Are You A Sexpat Or Do You Ride The Backwards Morality Train?

[GammaGlobulin]

Just now, Bday Prang said:

More like a "crackpot"

 

GOOD !!!

[BritManToo]

30 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Who wants to be with a porn star, couldn't think of anything worse. 

 

Yeah, but when she says "I'd never do that", you can bring out the video showing she would and she did!

[Lacessit]

37 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Who wants to be with a porn star, couldn't think of anything worse. 

 

Reading about what happens to them in later life - it's not good.

[SAFETY FIRST]

44 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Yeah, but when she says "I'd never do that", you can bring out the video showing she would and she did!

I get your point and I reckon you guys are the majority on this forum, there's a lot of people here who like the kinky stuff, anal etc. I'm not into that. 

 

I see quite a few guys talking about shagging sex workers and I'm sure they'd love the experience spending time with a porn star. 

I read a comment from one guy recently said he had a regular who comes to his house, gets a massage and shag for a 1000 baht. I couldn't be intimate with her, I'd be thinking about the guy she blew and screwed an hour earlier.

 

I like to have my gf, permanent partner. We experiment but I don't ask her to do something weird or kinky that we saw watching a porn movie together. 

 

 

Edited October 13 by SAFETY FIRST

[Yagoda]

1 hour ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

That's Harrold. 

 

I read he's no longer with us or no longer with her. 

 

Shes too old

[fondue zoo]

18 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I couldn't be intimate with her, I'd be thinking about the guy she blew and screwed an hour earlier.

 

yeah, there is that, the smell of Listerine and jizzum isn't exactly a turn on.

 

 

_{disclaimer: This statement is in no way meant to offend those of the mouthwash/man juice preference.}

 

[BTB1977]

Some old sexpat walked into my wife's shop and asked her 17 year old niece to go to his hotel for 2,000 baht. She was alone and very frightened.  I asked her to point him out if  he walked by again. We'll he did and I bloodied his nose. He threatened to call the police.  I said go ahead, you tried to rape a 17 year old. Why these idiots think all thai girls just want a sagging balled fat f#ck . 

[NoshowJones]

19 hours ago, NowNow said:

 

But sitting in bars all day? That's sad.

Yes, very sad, all they are doing is giving themselves future liver problems, and that is the ones who don't already have them.

Drinking every day means you have a big drinking problem.

[NoshowJones]

19 hours ago, Bday Prang said:

Absolutely,   especially when compared to the traditional retirement that lies in store for them in places like the UK. Its actually a no brainer

Drinking every day is a no brainer????

[Bday Prang]

8 minutes ago, NoshowJones said:

Drinking every day is a no brainer????

I drink everyday usually several times,  mostly water , sometimes Tea , coffee or fruit juice  , Who mentioned alcohol ?   not me

Edited October 13 by Bday Prang

[NoshowJones]

19 hours ago, Bday Prang said:

As sad as festering in a piss stinking nursing home ?   Or a sad as freezing to death in a damp and mold ridden bed sit having to decide whether to eat or heat ?   

You really haven't a clue have you

Is there really much worse than having cirrhosis of the liver? If I had to live in the UK, no matter how skint I was, I would never have to decide whether to eat or heat. I would go to jail first.

[NoshowJones]

19 hours ago, NowNow said:

 

You sound sadder by the post. It's absolutely normal to have a variety of sexual partners whilst growing up. The difference is that I didn't sink to paying for it nor feeling the need to exploit poor Thai, Laotian and Cambodian women. All came to me freely. No coercion. No money. It's different to what you know and understand.

A large percentage of these expats have to pay for their sex as they are unnattractive and overweight how would they get it otherwise. I am not saying that I looked like a young Elvis, but being a professional musician and being probably attractive to most girls, I would say I was probably promiscious.

[Bday Prang]

20 minutes ago, NoshowJones said:

If I had to live in the UK, no matter how skint I was, I would never have to decide whether to eat or heat. I would go to jail first.

The prisons are all full, ever wondered why? 

[Will B Good]

18 hours ago, Global Rant said:

The oversized ego of the westerner sexpat does care even if not admitted.

 

 

I suspect the westerner with the oversized ego has certain things on his mind other than being concerned what some narrow minded gimp is thinking.

 

 

 

Edited October 13 by Will B Good

[Will B Good]

6 hours ago, mokwit said:

Yeah, they could be living life to the full stuck in an Isaan village.

 

 

God....... I so nearly left last night.

[Kinok Farang]

22 hours ago, FriscoKid said:

Sexpat: The term sexpat is a portmanteau of “sex” and “expat” (short for expatriate) and refers to a person, typically a man, who relocates or frequently travels to foreign countries with the primary or significant purpose of engaging in sexual activities, often with local women. The term is often used pejoratively to describe individuals who exploit socio-economic disparities, especially in developing countries, to engage in sex tourism or exploitative relationships.

 

Sexpats may move to or visit regions where they believe sexual relationships are easier to obtain, cheaper, or involve fewer legal or social consequences. The term is commonly associated with certain parts of Southeast Asia, Latin America, and Eastern Europe, though it can apply to any region.

 

The concept is criticized for perpetuating inequality, exploiting vulnerable populations, and sometimes contributing to human trafficking or the sex trade.

 

While sexpat and sex tourist are related terms, they describe different types of behavior, and the distinction between the two generally revolves around duration, intent, and the nature of the relationship to the host country.

 

1. Sex Tourist

 

• Definition: A sex tourist is typically someone who travels to a foreign country for a short period specifically to engage in sexual activities, often with locals who work in the sex trade.

• Characteristics:

• Short-term travel: A sex tourist might visit a country for a week or two, with a primary or secondary goal of participating in the local sex industry.

• No long-term commitment to the location: They don’t typically establish a permanent residence in the country they visit.

• Purely transactional: Interactions are typically brief and often focused on paid sexual encounters, with little to no intent of forming relationships.

• Focus on Exploitation: The term is often used negatively, associated with people who exploit economic disparities in developing nations to engage in cheap or easily accessible sex.

 

2. Sexpat

 

• Definition: A sexpat is an expatriate—someone who has moved or lives abroad—who has a lifestyle that revolves around engaging in sexual relationships with locals. This may involve both paid sexual encounters and longer-term relationships, often with significant power imbalances.

• Characteristics:

• Long-term residence: Sexpats often settle or live long-term in countries where they can engage in relationships, sometimes semi-permanent, with local partners. Many live there for years or even permanently.

• Relationships beyond one-time encounters: Unlike sex tourists, sexpats might seek out what they consider more “meaningful” relationships, though they may still be largely transactional. These could involve cohabitation, longer-term dating, or “girlfriend experience” arrangements.

• More embedded in the local community: Sexpats may integrate into the expat community in the country, developing social ties and making the country their home, though these ties may still be rooted in sexual relationships.

 

Key Differences:

 

• Duration of Stay:

• Sex Tourist: Short-term visits.

• Sexpat: Long-term or permanent relocation to another country.

• Nature of Interactions:

• Sex Tourist: Mostly focuses on brief, often anonymous encounters that are purely transactional (usually through the sex trade).

• Sexpat: May involve both transactional and semi-permanent relationships, including “girlfriend” or “wife” arrangements that still carry an economic component.

• Commitment to Location:

• Sex Tourist: Has no strong ties to the country beyond the visit.

• Sexpat: Chooses to live in the country and becomes part of the local expat community, though their interactions may remain exploitative.

• Motivation:

• Sex Tourist: Primarily visits a country for sexual activities, often as part of a broader vacation or travel itinerary.

• Sexpat: May have moved to the country specifically to enjoy the benefits of the local dating or sex culture on a long-term basis, often influenced by the power imbalance in their favor.

 

Overlap:

 

• Both sex tourists and sexpats exploit economic or social differences between themselves and local populations.

• Both terms are often used pejoratively to criticize behaviors that contribute to the exploitation of individuals in the sex trade or socially disadvantaged groups.

 

In summary, while a sex tourist tends to engage in short-term, often anonymous or transactional encounters during travel, a sexpat stays in the foreign country long-term, often building their life around more sustained and sometimes superficially more “stable” relationships, though they may still exploit the same economic and social imbalances.

can you repeat that please?

[BritManToo]

33 minutes ago, NoshowJones said:

A large percentage of these expats have to pay for their sex as they are unnattractive and overweight how would they get it otherwise. I am not saying that I looked like a young Elvis, but being a professional musician and being probably attractive to most girls, I would say I was probably promiscious.

How many slim and attractive 60+ year old men do you know?

Apart from me!

[NoshowJones]

4 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

How many slim and attractive 60+ year old men do you know?

Apart from me!

Me.

[scubascuba3]

5 hours ago, NoshowJones said:

What about guys with fat hairy legs who wear shorts? I wear socks and sandals, but who walks about looking at other guys feet?

why do you wear socks with sandals? no need for it

Edited October 13 by scubascuba3

[scubascuba3]

3 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I'm sure they'd love the experience spending time with a porn star

No thanks, imagine the size of the hole

[madone]

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Are You A Sexpat Or Do You Ride The Backwards Morality Train?

 

I personally don't see it as a binary issue.  I live somewhere in between.

 

I follow my own sense of right and wrong. I could not give two <deleted> what you do, but I don't want to know you either. 

Things change, deal with it.  The locals are certainly less tolerant than they were 30 years ago too.  

Edited October 13 by madone

[GammaGlobulin]

5 hours ago, Lacessit said:

There are women everywhere on the planet. It's the availability and attitude which makes the difference.

 

IMO Thais are the most cheerfully promiscuous people on Earth. They just don't have the same hangups as other nations.

 

You meant to say that Thailand does not have the same hangups as other nations.

 

Because, it's almost impossible to compare Thais to a country, since Thais are people, and countries are countries.

 

I have never noticed that Thai people are promiscuous, however.

 

 

[Hummin]

3 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Nah, I was referring to the ones who think every farang is a sexpat. They lack intelligence.

the mentality of "if I go down, everyone going down with me" is very real! It is their bad conscience tearing them apart, and they want everyone else to be like them. Their excuse for being who they are

[1FinickyOne]

7 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

it's almost impossible to compare Thais to a country, since Thais are people, and countries are countries.

 

And they will never meet Mark Twain

[Hummin]

40 minutes ago, madone said:

 

Things change, deal with it.  The locals are certainly less tolerant than they were 30 years ago too.  

Because they do not have to anymore, and sick and tired of watching foreigners doing stupid deleted things, and make them even more ashamed of their own country. 

[GammaGlobulin]

28 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

And they will never meet Mark Twain

 

Amazing.

 

You are a lover of Twain, twain (too).

 

 

[jayboy]

19 hours ago, Bday Prang said:

 Are you suggesting that only the lower classes should be labelled as sexpats ?

 

Most of them are.Once again - at the risk of repeating myself - I'm not making any moral judgements.Aristocrats often have  very entertaining and energetic sex lives.

 

My observation is essentially one of aesthetics.There can few more horrible groups to behold than British Pattaya sexpats with their beer, football, ugliness (bodies, faces and voices). and most comically of all  their "gentlemens clubs"

[BritManToo]

2 hours ago, Nick Carter icp said:

 

   Was the mystery ever solved about that photo that BM2 took himself which ended up being used by an escort on an Australian website and did he manage to contact the escort and ask her to remove his wifes photo from the escorts advert ?

   Terrible behaviour from the escort in Australia pretending to be BM2s wife , could cause all kinds of confusion 

You'd have to pm me the photo, as I never saw that website and can't confirm true or false without actually seeing the photo.

 

But website's nick all sorts of photos, there was a photo of my rabbit featured on a French organic food website once.

[RSD1]

8 hours ago, Yagoda said:

The lower the gutter is, the better it is for me. Being retired and single means you never have to apologize for the fact that you have three reasonably priced 20 year old hardbodies in your room with vibrators while Two Girls, One Cup plays on continuous loop and one of the Burka babes from down on Soi 4 ululates madly. 

 

Room Service! More greasy bacon and oatmeal. Screw baby oil P. Diddy is a wimp next to me.

All your speaking in tongues is too confusing, but a picture is worth 1,000 words. Post photos with circles and arrows so we can get a better understanding of your claims. 

[Yagoda]

12 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

All your speaking in tongues is too confusing, but a picture is worth 1,000 words. Post photos with circles and arrows so we can get a better understanding of your claims. 

Im a gentleman. Gentlemen dont post pictures