How do I know she's not a good girl?

[Kadilo]

1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said:

 Are most farangs interested in a woman like you?

Prefer real ones myself. 

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, kenk24 said:

And what do you offer in return? You know, there are 2 sides to these equations... are you just that lovable? no bad habits that might eventually annoy? 

I offer a living wage with free accommodation.

And shorter working hours than 7-11/Tesco.

[Zagor]

Since a lot of people have quoted me and since there are some ambiguities, I will explain my earlier comment.

 

By “good” girl I meant a moral girl. Not a bar girl, faithful, honest, not to lie, not to want just my money.

 

I’m not rich, I make good money for the standard, but I’m not rich.

 

In return, I offer love, fidelity, sincerity, support in every sense, but I also ask for the same.

 

I just want to be with a girl who won’t be with me because of money, it’s a superficial and questionable relationship.

[ThailandRyan]

With what you are seeking, you will have to wade through the maze of lies, scams, and deceit.  Even if you do find a woman who meets your views, her family may disappoint you.  Better yet her family may adore you and after 10 years, she will decide she wants more than you can give her because she has had a taste and has watched to many Lakorns, and will leave you for a richer man leaving her family in utter shock and disbelief.  My ex did just that.  Good luck in your hunt.....

[GinBoy2]

Shouldn't the rule of thumb be;

 

If she is half your age and often more than half, it's very unlikely she is interested in you for your stunning good looks, therefore is more likely than not a 'not a good girl'

[talahtnut]

You don't choose,  wimmins do the choosins

so you've got an even chance of getting a

complete nutter without realizing it.

 

[Bob A Kneale]

7 hours ago, ezzra said:

In the beginning they are all auger and spice and all things nice

"In the beginning they are all auger..."

They're all drilling devices?  Huh?

[1FinickyOne]

3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I offer a living wage with free accommodation.

And shorter working hours than 7-11/Tesco.

not bad.. when can I start?

[BritManToo]

55 minutes ago, talahtnut said:

You don't choose,  wimmins do the choosins

so you've got an even chance of getting a

complete nutter without realizing it.

 

You're wrong, my pals tell me I have a unique talent for choosing nutters.

Apparently I can walk into a room with 99 nice women and 1 psychopath, and walk out with the nutter.

We don't even need to talk, I want them and they want me ......... I've no idea how it works!

 

I have ZERO chance of ever finding a woman that's slightly normal.

[BritManToo]

2 minutes ago, kenk24 said:

not bad.. when can I start?

You'd need to be female from birth, less than 32 years old, and weigh less than 50Kg.

Are you a suitable candidate?

[Don Mega]

2 hours ago, Zagor said:

 

I just want to be with a girl who won’t be with me because of money, it’s a superficial and questionable relationship.

Maybe Thailand is not for you.

[JCP108]

8 hours ago, Pilotman said:

OP, don't be so naive as to think that you will get anything other than jokes, sarcasm, bitterness and derision in answer to a question like that. Make up your own mind, don't ask others, especially on TVF. 

Actually, you will get derision no matter what you post. This forum is the Official Training Center for the International Allstar Derision Team. I get it with every single post. 

 

Also, totally agree with Pilotman and think you should take what you get here with a grain of salt. 

[BritManToo]

2 hours ago, Zagor said:

...................... faithful, honest, not to lie, not to want just my money.

Do such women still exist anywhere in the world?

I've not met any like that.

 

2 hours ago, Zagor said:

In return, I offer love, fidelity, sincerity, support in every sense, but I also ask for the same.

So you have nothing to offer then?

Edited June 7, 2020 by BritManToo

[Kwasaki]

11 hours ago, Zagor said:

Is it possible in Thailand to find a girl who will love you no matter the money, who will love you for what you are? Is there "pure" love?

[Zagor]

In the west, I had girls who met all the criteria I still look for. Why do you think it is impossible to find in Thailand? Maybe in other Asian countries?

[BritManToo]

2 minutes ago, Zagor said:

In the west, I had girls who met all the criteria I still look for.

  ........... and yet, you're still alone.

Edited June 7, 2020 by BritManToo

[1FinickyOne]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

weigh less than 50Kg

one leg or two?

 

It was Henny Youngman who said - - "Take my wife, please." 

 

 

[BritManToo]

1 minute ago, kenk24 said:

one leg or two?

I have nothing against amputees ....... as long as it wasn't their penis that was removed.

[toofarnorth]

10 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I'll take the sausage in the green top and denim shorts please.

Careful the one in the green top may have a sausage under her shorts , know what I mean , nudge nudge say no more. Happens to the best of us and me as well.

[1FinickyOne]

13 minutes ago, Zagor said:

In the west, I had girls who met all the criteria

you do understand... things change. That is a very natural part of life and relationships... 

 

the list makers I have encountered never tend to choose well. But, put acceptance and compatibility on your list... and maybe try and come up with a working definition of love... romantic earth shattering love rarely lasts very long... like and respect is more long lasting than romantic love... 

[1FinickyOne]

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I have nothing against amputees ....... as long as it wasn't their penis that was removed.

a midget should help you stay under the weight requirements... 

 

but don't overlook my other attributes... I am a babe magnet... and I don't like them young... you could feast on my wake... 

[1FinickyOne]

8 hours ago, BritManToo said:

They all want money

pretty universal - near everyone wants more money... Warren Buffett is still working... 

[PingRoundTheWorld]

11 hours ago, Zagor said:

My way of judging that she is not a good girl:
1. She has a tattoo or piercing
2. She wears see-through or too short clothing
3. She Swears
4. She approaches me first and flirts

These "signs" are kind of irrelevant by themselves as lots of "good" girls do those things too. Even hi-so girls who have zero interest in your money.

 

I always advise my friends when they ask if a certain girl may not be a girl - if you have to ask then "she" probably isn't a she. Same with hookers - if you have to ask then she probably isn't a good girl.

 

11 hours ago, Zagor said:

Is it possible in Thailand to find a girl who will love you no matter the money, who will love you for what you are? Is there "pure" love?

You always pay, the only difference is if you pay now or later. But to answer your question sure - most Thai girls aren't working girls and aren't primarily interested in money. The "problem" for most foreigners is that the girls they meet (nightlife etc) are usually there because they're drawn to money. You could try online dating (Thai friendly) but you'll have to filter out the working girls and gold diggers there too.

[Silent Number]

They are all good ....Just some are better than others.

[talahtnut]

In the UK I was arrested for walking

about with an offensive wife.

[Why Me]

Pay her 3000 after boom-boom. If she takes it she's a bad girl. If she gives back 500 change she's cheap too. If she asks for more then you should have settled the price beforehand you cheap basstard.

Edited June 7, 2020 by Why Me

[Zagor]

54 minutes ago, PingRoundTheWorld said:

These "signs" are kind of irrelevant by themselves as lots of "good" girls do those things too. Even hi-so girls who have zero interest in your money.

 

I always advise my friends when they ask if a certain girl may not be a girl - if you have to ask then "she" probably isn't a she. Same with hookers - if you have to ask then she probably isn't a good girl.

 

You always pay, the only difference is if you pay now or later. But to answer your question sure - most Thai girls aren't working girls and aren't primarily interested in money. The "problem" for most foreigners is that the girls they meet (nightlife etc) are usually there because they're drawn to money. You could try online dating (Thai friendly) but you'll have to filter out the working girls and gold diggers there too.

I think the problem is that rich foreigners are outraged at women and that’s why they come to Thailand to “buy” a bar girl, who will work for money and listen to everything they say. It is the healing of your ego.

 

I think Thai girls and other Asian girls are unfairly labeled as gold diggers. There are girls like that anywhere in the world, but I think most girls are looking for love and honesty.

Edited June 7, 2020 by Zagor

[BritManToo]

10 hours ago, kenk24 said:

pretty universal - near everyone wants more money... Warren Buffett is still working... 

I retired at 45 ...... the moment I thought I had enough.

It's just not true that everyone wants more money, just something the greedy like to say to justify their greed.

[BritManToo]

9 hours ago, Zagor said:

I think the problem is that rich foreigners are outraged at women and that’s why they come to Thailand to “buy” a bar girl, who will work for money and listen to everything they say. It is the healing of your ego.

 

I think Thai girls and other Asian girls are unfairly labeled as gold diggers. There are girls like that anywhere in the world, but I think most girls are looking for love and honesty.

1) I've never been interested in talking to women, thy're for sex, and a bit of flirting leading to sex.

2) Nearly all women are gold diggers, many white women just like to pretend they're not, but their actions give them away.

Edited June 7, 2020 by BritManToo

[Skallywag]

17 hours ago, BangkokReady said:

Men are judged by their ability to provide, be it wealth, physical protection or social status.  That is life.

Several members here claim to be loved by Thai women who provide for them, have good government or health care jobs and make good money.  The women are with these non-Thais because of "love". Am only quoting a few men on TVF, so not the norm.  

You mention "social status", am not sure what that entails for a foreigner in LOS.  

Also "physical protection" seems a bit outdated IMO