First date with a Thai Girl in Udon Thani

[dettol2288]

Getting a look at what her friends are like (and what they do/are) - and behave is a real bonus when it comes to the decisions whether or not to continue.....
 
I've had that good fortune.....

Some of her friends are her work mate.
No Bar girl.A normal girl.


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[Elkski]

Don't go on date without condoms.   She may make moves on you.   

[pgrahmm]

11 minutes ago, dettol2288 said:

Some of her friends are her work mate.
No Bar girl.A normal girl.


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Exactly....

[dettol2288]

Exactly....

We are in Second date now
What should I do?
My Thai not good.her English not good .Will easy dead air soon.
Should I hold hands or not?




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[pgrahmm]

13 minutes ago, dettol2288 said:

We are in Second date now
What should I do?
My Thai not good.her English not good .Will easy dead air soon.
Should I hold hands or not?




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Pantomime, laugh, & have fun....Take pictures of/with her....Make her feel important....Most Thai gals love that & are downright cute, you'll learn about her personality.....Walk & look at things together....

Google translate might help break the ice....

When she's ready to touch she'll find a way to let you know....Share some food Thai style, sharing dishes/servings.....Buy some ice cream if it's hot....

Get comfortable together first.....

DON'T go posting/bragging on social media - keep it private.....

Have fun.....

[Flustered]

I see that Dettol the Troll (OP) posted a thread on this forum about where the Laos brothel in Udon was.

 

As of now, the thread has disappeared.

 

Could we hope the same will happen to Dettol the Troll?

Edited June 27, 2017 by Flustered

[observer90210]

4 hours ago, Elkski said:

Don't go on date without condoms.   She may make moves on you.   

very true...and make sure they are of a good reputed brand and don't tear down like a cheap Chinese car tyre, in the middle of the road!!!!

[Flustered]

Still laughing that anyone can think he is a serious FM.  All of his posts made in European time (unless he is staying up till 3 AM in the morning to do his thread baiting).

 

 

Threads brought to you courtesy of Dettol the Troll

 

How to Get laid with a Thai Girl on the first date?

Where the Laos brothel in Udon was?

First date with a Thai Girl in Udon Thani

 

 

[rwdrwdrwd]

I recommend that for your next date, you keep your hands clasped the entire time - make it obvious you are doing so by doing stuff like opening doors with your elbows and picking up drinking glasses with  your forearms.

 

When she asks you why on earth you are keeping your hands clasped you have the perfect opportunity to tell her you really like holding hands, and would she like to try.

 

Your welcome.

[1FinickyOne]

10 hours ago, dettol2288 said:

Sir.Our first date she came alone and without friend.We finish dinner and then went to her friend's home for birthday party.Just like that.


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That sounds like a nice way to mix cultures... not imposing a friend on the dinner check and then still having the opportunity to introduce you to her friends... and get their opinion... She sounds like a nice and thoughtful lady - I hope all goes well for you. 

[impulse]

11 hours ago, Elkski said:

Don't go on date without condoms.   She may make moves on you.   

 

My best friend Dave Murray had this advice for a first date.

 

Drive her over to the drug store and tell her you're going inside to get condoms. If she's still in the car when you return, you're good to go.  If not, you just saved a bunch of money on dinner and a movie.

 

[neeray]

1 minute ago, impulse said:

 

My best friend Dave Murray had this advice for a first date.

 

Drive her over to the drug store and tell her you're going inside to get condoms. If she's still in the car when you return, you're good to go.  If not, you just saved a bunch of money on dinner and a movie.

 

Great answer. Great advice. 

That's slick as it gets. 

[electric]

23 minutes ago, impulse said:

 

My best friend Dave Murray had this advice for a first date.

 

Drive her over to the drug store and tell her you're going inside to get condoms. If she's still in the car when you return, you're good to go.  If not, you just saved a bunch of money on dinner and a movie.

 

 

Damn .... where was this bit of gold when I was 20 ?  555

 

And as you're getting out of the car at the drug store, she says

 

"teerak ... while you're in there, can you get me a tube of Herpes cream."

[lucifer666]

I can guess that this experience isn't going to end on a happy note.

[whatawonderfulday]

9 hours ago, observer90210 said:

very true...and make sure they are of a good reputed brand and don't tear down like a cheap Chinese car tyre, in the middle of the road!!!!

And if she is not that pretty pull one over her head for safety.

[whatawonderfulday]

On ‎27‎/‎06‎/‎2017 at 8:27 AM, giddyup said:

He's a busy boy, he has other forums to troll.

Exactly and if he believes udon girls are nymphos then he must realise that to have sex 3 times a day , which some do like with a Thai, it is equal to sex once a day with a Farang.  Why ? well 3 x 3"    = 1 x 9"   !!!!

Edited June 28, 2017 by whatawonderfulday

[GOLDBUGGY]

Well my advice is don't bank your entire holiday on this Girl. You really don't know anything about her and what she tells you may not be true. She may have a Boyfriend already, or may even be married. If she has good English then it is odd she works in a Jewlery Shop.  

 

Take her to a nice place to eat and be prepared to spend some money. Thai Girls don't like Cheap Charlies! You can ask at the hotel about a nice place to eat, but if you have a nice hotel, you can also eat there. If things go well ask her about a nice place to go and let her take care of everything. You just have to pay, which isn't too expensive. 

 

I wouldn't try to hold her hand if I was you. For one thing showing affection in public is frowned upon. The other reason is that in Thailand holding hands may have a different meaning. Two friends who are girls can often be seen holding hands. 

 

I doubt very much that she is a Virgin, as I doubt she would go with you on a first date if she was. She already expects you will ask for more and will prepare for that. If things go well invite her to your room on an excuse to have a shower before you go out, and see what happens. Of course it depends if you like her or not. 

 

If it doesn't work out then leave Udon Thani and go to Pattaya. Flights in Thailand are cheap. Go to Soy 8, (street 8) and find a hotel room, which there are plenty as it is the low season now.  Then just walk outside and hit one of the open bars. You won't have to do anything else after that, except decide if you want to take somebody home. 

[Elkski]

Don't take the advice  that if this first date fails to go to Soi 8.  Why leave Udon.  I hear there are many girls there and a good nigh life.   Google it.  

[whatawonderfulday]

Just now, Elkski said:

Don't take the advice  that if this first date fails to go to Soi 8.  Why leave Udon.  I hear there are many girls there and a good nigh life.   Google it.  

Day and Night and Nutty are the place to go , if you have not already been there.  Many very pretty ladies are there now after returning from Pattaya due to the decrease in custom generally.  You may think you have found a a virgin gem but stop fooling yourself.   Everything and everyone can be bought in Thailand, just a matter of price.  You either hate that, accept that or benefit from it but I'm afraid that is the way it always has been,  always is and always will be. 

 

Some girls/ladies are pure gems, just like elsewhere in the world but many Thai women are in it for the long haul and will deceive and play up to you for years until they achieve their ultimate ambition.

[sinbin]

19 hours ago, GOLDBUGGY said:

I wouldn't try to hold her hand if I was you. For one thing showing affection in public is frowned upon. The other reason is that in Thailand holding hands may have a different meaning. Two friends who are girls can often be seen holding hands. 

Goldbuggy that really isn't correct. Showing affection in public isn't frowned on. My missus still holds on to my hand when we're out, and that's after 11+ years. Plus it's common to see teenagers of the opposite sex doing so as well. 

[pgrahmm]

3 hours ago, sinbin said:

Goldbuggy that really isn't correct. Showing affection in public isn't frowned on. My missus still holds on to my hand when we're out, and that's after 11+ years. Plus it's common to see teenagers of the opposite sex doing so as well. 

A little soon in this scenario....

 

But - you see Thai couples holding hands or linked arm in arm often - all ages.....I think it's more of an acceptable cosmopolitan thing than a "country" practice......

 

My wife & I still do after all the years....But not all the time....I let her take the lead versus possibly being inappropriate.....

[elliss]

On 6/24/2017 at 9:11 PM, jak2002003 said:

OK...............  you need to get a life and also some psychological help from a professional. 

         Soi  Sampan in UT,  has  professionals,

 well  experienced in  taking care of lonely/loony farlangs . 

  Make that place your  starting point on the  learning curve .

   Holding hands ,  and holding everything else is permitted . Good luck.

Edited July 1, 2017 by elliss

[MarcIssan]

It sounds like you just want sex.  Head to the bars and massage places for that and don't worry about etiquette.  Now if you want to find a mate, GF, or wife, then you need to put your best attitude in play and forget about what may or may not happen when dinner is over.

[bangkokairportlink]

3 hours ago, MarcIssan said:

It sounds like you just want sex.  Head to the bars and massage places for that and don't worry about etiquette.  Now if you want to find a mate, GF, or wife, then you need to put your best attitude in play and forget about what may or may not happen when dinner is over.

 

Oh yes, someone needs to be a gentleman who are so easy to get by just paying them food !

 

 

[dave moir]

On 6/24/2017 at 9:09 PM, dettol2288 said:

in fact,i don't have any experience about dating any girl

so i don't know how to date and what to do with a thai girl and get a happy ending.

 

Go to a soapy massage parlour! You'll get laid there!!!! If she's a well educated Thai girl don't expect too much from a first date!  You'll be lucky to hold hands! It's Thai culture they say, she maybe even have a chaperone with her! Like I say if you want a happy ending go massage or soapy massage Google it for udon thani it will tell you the best places!?

[jackdd]

5 hours ago, dave moir said:

Go to a soapy massage parlour! You'll get laid there!!!! If she's a well educated Thai girl don't expect too much from a first date!  You'll be lucky to hold hands! It's Thai culture they say, she maybe even have a chaperone with her! Like I say if you want a happy ending go massage or soapy massage Google it for udon thani it will tell you the best places!?

For this comment you had to reply to a thread that's more than a year old? It's been quite a while since OP went to Udon Thani ?

[pgrahmm]

7 minutes ago, jackdd said:

For this comment you had to reply to a thread that's more than a year old? It's been quite a while since OP went to Udon Thani ?

Yeah - the house is probably almost built by now.....?

Edited August 8, 2018 by pgrahmm

[spidermike007]

 First of all, the biggest variable when you meet someone online, is whether or not you will like them once you see them. Do you find them attractive? Do they find you appealing? Is there any chemistry? Is she emotionally developed, or a stunted, emotional retard? There are no shortage of women that fit that category here. Would you want to be with her any longer than an hour, once you meet her? If not, what do you do once you have made this rather grand commitment of your time?

 

I guess it comes down to self esteem. When I was doing online dating, I always limited the first encounter to 15-30 minutes, over a cup of coffee. And 90% of the time I was very glad I had followed that protocol. I also limited the number of contacts prior to that cup of coffee to three. I do not have any interest in having pen pals. And Thai women love to chat, and text, and you end up wasting alot of hours on someone you have never met, and more than likely are not going to get with once you do meet her, for a couple of dozen reasons. The numbers are not on your side, so why invest the time, once you have made the contact, before you actually meet her in person? What would Bond do?

 

Always remember one very important fact. You are a man. You have as much control as you are able to establish. You set the agenda. Time is always your ally. Not hers. She is almost always going to be in a hurry to make things happen. And lastly, if she is willing to come and stay with a guy she has never met before, she has more than likely been working as a bar girl, in a special massage parlor, or as an escort or freelancer. Very few real "civilians" would move that fast, nor be that forward. Buyer beware. And be good to yourself. Be a man. Leave behind the Western ways of emasculation. You do not need to be a doormat any longer. You have left the west behind!

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, spidermike007 said:

I always limited the first encounter to 15-30 minutes, over a cup of coffee.

Then if I liked them, round to the short-time hotel.

[Khun Paul]

Whatever anyone says, if you need help, then you are in the wrong place. So many disgruntled or sad people here. Go to wherever, find a female that you like if you wish to engage in sexual activities, that is your decision, what happens afterwards, I am sure you are able to deal with it. But whatever you do, do not promise anything you cannot afford to lose. SIMPLE !