statically speaking, lining every women in the country up end to end she's a 9.5

 

[sidjameson]

5 hours ago, 4MyEgo said:

 

Sometimes you have to roll the dice, condoms are a real downer, and I only sleep with girls that I believe take care of themselves, and yes, you never know, hence the reason I only have my cake/s every now and again, meaning not that often, and sometimes it's the same non working girl.

Fair play. I've never used a working girl because I never used condoms. But in hindsight I broke hearts just to lower my personal health risks.

[Prubangboy]

2 hours ago, sidjameson said:

 

Known many men who are a 5 thinking they're an 7, looking for what they believe to be an 8

 

-when statically speaking, lining every women in the country up end to end she's a 9.5

 

Fair play tho, I did shoot a woman from the meetup a Line and we're going out to dinner.

 

A lot of my fellow oldies were very weak on approaching. If a woman was talking to another man, they were incapable of politely inserting themselves into the conversation.

 

So my old age sex advice would be to take your shot, if a woman laughs a bit and it's plausible that she might go out with you.

[scubascuba3]

2 hours ago, sidjameson said:

Fair play. I've never used a working girl because I never used condoms. But in hindsight I broke hearts just to lower my personal health risks.

Yep leading girls on for a shag is a bit low life 

[keysersoze276]

Ask @Gottfrid. He can’t do it, but he will damn well give you advice anyway. 

[Gottfrid]

10 minutes ago, keysersoze276 said:

Ask @Gottfrid. He can’t do it, but he will damn well give you advice anyway. 

Please specify now. What are you implying that I can´t do?

Or are you just a guy who are to scared to speak up, and just use some ones name and talk in riddles.

Man up now! Man or mouse? Or just forever hold your peace.

[GinBoy2]

Well, I'm happily married to a Thai lady for over 25 years.

 

I would certainly say we don't do it like the rabbit's we were back then, but we maintain a pretty decent sex life, but it changes, you need to accept that.

 

Mrs G is a little, well a lot menopausal so hormones are all over the place. I'm just not quite the horn dog I was 10, 20 years ago.

 

But strangely now when we do it it turns out more like a fine wine, I think I can live with that

Edited September 7 by GinBoy2

[Chris Daley]

Last time we were getting busy she asked me what I wanted for me tea tomorrow.  I said corn beef hash.

[FruitPudding]

Who needs sex when you could have other pleasures in life?

[spidermike007]

Just keep having fun, if you still have a strong libido keep enjoying sex. If your wife or GF is into it great, if she's not then get it on the side. But, only short time, and with a high level of discretion. No affairs. No mistresses. No communication with lovers online.

 

Whatever it takes to keep things fun, keep things light, and get by and have some pleasure. 

 

 

[FruitPudding]

1 minute ago, spidermike007 said:

Just keep having fun, if you still have a strong libido keep enjoying sex. If your wife or GF is into it great, if she's not then get it on the side. But, only short time, and with a high level of discretion. No affairs. No mistresses. No communication with lovers online.

 

Whatever it takes to keep things fun, keep things light, and get by and have some pleasure. 

 

 

 

Please don't put me off my dinner.

 

The second one looks particularly repulsive. 

[Celsius]

This morning was good. After we both woke up, wifey went down and after she finished me she demanded some slappies. I obliged while she delighted herself.

 

Thinking about spicing things up with a 3rd party.

[Sigmund]

Getting the willy serviced on the side is tempting in Thailand if one has a G/F or wife who does not do the job anymore. But if in Thailand, why continue to be with a g/f or wife who does not do the job ? Far more simple to thank her and walk away. A good reminder that in Thailand never, never buy....always" rent".

[FruitPudding]

18 minutes ago, Celsius said:

This morning was good. After we both woke up, wifey went down and after she finished me she demanded some slappies. I obliged while she delighted herself.

 

Thinking about spicing things up with a 3rd party.

 

What the <deleted> is a slappy?

[scubascuba3]

25 minutes ago, FruitPudding said:

 

Please don't put me off my dinner.

 

The second one looks particularly repulsive. 

Do you prefer ones with stubble? first one looks hot

[FruitPudding]

2 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Do you prefer ones with stubble? first one looks hot

 

First one looks boring in bed and irritating out of bed.

 

Edited September 8 by FruitPudding

[scubascuba3]

3 minutes ago, FruitPudding said:

 

First one looks boring in bed and irritating out of bed.

 

Probably high maintenance which is a put off

[JimTripper]

15 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Probably high maintenance which is a put off

Can you post a pic of your penis?

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On 9/7/2024 at 5:43 PM, scubascuba3 said:

Yep leading girls on for a shag is a bit low life 

Or is it? Aren’t women often leading men on and dangling sex because they want a financial sponsor? It goes both ways. Both people invest themselves and take risks because both want something. Sometimes their wants are the same and other times they aren’t. Adults can make decisions for themselves though on how far they are willing to go to try and get what they want.  

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4 hours ago, JimTripper said:

Can you post a pic of your penis?

Wow, dick-pic requests now out in the open. Aren’t these usually done using a private gift note?

[scubascuba3]

5 hours ago, RSD1 said:

Or is it? Aren’t women often leading men on and dangling sex because they want a financial sponsor? It goes both ways. Both people invest themselves and take risks because both want something. Sometimes their wants are the same and other times they aren’t. Adults can make decisions for themselves though on how far they are willing to go to try and get what they want.  

If it's a girl genuinely looking for a relationship then yes it's low life thing to do, leading them on and using them for sex. If she's a sex worker and you're paying her then no issue

[spidermike007]

13 hours ago, Sigmund said:

Getting the willy serviced on the side is tempting in Thailand if one has a G/F or wife who does not do the job anymore. But if in Thailand, why continue to be with a g/f or wife who does not do the job ? Far more simple to thank her and walk away. A good reminder that in Thailand never, never buy....always" rent".

There are all types of relationships. Many are outstanding, and offer alot of fulfillment, but after a decade or more, the sex is just not a big deal anymore.

 

Some of us are bent, and the familiarity is just not a turn on. So, an occasional short time with a young beauty is a nice fix. 

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1 hour ago, spidermike007 said:

There are all types of relationships. Many are outstanding, and offer alot of fulfillment, but after a decade or more, the sex is just not a big deal anymore.

 

Some of us are bent, and the familiarity is just not a turn on. So, an occasional short time with a young beauty is a nice fix. 

Old P versus New P. Two totally different universes, but within the same solar system. 

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On 9/7/2024 at 9:08 AM, Prubangboy said:

The problem with singles events:

 

If you were desirable, you wouldn't need to be there.  

 

Everyone is looking for the bargain who shouldn't be there. Everyone thinks that they are that bargain.

 

Disappointment ensues.

 

And: total sausage fest, 8 to 1 male/female ratio.

 

Mostly old guys and women in their 40's.  Heavy on the Indian/Arab mix.

 

Nice to get out, but.....

Sounds like it was a big disappointment. Was hoping you were going to discover a new pig slaying outlet. 
 

Have you ever joined any MeetUp groups? I'm pretty sure you'd find some of those hairy, middle aged, salad dodgers that you're looking for at one of those gatherings. Try the Menopause MeetUp group. Should be packed with the ratio well in your favor. I think they gather on Soi HoiHang.