Why on earth would you even consider paying for sex in Thailand?

[blaze master]

3 hours ago, Robert_Smith said:

Topic thief.

 

regards,

bob.

 

Persona thief. 

[jerrymahoney]

Per the topic query "Why on earth would you even consider paying for sex in Thailand?"

Is Thailand on earth?

[zombie nights]

Why on earth would you ever consider paying to eat at a restaurant in Thailand?

[fredwiggy]

9 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

People who pay and go seem much smarter then dummies who marry for it.  

I don't think smart's the right word for it.

[save the frogs]

9 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

People who pay and go seem much smarter then dummies who marry for it.  

It's called starting a family, that sort of thing.

That's how you got here.

If everyone just pumped and dumped, the human race would end. 

 

[fredwiggy]

9 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

It's called starting a family, that sort of thing.

That's how you got here.

If everyone just pumped and dumped, the human race would end. 

 

Some , for one reason or another, don't believe in a family and just think of themselves. This could be from an unhappy or abusive and or neglected childhood. Many don't want children because they see how they were raised and somehow think they wouldn't be a good parent to a child. They might be right or wrong but will never know. Some become great parents after having a rotten childhood because they want their children to have better than they did. Some would repeat what they learned and be abusive or neglectful to their children, repeating the pattern. 

 

Many do just pump and dump because they're only thinking of their own pleasure, and don't care what the body they're with thinks. The problem with casual sex is that many times a child is created, and then has to go into life without the most important thing they need, a father to guide them. Most everyone has casual sex and sometimes children are born, and the parents drift apart, leaving the child with whoever, and possibly, like here many times, with grandma who is too old to be an effective parent. 

 

The human race has been going downhill for a long time now, and won't get any better as long as people look at sex as just for them and not as a gift between two people in a committed relationship and how a family is made. Most everyone makes mistakes in sex when they're younger and only looking at a partner as an object and not a partner. The human race won't end if everyone just keeps pumping and dumping but it will get worse, as the breakdown of the family is the breakdown of civilization. Thankfully there is birth control for those who wouldn't make good parents, but the problem is that everyone doesn't use it and babies aren't only born to responsible people who know what commitment means.

[sungod]

Cause its better than being married to an old bag and living in a village.

[fredwiggy]

34 minutes ago, sungod said:

Cause its better than being married to an old bag and living in a village.

Many of the girls could say the same thing about the men

[SAFETY FIRST]

15 hours ago, JoseThailand said:

Why on earth would you even consider paying for sex

why on earth would you do it?

I don't pay for sex, my payment is made to get rid of her, I pay her on her way out the door. 

 

Crikey, I've got things to do, can't have her hanging around all day, they get annoying after a while. 

 

[brewsterbudgen]

9 hours ago, Lacessit said:

For variety.

 

I am not sure how the OP expects expat pensioners to assemble a harem of a dozen beautiful young women, all panting to bestow their favours for free.

 

Perhaps the dumbest question I have seen posted in commencing a thread.

I don't think the OP is interested or even still around...

[fredwiggy]

57 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I don't pay for sex, my payment is made to get rid of her, I pay her on her way out the door. 

 

Crikey, I've got things to do, can't have her hanging around all day, they get annoying after a while. 

 

I'm sure they say the same thing about you, walking out the door with a fistful of cash.

[hotsun]

I dont get the hooker thing. Ive never tried it and i know its not for me. Theres no challenge, whats the point?

[fredwiggy]

58 minutes ago, hotsun said:

I dont get the hooker thing. Ive never tried it and i know its not for me. Theres no challenge, whats the point?

There are quite a few reasons why people choose hookers. Some can't relate to a normal woman and don't know how to maintain a relationship with one. Some hate women so feel the need to use as many as possible. Some like to dominate and control them, and think by buying them they can do whatever they want to them. Some like variety and just pay for play because it's the only way they can have so many. Some aren't attractive enough to attract normal women so buying can get you almost any look you want and cash is the only thing needed. Some think all women are demanding nags because they don't know how to treat them properly and buying gets you sex without all the "hassles" of a relationship. Yes, finding a normal woman and staying with them is a challenge and takes skills many don't have or know how to get. Buying gets you pleasure with only money as the key.

[spidermike007]

Kind of a silly question. Since the beginning of modern history men have been paying for sex. You always pay. One way or another. It is always either a front end deal, or a back end deal. Always. 

 

And many pay for discretion. The last thing in the world we need is all the problems that come with a mistress or an occasional lover. Even when a relationship is long term and one is deeply in love, the sex still gets old and boring. And many women just do not have an interest past a certain point in their lives. So, discretion is needed, and by paying you get thay.

 

There are at least a dozen more valid reasons. 

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, hotsun said:

I dont get the hooker thing. Ive never tried it and i know its not for me. Theres no challenge, whats the point?

Romance and flirting!

Once you're living in a LTR the romance and flirting is out the window.

But out with a pal last night in Loi Khro I had a really pretty 25 year old playing connect 4 with me while feeling my leg, then later in the evening a slim 48 year old telling me all about her life in a Lisu village and how the bar pays her no wage, just 90bht for each lady drink.

 

Sometimes it's nice to have one a much younger woman pretending you're attractive to her.

 

Ps. LK is currently packed with young and attractive women in many of the bars. It's quite extraordinary!

[freedomnow]

19 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Then after about the tenth beer the small head takes over the big head.

It just happens.

Errectile dysfunction and asleep in pool of drool ?

[newbee2022]

Very interesting question 🤣

You (op) have to pay because you got so many personal problems that no woman would let you touch her if you wouldn't pay for?😵‍💫

[J Branche]

For the tourist they probably don't want to spend the time and effort to build a relationship on a dating site prior to arrival and hope to get boom boom.

 

They walk down the street, find someone they like, a few drinks, and get down to business.

 

My friend who is a decent looking guy nothing wrong with him likes the freedom.  Likes being able to do what he wants when he wants with whoever he wants.

 

To each their own. Enjoy. I'm from the US and totally understand why someone wants to have fun and be alone for a while.

[Ralf001]

Because the missus is a bit shy when it comes to the kinky stuff that floats my boat.

[TigerandDog]

this just looks like Bob the BS artist posting under an alias.

[simon43]

On 2/24/2025 at 10:16 PM, Harrisfan said:

Is that name by birth or stage?

His father was Julius Mathison Turing  🙂

[kingstonkid]

On 2/24/2025 at 5:32 PM, FriscoKid said:

would definitely pay to keep such a ridiculous topic from being posted. sad. 

Why does this come up all the time.  Everyone here and in most countries pays for sex.  The price may be different but we all pay.

 

Take a girl on a date and then plan to back to the apartment  (diner movie, drinks etc)  . You paid and may get sex

buy a bargirl a drink  and pay the fine YOu paid, and you will get sex

Get married ( pay the bills and give her spending money)  you paid but will get less than the guy dating LOL

[jerrymahoney]

Per the topic query Why on earth would you even consider paying for sex in Thailand?

I had a girlfriend for a while. 165 cm Thai. She said (Thai conversation with poetic license):

You see these t*ts? Ain't no one Thai or farang, straight or gay, male or female, getting near these t*ts for free.

[Thingamabob]

People pay for sex, for many different reasons, all over the world. Move on.

[JonnyF]

On 2/24/2025 at 11:19 PM, Harrisfan said:

Buy lunch and dinner. Cheaper.

 

Why ruin 2 good meals?

[Ralf001]

3 hours ago, jerrymahoney said:

You see these t*ts? Ain't no one Thai or farang, straight or gay, male or female, getting near these t*ts for free.

 

Rohypnol will !

[DaRoadrunner]

You mean there is something else one does with a girl?

[Bundooman]

On 2/24/2025 at 5:44 PM, OneMoreFarang said:

I never tried it. But somehow, I guess if I meet a girl on the street and would tell her right away to go to a room and then get on your knees and suck my d#@$ that would probably not work without any additional incentive.

But then, I never tried.

You should. 

you never know..........