Just now, MalcolmB said:

I have told you a million times before Fred, stop exaggerating.

And still haven't realized I would never take advice from an infantile thinking man that has decades less experience in life and familiar relationships. 

20 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

The more men a woman has in her life, the less special you will be in her eyes, period.

For you Fred.

But not me.

All that experience they have with others just proves to them how lucky they are to have me.

The amount of times I have been told “You are the best I have ever had” is so many I can not even remember the exact number. 

Just now, MalcolmB said:

For you Fred.

But not me.

All that experience they have with others just proves to them how lucky they are to have me.

The amount of times I have been told “You are the best I have ever had” is so many I can not even remember the exact number. 

But you buy yours.

IQ in single digits

23 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I'm just going by professionals words in books they've written after they interviewed hundreds of thousands of women and couples.

Let’s break down your maths shall we.

 

Lets be generous and say the “professional” interviewed 10 couples a day everyday.

So 70 per week.

280 per month.

Or 3,360

10 years 33,360

So to get to “hundreds of thousands” we are looking at at least 60 years.

 

You previously claimed the only subject you help your daughter with is maths.

I hope for her futures sake she is good at some other subjects.

2 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

Let’s break down your maths shall we.

 

Lets be generous and say the “professional” interviewed 10 couples a day everyday.

So 70 per week.

280 per month.

Or 3,360

10 years 33,360

So to get to “hundreds of thousands” we are looking at at least 60 years.

 

You previously claimed the only subject you help your daughter with is maths.

I hope for her futures sake she is good at some other subjects.

There are more than one counselor and psychologist in this world who have written books.And when we get to the US, I will help her with all her homework she needs help with, and now I teach her English, grammar, pronunciation, and we watch many movies that are history lessons. You have to be a father to understand the influence a father has.

16 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

For you Fred.

But not me.

All that experience they have with others just proves to them how lucky they are to have me.

The amount of times I have been told “You are the best I have ever had” is so many I can not even remember the exact number. 

I feel the same way, the past is the past, we all have a past, some are truthful about it, most are not, and one just never knows. It barely matters if they are kind, well adjusted and seem to carry very little baggage. 

31 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

those who are nymphos from brain abnormalities, psychological problems from childhood or some medical conditions.

this entire forum membership.

1 minute ago, freedomnow said:

this entire forum membership.

A few for sure.

1 hour ago, Hummin said:

, I believe the girls who like to drink drink whatever they get presented 😉

I have yet to find one that will have a second sip of Bundy OP Rum.

2 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

I have yet to find one that will have a second sip of Bundy OP Rum.

I'm sure they will drink it with coca cola with ease

5 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

With a recent poll showing about 50% of members of this forum met their wives/girlfriends in beer bars, gogos, massage shops or online what specific personality traits are needed for a man to have a successful relationship with these types of women?

Link? 

5 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

With a recent poll showing about 50% of members of this forum met their wives/girlfriends in beer bars, gogos, massage shops or online what specific personality traits are needed for a man to have a successful relationship with these types of women?

If this was an AN poll (although I don't remember one) I would have said that I met my wife in Thai Soapy Massage "fish-bowl" just to take a p*** on the poll numbers. 

1 minute ago, connda said:

If this was an AN poll (although I don't remember one) I would have said that I met my wife in Thai Soapy Massage "fish-bowl" just to take a p*** on the poll numbers. 

 

Is the 'fish bowl' the up market ones?

6 hours ago, Ralf001 said:

• < 40kg
• < 5'2"
• < 30yrs.
• 3 holer.
• Can cook real food.
• can clean.
•  

From the OP: "what specific personality traits are needed for a man"

5 hours ago, CharlieH said:

Some of the views here I find astounding, the assumptions and labels applied. When you meet a female, no matter what location or setting, you have absolutely no idea if she's been ridden like Seattle Sue or has a low body count. You just can't possibly know. 

Yet, because they are in " a bar" they must be the former!  - Absurd attitude.

 

This reminds me of the story of the curate's egg,

 

The curate is dining with the bishop, his superior, who declares that he has a bad egg. The humble curate, wishing to be polite, rejects a replacement, assuring the bishop that ‘parts of it are excellent’.

 

The joke of course being that if parts of an egg are bad, the whole thing is bad.

6 hours ago, newbee2022 said:

so, 50% are bar goers and drunkards or similar. 

Sure, they got what they deserve. If you like to get married to a prostitute, its ok for me.

I am just choking and vomiting

Mine had a heart of gold  ........

Stupidity 

1 hour ago, freedomnow said:

this entire forum membership.

Some, not everyone.   Some think about their replies, some are amusing, and some are unpleasant.    Most reasonably sane.

1 hour ago, connda said:

If this was an AN poll (although I don't remember one) I would have said that I met my wife in Thai Soapy Massage "fish-bowl" just to take a p*** on the poll numbers. 

I'd say I'm gay, and still looking for a good lady to show me the light, and hopefully have clothes and pumps (US size 12 & EEE) that fit me 

1 hour ago, FritsSikkink said:

From the OP: "what specific personality traits are needed for a man"

 

Thread title clearly states girl.

8 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

what specific personality traits are needed for a man to have a successful relationship with these types of women?

The ability to share with the next guy,

you can take her out of the bar but you cannot take the bar out of her

4 hours ago, freedomnow said:

There is a correlation study on number of partners a female has and likelihood of divorce being interlinked..however, was done in the west.

With bargirls and expats in asia its a whole thing in itself...I wonder on longevity stats.

Married to my Thai wife 16 years

Previously married to my Brit wife 30 years (educated christian virgin from good family)

 

Thai wife is younger, more attractive and waaaay more sex.

If you don't like sex, go for the virgin!

 

The first Thai hooker I moved in with wanted to do it 5x a day, I had more sex in 9 months with her, than I previously had in the 30 years with my Brit wife ........ I was almost banged to death!

 

I'm betting none of the "correlation studies" asked how frequent the sex was!

 

4 hours ago, freedomnow said:

Incels by definition (involuntary celibate) are not getting any....young guys at home mostly.

 

Entirely different category to expats in Asia...

You reckon?  There's some people on here with such weird attitudes towards women, I don't think they are getting any.

I think some people make the mistake of thinking that because their Thai GF /wife is a " good girl " and never worked in a bar , that they will be different . Often , they want the same thing - financial support and money to change their life ie. new house ,new car and some land . 

With bar ladies , it`s more upfront and obvious . They needed money ( for whatever reason ) and rather than work in a factory job , they decided to try their luck in the nightlife industry - a wellworn path in Thailand , historically , when options for the young from the rural areas were limited to work in the fields or " Kai tua " in the streets / bars.

1 hour ago, Kinnock said:

You reckon?  There's some people on here with such weird attitudes towards women, I don't think they are getting any.

Are you saying they could not get laid in pattaya with a bar fine in the chest pocket and the tip in the back one ?

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Married to my Thai wife 16 years

Previously married to my Brit wife 30 years (educated christian virgin from good family)

 

Thai wife is younger, more attractive and waaaay more sex.

If you don't like sex, go for the virgin!

 

The first Thai hooker I moved in with wanted to do it 5x a day, I had more sex in 9 months with her, than I previously had in the 30 years with my Brit wife ........ I was almost banged to death!

 

I'm betting none of the "correlation studies" asked how frequent the sex was!

 

How can you have sex 140 times in a month ? 

 

You should be locked up.

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

The first Thai hooker I moved in with wanted to do it 5x a day, I had more sex in 9 months with her, than I previously had in the 30 years with my Brit wife ........ I was almost banged to death!

 

What tore this beautiful union apart?

 

 

A visit to pharmacy for penicillin a lock on you wallet 

15 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

There are a few reasons men choose bargirls.

 

Inability to maintain a relationship with a normal woman.  

 

Many bad experiences with normal women so they choose a bargirl as it will cause less troubles (easier to leave).

 

Narcissism, a need to control, abuse or use.

 

Easier to maintain a relationship as it's only money with no emotions, love or honesty needed. A slave to do their bidding because they're paying.

 

Low self esteem. Thinking no one normal would want them.

 

Escapism from loneliness,

 

A  hatred for woman stemming from their childhood anger against their mothers. 

 

Some of this pertains to just going with bargirls and not necessarily marriage.

 

 

Bro's that deep. 

 

Did you get that on your own, or through therapy ?