Where Can I Find A Genuine Lady?

[connda]

1 hour ago, petermik said:

Students even better.......ooops

If you read Thai, plenty of Dek Ying ads around the universities. 

[Deli]

A nun ?

[ELVIS123456]

How old are you? What sort of Thai girl are you looking for?  GF and some fun, or long term??

[Lacessit]

38 minutes ago, FritsSikkink said:

You might try to talk with some non hookers too, your chances to find a good girl will improve.

The two "good girls" in the West I was in long-term relationships with both ended up giving me a fairly comprehensive financial screwing.

Give me the bar girls any time, at least they are honest about what they want.

[spidermike007]

They are everywhere. If you have a good personality, are able to hold a conversation, have a great sense of humor, and some cash, all is good. Plenty of options. If you are good looking, in good shape, and younger, even easier.

 

Always remember, if it is good, it is only going to get better. If there are problems, they will reveal themselves over time. The bottom line is this. Take your time getting to know a woman here, or anywhere. Time is your ally. It is rarely their ally. They are usually trying to step up the timetable. We need to push back. We need to assert control. An environment like this allows us to do so. Take advantage of that. Be a man. Step up. Pay tribute to the gender. Refuse to lay down anymore. Refuse to be a doormat. Refuse to check your cajones at the door. Start making the decisions, and stop constantly saying "honey what do you want?". "What will make you happy?" "Where do you want to eat?" I have so many friends, who come here, and from the very start, make the same mistakes they made back in the West. Except here, they do not need to make those mistakes. The environment does not dictate that they behave like lambs. Many do not know, or realize that, or they succumb to "force of habit". Every ship needs a captain. If the man is not willing to be the captain of the ship, the woman will take over, here in Thailand. Most women here seem to want a strong man. But, if they end up with a wimp, they will take if she is a big baby, who only looks like a real woman, but in reality is a 13 year old, or if she is a con artist, if she is only in it for the money, those realizations will manifest themselves over time. Time allows clarity. Never, ever move too quickly. That is the undoing of most of these guys. Be like Bond. be a real man. Man up. Do yourself proud. 

[nikmar]

2 hours ago, PatOngo said:

Try Pattaya, endless love for sale there. Avoid girls with big hands.

personally, i avoid the ones with big penises

[1FinickyOne]

In the countryside... I know many many many lovely ladies who would like a decent husband... most have very little English... what are you looking for? what makes a lady nice?

[malt25]

3 hours ago, petermik said:

Students even better.......ooops

I'm sure you meant mature age students.

[xylophone]

37 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

They are everywhere. If you have a good personality, are able to hold a conversation, have a great sense of humor, and some cash, all is good. Plenty of options. If you are good looking, in good shape, and younger, even easier.

Yes they are everywhere outside of the bar scene, although I was smitten by a real and new (5 hours) cutie to a friends bar at one time...…..but that's another story.

 

I have gotten to know quite a few women in the shopping mall here and often stop to chat with them in my limited Thai and their limited English, but always have a laugh and a smile. And you would be surprised how many of them are on their own and often ask if I have a friend I can introduce them to...….this after I tell them I am on my own and like it that way.

 

Unfortunately the few close friends I have are mostly hitched one way and another, so no go, but these ladies are out there and many are reasonable/good looking...…...perhaps I should start an introduction club/service!

 

 

[AdamTheFarang]

3 hours ago, Get Real said:

Why would you come here and think that is a thing that differs from your own home country?

An outrageous question that not only discriminate a part of the female population in Thailand. It also makes you look like a person that lacks the experience of instictive knowledge.

Wow bit hard on me. I like Thai ladies they are gentle. Maybe a rural lady? Can you please not attack me.

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, spidermike007 said:

Always remember, if it is good, it is only going to get better.

I've found relationships only ever get worse.

[BritManToo]

1 minute ago, AdamTheFarang said:

Wow bit hard on me. I like Thai ladies they are gentle. Maybe a rural lady? Can you please not attack me.

Practise that last sentence before you meet your Thai lady.

[spidermike007]

21 minutes ago, AdamTheFarang said:

Wow bit hard on me. I like Thai ladies they are gentle. Maybe a rural lady? Can you please not attack me.

Please ignore "get real". He has obviously never had much luck with the ladies. There are thousands of great gals here. Kind, fun, sweet and sexy as hell. Totally different than your home country. 100% the opposite. Just be patient, and make the effort. You will find what you are looking for. But remember. Take your time. They are always trying to step up the timetable. Pushback is the answer. 

Edited July 25, 2018 by spidermike007

[GreasyFingers]

2 hours ago, Spidey said:

There's a flying club here called the "Pattaya Flying Club".

Do they also have a Parachute Club, where everyone gets a jump.

[timendres]

47 minutes ago, xylophone said:

perhaps I should start an introduction club/service!

I will be your first client.

[rocketdave]

Venus!

[Suradit69]

5 hours ago, AdamTheFarang said:

Is there a particular city, profession where I can find a nice Thai lady?

 

Hang around the stage door at Tiffany's in Pattaya.

 

Assuming this is a "genuine" question ... and I hope for your sake that you're kidding ... yes, they all congregate in one city and work at the same job. You'll need to subscribe to the premium TV message board to get the exact GPS location.

 

Somewhere in Thailand there are ladies asking "Where can I avoid clueless farang?"

[Kinnock]

2 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

You might try to talk with some non hookers too, your chances to find a good girl will improve.

Self righteous with a reading comprehension issue - you should go into politics.

[Nokawou]

Just remember Love in Thailand is measured in Bath's of gold. The more gold the more love no gold no love, very easy and do not confuse it with emotions.

[Suradit69]

4 hours ago, ezzra said:

Where Can I Find A Genuine Lady?...

In the same place where you find an honest lawyer,... a policeman that is not on the take, a government official or high ranking mont who dosn't rob the coffers etc. ect.....

So nowhere in the northern or southern hemisphere.

[colinneil]

11 minutes ago, Nokawou said:

Just remember Love in Thailand is measured in Bath's of gold. The more gold the more love no gold no love, very easy and do not confuse it with emotions.

Do you actually believe what you just posted?

If you do i feel sorry for you.

Been married 7 years, wife has never asked for 1 baht, in fact her monthly income far exceeds mine.

She has been by my side taking care of me night and day now for over 4 years, helps me turn in bed every 2 hours, never ever complains, that is love, nothing more nothing less.

[Nokawou]

Tong in cheek Colin, mine also has never asked me for money or gold, but there are quit a few where it is true and if she does one should run for the hills!!!

You sure have a jewel and there are many but you need to be careful not easy for us foreigners to distinguish between the true article and the fake ones.  

[Jonah Tenner]

3 hours ago, Spidey said:

There's a flying club here called the "Pattaya Flying Club".

Isn't that better known as the Flying Falang Club?

[Nokawou]

I thing what the OP actually asked is how to distinguish as a farang that cannot speak, read or understand Thai and does not understand the finer details of thai culture between a true kind hearted lady and the false article that will use and abuse you until join the  Pattaya Flying Club. I was very lucky the first thai lady I met was the genuine article it could have easily been different.   

[transam]

3 minutes ago, Nokawou said:

I thing what the OP actually asked is how to distinguish as a farang that cannot speak, read or understand Thai and does not understand the finer details of thai culture between a true kind hearted lady and the false article that will use and abuse you until join the  Pattaya Flying Club. I was very lucky the first thai lady I met was the genuine article it could have easily been different.   

All my past wives were genuine until..............?

[smotherb]

5 hours ago, petermik said:

Try Bangkok and look for a doctor/dentist and if your salary is in excess of their,s your in with a shout

That's no fun, try one who has much more money than you. So, you an claim the sick buffalo and the lonely sister.

[ratcatcher]

2 hours ago, nikmar said:

personally, i avoid the ones with big penises

So, you're OK with the ones with smaller plumbing?

[Nokawou]

5 minutes ago, transam said:

All my past wives were genuine until..............?

True as well, been there done that left with only one T-shirt, but at least if you start with a decent lady your chances are better to survive the ordeal.

[overherebc]

4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

This one will be available soon, if you like taking risks (last bf in the bag).

 

Handy in fire fight as well.

[smotherb]

5 hours ago, petermik said:

Students even better.......ooops

No, I think university students are a great source; they are usually old enough. I would look for those who are doing well in school and want to make something out of their lives. Nothing wrong with a good looking, intelligent and capable woman; if she loves you. However, that caveat works for almost any woman. If she truly loves you, she will be a better bet. 

 

I  live near a large university and I frequent a coffee shop there. Many coeds have come up to me just to practice their English. What a great way to start a conversation. My wife suggests that is the reason I still frequent the place. She may be right.