5 hours ago, mangkut70 said:

How do you know what the guy thinks? Did you talk to him?

When she came to me she told the guy that she went to her family in Sisaket. However, as she wasn't in touch and I had asked her to block and delete him he resorted to subterfuge. He obtained a phone number that was unknown to her and he called her. She picked up in front of me. He asked her if she was with another guy. She said yes and hung up.

So his actions show that he was invested in this girl and went to great lengths to track her down. Besides I know how she operates, she makes you believe she actually IS your girlfriend, she talks about marriage, the future, etc, and effectively treats you like the best gf in the world. This is what she does.

5 hours ago, mangkut70 said:

Not getting paid for sex? Well, you can call this whatever you like, but the fact is — she is certainly not getting poorer while doing the rounds and acting as a live-in girlfriend. And she seems to love this lifestyle

Spot on. She's operating in the gray areas, going on dating apps pretending she's really looking for a partner. Then reels you in with charm and before you know it you're hit with "how much will you pay me"? She's not an escort and she does not accept freelance bookings. But she's a serial dater who extracts money from the guys she pretends she's the girlfriend of.

I tried to make her understand how her sleeping with the 63 year old guy for another 3 weeks is not acceptable to any normal guy.

I made clear that money is not an issue, that I'd pay her ticket, back to CM and again to go to Phuket to vote. It was not an issue. So neither the voting nor the money were acceptable excuses for staying with this guy in Phuket.

However, whilst she was prepared to leave over a cat, she was not prepared to leave his house to placate my male ego or to save our relationship. I told her she had two days, yesterday and today. To pack up and return to CM with me. That I could not wait until 9 February, as it meant she'd be sleeping with this guy for almost 3 weeks.

She told me "I sleep in his bed but no sex". She said I should think it over again and she wants to walk on the beach with me.

i asked her if she kisses him like she kisses me. She said "not the same". She suggested we meet in Bangkok. But she had to return by 1st Feb to vote. When i protested she said I should just come down to Phuket she'd stay day and night with me.

No amount of emphasis that her not coming in the next two days would make me bail would convince her. She kept saying on 9th February.

I said enjoy having sex with your 63 year old. Then she video called me. Singing, without a care in the world. I asked her how much the 63 year old was paying her. And she hung up.

Texted me I was "funny" and should think again. I had to wait for her.

In short, it is virtually certain she will not be coming tonight. She'll continue to sleep in the bed of the 63 year old. Not just that, I saw she was adding new guys in her Instagram. Heavily tatooed, she has a thing for those clearly. She must be on Tinder again. So much for loving the 63 year old.

Anyway, it's another loss. I made a date with an attractive girl who's not Thai for this Sunday.

Good if you can move on. She has appointments booked for Phuket guy and Chiang Mai guy and might have a Bangkok guy booking after that. Her attraction is probably her youthful demeanor and you'll find that hopefully in someone else - and maybe someone who you can have a conversation with and not be constantly feeding her ego.

5 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

Good if you can move on. She has appointments booked for Phuket guy and Chiang Mai guy and might have a Bangkok guy booking after that. Her attraction is probably her youthful demeanor and you'll find that hopefully in someone else - and maybe someone who you can have a conversation with and not be constantly feeding her ego.

Her attractions are too many to count really. Of course, her youthful exuberance and unpredictability are part of it. She is beautiful and sexy, and sweet and innocent in her behaviour at the same time, she's generous and selfish at the same time. Loving and coldness alternated. I really never felt as strongly attracted to any other woman, except one.'

However, she was not perfect. Honest Phuket Girl had a near total lack of transparency. She kept her cards close to her chest at all times. What she said, you could not always trust. She could be very demanding and also very angry in short order. Her inability to speak our language and mine to speak Thai, further contributed to the "being in the dark" sensation with her. Even when she did speak, it was often impossible to know what she really meant.

I've made a coffee date with a non-Asian woman who is highly articulate, speaks English perfectly and is obviously intelligent as well as very attractive. So I will get over this, but it is another frog to swallow.

33 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I've made a coffee date with a non-Asian woman who is highly articulate, speaks English perfectly and is obviously intelligent as well as very attractive. So I will get over this, but it is another frog to swallow.

Another super honest Filipina

22 minutes ago, Celsius said:

Another super honest Filipina

No, a Caucasian lady.

This one is different.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

This one is different.

As were they all Cam.

This one is different,hahahahahha . You do not hear them words much in asia. Just shows once agin how much of a loser this control freak is.

9 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

No, a Caucasian lady.

This one is different.

Svetlana Cashnikova - piece of ass Patty from Almaty ?

1 hour ago, richard_smith237 said:

Svetlana Cashnikova - piece of ass Patty from Almaty ?

"Caucasian" lady as in she's white, not from the Caucasus. She's a very classy lady. Highly educated. Fluent in English and obviously very intelligent. As well as highly attractive. Strawberry blonde.

We had a delightfully playful Insta conversation.

She has a career, though, so perhaps a bit too serious.

Phuket girl texted me she wants to talk. So I said, okay let's talk. So she disappeared for two hours.

Then she re-appeared - "You talk". So I asked where she was. She said at the hospital, with her 63 year old.

So again she couldn't text much. But I did manage to ask her if her 63 year old knew about the 3 new guys she added in Insta, one a heavily tatooed guy.

She said "no". So I asked if she was back on Tinder. She said "Yes".

So I said "No wonder you don't have time to text me a lot". So she claimed she doesn't talk to these guys.

i said "Sure. So basically Old Vienna is not bringing it in the bedroom, so you're looking for tatooed guys on the side?"

Strangely no reply. She's probably chatting with the nurse, who's asked her how much the Austrian cripple is paying her?

I'm wondering myself.

She came back on to say "funny". That she wasn't having sex with the old guy.

She's just waiting for the election to be over and she'll come back. If I can wait for her.

I told her the election was no reason not to come back today as I said I'd pay for her to go vote in Phuket.

At least tell me the real reason why you want to stay in Phuket til the 9th?

But nothing. I really dont' think it's the election. There has to be some other reason.

36 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Phuket girl texted me she wants to talk. So I said, okay let's talk. So she disappeared for two hours.

Then she re-appeared - "You talk". So I asked where she was. She said at the hospital, with her 63 year old.

So again she couldn't text much. But I did manage to ask her if her 63 year old knew about the 3 new guys she added in Insta, one a heavily tatooed guy.

She said "no". So I asked if she was back on Tinder. She said "Yes".

So I said "No wonder you don't have time to text me a lot". So she claimed she doesn't talk to these guys.

i said "Sure. So basically Old Vienna is not bringing it in the bedroom, so you're looking for tatooed guys on the side?"

Strangely no reply. She's probably chatting with the nurse, who's asked her how much the Austrian cripple is paying her?

I'm wondering myself.

It has little to do with what the Austrian brings in the bedroom. Sex for this type is nothing like a normal girl. This is a transaction, where she's learned what men like, and gives it to them because she's getting a return on it.

He might be a great lover, especially at his age, but no one knows.

If she's on Tinder, along with any other platform, she is talking to guys, looking for the best deal, which again, isn't about sex.

What she brings back to her family is what she is looking at as a possible permanent thing.

She, and most other girls, isn't going to tell you she's doing anything with anyone, because she's always looking at others she's been with as a possible return to if the present one isn't bringing home the bacon. Meaning cash. She can also vote in person , online or by mail in ballot....................Eligible voters who wish to cast referendum ballots outside their registered area or outside Thailand may register through the following channels:

- In person at a district or local registrar, or with an ambassador or designated representative, from January 3 to 5, 2026, during official hours.

- By post from January 3 to 5, 2026; the postmark date will determine eligibility.

- Online from January 2026, available 24 hours a day. The system will close automatically at 24:00 (Thailand time) on January 5, 2026............https://www.facebook.com/nbtworld/posts/the-election-commission-of-thailand-has-announced-voter-registration-procedures-/1277530437744417/

12 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

She can also vote in person , online or by mail in ballot.

No, Thais can't vote online in this election. And to vote by mail you had to register for it ages ago. But you're saying she can vote in person in Chiang Mai? Even though she registered in Phuket?

12 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I really dont' think it's the election. There has to be some other reason.

We are supposed to believe that you still consider the election story could be real. We are supposed to believe you contact her and say the stuff you do - questioning her activities when she is literally with her partner and looking at options on tinder. If this by small chance now is real she may only maintain contact as she thinks you are not 100 per cent and she can make even easier money than usual.

This can be entertaining but can the story should be a bit believable. The phuket girl character has run its course.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

She's a very classy lady.

Not a good match for you then 😊

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

No, Thais can't vote online in this election. And to vote by mail you had to register for it ages ago. But you're saying she can vote in person in Chiang Mai? Even though she registered in Phuket?

My girlfriend works for the government. She told me the other day they can vote the ways it describes. I took that from the Facebook link but the link didn't stay for some reason.They can even vote from overseas...........The Election Commission of Thailand (ECT) has announced the commencement of advance voting registration for the election of Members of the House of Representatives. The registration period begins today and will continue until January 5, 2026, at 12:00 a.m.

Advance voting is available to eligible voters who cannot vote on election day due to personal obligations, work or study outside their constituency, or residence abroad. Registration is required to vote at central polling stations outside one's constituency or overseas.

Eligible voters may register online at https://stat.bora.dopa.go.th/Election/regoutvote. Advance voting is scheduled for February 1, 2026, ahead of the general election on February 8, 2026.

Voters who cannot register online may apply in person at district or local registrars, or through Thai embassies or designated officials abroad, during official working hours until January 5, 2026. Applications may also be submitted by post within this period. Eligibility will be determined by the postal stamp date.

Eligible voters may notify authorities of unavoidable reasons for not voting within seven days before or after election day, as required by electoral regulations.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

She told me the other day they can vote the ways it describes

They can't vote online. They can only register TO vote online.

And for mail ballots she had to register some time ago, the deadline has expired.

She also can't vote in person in CM as she registered to vote in Phuket.

Anyway, she's saying the real reason is to save me money, as it would be too expensive for her to fly into Phuket to vote. Which is ironic, Phuket Girl is trying to save me money now.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

They can't vote online. They can only register TO vote online.

And for mail ballots she had to register some time ago, the deadline has expired.

Read above

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Read above

I already did, the deadlines have expired. And they could never vote online. Only register to vote online.

22 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

It has little to do with what the Austrian brings in the bedroom. Sex for this type is nothing like a normal girl. This is a transaction, where she's learned what men like, and gives it to them because she's getting a return on it.

He might be a great lover, especially at his age, but no one knows.

If she's on Tinder, along with any other platform, she is talking to guys, looking for the best deal, which again, isn't about sex.

What she brings back to her family is what she is looking at as a possible permanent thing.

She, and most other girls, isn't going to tell you she's doing anything with anyone, because she's always looking at others she's been with as a possible return to if the present one isn't bringing home the bacon. Meaning cash. She can also vote in person , online or by mail in ballot....................Eligible voters who wish to cast referendum ballots outside their registered area or outside Thailand may register through the following channels:

- In person at a district or local registrar, or with an ambassador or designated representative, from January 3 to 5, 2026, during official hours.

- By post from January 3 to 5, 2026; the postmark date will determine eligibility.

- Online from January 2026, available 24 hours a day. The system will close automatically at 24:00 (Thailand time) on January 5, 2026............

She would have needed to register earlier to vote earlier. It's a special election this year; a 2 in 1 as there is also a constitution referendum.

https://world.thaipbs.or.th/detail/thailands-unprecedented-threeinone-election-all-you-need-to-know-/60208

This of course will encourage the OP somewhat 😊

1 minute ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

She would have needed to register earlier to vote earlier. It's a special election this year; a 2 in 1 as there is also a constitution referendum.

https://world.thaipbs.or.th/detail/thailands-unprecedented-threeinone-election-all-you-need-to-know-/60208

This of course will encourage the OP somewhat 😊

Yes, my girlfriend told me about this when I spoke to her about this topic. You can register in all those places and vote in person outside your home province. Even overseas.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

and vote in person outside your home province

But only if you registered to vote in the place where you will vote within the required deadline.

And she registered within the deadline, to vote in Phuket. Now it's too late.

I hope this clears it up for you.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

But only if you registered to vote in the place where you will vote within the required deadline.

And she registered within the deadline, to vote in Phuket. Now it's too late.

I hope this clears it up for you.

You can register, and vote, in your province, outside of it. and overseas. Voting can be done February 1 for absentees who have registered..If she registered in Phuket, she can vote there. Going back to Sisaket wasn't about voting, although she could have registered there , especially if it's her home province. Too late for what? Voting starts February 1 for those listed and February 8 for the rest.

30 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Going back to Sisaket wasn't about voting

That was a different vote. Sisaket was about seeing her mother for her birthday.

It was there she decided to go back to her ex in Phuket.

So I will always hate Sisaket now.

She hadn't actually decided to go back to Phuket the day she left Chiang Mai. She was still asking me to come to Sisaket then. Had I gone, none of this would have happened.

It was in Sisaket that her decision to return to her ex was taken.

Imagine if a girl contacted you from a finished relationship and you tell her you are with a lady and she knows you are looking at tinder and have been lying to her for ages but she still thinks you are a thing and talks about the future. You would think she's daft or crazy.

14 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

That was a different vote. Sisaket was about seeing her mother for her birthday.

It was there she decided to go back to her ex in Phuket.

So I will always hate Sisaket now.

She hadn't actually decided to go back to Phuket the day she left Chiang Mai. She was still asking me to come to Sisaket then. Had I gone, none of this would have happened.

It was in Sisaket that her decision to return to her ex was taken.

You can't control what a woman wants to do unless you keep her in chains. They are thinking far ahead many times before they execute their plans. You going there would only postpone the inevitable. This girl acts the way she does because it's been ingrained for years.

Being with foreigners before, she''s had a taste of money but going from the choices you've said, looks don't mean near as much as getting the money she can use to show off to her friends and family.

Being a girl, like all, that does have attraction in her mind, she won't stay with them long because her mind is always looking for better. Conflicting thoughts has her doing things even she doesn't understand, and that also brings them down more.

Love means nothing to her as she's likely never had it before, even at home. She will likely never make the right decisions because she is fighting all these things at once. Mood swings from past neglect, depression or abuse will likely never have her happy long, but she will still seek that money as long as she can get it, maybe ending up with a local man who will do what they usually do, or a few foreigners she will never be happy with, unless she gets lucky and finds one with money who also treats her right, is faithful and she is also attracted to.

8 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

Imagine if a girl contacted you from a finished relationship and you tell her you are with a lady and she knows you are looking at tinder and have been lying to her for ages but she still thinks you are a thing and talks about the future. You would think she's daft or crazy.

Nothing is finished. Phuket Girl is still telling me she wants to come to meet me on 9th Feb. Walk on the beach with me.

And I'm not talking about the future. I gave her a chance to leave Phuket, but obviously there's no future with someone who is sleeping with a 63 year old and at the same time playing on Tinder. She admitted herself. And I saw her add 3 new guys on Insta whom she found on tinder.

It' s this social media and dating apps. People get addicted to the texting. That's what I had with BKK girl and Filipina virgin as well. Phuket Girl just loves being on the apps and texting people.

21 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

"Caucasian" lady as in she's white, not from the Caucasus. She's a very classy lady. Highly educated. Fluent in English and obviously very intelligent. As well as highly attractive. Strawberry blonde.

We had a delightfully playful Insta conversation.

She has a career, though, so perhaps a bit too serious.

So.. a Ginger with a Job !!... at least its a better start than PG girl..

7 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You can't control what a woman wants to do unless you keep her in chains. They are thinking far ahead many times before they execute their plans. You going there would only postpone the inevitable. This girl acts the way she does because it's been ingrained for years.

Being with foreigners before, she''s had a taste of money but going from the choices you've said, looks don't mean near as much as getting the money she can use to show off to her friends and family.

Being a girl, like all, that does have attraction in her mind, she won't stay with them long because her mind is always looking for better. Conflicting thoughts has her doing things even she doesn't understand, and that also brings them down more.

Love means nothing to her as she's likely never had it before, even at home. She will likely never make the right decisions because she is fighting all these things at once. Mood swings from past neglect, depression or abuse will likely never have her happy long, but she will still seek that money as long as she can get it, maybe ending up with a local man who will do what they usually do, or a few foreigners she will never be happy with, unless she gets lucky and finds one with money who also treats her right, is faithful and she is also attracted to.

I gave her real love. I gave her real emotions. She had everything when she was here. Except full honesty, perhaps.

And that was crucial to her, because she has BPD. People with BPD are very black and white, if you lie to them you are bad. And there's only good and bad. Very black and white.

She says she's looking for someone with a "good heart". What she's really looking for is someone who is consistent, whom she can trust, who will never lie to her. Of course reality doesn't work like that. Which is why BPD people have such a hard time.

What a rollercoaster it was with her though. Heaven and hell.

Yes, it does seem love means nothing to her. She can withhold emotions easily. Because she has BPD. She's not normal.

She's actually not that crazy for money. I mean I sent her 6000 baht. She could have just kept it. But she sent it back.