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My Wife Is Totally Addicted To Her Iphone.

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Hi there, I married my Thai wife 25 years ago, all was well for the first 5 years but things have gone down hill since. We have assets and money but she only shows any respect for me when she wants something. She has a real problem as her siblings, her 2 daughters in their 40's and her grandson won't have a bar of her. Her biggest problem is that she's addicted to her iphone. I refuse to sleep with her as she quite often opens facebook or youtube in the early hours of the morning. Then she has the audacity to bitch about being tired all day. If I was 20 years younger I'd give her her marching orders. If I had my time over again I would never get married again. I would rather be single and pull a bird when I felt like it. I may even take a live in but it would be my rules and instant dismissal if they didn't toe the line.

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Gain control of it, put a passcode limiting screen time for the social media. Give her the child treatment

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58 minutes ago, Mason45 said:

I would rather be single

Then do it! You only live once. 

Single is great but you need someone to take care in 70s, sooner or later you'll need help. BTW normal to look at phones a lot, i  woke up 4am straight on the phone 

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

sooner or later you'll need help

Which can be hired on an “as required” basis. 

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

Single is great but you need someone to take care in 70s, sooner or later you'll need help. BTW normal to look at phones a lot, i  woke up 4am straight on the phone 

Yea, company is important as we age. I too woke @ 04:00. Straight to phone..... West Ham 1 - Palace 2. Turned phone off....pulled doona further over my head.🙃🙃

There are Golden retrievers who need this self punishment and can't live without their human, and then there are Rottweilers who make humans THEIR bitch.

 

Don't be a goofy Golden.

 

Ditch the c. Find a better replacement. OR just pay for care or companionship when/if needed. 

 

Life's too short to be miserable with someone who's supposed to be your partner. There are always more out there that won't act this way, but you have to let go of the one who's weighing you down first. It doesn't mean you have to end up with short timers,as again, there are plenty of single older women who have gone through the same things you have, and are waiting for something different How her own family treats her is a red flag. 

 

You don't have to get married again unless you found someone you wanted to keep, so dating is better than being in prison. .

 

Addiction to phones is a common occurrence, and there's not much you can do to break that, so again, finding someone who would rather be doing different things, like going out to dinner (pocketing the phone of course), hitting the beach, gym or just taking a daily walk, would have you life be more fulfilling. Like minded partners stay together happier. 

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I am on my phone don't leave me

Only the Taliban know how to control their women   ....

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Happiness in my life started after my 3rd and final divorce 🙂

Way too late now just deal with it till you die.

Time to upgrade to a new wife.

6 hours ago, Nemises said:

Which can be hired on an “as required” basis. 

Kinda, you have to build some kind of friendship with these women in advance of needing them

16 hours ago, Mason45 said:

Hi there, I married my Thai wife 25 years ago, all was well for the first 5 years but things have gone down hill since. We have assets and money but she only shows any respect for me when she wants something. She has a real problem as her siblings, her 2 daughters in their 40's and her grandson won't have a bar of her. Her biggest problem is that she's addicted to her iphone. I refuse to sleep with her as she quite often opens facebook or youtube in the early hours of the morning. Then she has the audacity to bitch about being tired all day. If I was 20 years younger I'd give her her marching orders. If I had my time over again I would never get married again. I would rather be single and pull a bird when I felt like it. I may even take a live in but it would be my rules and instant dismissal if they didn't toe the line.

Buy a simple phone, not a smart phone.

Go for it👍

7 hours ago, simon43 said:

Happiness in my life started after my 3rd and final divorce 🙂

Funny that, i became happier instantly i gave up looking for a girlfriend or wife

13 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Funny that, i became happier instantly i gave up looking for a girlfriend or wife

Thinking about that, don't think I ever set out looking for a GF or wife, it just happened.

... most one night or long weekend, week of fun

... if not, then a week to a month, maybe, but not much longer

... if longer than month, probably turned into a live in (2) or married (3).  And first 5, long relationships, marriages didn't last long.

 

I'm not very tolerant, or welcoming any changes in me.   What you see is what you get, so don't bother :coffee1:

10 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

Thinking about that, don't think I ever set out looking for a GF or wife, it just happened.

... most one night or long weekend, week of fun

... if not, then a week to a month, maybe, but not much longer

... if longer than month, probably turned into a live in (2) or married (3).  And first 5, long relationships, marriages didn't last long.

 

I'm not very tolerant, or welcoming any changes in me.   What you see is what you get, so don't bother :coffee1:

I wasn't sending out search parties, but a great moment when i decided i didn't want it or need it, just look at the threads here and facebook, many men stuck in miserable marriages

1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

I wasn't sending out search parties, but a great moment when i decided i didn't want it or need it, just look at the threads here and facebook, many men stuck in miserable marriages

i could never stay in most of the relationships I read about.  While most of mine only last 3 years, if that.   Dating, unless non monogamous, even less, with a couple exceptions, and they were open. 

 

Never had kids, but staying together for the kids, I don't think benefits anyone, unless again, an open marriage, and they always fail, the ones I know about.

 

I never minded being single, although friends w/bennies made that easy.

Yeah my woman really adores her phone too, but we have established ground rules. We turn off the ringer and put the phone face down when we're eating together, hanging out together enjoying a nice bottle of wine, and things like that. Without ground rules all bets are off. If she can't respect them cut her loose, it is never, ever too late to cut a woman loose. If she is not making you a better version of itself, and not making every day pleasant, what is the point? It is far better to be single and occasionally lonely, than to put up with a lot of nonsense. 

 

3 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Kinda, you have to build some kind of friendship with these women in advance of needing them

 

In Thailand, it’s often quite easy to find a reliable and affordable caregiver- sometimes even through a friend or relative- when the need arises. 
Caregiver wages here are generally very reasonable. 
 

32 minutes ago, Nemises said:

 

In Thailand, it’s often quite easy to find a reliable and affordable caregiver- sometimes even through a friend or relative- when the need arises. 
Caregiver wages here are generally very reasonable. 
 

I've seen people advertise on facebook for a planned op or other injury, they seem to struggle finding someone, I guess you'll find out

18 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

I've seen people advertise on facebook for a planned op or other injury, they seem to struggle finding someone, I guess you'll find out

I’ve seen worse eg unknown caregivers doing a runner leaving the patient to die in pain alone. To avoid this read again the bit I said about friend/relative, definitely not FB. 

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I don't care how much she uses her phone but using it in the bedroom at 3 am in the morning is just plain disrespectful to others. She likes watches out of control little kids, she has 2 adult kids of her own who haven't spoken to her for several years. May I add I get on extra well with both of them. She also likes watching the Thai morons who have domestics on youtube, also most times the volume is at 100%. She is a excellent cook, after having many restaurants she can cook Thai food, Isarn food and English food. When she's watching something that she likes the food gets burnt. I would give her her marching orders but my age and assets in Thailand are against doing this.

When im with a lady and she plays her phone all the time i just tell her to stop.If she doesn't listen i tell her to leave my room.Its not a big issue because normally i take a beer and drinks with the lady and listen music in my room.

I pay for a good time not for a boring time.

Well, I am in the West, but my wife is Thai same problem 

The advice on here is really dumb. 

 

Obviously you want to be married, but I think you have let her get out of control. 

 

I don't know if it's too late, but you need to pull back on the reins, now!

 

Whatever she needs from you, especially money, withhold it, until she gives up these stupid habits.

 

If she threatens to leave, let her!  99% it's a bluff and she'll come running back.

 

Get her under control, and live a happy life, my friend!

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