2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, she could be a friend with benefits now, at best.

 

Obviously, I am not going to hang some foolish love dreams on her now, that would be completely one-sided, and nobody wants a one-sided affair.

 

I'm so glad Phuket girl is coming tomorrow. If not, it could have been a rough 3 days.

Sometimes less is better. Don't appear desperate.

Send a text at random times. That might get her interest or not. 

Don't forget that the other guys that she is in touch with may also be getting pinged off with her behaviour. The guy she is with in Pattaya may be a one off. If he's not it's only a matter of time before he wakes up to what is on her insta.

 

Look at it as a challenge, hone your skills, forget fancy restaurants as they don't work obviously.

 

2 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

The guy she is with in Pattaya may be a one off.

 

I want to know it from her, what that guy is to her.

 

But first she has to confirm she is with a guy in the first place. Maybe she'll text she's with a girlfriend.

 

Unbelievably she is not hiding anything on Insta. It's almost as if she's proud of it, broadcasting it to everyone.

 

4 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

forget fancy restaurants as they don't work obviously.

 

Clearly not. The new game is trips to mountain cafes and firework festivals. Restaurants are so last century clearly.

She confirmed a man flew her there and she is with a man in this hotel.

 

Well, the good news, the youth of today is incredibly honest.

 

Outstanding honesty. Great character, the young girls of today.

She did warn me she was "cold".

 

But this is Goddamn stone cold.

 

She wasn't kidding.

22 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

want to know it from her, what that guy is to her.

You are not in a position to demand such a thing.

Don't do it!!

Take a deep breath and understand you are hardly on her radar, asking questions about who she is with might get you blocked completely.

Accept that she isn't the ideal young Christian girl you thought she was, but just another young lady having fun.

Enjoy the weekend with Phuket girl.  You may see the world with more clarity on Monday morning.

CM girl might be back home by then, and you can consider your next move,if any.

On 10/27/2025 at 3:02 PM, Cameroni said:

So I'm writing for over 2 months now with this Thai girl, 25 years old, extremely attractive. First she agreed to come stay with me in CM, now she demands I go to Phuket for the weekend and says then she will join me in CM. But guess what she just told me? Just to be clear, she does not want to be "tied down", she only wants to have fun and is not ready to be tied down with anyone. "I am afraid to lose my freedom" (freedom to fornicate at will I suspect).

 

This is the first time a Thai girl has literally told me to my face "I want to ride the carousel, yes I'll come have fun with you, but don't have any hopes that I'll stay with you, because I intend to just have fun and ride the carousel until I'm ready to be tied down".

 

I mean I was well aware that girls do this, ride the carousel just to have fun, but to be so shameless about it and tell you to your face, that kind of took my breath away. Has anyone else had a Thai girl be this completely shameless?

 

You seem to believe that every girl should bow to you and be your servant. Hope I never run into you. 

28 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

She did warn me she was "cold".

 

But this is Goddamn stone cold.

 

She wasn't kidding.

 

"you're so cynical, rumak "

 

yep..... seeing the truth can be like that !     (and, of course..... there are exceptions) 

anyway,  i chalk it up to .... Right again !

33 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

You are not in a position to demand such a thing.

Don't do it!!

Take a deep breath and understand you are hardly on her radar, asking questions about who she is with might get you blocked completely.

Accept that she isn't the ideal young Christian girl you thought she was, but just another young lady having fun.

Enjoy the weekend with Phuket girl.  You may see the world with more clarity on Monday morning.

CM girl might be back home by then, and you can consider your next move,if any.

First of all I have every right to ask who this man is to her. She went on 4 dates with me. Four. She pretended she was single and available and looking for a relationship. She knew how much I liked her. 

 

I already asked her. She can block me all she wants. At this point she would be the lucky one if I give her another chance. But obviously that depends on what is going with this guy. Is he a client? Is he her ex? Who is he? 

 

I have every right to know. I just want to know what game she is playing with me, who she is and what is going on. 

29 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

She did warn me she was "cold".

 

But this is Goddamn stone cold.

 

She wasn't kidding.

Oh for heavens sake. What more do you need? A message from God?She's an escort, and she's getting nutted by a customer in Pattaya. She's told you this directly. 

 

Mark this as a lost opportunity, and work on your pipeline. 

3 minutes ago, Lightyear said:

Oh for heavens sake. What more do you need? A message from God?She's an escort, and she's getting nutted by a customer in Pattaya. She's told you this directly. 

 

Mark this as a lost opportunity, and work on your pipeline. 

She said she's with a guy. She never said if he's a client or her ex or the love of her life or what. 

 

I need to know. 

On 10/27/2025 at 7:00 PM, rumak said:

On 10/27/2025 at 3:49 PM, Cameroni said:

 

Of course! I'm 54! She's 25! I have to even the playing field out a little. Age is just a number anyway.

 

That's what the older person always says...

 

yep ............

16 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

First of all I have every right to ask who this man is to her. She went on 4 dates with me. Four. She pretended she was single and available and looking for a relationship. She knew how much I liked her. 

 

I already asked her. She can block me all she wants. At this point she would be the lucky one if I give her another chance. But obviously that depends on what is going with this guy. Is he a client? Is he her ex? Who is he? 

 

I have every right to know. I just want to know what game she is playing with me, who she is and what is going on. 

Your idea of a date isn't what other people might call a date. A shopping trip to Big C doesn't cut it.

You may think you it gave you a right to know what's going on, but you really don't. Put yourself in her shoes. She met an older man a couple of times. That's great. But I don't think that she considers that demands that she should answer every life question on demand.

Slow down, chill a bit. Your turn may still come.

17 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

Your idea of a date isn't what other people might call a date. A shopping trip to Big C doesn't cut it.

You may think you it gave you a right to know what's going on, but you really don't. Put yourself in her shoes. She met an older man a couple of times. That's great. But I don't think that she considers that demands that she should answer every life question on demand.

Slow down, chill a bit. Your turn may still come.

Before the Big C trip we were on 3 very real dates and you know it. 

Just now, Cameroni said:

Before the Big C trip we were on 3 very real dates and you know it. 

Ok. Up you you.

46 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

First of all I have every right to ask who this man is to her. She went on 4 dates with me. Four. She pretended she was single and available and looking for a relationship. She knew how much I liked her. 

 

I already asked her. She can block me all she wants. At this point she would be the lucky one if I give her another chance. But obviously that depends on what is going with this guy. Is he a client? Is he her ex? Who is he? 

 

I have every right to know. I just want to know what game she is playing with me, who she is and what is going on. 

 

She's not playing a game with you - you are simply not on her 'radar' which is why she can be so brutally direct about flying to Pattaya to be with another guy - there is no downside for her to tell you this - the only reason she is accepting continued contact is the very slim possibility you suddenly offer her a load of money.

 

... Offer to fly her back to CM... and 20,000 baht cash - then you'll see her colours.

 

 

 

 

12 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Before the Big C trip we were on 3 very real dates and you know it. 

 

You thought they were real....    It was simply a fishing expedition for her.

The worst mistake you have made is pursuing a lost cause, recognised by many of us as such. 

 

You don't trust her and for your antics with multiple other women she has the right not to trust you.

 

Lets see if you can get it a bit more right with Phuket girl. 

36 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

She's not playing a game with you - you are simply not on her 'radar' which is why she can be so brutally direct about flying to Pattaya to be with another guy - there is no downside for her to tell you this - the only reason she is accepting continued contact is the very slim possibility you suddenly offer her a load of money.

 

... Offer to fly her back to CM... and 20,000 baht cash - then you'll see her colours.

 

 

 

 

Not on her "radar"? Two days ago she was in my car. She asked we meet. Like we did 3 times before then. If you mean she doesn't care for me, no, obviously she doesn't. 

 

Either she played a dirty game with me because either she's an escort and I wined and dined a sex worker because she was not honest with me, or she's a serial dater and made me believe falsely that she was single and wanted a relationship. Either way she wasn't straight with me. Either way the game was rigged. 

 

I'm really not that desperate to be with her now I know what kind of person she is. What I would like is the full facts. 

 

Besides, if the guy she's with is a regular client she wouldn't jeopardise that relationship for an unknown quantity like me she only met 4 times. 

 

 

32 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

You thought they were real....    It was simply a fishing expedition for her.

Fishing? The first date I paid zero baht. And she still agreed to date 2 and 3. 

 

The dates seemed very real because she acted real! 

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

Not on her "radar"? Two days ago she was in my car. She asked we meet. Like we did 3 times before then. If you mean she doesn't care for me, no, obviously she doesn't. 

 

Either she played a dirty game with me because either she's an escort and I wined and dined a sex worker because she was not honest with me, or she's a serial dater and made me believe falsely that she was single and wanted a relationship. Either way she wasn't straight with me. Either way the game was rigged. 

 

I'm really not that desperate to be with her now I know what kind of person she is. What I would like is the full facts. 

 

 

Can't forget it can you? 

 

Have a mutual exchange of the facts - see how that goes! 

17 minutes ago, ChrisKC said:

The worst mistake you have made is pursuing a lost cause, recognised by many of us as such. 

 

You don't trust her and for your antics with multiple other women she has the right not to trust you.

 

Lets see if you can get it a bit more right with Phuket girl. 

If I do something I do it all the way or not at all. There was always a chance she was real and all she did was genuine. It is only now we know she is a fake. 

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

It is only now we know she is a fake. 

A what, she played it pretty much straight up with you. Did not try to take you for anything, save a phone case. You promised her the world and she said no. Its quite simple. Have a good weekend with the date you have lined up. Though maybe try just the two of you and not play it out here again. First time did not work out. 

Tada, finally out in the open. She confirmed all, why you need to know what kind of guy?

Have now some dignity and walk away.

She let you hanging like a puppet on a string and putting you down. The end.

Sing along with Ludacris "move bitch out of the way" Or you still want to be in friendzone and the puppet on the string?

True is, there was not a real commitment between the 2 of you. You THOUGHT , you had something going.

She put you on the wrong leg. But mistaken. It happens all the time.

Almost "slut" time, enjoy. However again you dont know her. She told you honestly, she is going around.

And loves money. She is in your house then? Use your safe to lock some items. 

41 minutes ago, rumak said:

Interesting that nobody has commented on the look !  Sure, ok looking . 

 I agree. But indeed wouldnt be really into her. She is too white. love more browner Thai.

Also know about the white in Thailand, status, then you get whining about being in the sun. 

My head could turn to look, but thats it.

Even if she would be black as the night. No problems with that.

Have a wide range of women, I would say "yes, pretty" More a dislike on bony body, some fat, meat must be present. 

Also long black hair up to her bottom, would be very appreciated by me.

 

On 10/27/2025 at 3:29 PM, Cameroni said:

Have women no shame anymore at all? I mean it's one thing to say you want to fornicate with a carousel of guys just for the fun of it. But it's quite another tell each of those guys that's what you will actually do!

 

Lol.

 

I mean, they just don't care anymore. There's so many thirsty guys, they are sure if one says no, there's 20 others willing to pay for her trip. It's astounding, it really is.

 

Your comments aren't even logical.

20 minutes ago, xtrnuno41 said:

 I agree. But indeed wouldnt be really into her. She is too white. love more browner Thai.

Also know about the white in Thailand, status, then you get whining about being in the sun. 

My head could turn to look, but thats it.

Even if she would be black as the night. No problems with that.

Have a wide range of women, I would say "yes, pretty" More a dislike on bony body, some fat, meat must be present. 

Also long black hair up to her bottom, would be very appreciated by me.

 

Lovely looking girl. And out of reach for most posters.

We should be supporting Cameroni in his quest. Don't tell me how you can't, tell me how you can.

Support him, we need to get this thread to 100 pages.

I missed what is Chinese "Christian" girl job? Does she work?

 

BTW, she is in Somerset Pattaya. Go give her a visit.

8 minutes ago, Celsius said:

I missed what is Chinese "Christian" girl job? Does she work?

 

BTW, she is in Somerset Pattaya. Go give her a visit.

Quite a leap of logic that shes in Somerset Pattaya from a poster in Canada.

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

Quite a leap of logic that shes in Somerset Pattaya from a poster in Canada.

 

I probably know million times more about Thailand and Thai women than you. I met my first Thai girlfriend in Canada, not in a bar.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

Fishing? The first date I paid zero baht. And she still agreed to date 2 and 3. 

 

The dates seemed very real because she acted real! 

 

I agree with the other poster. She is getting nutted in Pattaya while you are crying. 

 

Why is she posting in English? Who is her target audience? Even my wife now in Canada won't post anything in English unless it's some stupid quote from the Bible.