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You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

Tell them the truth or make up a story? 37 members have voted

  1. 1. You are marrying a prostitute. Do you tell your family and friends back home the truth or do you make up a story?

    • Yes, honesty is the best policy.
      8%
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    • No way can I tell mum that I am marrying a prostitute from a poor SEA country.
      91%
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Just now, hotandsticky said:

 

 

Statement of facts.

 

 

Something that you are bereft of.

Prove anything I've ever said wrong or don't comment, because you look just like those others here who assume almost everything, yet know only what people have said.

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  • You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?   Mum. Please don't leave her alone with dad. 😀    

  • If your Mother is still alive, you're not old enough to entertain the idea of marrying a bargirl. Wait until after the funeral. 

  • Will B Good
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    Got engaged to three on soi 6 Friday night........got some decisions to make soon.   Haven't even told the wife yet.

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3 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

I enjoy comfortable financial security and have had 100+ girls in Thailand.

 

 

That is not bragging, it is a statement of fact.

🤥..........Or you must know Malcy........😂

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4 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

I enjoy comfortable financial security and have had 100+ girls in Thailand.

 

is that all.

lightweight. 

3 minutes ago, quake said:

 

is that all.

lightweight. 

Weeeeell, he woke up to early............😂

4 minutes ago, quake said:

 

is that all.

lightweight. 

 

 

Best I can do...............................although I am trying to increase both numbers...😉

1 minute ago, transam said:

🤥..........Or you must know Malcy........😂

I love sitting back and watch the same suspects. One will start in on me, then the others will join in, saying much the same teenaged replies, just to back up the other. You'll then sit back and watch them attack each other in the same topic, and in other preceding or following ones. It's if they think everyone here is suffering from short term memory loss from smoking weed. Someone will come in and defend my position, and they'll call them stalkers.

 

I look at the whole forum's topics as a collective, and anyone who has a good memory will remember them, and they'll wonder why they get so may legitimate thumbs downs and negative comments. It's really funny sometimes here. they actually think they have you beat, somehow thinking 100 comments from the peanut gallery have some worth.

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6 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

make it sound that this attractive girl who is half your weight and half your age fell for you because of your handsomeness.

Or, fell for you because you were kind, gentle, and appreciative. Maybe not the norm, but not out of the question. And does she make you a lot happier than that fat, whining bit..... back in home country? Any problems with this back home with family, have them watch  "The World of Suzie Wong." 

 

I've never questioned the pedigree of the Thai wives of my friends. If some (I'm sure) were bar girls, you'd never know from how they've assimilated very nicely into polite society. And how happy they make their man.

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Just now, fredwiggy said:

I love sitting back and watch the same suspects. One will start in on me, then the others will join in, saying much the same teenaged replies, just to back up the other. You'll then sit back and watch them attack each other in the same topic, and in other preceding or following ones. It's if they think everyone here is suffering from short term memory loss from smoking weed. Someone will come in and defend my position, and they'll call them stalkers.

 

I look at the whole forum's topics as a collective, and anyone who has a good memory will remember them, and they'll wonder why they get so may legitimate thumbs downs and negative comments. It's really funny sometimes here. they actually think they have you beat, somehow thinking 100 comments from the peanut gallery have some worth.

Your stalker mate is here. 100,000 posts. He obviously has no friends in Isaan either. You 2 should hang out.

5 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

Your stalker mate is here. 100,000 posts. He obviously has no friends in Isaan either. You 2 should hang out.

Please ask yourself this question, again. How would you know what anyone has or does outside this forum. C'mon, I know you can do it. You answer here quick, most of the times too quick, so you either read fast or just skim. You've likely never met anyone here, so how would you know what they're doing 24/7, 365 days a year, all their lives? I would be willing to bet, with the way you act here, that you have very few real friends. I have many, in many countries and states. Some I've known over 50 years.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Please ask yourself this question, again. How would you know what anyone has or does outside this forum. C'mon, I know you can do it. You answer here quick, most of the times too quick, so you either read fast or just skim. You've likely never met anyone here, so how would you know what they're doing 24/7, 365 days a year, all their lives? I would be willing to bet, with the way you act here, that you have very few real friends. I have many, in many countries and states. Some I've known over 50 years.

I know Khunla does a lot cause he answers questions. People who dodge questions don't.

 

"People with nothing to hide, hide nothing" Dr Phil

36 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I like pointing them out to others, to have them aware for future history with them, 

 

Maybe we've all worked it out already. Maybe that's why we've for the most part stopped engaging.

 

Arguing with a fool rarely makes you look smart.

 

 

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You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

 

What I can't understand is you're morbid fascination with bar-girls.  

7 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

It is very common for westerners to marry Thai bar prostitutes.

 

Do you tell your family and friends back home that you barfined her from a brothel and paid her for sexual relations and now want to make it a full time position or do you make up a story and tell them you met her in a 7-11 or similar and try to make it sound that this attractive girl who is half your weight and half your age fell for you because of your handsomeness.

What did you tell your mother?   You met her at church?  

1 hour ago, Gottfrid said:

Nah, Freddy. The only one lacking very important things here, are you. better go home now, as Thailand wasn´t for you. You just couldn´t hack it. 

No, it's not about hacking it. If I wanted to waste my daughter''s future in a Godless, misogynist place and let her be the victim of a poor schooling system, with the large possibility of a  future with a loser who would use here and leave, not support any children born, and the high possibility of her also being in a scooter or car accident, a future making maybe 500 baht a day, in a very boring, for the most part, country with a dull future of being like most of the other students here, I would stay.

 

I'd much rather give her a thousand fold better chance of a good, productive future, like my other children already have, with a good paying career, a much better chance of finding a more suitable partner that, if they would split, would still pay for any children's needs, in a country with better driving, more opportunities, better weather, and a lot more things to do. Some people here just can't see what's right in front of them, nor the future of any children they create, which is a lot more important than your own life you've already mostly lived.

 

No, Thailand's definitely not for me, nor my daughter. If I was single without any dependents now, I would still move on, as there are many other places on earth with better weather year round, and pretty women I didn't have to purchase, along with hunting and much better fishing. 

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

No, it's not about hacking it. If I wanted to waste my daughter''s future in a Godless, misogynist place and let her be the victim of a poor schooling system, with the large possibility of a  future with a loser who would use here and leave, not support any children born, and the high possibility of her also being in a scooter or car accident, a future making maybe 500 baht a day, in a very boring, for the most part, country with a dull future of being like most of the other students here, I would stay.

 

I'd much rather give her a thousand fold better chance of a good, productive future, like my other children already have, with a good paying career, a much better chance of finding a more suitable partner that, if they would split, would still pay for any children's needs, in a country with better driving, more opportunities, better weather, and a lot more things to do. Some people here just can't see what's right in front of them, nor the future of any children they create, which is a lot more important than your own life you've already mostly lived. No, Thailand's definitely not for me, nor my daughter.

They have flights going next week.

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Just now, Harrisfan said:

They have flights going next week.

I'm flying back next month to visit, and look for future homes, hunt and fish, with my daughter. I did mention moving takes time, especially when you have a house full of things and want to live in the country in a particular area, near a particular school, family and around the world and not in the next town. 

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31 minutes ago, connda said:

You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

 

What I can't understand is you're morbid fascination with bar-girls.  

It's a baiting topic, that all it is.

34 minutes ago, connda said:

You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

 

What I can't understand is you're morbid fascination with bar-girls.  

I see it more in line with the desire to know what others are doing, and especially with those girls, and yes, it is morbid.

3 hours ago, saakura said:
6 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

If Thailand had a welfare system similar to the west we wouldn't see these girls selling their bodies.

Malaysia, Cambodia, Laos, Myanmar, Pakistan, Iran, India, Sri Lanka, Indonesia, ...and a hundred other countries do not have a welfare system. 

What drugs are you taking today? 

 

I SAID THE WEST 😡

 

Return your reply when you sober up 

 

2 hours ago, KhaoHom said:

 

555 

 

Living in Issarn = Where one generally goes to die whether 25, 50 or 75 yo. 

 

Most of this lot are from hick towns outsiders big city lights and large populations. Bangkok is a bit of panic lol

Bangkok is a bit overwhelming. I usually taxi in for business. 

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35 minutes ago, roo860 said:

It's a baiting topic, that all it is.

 

Well he is a Master Baiter on AN. :giggle:

29 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

Bangkok is a bit overwhelming. I usually taxi in for business. 

 

Bangkok is nothing more than a bunch of pocketed areas something like Los Angeles/ OC.  

 

The trick is to stay in your area. Learn it, live it, love it. If you must go to another area see you do so by BTS MRT. 

 

It's totally unstressful after you settle in.

 

Living around lower Sukhumvit is not living in BKK. It's like living in Pattaya. No difference

 

Some great areas about they are totally chill once you get off the scooter, out of the car, live near the malls. Perhaps near a market.

 

 

From my condo ... Point to point transit...

 

Subway - 300m

Large market (food) - 350m

Street food - 100-200m

ATM - 100m

711, Tops Mini 100-125m

711 (2) - 200m

711 (3) - 250m

Mini Lotuss's' - 300m

Massage - 300-500m

Amphor - 2km ?

KTB - 250m

SCB  BKB - 1.25km

Polyclinic - 1.5km

Pharmacy (many) - 200-350m

Weed shop - 250m

Police station - 500m

Hotel 1 - 150m

Hotel 2 - 300m

 

Nice Malls time door to door:

Terminal 21 -  30 min

Rama 9/ Fortune Twn - 25

Ratchada C/ Street - 20

Lat Prao C - 20

Central Lad Phrao - 20

Central Chidlom - 45

Emporium - 30

Chatuchak - 25

 

Cinema (3) - 20 mins

 

Asok Sukhumvit - 25

Lower Sukhumvit - 35

 

Yeah, it sucks....🤣

 

*Living on lower Sukhumvit would be absolute hell. Full of stress and chaos constantly. This is such a fail if you are living here past first 12-18 months here. The longer the bigger fail. 

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3 hours ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

I enjoy comfortable financial security and have had 100+ girls in Thailand.

 

 

That is not bragging, it is a statement of fact.

Like any other run of the mill monger. Nothing special.

2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

I'm flying back next month to visit, and look for future homes, hunt and fish, with my daughter. I did mention moving takes time, especially when you have a house full of things and want to live in the country in a particular area, near a particular school, family and around the world and not in the next town. 

A house full of things? Are you serious? Pack suitcases and your kid's favorite stuff. Their school year has already started.

My aged mum was delighted when I told her I had married a 'nurse " !

38 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

A house full of things? Are you serious? Pack suitcases and your kid's favorite stuff. Their school year has already started.

Need to first look for a rent to own, in the right area, right price. Then ship everything I have, which is needed in that house. Then buy a truck, get her enrolled in school, then start again. It's not easy to move when you have to do all of these things with a kid involved. You also don't leave behind almost everything you own, which is worth a lot more than you realize. She'll be okay, and able to fit in, as long as I get her into school before she's 10.

Surely if you're marrying, she's an 'ex' bargirl?  Did Donald Trump tell his Mum he was marrying an "ex" nude model/hooker?  Who cares?

11 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

It is very common for westerners to marry Thai bar prostitutes.

 

Do you tell your family and friends back home that you barfined her from a brothel and paid her for sexual relations and now want to make it a full time position or do you make up a story and tell them you met her in a 7-11 or similar and try to make it sound that this attractive girl who is half your weight and half your age fell for you because of your handsomeness.

What did you tell your mum and family when you hooked-up with your Thai "massage" girl from the brothel that you posted about here?

9 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

It's very unfair you calling these girls prostitutes.

 

If Thailand had a welfare system similar to the west we wouldn't see these girls selling their bodies.

 

I'm sure most of these young mothers would much prefer to be living in the village with their newborns, having a good time with their loving family and friends 

 

That's the problem many men don't see them as they are ie prostitute's 

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